But there are more of us than you think in Kentucky.

Three years as an Army brat when my Dad was stationed there. And then two years when I was stationed there during my time in.

It seems maybe you're going through some things yourself, or within your own family?

A lady I don't know particularly well gave up. It is heartbreaking and I know there are a lot of ugly relationships on the planet.

If I could rec this a million times, I would.

i am expecting the next call in an hour. One person is more predictable than the others.

We find a way.

So very many people (yes, even here) need to see this and know. We all have value and we all matter. We're more than our toxic circumstances. Don't let them take away your humanity!

My love to you! ❤️

that they can flee in the middle of the night with nothing and know there is an open door somewhere

If I'd had any idea what this lady was going through I'd have made sure she knew my door was open. Too often people don't tell anyone what is happening. For those, I'm glad they made it easier to remember how to get help.

I was so glad no kids were involved. You're right about them not saying anything, they are often too embarrassed or scared to talk. I just happened to accurately surmise what what could be happening with an acquaintance and let her know I was always awake all night and she could call me.

It's horrifying to hear about what some people go through.

May I ask, what prompted your post?

Thank you for taking the time to post it, KW.

Way too often we try to keep these things from those we know, as you said, out of embarrassment or fear of being judged/shamed. Even if you only have one person to confide in that you trust, tell that person.

Which indicates the driver slammed on the brakes before going over the edge.

I bet somebody’s gonna see this and take heart, and feel supported. OR they’ll pass this good info along to someone else who does. Sometimes I feel like there’s a lot of overwhelm out there. This will help.

Thank you, KentuckyWoman!

and the gender or orientation of the victim can include anyone.

Families, bosses, spouses, siblings, neighbors, professors, therapists, even doctors can (rarely) be exploitative.

I think this mass media pop culture breeds followers who succumb to dominant narcissists.

Protect yourselves, people, protect those you care about and those victims you can help. Become stronger before you are eaten alive.

… is a safe house for women and children. It was rehabbed a few years ago as it had been deserted for some time. The house was rebuilt, the property was cleaned up and an above-ground pool, jungle gym and other toys were installed in the backyard. It’s a lovely and secluded home for multiple families and we’ve seen many different people there.

It’s unapproachable, of course, and that’s as it should be. There are 3 large dogs that guard the property, (they must have invisible fence collars since they never leave the property).

As a man, I find it inexplicably sad that our society needs places like this to protect vulnerable people. I cannot imagine abusing anyone let alone my wife or child. The toxic masculinity that fosters abuse is disgusting.

thanks


I used to house abused women and children... more information is always needed!!!

and move on, one foot in front of the other. You can survive, and even SURPASS the toxicity, the abuser, the damage.