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iemanja

(55,299 posts)
Tue Sep 10, 2024, 11:35 AM Sep 2024

How do you cope with watching Trump?

I want to watch the debate tonight, but I have a problem: I never watch Trump. I don't watch his speeches. I don't watch news clips. I don't watch clips people post here of his being an idiot. I can't stand to look at his bloated, disgusting face. I can't stand to hear his lying mouth speak. So how do I deal with watching this debate? I think I need to keep the volume on when he's speaking to get a true sense of how Harris is doing. So I guess I'm looking for psychological advice. How do you all deal with him?

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How do you cope with watching Trump? (Original Post) iemanja Sep 2024 OP
Recommended. H2O Man Sep 2024 #1
With neighbors who are like minded KT2000 Sep 2024 #2
I took tomorrow off. North Shore Chicago Sep 2024 #3
As a veteran moondust Sep 2024 #4
Roger that. Permanut Sep 2024 #5
I laugh at his trump costume. A 78 year old blond man? pwb Sep 2024 #6
Mute him, I do that when someone is showing a video of him and I do the same to Bev54 Sep 2024 #7
Not watching,,,, KarenS Sep 2024 #8
Same here. debm55 Sep 2024 #36
Me either Jilly_in_VA Sep 2024 #37
I'm with you Freddie Sep 2024 #9
the debate with Hillary triggered me Kali999 Sep 2024 #10
It triggered me too. iemanja Sep 2024 #15
I will enjoy seeing him go one on one with Kamala, it will be enjoyable for that reason Beringia Sep 2024 #11
Great question wendyb-NC Sep 2024 #12
I use Hal Sparks as a filter MistakenLamb Sep 2024 #13
Hal Sparks? iemanja Sep 2024 #16
Yeah, the comedian and actor he has live stream shows where he goes through Trump/MAGA speeches and interviews MistakenLamb Sep 2024 #19
I just can't do it anymore.... anciano Sep 2024 #14
That's all I'll be able to handle. Boomerproud Sep 2024 #17
Simple. I Don't Watch ProfessorGAC Sep 2024 #18
Habba is so vile, TSF is preferred TheBlackAdder Sep 2024 #20
I can't so I don't plan to newdeal2 Sep 2024 #21
Mute the volume and use the closed captioning. (n/t) OldBaldy1701E Sep 2024 #22
I do that at times. kerry-is-my-prez Sep 2024 #28
THIS. Then he's ALMOST bearable. fierywoman Sep 2024 #38
Good suggestion! iemanja Sep 2024 #41
Not well. He's virtually unwatchable for me. ananda Sep 2024 #23
Scotch whisky Redleg Sep 2024 #24
I am thinking Glenmorangie... OldBaldy1701E Sep 2024 #45
One of my favorites Redleg Sep 2024 #48
We learned this about contractions in childbirth: "I can stand anything for a minute" LeftInTX Sep 2024 #25
By not doing it. Ocelot II Sep 2024 #26
I used to mute it but now I laugh at how crazy/stupid he is. kerry-is-my-prez Sep 2024 #27
Avoidance. GaYellowDawg Sep 2024 #29
I'll be watching something else. Anything else. ArkansasDemocrat1 Sep 2024 #30
I yell at the TV pfitz59 Sep 2024 #31
This is ForgedCrank Sep 2024 #32
I don't need to be isolated from opposing beliefs at all iemanja Sep 2024 #42
By NOT watching him hawkeye21 Sep 2024 #33
Don't watch it. HUAJIAO Sep 2024 #34
Don't remind me! I'm a Braves fan, unfortunately witnessing their decline. n/t Different Drummer Sep 2024 #39
Ha ha. 3 big games coming up. HUAJIAO Sep 2024 #47
You're not going to want to miss this. Jason1961 Sep 2024 #35
Sounds like she's missing a bully iemanja Sep 2024 #44
Philippe Reines Jason1961 Sep 2024 #46
I have a three-step process for coping with such situations. Different Drummer Sep 2024 #40
I am literally sick of seeing his face everywhere 24 hours a day. Initech Sep 2024 #43
Mute button lindysalsagal Sep 2024 #49
I did okay iemanja Sep 2024 #50
The play by play at DU was awesome BOSSHOG Sep 2024 #51
Try the transcript. pat_k Sep 2024 #52
I don't claudette Sep 2024 #53
I'm looking forward to seeing him lately so there's no coping. It's more like what do I make for a treat brewens Sep 2024 #54

