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boston bean

(36,861 posts)
Tue Nov 5, 2024, 11:09 PM Nov 2024

A good portion of men in the US hate women. And many women hate women too.

Hatred of woman. The most acceptable form of bigotry and hate that exists. For it matters not their race, religion or creed. Just the fact they are woman is cause enough for their hatred and subjugation.

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A good portion of men in the US hate women. And many women hate women too. (Original Post) boston bean Nov 2024 OP
Yep... LizBeth Nov 2024 #1
This is all about white male entitlement. valleyrogue Nov 2024 #2
He isn't going to get dumped. Ace Rothstein Nov 2024 #10
Don't bet the farm on that. valleyrogue Nov 2024 #15
It's not just white men. It's other men also JI7 Nov 2024 #41
It's mostly white males. valleyrogue Nov 2024 #47
Becsuse they have a higher population JI7 Nov 2024 #49
Yup. They voted for the rapist. Think about that. Joinfortmill Nov 2024 #52
Yes. It amazes me that everyone says, oh, she isn't winning because of racism. And they never mention the LiberalLoner Nov 2024 #3
Me too. I hate this country Freddie Nov 2024 #16
Yes, it will. Best to leave the country if you can. If you can't, isolate and try to survive somehow. LiberalLoner Nov 2024 #18
This country is more kind to women than outside of the U.S. peacebuzzard Nov 2024 #21
For now n/t shanti Nov 2024 #25
In many countries. róisín_dubh Nov 2024 #38
Yup. We saw that in 2008. LisaM Nov 2024 #23
True, a lot of hate to go around. ck4829 Nov 2024 #4
I think that last one is going to put that insane nut in the WH. C Moon Nov 2024 #27
This message was self-deleted by its author jfz9580m Nov 2024 #5
I agree with first part men angry at women Tree Lady Nov 2024 #6
I agree with you get the red out Nov 2024 #7
I've been saying that Dem4life1234 Nov 2024 #8
Biden wouldn't have done any better Polybius Nov 2024 #9
Yes but Harris was a better candidate than Biden. Elessar Zappa Nov 2024 #29
And Gavin is better than both Polybius Nov 2024 #31
Maybe so. Elessar Zappa Nov 2024 #32
True Polybius Nov 2024 #35
And far more charismatic Polybius Nov 2024 #37
Which proves exactly what? dpibel Nov 2024 #33
That it's not because of race or gender Polybius Nov 2024 #36
That's arrant nonsense dpibel Nov 2024 #40
You're right, I can't predict an alternate universe Polybius Nov 2024 #43
Hilarious dpibel Nov 2024 #46
I didn't say I was sure Polybius Nov 2024 #51
Same diversion twice? dpibel Nov 2024 #53
Not a win at all Polybius Nov 2024 #54
Non sequitur, again. dpibel Nov 2024 #55
Never said I was Polybius Nov 2024 #57
Gonna be many decades before a woman runs for president again Freddie Nov 2024 #11
I'm just hoping for a future where my grandaughter can vote at this point. Maru Kitteh Nov 2024 #60
I think there is racism, but I also think you're right. madaboutharry Nov 2024 #12
Yes - a black man man was elected and re- elected. kerry-is-my-prez Nov 2024 #44
This is such an important point. I was aware of the racism Mike 03 Nov 2024 #56
I think there is racism, but I also think you're right. madaboutharry Nov 2024 #13
Then Kamala had two strikes against her in this damned nation. C Moon Nov 2024 #28
This is the reason for what we are seeing. And more than anything, they hate women with power. Scrivener7 Nov 2024 #14
You are going to see a movement to completely roll back women's rights including valleyrogue Nov 2024 #17
I think America will become the worst dystopia ever seen, and most of the LiberalLoner Nov 2024 #19
These dominionists like Miller and that Project 2025 guy valleyrogue Nov 2024 #20
I did. I was ahead of my time. Demobrat Nov 2024 #22
Not trying to blame anyone but oldmanlynn Nov 2024 #24
yup. bluboid Nov 2024 #26
Remember the older GOPers who wore shirts that said "he can grab my ____ anytime." Still haven't Silent Type Nov 2024 #30
Nailed it ! Thanks arthritisR_US Nov 2024 #34
Black women. Klarkashton Nov 2024 #39
Hillary also lost against him, kerry-is-my-prez Nov 2024 #45
One of the most misogynistic "developed" RockCreek Nov 2024 #42
Misogyny runs deep in America dlk Nov 2024 #48
Agree 110% Violet_Crumble Nov 2024 #50
Backed up and reinforced by fundagelical Christianity Warpy Nov 2024 #58
kicking this. Maru Kitteh Nov 2024 #59
I have a white male coworker who is a Dem from a red state milestogo Nov 2024 #61
You are right. A lot of people are indifferent to the suffering of others in general. I don't understand why. LiberalLoner Nov 2024 #62

