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Tickle

(3,157 posts)
Wed Dec 29, 2021, 02:14 PM Dec 2021

I could scream!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


This year I had my blended family over for Christmas Eve. Everyone was vaccinated and booster. Minus the grandchildren. Most of us did not wear masks but I felt safe. I just got a damn call that one of them who has tested positive for COVID and while I'm glad he informed us, I'm so pissed!!! He was exposed COVID and he was testing himself for COVID prior to coming to my home. I think he should have told us he was exposed to a COVID person. Am I wrong?!!

Oddly this morning I woke up with a sore throat headache and sinus issues
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I could scream!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (Original Post) Tickle Dec 2021 OP
If he was concerned enough about the exposure to be testing himself greenjar_01 Dec 2021 #1
Right he saw the danger to himself, but didn't care about the danger to Irish_Dem Dec 2021 #2
Exactly! thank you Tickle Dec 2021 #3
I am not at all concerned about exposure lapfog_1 Dec 2021 #4
I keep hearing that Tickle Dec 2021 #8
Yeah, the premise of the story here was that the guy was testing because he had been exposed greenjar_01 Dec 2021 #10
my point is that he shouldn't worry about exposure lapfog_1 Dec 2021 #18
Agreed greenjar_01 Dec 2021 #19
I would also wait until Disaffected Dec 2021 #13
You are not wrong. I would be livid. zuul Dec 2021 #5
You're not wrong, Ms. Toad Dec 2021 #6
You're not wrong. RockRaven Dec 2021 #7
Nope. You aren't wrong. I'd be pissed too. He's playing Russian Roulette with YOUR head! Scrivener7 Dec 2021 #9
If you're fully vaxed and boosted I wouldn't worry too much about it. If you get COVID you'll be beaglelover Dec 2021 #11
I'm sorry you are going through this mcar Dec 2021 #12
Being fully vaccinated with Booster is a good thing.... FarPoint Dec 2021 #14
When people say "you're vaxxed and boosted, don't worry so much"... OneGrassRoot Dec 2021 #15
Agree - AND Ms. Toad Dec 2021 #21
Heard more than one horror story regarding Covid issues over the happy holidays. czarjak Dec 2021 #16
This message was self-deleted by its author traitorsgalore Dec 2021 #17
People are weak, short-sighted, and lazy. lindysalsagal Dec 2021 #20
 

greenjar_01

(6,477 posts)
1. If he was concerned enough about the exposure to be testing himself
Wed Dec 29, 2021, 02:16 PM
Dec 2021

then he should have let you all know.

It's the consciousness of danger that's the key here. He saw a danger to himself, so he should have made you all aware.

All that said, get a test, stay calm, and feel better soon!

lapfog_1

(30,233 posts)
4. I am not at all concerned about exposure
Wed Dec 29, 2021, 02:22 PM
Dec 2021

but I am testing once every week or so anyway.

fully vaxxed and boosted (actually that was the last real chance of exposure... at the mass vax center for my booster shot).

Omicron is so transmissible that we will ALL be exposed to it sooner or later. Only thing we can do is be vaxxed and boosted and try to flatten the spike so that IF we are one of the unlucky few that do get a severe case, there will be hospital beds available with oxygen, etc for us.

Tickle

(3,157 posts)
8. I keep hearing that
Wed Dec 29, 2021, 02:37 PM
Dec 2021

omicron is very transmissible and like you I expect to get it but not die from it.

I try not to get angry on those unvaxxed people but I do.



cheers

 

greenjar_01

(6,477 posts)
10. Yeah, the premise of the story here was that the guy was testing because he had been exposed
Wed Dec 29, 2021, 03:40 PM
Dec 2021

Thanks for the testimonial, though.

lapfog_1

(30,233 posts)
18. my point is that he shouldn't worry about exposure
Wed Dec 29, 2021, 05:25 PM
Dec 2021

test routinely. We will all be exposed, multiple times.

