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If I see another "blame the Dems for losing thread", I may lose my shit. (Original Post) Yavin4 Nov 2024 OP
I know...... Lovie777 Nov 2024 #1
Seconded! BOSSHOG Nov 2024 #2
You may feel like a victim, but Democrats as a whole are not victims iemanja Nov 2024 #3
This EdmondDantes_ Nov 2024 #9
+1 Kaleva Nov 2024 #12
democracy is dead but our party may survive in one form or another. The blame is awarded to a weak yaesu Nov 2024 #4
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Nov 2024 #20
Zen Master says....we'll see. paleotn Nov 2024 #35
Democracy is not dead, it just smells funny JoseBalow Nov 2024 #48
Not the victims Cirsium Nov 2024 #5
They didn't count on the blatant misogyny and racism of many voters mdbl Nov 2024 #28
That is a handy excuse Cirsium Nov 2024 #34
They were aware, they just didn't think it would carry more weight mdbl Nov 2024 #36
They don't care because sexism and racism are WHY they voted for him in the first place. valleyrogue Nov 2024 #43
Of course Cirsium Nov 2024 #54
This is a copout. If they had kept Biden, they would have lost even worse. Self Esteem Nov 2024 #51
Your assumption is noted. mdbl Nov 2024 #58
Biden's own assumptions should be noted. He dropped out because he knew he couldn't win. Self Esteem Nov 2024 #59
I am not going to argue something we'll never know mdbl Nov 2024 #60
I see no chance Biden wins this race. Self Esteem Nov 2024 #61
Exit polls Cirsium Nov 2024 #78
Prevent the outcome we are facing... Felicita Nov 2024 #37
Not sure what you are saying Cirsium Nov 2024 #40
They "lose." Where are the facts that back your theory up? There aren't any. valleyrogue Nov 2024 #44
Right Cirsium Nov 2024 #52
Voters are not customers and elections shouldn't be products carljacobhall Nov 2024 #57
OK Cirsium Nov 2024 #64
Blame the MSM and the idiots who voted for him mcar Nov 2024 #6
I'd recommend an Apple air tag to find it because there's going to be a lot more of those. BannonsLiver Nov 2024 #7
We're not victims. Elessar Zappa Nov 2024 #8
Hate to break it to you. It IS about racism and sexism entirely. It is staring at you right in the face. valleyrogue Nov 2024 #45
Precisely. bronxiteforever Nov 2024 #10
Do you prefer that we congratulate the winner? Kaleva Nov 2024 #11
Democracy isn't dead - but it is imperfect. J_William_Ryan Nov 2024 #13
Is it? Yavin4 Nov 2024 #14
Victim? LOL, no. TwilightZone Nov 2024 #15
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Nov 2024 #24
IT'S ALL DEAD!!! GenThePerservering Nov 2024 #16
If it isn't the Dems fault... SnoopDog Nov 2024 #17
There is long term blame that can be placed on Dems. hadEnuf Nov 2024 #30
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Nov 2024 #31
No, your post is illegible. You must be a younger person. SnoopDog Nov 2024 #49
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Nov 2024 #62
Forgive me for being critical... SnoopDog Nov 2024 #65
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Nov 2024 #66
The voters. n/t valleyrogue Nov 2024 #42
Why did voters 'vote' for trump? SnoopDog Nov 2024 #46
Corporate owned media and the recent report that 54% of the population reads at a sixth grade level Attilatheblond Nov 2024 #47
Then why haven't the Dems fight for education? SnoopDog Nov 2024 #50
The battle for decent education has been raging since the early 70s. Attilatheblond Nov 2024 #63
Ok, so Dems are not to blame... SnoopDog Nov 2024 #67
WHAT, specifically would you have had them do differently? Attilatheblond Nov 2024 #69
Voters. Period. nt valleyrogue Nov 2024 #72
thank you DemonGoddess Nov 2024 #18
You know what? If there's any victims it's the voters. Autumn Nov 2024 #19
No Blame is Necassary beemerphill Nov 2024 #21
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Nov 2024 #25
Well DownriverDem Nov 2024 #26
I think it's was 80% or more of the issue. This misogynistic racist country said clearly they do not want a Fe prez PortTack Nov 2024 #27
If the Republicans weren't sexist, they'd have voted for Haley over the Combover Caligula. valleyrogue Nov 2024 #39
It's on the voters. Period. n/t valleyrogue Nov 2024 #41
Agree DownriverDem Nov 2024 #22
Kick and rec!! 58Sunliner Nov 2024 #23
I hear ya. Blame if any type is a waste of time and energy. Magoo48 Nov 2024 #29
Amen wryter2000 Nov 2024 #32
Thank you relayerbob Nov 2024 #33
It's really kinda dumb. valleyrogue Nov 2024 #38
Amen! LoisB Nov 2024 #53
Agreed oldmanlynn Nov 2024 #55
It's uncomfortable. MontanaFarmer Nov 2024 #56
We aren't "in the wilderness." valleyrogue Nov 2024 #73
You might want to put the quotation ark after "losing" instead of "thread." I had to read it a couple of times. nt LAS14 Nov 2024 #68
Ask the Mayor of Dearborn Michigan what went wrong with this election... AntiFascist Nov 2024 #70
Sorry Yavin4 that this whole thread has turned into blame the Democrats. SO DONE WITH IT!!! Clouds Passing Nov 2024 #71
K&R UTUSN Nov 2024 #74
K&R UTUSN Nov 2024 #74
I have become Macrophylla Nov 2024 #76
A good way to put it. kentuck Nov 2024 #77
I have Rebl2 Nov 2024 #79
K&R Montauk6 May 2025 #80

