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bluescribbler

(2,469 posts)
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 08:58 AM Oct 2024

One year ago, today

When I woke up that morning, I had one cigarette left in the pack. I smoked that cigarette at about 9:00 and decided not to go to the store for another pack. I still have not bought any more cigarettes, nor have I smoked any cigarettes. I still get tempted now and then, but I continue to decide not to buy cigarettes. I don't take credit for this; all credit goes to a counsellor at the VA named Ariel, a drug called Chantix, and Susan's love. One year smoke free!!

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One year ago, today (Original Post) bluescribbler Oct 2024 OP
Congratulations! niyad Oct 2024 #1
It's the best thing I ever did for myself mountain grammy Oct 2024 #2
I think this was a George Carlin line. Prairie_Seagull Oct 2024 #3
Great quip with a complicated lineage Pinback Oct 2024 #23
Outstanding, thank you. Prairie_Seagull Oct 2024 #27
Most interesting! calimary Oct 2024 #77
Mark Twain California Kid Oct 2024 #47
Congrats. Xavier Breath Oct 2024 #4
Awesome! Way to go!! Blue_Roses Oct 2024 #5
Similar story here. My dad stopped smoking after about 50 years in 1990 and lived another 19 years..... Bengus81 Oct 2024 #31
Two points about smoking. The first has always generated an unanswered question in my mind. The second was my....... usaf-vet Oct 2024 #38
I was thirteen when I started smoking. bluescribbler Oct 2024 #55
One event that I remember with absolute clarity canetoad Oct 2024 #63
My dad was in the Army during Blue_Roses Oct 2024 #74
Great job, Congratulations wendyb-NC Oct 2024 #6
Congratulations. I'm starting year 16, tobacco free. sinkingfeeling Oct 2024 #7
I've read that 25 years smoke free is as good as never-smoked for the body. . . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Oct 2024 #19
i would like to believe that Native Oct 2024 #39
Yeah, I've read that too canetoad Oct 2024 #64
I'm closing in on fifty years smoke free soldierant Oct 2024 #72
You are a great role model on this! My mother quit smoking in her 40s and died in her 90s. Bernardo de La Paz Oct 2024 #75
congratz OldSWODog Oct 2024 #8
Well done... littlemissmartypants Oct 2024 #9
Good work! yellerpup Oct 2024 #10
Congratulations! I tried quitting once or twice, surfered Oct 2024 #11
I have read most successful quitters failed at least once before. Anyone can quit Bernardo de La Paz Oct 2024 #17
Congratulations. Even with the meds, this takes will power. SpankMe Oct 2024 #12
super! et tu Oct 2024 #13
Yes, believing in yourself is key. Positive outlook can be learned and is self-sustaining. . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Oct 2024 #20
Yaye Ariel! MadLinguist Oct 2024 #14
Congratulations! LittleGirl Oct 2024 #15
I lost count of the number of times I tried to quit and the number of methods... Native Oct 2024 #42
The smell! That's what keeps me away LittleGirl Oct 2024 #56
I'm the same way. Native Oct 2024 #57
Congratulations!! 2naSalit Oct 2024 #16
Awesome accomplishment! Hope22 Oct 2024 #18
CONGRATULATIONS!!!! Trueblue Texan Oct 2024 #21
For the record, I do not claim to have quit smoking. bluescribbler Oct 2024 #30
Congrats! peggysue2 Oct 2024 #22
Congratulations! I tried quitting once or twice, surfered Oct 2024 #24
Congrats! wysimdnwyg Oct 2024 #25
Good for you! murielm99 Oct 2024 #26
That's great. Keep up the good work. OLDMDDEM Oct 2024 #28
Congrats! Stay determined. Best thing you could do for your health and wallet judesedit Oct 2024 #29
CONGRATS!! Question for baby boomers...How many of you NEVER smoked because of your parents smoking? Bengus81 Oct 2024 #32
I'm Gen X and had no desire because my mother TBF Oct 2024 #37
Congrats... JT45242 Oct 2024 #33
Congratulations! n/t livetohike Oct 2024 #34
Congratulations MustLoveBeagles Oct 2024 #35
Congrats. OldBaldy1701E Oct 2024 #36
Good for you, and continued success......I quit 5-2-2005. Was gonna be retiring in 2006 a kennedy Oct 2024 #40
Congratulations! BlueKentuckyGirl Oct 2024 #41
That's great. Hang in there. Lonestarblue Oct 2024 #43
15 years Figarosmom Oct 2024 #44
Good for you! pandr32 Oct 2024 #45
Dreams! bluescribbler Oct 2024 #58
That is one BIG Step! Keep it up. Now - two words DEEP BREATHS! rurallib Oct 2024 #46
WooHoo Clouds Passing Oct 2024 #48
Congratulations! piddyprints Oct 2024 #49
I quit 42 years ago, C OH Dem Oct 2024 #50
Chantix worked for me too. I thank my older brother applegrove Oct 2024 #51
Congratulations underpants Oct 2024 #52
Congrats! senseandsensibility Oct 2024 #53
YES! markie Oct 2024 #54
Good job. Griefbird Oct 2024 #59
That's great!!! ailsagirl Oct 2024 #60
Congratulations! beaglelover Oct 2024 #61
Well done bluescribbler canetoad Oct 2024 #62
Great for you Tribetime Oct 2024 #65
Good for you! Congratulations on being smoke free! HeartsCanHope Oct 2024 #66
03/14/1982 for me. Cold turkey. BHDem53 Oct 2024 #67
That's awesome!! Andy Canuck Oct 2024 #68
Well done Cirsium Oct 2024 #69
Congratulations... Tikki Oct 2024 #70
Congratulations! evolves Oct 2024 #71
It gets easier gay texan Oct 2024 #73
That's Absolutely TERRIFIC!!! calimary Oct 2024 #76
Congrats! SheltieLover Oct 2024 #78
About 4 1/2 months. bluescribbler Oct 2024 #79
Good for you! SheltieLover Oct 2024 #81
YOU. ARE. AWESOME. GaYellowDawg Oct 2024 #80

