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Jilly_in_VA

(10,752 posts)
Mon Oct 21, 2024, 11:31 AM 16 hrs ago

A young teen gives birth. Idaho's parental consent law snags her care.

https://wapo.st/4hflJjq

The patient, 36 weeks pregnant, was having mild but frequent contractions. She had come to the emergency room in this small lakeside town because she was new to the area and had no doctor. In most cases, physician Caitlin Gustafson would have begun a pelvic exam to determine whether labor had started. This time, she called the hospital’s lawyers.

Mom-to-be Aleah was only 13 years old. And under a new Idaho law requiring parental consent for nearly all minors’ health care, Gustafson could be sued for treating her because the girl had been brought in by her great-aunt.

What followed were more than two frantic hours of trying to contact Aleah’s mother, who was living in a car, and her grandmother, who was the teen’s legal guardian. The grandmother finally gave verbal consent for the exam — from the Boise-area jail where she was incarcerated on drug charges.

“I was freaking out,” said Anna Karren, the relative who had taken Aleah into her home just days before. What if the hospital couldn’t reach the right person? “They want guardianship papers, and I don’t have them.”

The nerve-racking scene reflected the consequences of a law that physicians, therapists, adolescent advocates, school officials and some law enforcement authorities call misguided and dangerous, another attempt to legislate health care in a state where one of the nation’s strictest abortion bans already has doctors on edge.

Critics say the law — which also grants parents access to minors’ health records, doing away with confidentiality that providers and teen advocates call crucial — ignores the reality that parents aren’t always present or trustworthy. Three months after its implementation, they contend it is hindering adolescents’ ability to access counseling, limiting evidence-collection in sexual assault cases and causing schools to seek parental permission to treat scrapes with ice packs and Band-Aids.


This is beyond stupid. First of all, why is a 13 year old pregnant? Her family dysfunction reflects a lot of that. See the article for her comment about changing diapers as a toddler. This law is dangerous as well as stupid in the extreme.
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A young teen gives birth. Idaho's parental consent law snags her care. (Original Post) Jilly_in_VA 16 hrs ago OP
What if it's the father or stepfather that is responsible for the pregnancy. How does she get his permission? Walleye 15 hrs ago #1
evidently, it was a boyfriend. cab67 13 hrs ago #28
No. Resolve the doctor's inability to treat . Make them part of the lindysalsagal 13 hrs ago #32
Hell, sue them for practicing medicine without a license Walleye 12 hrs ago #35
I was referring to the sperm donor. cab67 12 hrs ago #39
Ehy should doctors stay in that state? Johonny 15 hrs ago #2
Many already have Jilly_in_VA 15 hrs ago #4
Perinatologists are actually high risk Obstetrics docs. evolves 14 hrs ago #11
They made abortion a political issue to accomplish this. BadgerMom 13 hrs ago #17
I haven't heard the outcome of this pregnancy, Lars39 14 hrs ago #12
If I was the husband, cab67 12 hrs ago #40
Thing is, you get so far along and they advise not to fly. Lars39 11 hrs ago #44
Understood. cab67 10 hrs ago #47
Parts of Montana are okay Jilly_in_VA 9 hrs ago #50
I don't know where in Montana they were going. Lars39 9 hrs ago #52
What you said, Delphinus 9 hrs ago #53
Outside of the idiocy of how this situation was handled, I'd like to know who the father is. patphil 15 hrs ago #3
the father is also a teen IzzaNuDay 13 hrs ago #20
Oh brother... calimary 13 hrs ago #24
No Teens at all IbogaProject 12 hrs ago #34
She's spent her whole life in poverty. cab67 12 hrs ago #41
This is what the GQP want: evolves 11 hrs ago #45
He's a teenager also. Blue Full Moon 13 hrs ago #21
Docs should call the legislators to the ER and make them resolve it. lindysalsagal 15 hrs ago #5
My idea moonshinegnomie 13 hrs ago #22
She is living in a world where grandmas in jail and being passed from house to house is normal. Maru Kitteh 14 hrs ago #6
Republicans refuse to believe these kinds of families exist. They prefer their red state colored glasses. Walleye 12 hrs ago #37
Horror story! surfered 14 hrs ago #7
"American Horror Story" is more like it... birdographer 14 hrs ago #8
No kidding! calimary 13 hrs ago #25
Isn't there some oath that doctors take to "First, do no harm"? Beaverhausen 14 hrs ago #9
The problem is, evolves 14 hrs ago #13
Do you really think a jury would convict a physician who helped her? Beaverhausen 10 hrs ago #46
The trial might bankrupt the MD drmeow 10 hrs ago #49
As a physician, I don't want to choose between evolves 7 hrs ago #54
A pregnant 13 yo? jfz9580m 14 hrs ago #10
36 weeks pregnant, at that. LisaM 14 hrs ago #16
Yeah seriously jfz9580m 10 hrs ago #48
More to the point, what kind of parents valleyrogue 4 hrs ago #55
Good point jfz9580m 3 hrs ago #56
This is so sad. If the "powers that be" dictate a 13-year old must have a baby, then they need to pass iluvtennis 14 hrs ago #14
Republicans want to shrink the government markodochartaigh 14 hrs ago #15
Republicans want to shrink the government Nasruddin 13 hrs ago #18
And THIS ONE's a good one, too! calimary 12 hrs ago #43
That's a GOOD one. calimary 12 hrs ago #42
The people who claim to be "Family First" have grown savage and grotesque in their Ping Tung 13 hrs ago #19
About the baby's father .... Shoonra 13 hrs ago #23
Someone should present the situation to JD Vance and ask him what we should do about it Walleye 12 hrs ago #38
Just read an article about GOP Blue Full Moon 13 hrs ago #26
a picture of a baby's hand holding aleah's finger (at the wapo link) orleans 13 hrs ago #27
That is not only crazy Jilly_in_VA 9 hrs ago #51
Idaho is in a terrible drought... Fiddlelady11 13 hrs ago #29
Very sad situation all around. cab67 13 hrs ago #30
This is so appallingly sad. Joinfortmill 13 hrs ago #31
From Governor Tim Walz last week in Pittsburgh Botany 13 hrs ago #33
We should not be surprised when young teens who MineralMan 12 hrs ago #36