iemanja

(57,684 posts)
3. You may feel like a victim, but Democrats as a whole are not victims
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 04:01 PM
Nov 2024

We are a lot tougher than that. We are the opposition.

We lost, and if you prefer not to figure out why, or prefer the party not figure out why, then resign yourself to continual losses.

yaesu

(9,175 posts)
4. democracy is dead but our party may survive in one form or another. The blame is awarded to a weak
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 04:08 PM
Nov 2024

society and government letting fascism and capitalism run amuck. Its been a decades long process that concluded last tuesday so its a little late to figure it out.

Response to yaesu (Reply #4)

Cirsium

(3,734 posts)
5. Not the victims
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 04:09 PM
Nov 2024

The politicians are not the victims.

I wish they were as worried about us as you are about them.

They lost, catastrophically, at the worst possible time. They had plenty of money and plenty of knowledge about the Republican playbook. They had all of the highly paid consultants they could ever need. That means they should know the landscape, the challenges. Progressive policies are supported by 60-80% to the population.

Yet they lose.

Job one, the bare minimum requirement, for the Democratic party is to prevent exactly the outcome we are now facing.

mdbl

(8,419 posts)
28. They didn't count on the blatant misogyny and racism of many voters
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 05:49 PM
Nov 2024

That's as difficult to overcome as the magat cult itself.

Cirsium

(3,734 posts)
34. That is a handy excuse
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 06:09 PM
Nov 2024

Even if true, how could any consultant be unaware of racism and misogyny in US society? How could they be unaware of what Trump was doing to a those flames? How could they be unaware of what was happening on social media?

mdbl

(8,419 posts)
36. They were aware, they just didn't think it would carry more weight
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 06:15 PM
Nov 2024

The ads on TV and streaming services were a little too feel good to get their attention. I noticed that weeks ago. The ads also never countered all the misinformation and lies being presented about Harris's positions on issues. Unfortunately, a very old relative of mine succumbed to the bullshit she was watching and voted for Dump, the first time she has ever crossed over.

valleyrogue

(2,649 posts)
43. They don't care because sexism and racism are WHY they voted for him in the first place.
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 06:25 PM
Nov 2024

Good grief. Trump's entire act is about appealing to people's bigotry since he first ran a decade ago.

Cirsium

(3,734 posts)
54. Of course
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 06:50 PM
Nov 2024

Trump is a misogynist and a racist and he appealed to racists and misogynists. The entire society is steeped in racism and misogyny, and that influences everything. No question.

But that has always been true, and it does not explain the disastrous performance by the party this cycle.

