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(7,755 posts)....sorry.
(tears)
Blue Full Moon
(639 posts)redwitch
(15,029 posts)A hug to you from me.
dawg
(10,687 posts)n/t
blm
(113,707 posts)So sad to hear this.
XanaDUer2
(12,614 posts)You posted earlier you couldn't reach her
crosinski
(502 posts)milestogo
(16,995 posts)So sorry.
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canetoad
(17,755 posts)Was intended as a cyber hug.
LuckyCharms
(18,332 posts)Response to canetoad (Reply #38)
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debm55
(30,043 posts)Response to debm55 (Reply #47)
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moonscape
(5,158 posts)Ocelot II
(119,043 posts)Response to Ocelot II (Reply #52)
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questionseverything
(9,911 posts)Ocelot II
(119,043 posts)everybody else started using the Internet, in the mid-'90s. It was one of the emoticons in use before the invention of graphic smileys.
Celerity
(46,154 posts)You had to hijack a thread started by someone grieving a tremendous loss for a "lesson" in how to properly use parentheses?
SMH
Celerity
(46,154 posts)Polly Hennessey
(7,166 posts)Celerity
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kimbutgar
(22,368 posts)So sorry for your loss.
malaise
(274,655 posts)live love laugh
(13,929 posts)debm55
(30,043 posts)berniesandersmittens
(11,584 posts)I'm so sorry kozar. I don't know what to say except that you have DU if you need to reach out.
My deepest condolences.
Grief is love enduring. We'll be here for you when you need us.
Haele
Endure it does.
CentralMass
(15,421 posts)livetohike
(22,638 posts)memories of Lilbit always comfort you. Lilbit
SheilaAnn
(9,970 posts).I. gonna drink
Koz
debm55
(30,043 posts)Last edited Thu Jul 25, 2024, 07:56 PM - Edit history (1)
not be alone at this time. Stay on line and talk to us. We are here for you. We will listen. We love you and want to be with you , I don't want to tell you what to do , but alcohol is a depressant and will only make it worse for you. Cry, yell, scream. get it out. And we will be here for you.
kozar
(2,486 posts)I lost thirsday,, I'm drunk I've screamed, I am still crying
Is this a dream? I keep asking myself b by³
GPV
(72,936 posts)smother it with unimaginable amounts of food. I know you're hurting so bad right now, but can you get help for going through this? :hugs:
Ptah
(33,333 posts)MacKasey
(1,096 posts)Please take care of yourself
MacKasey
(1,096 posts)Last edited Fri Jul 26, 2024, 06:30 PM - Edit history (1)
sheshe2
(85,867 posts)MerryBlooms
(11,860 posts)LuckyCharms
(18,332 posts)FalloutShelter
(12,421 posts)ProfessorGAC
(68,112 posts)You take care.
Srkdqltr
(7,161 posts)sl8
(16,128 posts)Freddie
(9,470 posts)Thinking of you. Give your kitty a big hug.
catrose
(5,194 posts)Think. Again.
(14,903 posts)Grief counseling has helped me tremendously to get through.
barbtries
(29,317 posts)I don't know where I'd be without grief counseling, though it may be too soon, within a couple months I really hope you will consider it. I think right now you are in shock.
canetoad
(17,755 posts)Thinking of you.
Backseat Driver
(4,543 posts)democrank
(11,219 posts)Were here for you.
BittyJenkins
(482 posts)For you and Lilbit 💕
usonian
(12,077 posts)GoCubsGo
(32,739 posts)Biophilic
(4,342 posts)orange jar
(761 posts)It'll get better over time. Do you find catharsis/comfort in music? I find this song to be comforting in difficult times.
moonscape
(5,158 posts)Dear_Prudence
(637 posts)I am so sad at your terrible loss.
sinkingfeeling
(52,460 posts)Niagara
(8,816 posts)highplainsdem
(51,277 posts)PatrickforB
(14,911 posts)Desert grandma
(1,027 posts)Sending love and hugs to you. My deepest sympathy Kozar. May she rest in peace and may her memory bring you peace and comfort.
Alliepoo
(2,373 posts)Mr.Bill
(24,576 posts)for your loss.
Chicagogrl1
(445 posts)Marthe48
(18,289 posts)I was thinking about you both yesterday. I'm sorry to hear your sad news.
JoseBalow
(4,275 posts)Bev54
(11,282 posts)judesedit
(4,495 posts)TygrBright
(20,917 posts)sdfernando
(5,207 posts)bucolic_frolic
(45,600 posts)We've all witnessed your devotion and ups and downs, and feel your shock. You've performed at a very high level.
Polly Hennessey
(7,166 posts)irisblue
(33,654 posts)Wicked Blue
(6,437 posts)skylucy
(3,815 posts)Fla Dem
(25,072 posts)CanonRay
(14,660 posts)70sEraVet
(3,903 posts)Know that our hearts are with you.
Eko
(8,088 posts)Dave Bowman
(2,985 posts)3Hotdogs
(13,089 posts)Hope22
(2,357 posts)My heart goes out to you! Always know that you did your best. You did your best! Love and hugs to you!💗💗💐🙏🏼
Nanuke
(513 posts)What a shock and heartbreak for you. We are here for you.
marked50
(1,413 posts)wordstroken
(541 posts)of your precious Lilbit, kozar.
blogslug
(38,423 posts)May you find comfort for your loss. ❤️
badhair77
(4,470 posts)Thinking of you and may you find comfort.
nolabear
(42,587 posts)I hope you find peace, and lil bit rests easy.