Walleye

(34,680 posts)
1. What if it's the father or stepfather that is responsible for the pregnancy. How does she get his permission?
Mon Oct 21, 2024, 11:43 AM
15 hrs ago

lindysalsagal

(22,243 posts)
32. No. Resolve the doctor's inability to treat . Make them part of the
Mon Oct 21, 2024, 02:27 PM
13 hrs ago

Legal notifications and health dangers. Since they think they know better what should be done .

cab67

(3,197 posts)
39. I was referring to the sperm donor.
Mon Oct 21, 2024, 03:09 PM
12 hrs ago

Depending on his age, he'd likely be guilty of statutory rape. He obviously has to be held accountable.

Actually, a lot of people should be held accountable, starting with whoever crafted this asinine law.

Johonny

(21,794 posts)
2. Ehy should doctors stay in that state?
Mon Oct 21, 2024, 11:45 AM
15 hrs ago

They shouldn't have to worry about jail to fo their job.

I assume many doctors will move and health care quality will decline.

Jilly_in_VA

(10,752 posts)
4. Many already have
Mon Oct 21, 2024, 12:00 PM
15 hrs ago

My brother is a doctor in western Montana and had worked in Idaho some time back. Although he is largely retired, he keeps tabs on things. As of last May, he said that 4 of the 5 perinatologists (those docs who care for preemies) had left the state. The one remaining was in Boise and was considering leaving. Many of the state's OB units had closed and women were having to drive to neighboring states for OB care, or depend on lay midwives. They've returned to the 1850s in many respects.

Note to women: stay the hell out of Idaho. To men: not a smart place to be either!

evolves

(5,581 posts)
11. Perinatologists are actually high risk Obstetrics docs.
Mon Oct 21, 2024, 01:16 PM
14 hrs ago

They manage medically complicated pregnancies. The Neonatologists care for newborns.

The damage these laws do to the medical profession lead directly to poor outcomes for patients and their babies, as there may soon be no physicians in the area qualified to handle complex pregnancies and deliveries (or ANY pregnancies and deliveries). It is frightening and unconscionable.

HOWEVER-- the GOP zealots don't GAF. It means nothing to them when women and their babies die, as long as they can keep women under their boots.

BadgerMom

(2,928 posts)
17. They made abortion a political issue to accomplish this.
Mon Oct 21, 2024, 01:39 PM
13 hrs ago

It took years to create the illusion for voters that this is a political issue. It is not and never has been. They have created a pool of voters for whom this is the only issue that draws them to the polls and causes them to vote for Republicans. The voters consider this a righteous issue in part because politicians joined with religious fanatics to do so. Yes, they want women under the boot, but they will do anything to get votes-kill women, keep eligible voters from casting their vote, collude with foreign powers. I can’t believe people have blinders on about any of this.