 

Self Esteem

(2,248 posts)
51. This is a copout. If they had kept Biden, they would have lost even worse.
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 06:41 PM
Nov 2024

And last I checked, Biden is neither a woman or a minority.

 

Self Esteem

(2,248 posts)
59. Biden's own assumptions should be noted. He dropped out because he knew he couldn't win.
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 07:17 PM
Nov 2024

mdbl

(8,419 posts)
60. I am not going to argue something we'll never know
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 07:19 PM
Nov 2024

however, had Biden taken my advice and not done that stupid debate, I could see it going differently.

 

Self Esteem

(2,248 posts)
61. I see no chance Biden wins this race.
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 07:21 PM
Nov 2024

His own team had him down in New York. It was not looking at all good.

Cirsium

(3,734 posts)
78. Exit polls
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 05:54 PM
Nov 2024

Exit polls don't show that.

Obama lost white men by 27%; Clinton by 31%; Biden by 23%; Harris by 23%
Obama lost white women by 14%; Clinton by 9%; Biden by 11%; Harris by 8%
Obama won Black men by 76%; Clinton by 69%; Biden by 60%: Farris by 56%
Obama won Black women by 93%; Clinton by 90%; Biden by 81%; Harris by 84%

https://www.dailykos.com/stories/2024/11/9/2284288/-A-First-Look-at-Exit-Polling-Data-Race-Gender-Age-and-Party-Preference

Felicita

(75 posts)
37. Prevent the outcome we are facing...
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 06:18 PM
Nov 2024

by playing the rw game of misinformation, propaganda, cheating whenever possible, voter suppression, threatening with violence, etc., etc., etc? The Dems are not like that. It is hard to beat the evil forces that control so much of the money and power in this country by playing fair. If you think the Dems could have done it better, I would love to hear your solution, keeping in mind the industrial scale of misinformation peddled by Faux News and other rw media outlets, as well as right out of the monster's mouth.

Cirsium

(3,734 posts)
40. Not sure what you are saying
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 06:22 PM
Nov 2024

What you are responding to is nothing like what I actually wrote. I did not suggest "playing the rw game of misinformation, propaganda, cheating whenever possible, voter suppression, threatening with violence."

Welcome to DU.

valleyrogue

(2,649 posts)
44. They "lose." Where are the facts that back your theory up? There aren't any.
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 06:27 PM
Nov 2024

Look at how the presidency and Congress have changed hands. It has been repeatedly over decades except when the Democrats held both houses of Congress for decades, especially the House.

I am sick of this nonsense of blaming Democrats for VOTERS' votes because it isn't true.

Cirsium

(3,734 posts)
52. Right
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 06:44 PM
Nov 2024

So should businesses blame customers when people don't buy their wares?

I am not "blaming Democrats," I am blaming leadership. They are supposed to represent you, yet here you are representing them and going after your fellow rank and file Democrats who are critical of the leadership. That is a big part of the problem.

I am not blaming voters, I am blaming the media, I am blaming the 1%.

Progressive politics 101: Punch up, not down. Blame the people with the money and the power, not those without.

 

carljacobhall

(6 posts)
57. Voters are not customers and elections shouldn't be products
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 07:13 PM
Nov 2024

Voters have a responsibility to do more than base their votes on social media posts. For instance if they checked the CPI they would know that the it has increased by about 3.2% for the last 12 months. Very easy to find with a simple internet search. I wonder if that fact would work in a commercial that even granny would understand. Perhaps I'm being a little optimistic. How about explaining causes of inflation in short ads? That's a little farfetched but maybe television ads with actual information would be worth a shot.

BannonsLiver

(20,362 posts)
7. I'd recommend an Apple air tag to find it because there's going to be a lot more of those.
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 04:10 PM
Nov 2024

Elessar Zappa

(16,385 posts)
8. We're not victims.
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 04:11 PM
Nov 2024

We lost an election for a myriad of reasons. It’s not so cut and dry as “Americans are racist, sexist, idiots”, although some of them certainly are. If we’re ever going to win again we can’t just continue on the same path. And no, I’m not suggesting we throw vulnerable groups under the bus.

valleyrogue

(2,649 posts)
45. Hate to break it to you. It IS about racism and sexism entirely. It is staring at you right in the face.
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 06:29 PM
Nov 2024

You also need to understand we won the White House in 2020, 2012, 2008, 1996, and 1992. It isn't like we haven't won the presidency for a century.