valleyrogue

(2,568 posts)
2. This is all about white male entitlement.
Tue Nov 5, 2024, 11:10 PM
Nov 2024

They are punishing women for saying "no," if Kamala Harris loses.

This is insanity. I can't believe that this madman would actually get back in the White House. Actually, he won't because if he does pull off a win, he will be promptly dumped in favor of Vance or Mike Johnson.

Ace Rothstein

(3,369 posts)
10. He isn't going to get dumped.
Tue Nov 5, 2024, 11:12 PM
Nov 2024

People here have been claiming the end of Trump for almost a decade and not one prediction has come true outside of the 2020 election loss.

valleyrogue

(2,568 posts)
47. It's mostly white males.
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 02:00 AM
Nov 2024

They are the ones who still have the lion's share of unearned privilege in this country.

LiberalLoner

(11,467 posts)
3. Yes. It amazes me that everyone says, oh, she isn't winning because of racism. And they never mention the
Tue Nov 5, 2024, 11:10 PM
Nov 2024

Hatred of women which is a much stronger hate than racism ever was.

I am finished with this world. I have no hope left. I will keep breathing but I hate this country, this world, so much.

Freddie

(10,052 posts)
16. Me too. I hate this country
Tue Nov 5, 2024, 11:15 PM
Nov 2024

And I’m stuck here. I’m done following politics, why bother. Hate and misogyny will win every time.

LiberalLoner

(11,467 posts)
18. Yes, it will. Best to leave the country if you can. If you can't, isolate and try to survive somehow.
Tue Nov 5, 2024, 11:21 PM
Nov 2024

peacebuzzard

(5,797 posts)
21. This country is more kind to women than outside of the U.S.
Tue Nov 5, 2024, 11:44 PM
Nov 2024

The women hatred is intense in many countries. Its so much that I feel so much safer here in the U.S.

róisín_dubh

(12,230 posts)
38. In many countries.
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 01:36 AM
Nov 2024

I'm one hell of a lot safer in Western Europe.
Because I won't fucking die of sepsis if I have a miscarriage, for starters.
And second, my partner is very unlikely to murder me with a gun.

The US is as violent and misogynistic a country as many others.

LisaM

(29,487 posts)
23. Yup. We saw that in 2008.
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 01:17 AM
Nov 2024

I am still furious with Olbermann and Chris Matthews and the rest of the MSNBC boys' club.

ck4829

(37,421 posts)
4. True, a lot of hate to go around.
Tue Nov 5, 2024, 11:11 PM
Nov 2024

Men hate women. Women hate women.

Rich people hate poor people. Middle class people hate poor people. Poor people hate poor people.

Conservative Christians hate the teachings of Jesus.

Everyone hates immigrants.

Response to boston bean (Original post)

Tree Lady

(13,005 posts)
6. I agree with first part men angry at women
Tue Nov 5, 2024, 11:11 PM
Nov 2024

but women to women I think its more the abortion religion thing and few women I know believe he is better on the economy. That show apprentice really fucked us over, everyone including me in the beginning thought it was true.

get the red out

(13,951 posts)
7. I agree with you
Tue Nov 5, 2024, 11:12 PM
Nov 2024

I have thought this for a very long time. I don’t think you’re right, I know you are.