mountain grammy

(28,618 posts)
2. It's the best thing I ever did for myself
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 09:03 AM
Oct 2024

Quitting smoking cigarettes! A to you! Keep up the good work.

Prairie_Seagull

(4,588 posts)
3. I think this was a George Carlin line.
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 09:07 AM
Oct 2024

"I know how easy it is to quit smoking, I've done it a thousand times."

Congrats bluescribbler.

No 1001 for you.

calimary

(88,861 posts)
77. Most interesting!
Thu Oct 17, 2024, 04:52 AM
Oct 2024

I’ve never seen link before. Looks like something so absorbing that you could get completely lost in it.

Xavier Breath

(6,413 posts)
4. Congrats.
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 09:07 AM
Oct 2024

I've never smoked, but I've always heard that once someone does and then quits, their senses of taste and smell improve considerably. I'm curious if that has that been your experience? Are there any other beneficial changes you've noticed?

Blue_Roses

(13,759 posts)
5. Awesome! Way to go!!
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 09:35 AM
Oct 2024

While I've never been a smoker, I can see how hard it is to give up. My dad smoked for years and finally gave it up, but he still was diagnosed with emphysema. He lived 20 years after being diagnosed, but the damage had been done. Still, quitting, gave him more time to be around for us!!

I don't know you, but I'm so proud of you!!

Bengus81

(9,754 posts)
31. Similar story here. My dad stopped smoking after about 50 years in 1990 and lived another 19 years.....
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 11:00 AM
Oct 2024

Like you say...the damage is done none the less. He ended up with lung cancer that metastasized to his spine but he lived to be almost 85. Him stopping added at least 10 years to his life.

usaf-vet

(7,742 posts)
38. Two points about smoking. The first has always generated an unanswered question in my mind. The second was my.......
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 11:39 AM
Oct 2024

.... the story of quitting.

Point one...Question: Where and when did you start smoking? I can tell you the exact day, almost to the hour: October 25-26, 1965, sometime (sunrise) on the early morning of my first full day in USAF boot camp. A bunch of strangers stood outside what turned out to be a WW II two-floor military barracks. Where our new "angry" drill sergeant is asking who would like to be on the first floor? A bunch of hands went up. Not mine (I remembered the warning I heard from my dad and uncles NEVER VOLUNTEER). The DI then said you "idiots" are on the second floor. The next question was, who smokes? Up went the hands. The DI then said, "Idiots," get two 15-minute smoke breaks a day OUTSIDE; the rest stay in the barracks and polish boots, etc. During the first break that day, I was outside getting ready to light up my first-ever cigarette.
So the question how many smokers or former smokers start smoking during military boot camp? I think it will be lots.