Lars39

(26,211 posts)
12. I haven't heard the outcome of this pregnancy,
Mon Oct 21, 2024, 01:16 PM
14 hrs ago

but we had an extended family member decide to go to Montana 3 weeks before her due date with first baby.
They were going to stay 2 weeks in an RV for husband’s work.
Knocked me speechless.

cab67

(3,197 posts)
40. If I was the husband,
Mon Oct 21, 2024, 03:11 PM
12 hrs ago

I would only do this with an escape plan, up to and including a refundable plane ticket out of Montana.

Lars39

(26,211 posts)
44. Thing is, you get so far along and they advise not to fly.
Mon Oct 21, 2024, 03:55 PM
11 hrs ago

His mother was so concerned that she went with them.

Jilly_in_VA

(10,752 posts)
50. Parts of Montana are okay
Mon Oct 21, 2024, 05:43 PM
9 hrs ago

It depends on where you are. It's IDAHO that's a fucking disaster area and reverting to the 1850s. If theyr'e within an hour of a city of any size in Montana (Helena, Bozeman, Missoula, for example) they'll be fine.

Delphinus

(12,094 posts)
53. What you said,
Mon Oct 21, 2024, 06:09 PM
9 hrs ago

about depending on lay midwives took me immediately to "Educated" by Tara Westover.

What has happened in regard to our bodies is chilling.

patphil

(6,837 posts)
3. Outside of the idiocy of how this situation was handled, I'd like to know who the father is.
Mon Oct 21, 2024, 11:53 AM
15 hrs ago

It's bad enough this 13 year old girl in an obviously dis-functional family was pregnant, but the state of Idaho has created a nightmare scenario that makes it hard for her to get the health care she needs at this point in her pregnancy.
Health care professionals should not have to worry about whether or not they will be arrested if they treat a young girl who is probably going into labor.

IzzaNuDay

(494 posts)
20. the father is also a teen
Mon Oct 21, 2024, 01:54 PM
13 hrs ago

and currently in juvenile detention.

That young woman has been failed by her parents, and now the state. No 13 year old should be pregnant or parenting an infant . She’s lost her teenage years, and vulnerable to poverty unless she decides otherwise.

calimary

(83,812 posts)
24. Oh brother...
Mon Oct 21, 2024, 02:03 PM
13 hrs ago

What YOU said, my friend. NO 13-year-old should be pregnant OR having to parent an infant! NOT A SINGLE ONE.

IbogaProject

(3,446 posts)
34. No Teens at all
Mon Oct 21, 2024, 02:38 PM
12 hrs ago

Societies are better when the average of first birth is over 19 years old. The body is still growing and maturing through the teens.

cab67

(3,197 posts)
41. She's spent her whole life in poverty.
Mon Oct 21, 2024, 03:12 PM
12 hrs ago

Getting out of it's going to be a real challenge unless she gets a massive amount of help.

evolves

(5,581 posts)
45. This is what the GQP want:
Mon Oct 21, 2024, 04:05 PM
11 hrs ago

when girls and women are saddled with children they don’t want and can’t afford, they are kept in poverty and without a voice. They have no way to participate in civic life, allowing the PTB to continue to stay in power.

lindysalsagal

(22,243 posts)
5. Docs should call the legislators to the ER and make them resolve it.
Mon Oct 21, 2024, 12:11 PM
15 hrs ago

Don't let them leave until the child is treated. They want to run people's lives to remain in office, so be it.

Walleye

(34,680 posts)
37. Republicans refuse to believe these kinds of families exist. They prefer their red state colored glasses.
Mon Oct 21, 2024, 03:04 PM
12 hrs ago

Beaverhausen

(24,553 posts)
9. Isn't there some oath that doctors take to "First, do no harm"?
Mon Oct 21, 2024, 01:11 PM
14 hrs ago

If I was a doctor I would treat that poor girl and ask questions later. Jesus Christ!

evolves

(5,581 posts)
13. The problem is,
Mon Oct 21, 2024, 01:18 PM
14 hrs ago

physicians can be charged with a felony if they do so, effectively ending their careers.

The choice then becomes felony vs malpractice. It is unconscionable.

evolves

(5,581 posts)
54. As a physician, I don't want to choose between
Mon Oct 21, 2024, 08:20 PM
7 hrs ago

harming a patient and losing my career. Whether a jury would find in my favor or not, the thought of purposefully harming a patient by withholding care that could send me to prison is unconscionable.