H2O Man

(76,049 posts)
1. Recommended.
Tue Sep 10, 2024, 11:37 AM
Sep 2024

A relative gave me a bud of extremely strong pot last week. I have not touched it yet. I knew to save it for tonight.

KT2000

(21,062 posts)
2. With neighbors who are like minded
Tue Sep 10, 2024, 11:37 AM
Sep 2024

Sharing the experience helps. Oh yeah - we also have gin and tonics.

moondust

(20,638 posts)
4. As a veteran
Tue Sep 10, 2024, 11:38 AM
Sep 2024

and a lifetime supporter of democracy, I consider Donald Trump unworthy of my attention.

Sorry I can't help you.

Permanut

(6,786 posts)
5. Roger that.
Tue Sep 10, 2024, 11:43 AM
Sep 2024

Another vet here, just looking forward to the day Mango Mussolini "goes away"

pwb

(12,210 posts)
6. I laugh at his trump costume. A 78 year old blond man?
Tue Sep 10, 2024, 11:46 AM
Sep 2024

The man makeup will be thick tonight, his Clown tie, bad suit, and his Accordion hands which means he is lying or doesn't know what he is talking about.

I usually put closed captions, on with mute, and try to read his word garbage. I don't like his voice and tone.

Bev54

(11,953 posts)
7. Mute him, I do that when someone is showing a video of him and I do the same to
Tue Sep 10, 2024, 11:51 AM
Sep 2024

house republicans during hearings. They have nothing but feigned outrage at their own lies. If there was something they said that was particularly stupid or outrageous, I will hear about it when a dem is speaking.

KarenS

(4,748 posts)
8. Not watching,,,,
Tue Sep 10, 2024, 11:51 AM
Sep 2024

I get too stressed and angry watching & listening to that evil B*****d.

if my Husband watches then I will kind of hear it,,,,

But mostly I will come to DU to read reports from all you guys who did watch it.

Jilly_in_VA

(11,411 posts)
37. Me either
Tue Sep 10, 2024, 02:34 PM
Sep 2024

I can't stand his whiny voice, his fat, overly madeup face, his ass mouth, or his accordion hands, let alone anything he has to say. I might read the play-by-play on Wonkette, or I might just skip it entirely in favor of something on Netflix or Prime.

Freddie

(9,771 posts)
9. I'm with you
Tue Sep 10, 2024, 11:52 AM
Sep 2024

The sound of his voice…I can’t do it.
But I’ll watch the debate, with my husband (who despises TFG as much as I do) and scream at the tv when needed (whenever TFG opens his mouth).

Kali999

(109 posts)
10. the debate with Hillary triggered me
Tue Sep 10, 2024, 11:52 AM
Sep 2024

to outrage. Can't stomach hearing him either. He makes my skin crawl. Kamala should bring a taser.

iemanja

(55,299 posts)
15. It triggered me too.
Tue Sep 10, 2024, 12:06 PM
Sep 2024

It was truly awful. I thought it would have put him under. Not so.

wendyb-NC

(3,961 posts)
12. Great question
Tue Sep 10, 2024, 11:58 AM
Sep 2024

I find tsf revolting. I've never deliberately watched or listened to that entity. His verbal diarrhea of lies, is an outrageous assault on the human psyche. The last "debate" had me so riled after 10 minutes I had to turn it off. I do not know how tonights debate will go, but given his record, I can't imagine him being civil and honest, all of a sudden.