Elessar Zappa

(16,385 posts)
29. Yes but Harris was a better candidate than Biden.
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 01:27 AM
Nov 2024

She had the rallies, the ground game, the endorsements from military and former Republicans.

dpibel

(3,767 posts)
40. That's arrant nonsense
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 01:38 AM
Nov 2024

You have absolutely no way to know that, nor a rational basis for it.

The fact is, Trump won against a Black woman.

You can hypothesize all you want, but you cannot say with certitude that a white man (not named Joe Biden) would categorically have lost.

Polybius

(21,508 posts)
43. You're right, I can't predict an alternate universe
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 01:42 AM
Nov 2024

But I have no doubt that Biden would have done worse.

dpibel

(3,767 posts)
46. Hilarious
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 01:52 AM
Nov 2024

You do know that all your posts on this thread are visible, right?

As a first matter, this OP, which you are hand-waving, and thus this thread, is not about whether Joe Biden would have done better.

So this response is an utter non sequitur.

As a second matter, you are, in this very thread, claiming that misogyny and racism had nothing to do with the outcome BUT Gavin Newsome would have won for sure.

So you can't predict an alternate universe...except the one where Gavin wins in a walk.

And you don't think it has anything to do with race or gender...but a white guy would have won it.

I'm generally impressed with your work. But on this one, I think you're not doing quite as well as you think you are.

Polybius

(21,508 posts)
51. I didn't say I was sure
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 02:07 AM
Nov 2024

But I think Biden would have done worse. Maybe he would have done better.

dpibel

(3,767 posts)
53. Same diversion twice?
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 02:10 AM
Nov 2024

Why are you talking about Biden?

This thread is not about whether Biden would have done better. You think a different white man would have done better.

Your position supports the OP your are criticizing.

But I will give you this: You've caused me to write more words than you did. And that's a win in your line of work, right?

dpibel

(3,767 posts)
55. Non sequitur, again.
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 02:13 AM
Nov 2024

You really aren't quite as good at this as you seem to believe you are.

Polybius

(21,508 posts)
57. Never said I was
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 02:16 AM
Nov 2024

But my concerns turned out to be a lot more realistic than most here.

Freddie

(10,052 posts)
11. Gonna be many decades before a woman runs for president again
Tue Nov 5, 2024, 11:12 PM
Nov 2024

Why bother. Misogyny is alive, well and thriving.

Maru Kitteh

(31,244 posts)
60. I'm just hoping for a future where my grandaughter can vote at this point.
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 12:16 PM
Nov 2024

If I flee to another country, I'm hoping to create a foothold for her.

madaboutharry

(42,027 posts)
12. I think there is racism, but I also think you're right.
Tue Nov 5, 2024, 11:13 PM
Nov 2024

It is about hating women. It runs deeper than I imagined.

That is hard to accept.

kerry-is-my-prez

(10,207 posts)
44. Yes - a black man man was elected and re- elected.
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 01:44 AM
Nov 2024

But we cannot elect a woman. We had two very competent and intelligent women running against the most pitiful and incompetent candidate we’ve ever had and they couldn’t beat them. And people are voting for a party that is against doing anything for the non-wealthy. Apparently hate is more important for them. Also fear is behind a lot of it.


Mike 03

(18,690 posts)
56. This is such an important point. I was aware of the racism
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 02:14 AM
Nov 2024

but I thought the misogyny was still consigned to the far fringe, the online bro culture, the incels and the male oriented podcasts. But it's way worse than that. A lot of the threats received by politicians and election officials contained so many extraneous sexual threats, and the ones I've seen recently were guys sixty and older who were arrested. It probably cuts across all age groups, but it blew my mind to see people in that age category making these kinds of threats. I'm too shaken to really analyze this now, but it must be faced.