Point two... I also remember the exact day I stopped smoking and never looked back. April 21, 1973. My son was born that day; he is now 51 years old. I'm now 77 and ticking, so I'm guessing it was a great time to quit.

bluescribbler

(2,469 posts)
55. I was thirteen when I started smoking.
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 03:11 PM
Oct 2024

I also Stopped and started again a few times over the years.

canetoad

(20,075 posts)
63. One event that I remember with absolute clarity
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 04:37 PM
Oct 2024

Was, at the age of 16, doing my first 'proper' inhalation of the smoke. I was hooked from that moment.

Blue_Roses

(13,759 posts)
74. My dad was in the Army during
Thu Oct 17, 2024, 04:17 AM
Oct 2024

WWII and he often said that they all smoked. He said it helped them survive. I can understand that.

soldierant

(9,253 posts)
72. I'm closing in on fifty years smoke free
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 10:14 PM
Oct 2024

(I'm only 2 years short of that now) and that might be the cse if i didn't have other respiratory allergies. Unfortunately, I do, and I have no idea to what extent smoking may have intensified them or even caused some of them.

Bernardo de La Paz

(60,320 posts)
75. You are a great role model on this! My mother quit smoking in her 40s and died in her 90s.
Thu Oct 17, 2024, 04:28 AM
Oct 2024

My father quit smoking in his 40s and died over 80.

OldSWODog

(131 posts)
8. congratz
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 09:49 AM
Oct 2024

coming up on three years now...still addicted to nicotene (pieces of lozenges) but still not smoking...whatever works!...keep up the good fight, bluescribbler...cheers, OSD

littlemissmartypants

(31,428 posts)
9. Well done...
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 09:53 AM
Oct 2024

Ariel, Chantix, Susan's love and YOU, bluescribbler! Those are great accomplishments all around. It's so wonderful to be loved and loveable.

Stay encouraged.





❤️

yellerpup

(12,263 posts)
10. Good work!
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 09:54 AM
Oct 2024

You will not be sorry you made this decision. I did after 50 years and I couldn't be happier.

surfered

(11,090 posts)
11. Congratulations! I tried quitting once or twice,
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 09:58 AM
Oct 2024

But finally quit on my 40th birthday. I feel so much better and cannot stand the smell of cigarette smoke.

Bernardo de La Paz

(60,320 posts)
17. I have read most successful quitters failed at least once before. Anyone can quit
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 10:23 AM
Oct 2024

Try all the methods! If none work at the first try, pick the one you think you will be most likely and then resolve to make it work this time. Prepare by convincing yourself emotionally that you have really decided to really quit.

Then quit that way.

Anyone can quit by screwing down enough resolve and then doing it by method of choice. Paraphrasing Obama: "Yes you can!"

SpankMe

(3,653 posts)
12. Congratulations. Even with the meds, this takes will power.
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 09:58 AM
Oct 2024

I thank you on behalf of your lungs.

Bernardo de La Paz

(60,320 posts)
20. Yes, believing in yourself is key. Positive outlook can be learned and is self-sustaining. . . . nt
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 10:27 AM
Oct 2024

MadLinguist

(898 posts)
14. Yaye Ariel!
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 10:07 AM
Oct 2024

So glad you had VA access and connected with the right person to support you throughout

LittleGirl

(8,939 posts)
15. Congratulations!
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 10:12 AM
Oct 2024

I struggle daily with the nicotine withdrawals. I give in to them sometimes but regret it immediately. I cannot control my addiction to nicotine and the joy I had in taking a break to have a smoke. I smoked for over 35 years non stop but I quit again last week.

Native

(7,290 posts)
42. I lost count of the number of times I tried to quit and the number of methods...
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 11:47 AM
Oct 2024

I even tried hypnotism, and I think I took every stop smoking class that was offered where I lived or worked. It wasn't until they came out with patches that I finally achieved my goal. This was over 30 years ago, and if if it weren't for the patches, I'd probably still be smoking today. I never liked smoking, never got any enjoyment out of it, but I couldn't stop.

LittleGirl

(8,939 posts)
56. The smell! That's what keeps me away
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 03:24 PM
Oct 2024

I never knew how smoker’s smell is in everything you own until I quit.
I have a bionic sense of smell despite my history. It repels me most of all.

2naSalit

(99,703 posts)
16. Congratulations!!
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 10:18 AM
Oct 2024

You've done yourself and your health a great service by making that decision!