Disaffected

(5,179 posts)
13. I would also wait until
Wed Dec 29, 2021, 03:53 PM
Dec 2021

the Pfizer treatment pills become available, at least that is my approach.

Ms. Toad

(35,621 posts)
6. You're not wrong,
Wed Dec 29, 2021, 02:27 PM
Dec 2021

As infectious as omicron is, full disclosure is critical so people can makes informed choices. If be pissed, too.

But, you also choose to hang out unmasked, knowing that people present could have COVID. The fact that one of them knew they were exposed doesn't really change the risk you choose to take. As I keep telling people - COVID doesn't care if you're relatives or friends.

Be responsible. Get tested. Stay home until your symptoms are gone and you test negative.

RockRaven

(16,537 posts)
7. You're not wrong.
Wed Dec 29, 2021, 02:34 PM
Dec 2021

In my opinion, there is a duty to be transparent about vaccine, exposure, and testing status.

Not only should you have been told so that you had an opportunity to disinvite him, the other attendees should have been told so they had the opportunity to bow out themselves.

beaglelover

(4,115 posts)
11. If you're fully vaxed and boosted I wouldn't worry too much about it. If you get COVID you'll be
Wed Dec 29, 2021, 03:45 PM
Dec 2021

fine. Maybe a mild illness and then you'll have super immunity!

mcar

(43,621 posts)
12. I'm sorry you are going through this
Wed Dec 29, 2021, 03:51 PM
Dec 2021

SO contracted COVID and got a positive rapid test on 12/24. We are all vaxxed, boosted, pre-tested but he was feeling a sore throat that morning.

Of course, we left our son's house quickly after and drove home (from DC to FL) while his symptoms got worse. Not a pleasant drive. We both got PCR tests on 12/26, his positive, mine negative even though I had started a sore throat.

I know I've got it, just had another PCR test this morning. But I've read that because omicron starts in the throat and travels to the sinuses, the first test could be negative. I'm fully sinus-y now.

The good news is that son, DIL and baby are clear and that this is not more than a bad cold.

FarPoint

(13,707 posts)
14. Being fully vaccinated with Booster is a good thing....
Wed Dec 29, 2021, 04:02 PM
Dec 2021

Relax, this exposure will tweak up your immunity and you will experience flu symptoms for a few days ...that is why we all complied with vaccine protocols. We know it is not a " Shield" but will diminish symptoms....Hydrate, rest, do the vitamin regime...all I sense will be fine...

OneGrassRoot

(23,444 posts)
15. When people say "you're vaxxed and boosted, don't worry so much"...
Wed Dec 29, 2021, 04:10 PM
Dec 2021

and that we're all going to be exposed to Omicron, please, please consider those who can't be vaccinated, including and perhaps most especially children under 5.

Their loved ones who are not anti-mask or anti-vaxx are very frightened for them.

I'm just asking those of you without wee ones in your immediate sphere to please keep them in mind and understand how those of us with little ones may express more concern than others and (edit to add) how these comments about "don't worry, you're vaccinated" land for many of us.

Ms. Toad

(35,621 posts)
21. Agree - AND
Wed Dec 29, 2021, 06:28 PM
Dec 2021

the "you're vaxxed and boosted, don't worry so much" ALSO implies what both Harris and Biden stated flat out: a guarantee.

There are none with COVID. While it happens less frequently, people who are vaxxed do sometimes get very sick. People who are vaxxed do sometimes die.

And beyond that, more than 50% of people who have COVID experience long COVID. Not to mention that our knowledge of this disease is less than 2 years old. Some viruses (polio and chicken pox as two examples) have secondary diseases/syndromes that do not show up for decades.

Treating it so cavalierly is playing with fire.

Response to Tickle (Original post)

lindysalsagal

(22,446 posts)
20. People are weak, short-sighted, and lazy.
Wed Dec 29, 2021, 05:40 PM
Dec 2021

This is no longer a question, since so many have refused vaxxes.

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