Chellee
(2,169 posts)biophile
(168 posts)You said you are in shock and that is not ok but it is normal. We are sorry for your sad news and loss. Sending hugs to you as you grieve.
biophile
(168 posts)You said you are in shock and that is not ok but it is normal. We are sorry for your sad news and loss. Sending hugs to you as you grieve.
LoisB
(7,885 posts)CANADIANBEAVER69
(490 posts)BadgerMom
(2,908 posts)Solly Mack
(91,533 posts)BumRushDaShow
(137,091 posts)Sky Jewels
(8,466 posts)Teacher of the Year
(78 posts)Your Lilbit sure was lucky to have you in their life. I know their path was difficult, but it was full of love.
My best to you as you process this but with her body passing comes her spirits great freedom. I hope that helps you through these hard days.
Brett
praying for peace and comfort for you .
Trueblue Texan
(2,686 posts)I am devastated for you! I wish I had words that took away the shock and disbelief and grief. I am sending you love and warmth and healing. Wish I could send so much more!!!
pazzyanne
(6,575 posts)onecaliberal
(34,932 posts)Hugs.
JustinBulletin
(85 posts)May peace be with you and comfort you in this time of great loss.
Jirel
(2,154 posts)I wish we could do more to support you.
mountain grammy
(26,987 posts)Nululu
(911 posts)barbtries
(29,317 posts)my heart hurts for you.
As a mother who also lost her daughter I invite you to reach out any time. PM me and I will give you my phone number if you need to talk any time.
MerrilyMerrily
(142 posts)Duncanpup
(13,438 posts)I am so sorry.
Feel frree to PM me if you have questions later.
arkielib
(259 posts)Very sincere condolences. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Please take care of yourself.
CaptainTruth
(7,069 posts)We're here for you. If there's anyone you can call to talk to or spend time with I urge you do it. You don't have to bear the pain alone, & I know it's always helped me.
Take care of yourself.
karin_sj
(1,027 posts)I'm so sorry to hear this, kozar.
cate94
(2,852 posts)Tetrachloride
(8,264 posts)my sincere condolences
So sorry for you Kozar.
gademocrat7
(10,961 posts)On the loss of your sweet Lilbit. Sending you love and hugs. We are with you. Please stay in touch.
PCIntern
(26,296 posts)always be for a blessing.
BigMin28
(1,322 posts)Sending sincerest condolences and hugs your way. It's a tough road, I know too well. But you are not alone.
IbogaProject
(3,291 posts)Was this unexpected given her health condition? Either way I am so sorry for your loss you and your wife worked so hard to take care of her. But please check in with us as you need.
virgdem
(2,176 posts)My deepest condolences to you on the loss of Lilbit. She meant the world to you. Please take good care of yourself. We are all here for you.💔
dflprincess
(28,341 posts)Be kind to yourself.
StarryNite
(10,330 posts)jmbar2
(5,813 posts)There are no words to console except I am so sorry. You've had so much loss. My heart hurts for you tonite.
SilverDawg
(832 posts)🩷
stopdiggin
(12,341 posts)My sincerest sympathy. And hopes for healing.
OldBaldy1701E
(5,718 posts)AmBlue
(3,357 posts)We are here if you need us. Please reach out when you're ready.
Dem2theMax
(10,019 posts)Lilbit and you were so lucky to have each other. You amazed me with all of the love and devotion you gave to her. I cannot imagine the amount of grief you are feeling right now. Please know we are all here for you. And always know that you did the very best by her.
For Lilbit
happybird
(4,935 posts)Sending you love.
electric_blue68
(16,723 posts)Moosepoop
(1,970 posts)When the shock wears off, and it will, we are here for you.
MyMission
(1,935 posts)To offer comfort and share your grief.
Any hour of the day.
To lose a child is a horror, a living nightmare.
You often remind us how important it is to love.
Remember love.
May your memories bring you comfort.
Hekate
(93,385 posts)May that love sustain you, and may her crossing be gentle.
💔Many people are holding you in their hearts tonight. 💔
Nevilledog
(52,546 posts)Iris
(15,909 posts)femmedem
(8,344 posts)I'm so very sorry! I remember how scared you were when you were notified that Covid was going through the place she lived, and I can imagine how crushing this is for you, especially after having lost your wife.
The Third Doctor
(329 posts)Ocelot II
(119,043 posts)Please check in and let us know how you are doing.
1WorldHope
(805 posts)I have only one child and the thought of losing her is unbearable. Let us know more as you can. Be gentle with yourself. And feel free to call anytime. Just ask for my number and I'll give it to you. 💔🫂
Bayard
(23,439 posts)As Joe Biden has said:
'The time will come when her memory will bring a smile to your lips before it brings a tear to your eyes.'
Hang in there and lean on us. We're here for you.
JohnSJ
(94,630 posts)kozar
(2,486 posts)Celerity
(46,154 posts)kozar
(2,486 posts)I contacted vet crisis line and spoke with them, thay can't send anyone
Koz
kozar
(2,486 posts)kozar
(2,486 posts)Chieflandnd Fl g
Please come quietly
berniesandersmittens
(11,584 posts)It may be time to call and see your doctor as soon as possible.
Your grief must be unbearable.
FemDemERA
(339 posts)These are but mere words which seem so inadequate right now. I know there is nothing I can say to ease the pain of such a loss but my wish is for you to find some comfort in the days to come as you reflect on the memories of love and time shared with you Lilbit.
MacKasey
(1,096 posts)Lilbit has been in care of the state of Florida since August 2023,
I'm thinking you should have got documents stating what the procedure would be if she had passed. So I think you need to contact those same people to claim her body, if you want to have a funeral or cremation.
Can anyone please let me know if I am on the right track in support of Koz
phoenix_rising
(279 posts)My heart breaks for you and for all you must be going through right now.