For me it's been 42 years.

Trueblue Texan

(4,152 posts)
21. CONGRATULATIONS!!!!
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 10:28 AM
Oct 2024

I KNOW what a big deal it is! I quit 35 years ago and to this day, it was one of the hardest things I ever did. The 2nd year is easier, but temptations still nag even after a decade...but if you made it through the first year, and you remain committed, you'll do fine. Just don't let the addiction sneak up on you and convince you just one cig won't hurt. I still dream of smoking every now and then, but that first year was full of those kinds of dreams.

bluescribbler

(2,469 posts)
30. For the record, I do not claim to have quit smoking.
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 10:53 AM
Oct 2024

I say that I am not smoking. I have "quit" before, only to succumb to temptation. I simply don't trust myself to remain smoke-free without determined effort to decide not to smoke. Hell, I didn't even smoke a cigar when my favorite team won the NBA title last spring.

peggysue2

(12,369 posts)
22. Congrats!
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 10:32 AM
Oct 2024

Your lungs and overall health will thank you. As for the cravings? They last for awhile but slowly fade.

Quitting is hard but in the end? So worth it.

I remember how stinky cigarette smoke smelled after I quit. I'd never noticed that before. But wow, we're talking gag city particularly if you're inside with dedicated smokers. The odor is nasty and lingers on clothing, hair, everything. Who knew?

Best wishes.

surfered

(11,090 posts)
24. Congratulations! I tried quitting once or twice,
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 10:41 AM
Oct 2024

But finally quit on my 40th birthday. I feel so much better and cannot stand the smell of cigarette smoke.

wysimdnwyg

(2,267 posts)
25. Congrats!
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 10:43 AM
Oct 2024

Smoked for 12 years (plus six where I “dabbled), been quit for 24. I still get the urge for the physical parts, but it’s easy to say no once I smell it on someone else.

murielm99

(32,640 posts)
26. Good for you!
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 10:45 AM
Oct 2024

I quit a little over three years ago. I made many attempts. The longest was ten months.

I am over the hump now. There are occasional temptations, but I resist them. You will resist them, too.

Keep checking in with us!

judesedit

(4,585 posts)
29. Congrats! Stay determined. Best thing you could do for your health and wallet
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 10:50 AM
Oct 2024

I quit June 1st, 1980. 10 am I had my last cigarette. Didn't take long to feel 15 years younger. Black licorice helped take the edge off. Kind of tastes like nicotine lol.

Hang in there. You're worth it. 👏👍

Bengus81

(9,754 posts)
32. CONGRATS!! Question for baby boomers...How many of you NEVER smoked because of your parents smoking?
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 11:03 AM
Oct 2024

Myself,my brother and seven cousins...ALL of us never smoked a day in our lives because our parents did all the smoking for us. I was born in 1953. The BULLSHIT and LIES perpetrated in ads by those cigarette companies (in the 30's---60's) in my parents days were criminal.

TBF

(35,447 posts)
37. I'm Gen X and had no desire because my mother
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 11:33 AM
Oct 2024

was such a heavy smoker. In the end she got COPD, and I wouldn't wish that on anyone.

Not that there aren't other vices - alcohol, even too much sugar, etc. can be nearly as bad for your health. And I agree on the lies, marketing, trade groups. My mother had this idea that if smoking was so unsafe the government wouldn't allow it. I think by the time she aged and got more ill she understood the deception.

JT45242

(3,813 posts)
33. Congrats...
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 11:12 AM
Oct 2024

My mom quit like that when the price of cigarettes went up. She then put the money she had been spending on cigarettes into a fund to fix stuff up on her house...new appliances, deck, stuff like that. She did that for the last 15 years of her life.

Hope you can keep it up.

OldBaldy1701E

(9,990 posts)
36. Congrats.
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 11:32 AM
Oct 2024

I quit tobacco (excepting the very rare cigar) about ten years ago. I will say one thing that I always remember a good friend telling me when I complimented him on being smoke free for five years. He smiled and nodded. A friend then said, "Do you ever want one?"

My friend grabbed the table edges and leaned right in towards the other person's face and savagely whispered, "Every. Fucking. Day."