That said, I may tune in for a few minutes as I support, vice president, Kamala Harris. I want to see her show that she has a plan for our country that is far superior to anything her opponent could mash together in a giant spit ball of lies in gibberish.

I'll tune in and hope for the best, if I have to turn it off I will do that.

MistakenLamb

(790 posts)
19. Yeah, the comedian and actor he has live stream shows where he goes through Trump/MAGA speeches and interviews
Tue Sep 10, 2024, 12:24 PM
Sep 2024

ProfessorGAC

(71,311 posts)
18. Simple. I Don't Watch
Tue Sep 10, 2024, 12:17 PM
Sep 2024

He has nothing to say that I need to hear.
So, I don't watch any coverage of him.
Even if I am watching the news (mostly Chicago local) & he comes on the screen, I change channels.

TheBlackAdder

(29,164 posts)
20. Habba is so vile, TSF is preferred
Tue Sep 10, 2024, 12:25 PM
Sep 2024

When will the NJ Bar Association disbar her for her duping and misleading that Bedminster employee who was suing Trump’s firm for employee harassment?

Also, when will NJ State prosecute Hanna for violating NJ labor laws and interfering in a worker harassment case?

newdeal2

(1,375 posts)
21. I can't so I don't plan to
Tue Sep 10, 2024, 12:26 PM
Sep 2024

I know everything I need to about that awful man and a debate won’t help inform me, just raise my blood pressure.

I’ll see what the commentary is like here and maybe watch some clips tomorrow.

Redleg

(6,286 posts)
48. One of my favorites
Wed Sep 11, 2024, 09:57 AM
Sep 2024

As it turned out I had bourbon instead, from a big bottle my almost ex-wife gave me for my birthday.

LeftInTX

(31,866 posts)
25. We learned this about contractions in childbirth: "I can stand anything for a minute"
Tue Sep 10, 2024, 02:01 PM
Sep 2024

Seriously, sorta tune him out. Distract yourself a bit when he speaks. I feel it's important to know what's going on, but I don't want him "in my face"

I watched the last debate on YouTube and followed along on DU. Being able to chat on DU helps. Still, I was

Watching it on my computer gave me more leeway to multi-task.


I'm going to a watch party tonight. Something tells me the room will be noisy when Trump speaks.

____________

Otherwise, I don't watch Trump speak either. I watch a few clips here and there and that's enough for me. I did watch his crazy acceptance speech at the RNC.

kerry-is-my-prez

(9,500 posts)
27. I used to mute it but now I laugh at how crazy/stupid he is.
Tue Sep 10, 2024, 02:09 PM
Sep 2024

I also love to watch Faux News when the Reps are having a bad day. I used to be a social worker who worked with psych patients so I have a “hearty” stomach.

ArkansasDemocrat1

(3,213 posts)
30. I'll be watching something else. Anything else.
Tue Sep 10, 2024, 02:20 PM
Sep 2024

I refuse to watch it wave its homunculus sized hands or open its asshole shaped lips.

I will tune in here for the synopsis.

ForgedCrank

(2,485 posts)
32. This is
Tue Sep 10, 2024, 02:23 PM
Sep 2024

the part I can't connect with. How a political candidate can cause so much pain to someone is a thing I can't understand at all. Trump doesn't bother me, I simply dislike him. He doesn't cause me mental anguish, pain, fear or anything else. This is politics, and Trump is just another human, nothing more. I deal with worse problems trying to drive in traffic to get to work in the mornings. I'm not scared to watch Fox news or other outlets either. I don't need media analysts to tell me how to think or interpret. I like to know what political opponents are thinking and why because sometimes, there are actually valid points to me heard. I don't need to be isolated and protected from opposing beliefs, no matter how dumb some of it can be.
There is not supposed to be drama, this is politics. And I'll be frank about it, I'm getting kind of pissed off that politics has turned into the vile sport and dividing subject that it has. People have grown to actually hate one another over this foolishness. It's a serious business, and Trump is a result of that behavior, not the cause of it. A guy like that should have never been able to rise in popularity, but that is the mood that we as an entire nation have nurtured.
Now I'll stand back and take my beating for telling the raw truth.