There's something broken on the deepest possible level about a lot of Americans--something that transcends politics and is a product of something in our culture--change that is too rapid, or an unwillingness to evolve. To vote for Trumpism now reflects a kind of selfishness that is almost solipsistic and even nihilistic. I don't know...

madaboutharry

(42,027 posts)
13. I think there is racism, but I also think you're right.
Tue Nov 5, 2024, 11:13 PM
Nov 2024

It is about hating women. It runs deeper than I imagined.

That is hard to accept.

C Moon

(13,461 posts)
28. Then Kamala had two strikes against her in this damned nation.
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 01:27 AM
Nov 2024

And somehow we didn't see it. I guess because the filth know it's immoral, and won't admit it.

Scrivener7

(58,277 posts)
14. This is the reason for what we are seeing. And more than anything, they hate women with power.
Tue Nov 5, 2024, 11:13 PM
Nov 2024

valleyrogue

(2,568 posts)
17. You are going to see a movement to completely roll back women's rights including
Tue Nov 5, 2024, 11:18 PM
Nov 2024

the right to vote. These white dudes are mad they aren't getting laid anymore to the extent to which they are entitled, and it is all the fault of women because they can now live independently of them.

It isn't going to change the trajectory any. The economy can't make it without women's participation. Women will just flat-out refuse to marry and have kids before they have anything to do with these men.



LiberalLoner

(11,467 posts)
19. I think America will become the worst dystopia ever seen, and most of the
Tue Nov 5, 2024, 11:25 PM
Nov 2024

Punishment will be meted out to us women, POC, LGBTQ.

It will be worse than any of us could ever imagine.

valleyrogue

(2,568 posts)
20. These dominionists like Miller and that Project 2025 guy
Tue Nov 5, 2024, 11:43 PM
Nov 2024

as well as Mike Johnson are of the mindset that certain groups and certain behaviors are deserving of the death penalty.

I don't think they are talking out of their backsides, either.

Demobrat

(10,262 posts)
22. I did. I was ahead of my time.
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 01:14 AM
Nov 2024

Nothing is worth being dependent on one of those creeps.
Forty years in corporate jobs was a piece of cake compared to that. I got to leave at night.

 

Silent Type

(12,412 posts)
30. Remember the older GOPers who wore shirts that said "he can grab my ____ anytime." Still haven't
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 01:27 AM
Nov 2024

digested that.

dlk

(13,111 posts)
48. Misogyny runs deep in America
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 02:02 AM
Nov 2024

Where in our culture is respect for women and girls taught?

Violet_Crumble

(36,379 posts)
50. Agree 110%
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 02:07 AM
Nov 2024

I'm distanced geographically from this and know we have our own problems with sexism here, but tonight I'm so worried for my sister's in the US (excluding any female who voted for the rapist who's spewed hatred towards women). I think there will be a national abortion ban and women worldwide will look on in horror the same way they did when it came to women in Ireland a few years ago.

Warpy

(114,381 posts)
58. Backed up and reinforced by fundagelical Christianity
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 02:19 AM
Nov 2024

that's really big on Leviticus and ignores Jesus pretty completely.

I held out no hope at all for the south and I was right. People still sort each other out by which wingnut church they go to. I was right to get out of Dodge in the late 60s and I was right to stay gone. It is soul crushing down there for those of us who don't fit.

milestogo

(22,557 posts)
61. I have a white male coworker who is a Dem from a red state
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 12:23 PM
Nov 2024

He hates Trump. He didn't like Harris (the laugh thing) but I think he voted for her.

So this morning I messaged him a sad face. And his reply was - time to move on, I'm not going to let it get me down.

And I thought, Of course not- nobody is trampling on your rights. This is a clown show for you, but it doesn't affect you personally. So you don't care all that much.

That's not hate, but its indifference. And there are an awful lot of white men who are totally indifferent to the suffering of women in this country.

LiberalLoner

(11,467 posts)
62. You are right. A lot of people are indifferent to the suffering of others in general. I don't understand why.
Thu Nov 7, 2024, 08:40 AM
Nov 2024
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