Stay strong. I am pretty much over it now and don't even want one when I am having a drink, which was when I used to go full 'chimney'. Good on you for stopping.

a kennedy

(35,191 posts)
40. Good for you, and continued success......I quit 5-2-2005. Was gonna be retiring in 2006
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 11:44 AM
Oct 2024

and I didn’t want to waste my retirement $$$ on smokes……so I quit. Hardest thing I ever did. I had Wellbutrin to help me, and I swear if I didn’t have that I wouldn’t have been able to quit. So my smokeless friend, welcome to the smoke free world.

BlueKentuckyGirl

(515 posts)
41. Congratulations!
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 11:46 AM
Oct 2024

I quit smoking 38 years ago from an 18 year addiction. It was probably the hardest thing I ever did.

Figarosmom

(9,642 posts)
44. 15 years
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 11:52 AM
Oct 2024

And I did it pretty much by myself. But it was only because I had a really bad
bought of flu for a couple weeks where I couldn't smoke and the had no wish to. So when I got better I just never bought any more. Congrats on your achievement and take the credit. I've known people with all the help who still didn't quit. So fortitude and desire is the biggest part of making it.

pandr32

(13,737 posts)
45. Good for you!
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 11:54 AM
Oct 2024

I quit when I found I was pregnant with my first child. I was surprised how it wove into my dreams sometimes. I would dream I succumbed to the lure and lit a cigarette, was disgusted with myself, and then woke up only to be relieved it had all been a dream.
May you continue to be a none smoker!

bluescribbler

(2,469 posts)
58. Dreams!
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 03:36 PM
Oct 2024

I used to dream that I'd lost a lit cigarette in bed. And I never smoked in bed. I never even smoked in the bedroom.

rurallib

(64,516 posts)
46. That is one BIG Step! Keep it up. Now - two words DEEP BREATHS!
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 12:13 PM
Oct 2024

When I quit we didn't have anything to salve the cravings.
A guy on a radio show said about 10 deep breaths when you have a craving and the craving goes away. Worked for me!

And you can do them anywhere, anytime. They can't stop you from breathing.

Keep us informed and Congratulations!

piddyprints

(15,052 posts)
49. Congratulations!
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 01:18 PM
Oct 2024

This means a lot to me personally since my brother died from lung cancer in 2009, just 4 months after I helped him quit. He would be so happy and proud of you. His little kitty, now 21 years old, is sitting on my lap watching me type this.

It's such a victory to quit! Keep up the good work! Post every anniversary, even half and quarter years!

C OH Dem

(39 posts)
50. I quit 42 years ago,
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 01:29 PM
Oct 2024

I now cannot stand the smell of cigarettes but the smell of a good cigar have almost made me slip!

applegrove

(129,943 posts)
51. Chantix worked for me too. I thank my older brother
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 01:33 PM
Oct 2024

for in a non judgemental way telling me it was time to quit as I hit 40. I remembered that when I quit at 43. I owe him big time.

senseandsensibility

(24,205 posts)
53. Congrats!
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 03:00 PM
Oct 2024

What health benefits have you noticed from not smoking? I'm not and have never been a smoker, but I did drink socially until about 3 years ago. I thought I would see a lot of health benefits, but I didn't. Even so, I have maintained it because I know in the long run it's for the best.

canetoad

(20,075 posts)
62. Well done bluescribbler
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 04:33 PM
Oct 2024

For me it was October 2020 but I didn't note the date so it's four years ago this month. After fifty years of being a slave to nicotine, I can say it's truly over.

My sincere and hearty congratulations on this feat. You will never look back.

Tikki

(15,014 posts)
70. Congratulations...
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 07:24 PM
Oct 2024

I availed for myself of every feature that was set up to help me quit.

Higher priced cigarettes, no places to smoke in public, no more lectures
from my Doctor, my two grandchildren never remembering
me as a smoker, my husband ecstatically happy, never smoking in the car or house....
I could go on and on.
I quit 20 years ago.
The days go on, on, on..you just don't smoke... you are a non-smoker.
Works for me...works for you.

Tikki

calimary

(88,861 posts)
76. That's Absolutely TERRIFIC!!!
Thu Oct 17, 2024, 04:47 AM
Oct 2024

True, you had help(ers), but you were the one in the driver’s seat. CONGRATULATIONS!!!

SheltieLover

(76,122 posts)
81. Good for you!
Thu Oct 17, 2024, 09:36 AM
Oct 2024

I'm on my 2nd round of it. Stopped it after 3.5 months a year ago. I'm going to stay on it a good long time this time. LOL

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