iemanja

(55,299 posts)
42. I don't need to be isolated from opposing beliefs at all
Tue Sep 10, 2024, 03:52 PM
Sep 2024

I read opinions I disagree with all the time. Trump, however, makes me ill.

hawkeye21

(300 posts)
33. By NOT watching him
Tue Sep 10, 2024, 02:27 PM
Sep 2024

I will not watch the "debate." The whole idea of it is a farce, and old man Trump is SO obnoxious that I become physically ill when listening to him or seeing him. My blood pressure rises, my stomach gets upset, and my cave man tendencies to beat him over the head repeatedly with a club becomes irresistible.
I honestly have never understood how anyone could stand anything about this piece of human scum. The 78-year-old nut case is repulsive in every imaginable way.

Jason1961

(461 posts)
35. You're not going to want to miss this.
Tue Sep 10, 2024, 02:32 PM
Sep 2024
I want to watch the debate tonight, but I have a problem: I never watch Trump.


Kamala Harris has been preparing with the best debate prep team in the business.

Philippe Reines, who is better on his worst day than Donald Trump is on his best day, has been playing the part of Trump in her mock debates, he didn't hold anything back and Trump would be lucky to be 10% as good as this guy.
Colin Kahl (former Undersecretary of Defense)
Tom Donilon (President Obama’s National Security Adviser)
Tom Nides (former Ambassador to Israel)
Grace Landrieu (Director for Economic Policy and Labor at the National Economic Council and one helped write the Build Back Better Program)
Brian Nelson (former Undersecretary for Terrorism and Financial Intelligence at the Treasury Department
Phil Gordon ( former Assistant Secretary of State for European and Eurasian Affairs and Special Assistant to the President and White House Coordinator for the Middle East, North Africa, and the Persian Gulf Region under President Obama)
Rebecca Lissner (former Acting Senior Director for Strategic Planning on the National Security Council, helped write President Biden's National Security Strategy and former Director of the Russia Strategy Group
Karen Dunn (one of her Debate Coaches for her prep against Mike Pence, we all remember that one!)
Minyon Moore (former Director of White House political affairs under President Bill Clinton)
Symone Sanders-Townsend (political veteran, author of No, You Shut Up: Speaking Truth to Power and Reclaiming America)

This is going to be a slaughter, I just hope Trump doesn't quit halfway through


Jason1961

(461 posts)
46. Philippe Reines
Tue Sep 10, 2024, 07:13 PM
Sep 2024

He's a shark and is a vicious debater, he can out do Trump's debate style

He's standing in as Trump for her mock debates and he didn't hold anything back

She's not just ready, she's hungry for this

Different Drummer

(8,933 posts)
40. I have a three-step process for coping with such situations.
Tue Sep 10, 2024, 02:58 PM
Sep 2024

1-Hit the mute button in advance of the start.

2-Nap during the proceedings

3-Read (not watch) a post-mortem the next day.

pat_k

(10,885 posts)
52. Try the transcript.
Wed Sep 11, 2024, 02:54 PM
Sep 2024

It's less triggering for me than seeing his horrible countenance. And there is an advantage to skimming his crap. There is no substance so skimming for the gist is plenty.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/abcnews.go.com/amp/Politics/harris-trump-presidential-debate-transcript/story%3fid=113560542

claudette

(4,832 posts)
53. I don't
Wed Sep 11, 2024, 02:59 PM
Sep 2024

watch him so I don’t have to cope. I watched Harris muted the remote and looked at a book until Dumpy was done. I hate him. Seeing or hearing him makes me want to 🤮

 

brewens

(15,359 posts)
54. I'm looking forward to seeing him lately so there's no coping. It's more like what do I make for a treat
Wed Sep 11, 2024, 03:00 PM
Sep 2024

while watching a comedy I've been looking forward too.

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