LisaM

(28,395 posts)
16. 36 weeks pregnant, at that.
Mon Oct 21, 2024, 01:33 PM
14 hrs ago

She could have become pregnant at age 12, and the fact that they aren't searching for a potential criminal who could have impregnated a minor is appalling. (Though for all we know, it could have been a 13-year old boy).

jfz9580m

(14,857 posts)
48. Yeah seriously
Mon Oct 21, 2024, 05:19 PM
10 hrs ago

If it’s a 13 yo boy/consensual makes you wonder if Idaho has abstinence only type of sex ed. I have no idea what kind of sex ed they have and how early it starts, but clearly not early enough (if it is not rape by an older adult but consensual sex with another child).

valleyrogue

(843 posts)
55. More to the point, what kind of parents
Mon Oct 21, 2024, 10:56 PM
4 hrs ago

push their kids into dating and relationships when they should be focusing on their studies instead?

Kids don't even KNOW the concept of "consent." They don't have the capability to make rational decisions. Besides coercion, including rape, can happen with teens.

jfz9580m

(14,857 posts)
56. Good point
Mon Oct 21, 2024, 11:47 PM
3 hrs ago

I shouldn’t have used the word “consensual”. At 13, they don’t really know wth they are doing even without force or rape. Which is all the more reason why comprehensive sex ed would help.

iluvtennis

(20,656 posts)
14. This is so sad. If the "powers that be" dictate a 13-year old must have a baby, then they need to pass
Mon Oct 21, 2024, 01:25 PM
14 hrs ago

policies so she can be declared an emancipated minor (=act as an adult) to make her own medical decisions.

Ping Tung

(1,165 posts)
19. The people who claim to be "Family First" have grown savage and grotesque in their
Mon Oct 21, 2024, 01:50 PM
13 hrs ago

determination to control women.

Shoonra

(550 posts)
23. About the baby's father ....
Mon Oct 21, 2024, 02:00 PM
13 hrs ago

from the Washington Post article:

Aleah, who is being identified by only her first name because of her age, had been moved around her whole life. That included spells in foster care and a halfway house, separated from her six siblings. She only briefly lived with her mother several years ago. Her father had long been absent.

As for her baby’s teen dad, he now was in juvenile detention. The pair hadn’t thought about contraception, Aleah conceded, and she never considered an abortion, which would have required a trip to another state anyway.


So, the girl's mother is living in a car (presumably with drug problems), the girl's grandmother (her legal guardian) is in jail (for a drug offense), the girl's father did a vanishing act years ago, the girl's boyfriend (who got her pregnant) is in juvie jail. The girl's great-aunt was taking care of her but lacks the legal authority to permit doctors to treat the girl (and, according to the Post article, the great-aunt has been recently evicted).

All in all, a family portrait worthy of Norman Rockwell.

Blue Full Moon

(748 posts)
26. Just read an article about GOP
Mon Oct 21, 2024, 02:04 PM
13 hrs ago

Lamenting that teen births were down. Abstinence isn't going to work. Teenage hormones raging and no thoughts past now. I lived in republican controlled area. Went to a strict evangelical church and not one of the teens in the Bible study was a virgin.

orleans

(34,739 posts)
27. a picture of a baby's hand holding aleah's finger (at the wapo link)
Mon Oct 21, 2024, 02:08 PM
13 hrs ago

with the caption:


Oaklie holds her mother Aleah's finger shortly after the two came home from the hospital. Because of Idaho's new parental consent law, the teen can make decisions about her newborn's health care but not her own. (Rachel Woolf for The Washington Post)


cab67

(3,197 posts)
30. Very sad situation all around.
Mon Oct 21, 2024, 02:18 PM
13 hrs ago

There's so much wrong with this girl's environment. She doesn't appear to have had a stable home at any point in her life. Those responsible for her are evidently unable to provide anything.

And it doesn't look like CPS, or whatever it's equivalent in Idaho, has done much to help her.

I hope her larger community is able to rally around her. She needs it.

MineralMan

(147,253 posts)
36. We should not be surprised when young teens who
Mon Oct 21, 2024, 03:02 PM
12 hrs ago

don't live in a situation where there is good, close parental supervision get pregnant. What we should do is be appalled that there is no support for youngsters who find themselves in that situation. That is where we are failing that girl. Getting pregnant is easy. Dealing with it is hard.

Plus, even kids with good, close parental supervision get pregnant sometimes. We need to deal with realities and help kids who need help. Wringing our hands over them getting pregnant isn't helping. They need real help with dealing with what is actually happening.

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