I am so tired of this silliness of blaming the Democrats for voter stupidity.

What people need to do is shut off the pundit shows and news networks. These "experts" don't know much of anything.

J_William_Ryan

(3,436 posts)
13. Democracy isn't dead - but it is imperfect.
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 04:25 PM
Nov 2024

And democracy’s imperfections were on full display last Tuesday.

However imperfect, democracy is the only way to combat the fascist right.

Buyers’ remorse is already begun; by 2026 the voters will have tired of Trump’s corruption, chaos, incompetence, and criminality returning control of one or both Houses of Congress to Democrats – and the election of a Democratic president in 2028.

TwilightZone

(28,836 posts)
15. Victim? LOL, no.
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 04:42 PM
Nov 2024

What exactly are we a victim of?

What we did clearly didn't work. We can blame everyone and everything but ourselves, but we'd just be lying to ourselves.

There are myriad reasons why we lost this election. Some of them are likely to be mistakes or miscalculations we made. No campaign is perfect and it'll take a while to deconstruct this result.

Until we can acknowledge some responsibility and stop blaming the election exclusively on others, we'll just keep losing. We're clearly still in denial.

Response to TwilightZone (Reply #15)

GenThePerservering

(3,183 posts)
16. IT'S ALL DEAD!!!
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 04:46 PM
Nov 2024

And it's the economy/racism/inflation/misogyny/garbage press/oldster TV, stupid.

hadEnuf

(3,575 posts)
30. There is long term blame that can be placed on Dems.
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 06:01 PM
Nov 2024

Kamala and Biden ran good campaigns, but the people were conned again. Mostly by themselves.

Things could have been done years ago to try and correct the RW media or at least give it some competition, and more aggressive prosecutions of traitorous individuals should have happened too.




Response to SnoopDog (Reply #17)

SnoopDog

(2,695 posts)
49. No, your post is illegible. You must be a younger person.
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 06:33 PM
Nov 2024

But if I am to interpret your post, any issue with not informing the voters or any cheating by the repubs must be fought by the Dem Party. They have the money, the people, the brains to fight this corruption…

Response to SnoopDog (Reply #49)

SnoopDog

(2,695 posts)
65. Forgive me for being critical...
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 07:46 PM
Nov 2024

I want everyone's post to be readable. I want to read and know your message.
It is helpful to use: proper punctuation, paragraphs, spelling ( I happen to be a terrible in spelling - thank goodness for spell check).

Thanks for not yelling at me!

Response to SnoopDog (Reply #65)

SnoopDog

(2,695 posts)
46. Why did voters 'vote' for trump?
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 06:29 PM
Nov 2024

It’s up to the Democratic Party to inform the electorate in every way possible. One way or another…

Attilatheblond

(8,586 posts)
47. Corporate owned media and the recent report that 54% of the population reads at a sixth grade level
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 06:30 PM
Nov 2024

So, figure most Americans don't read anything but maybe the social media that reinforces their ignorant, bigoted personal feelings. And there ya are. Harris ran a flawless campaign, but when the majority insists on remaining ignorant because it makes them feel better... no hope.

SnoopDog

(2,695 posts)
50. Then why haven't the Dems fight for education?
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 06:37 PM
Nov 2024

Where is the Dem media countering the republican media?

Attilatheblond

(8,586 posts)
63. The battle for decent education has been raging since the early 70s.
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 07:43 PM
Nov 2024

I have been there. Where were you?

GOP pols pandered to the idiots who just didn't want to pay taxes. In the 70s, they watched local school boards and cultivated the board members with skills at propaganda. That was the real start of the problem. Reagan took that football and ran with it. Been the biggest tool in the GOP toolbox ever since.

Counter media? Takes money. Internet has made it a bit less expensive, but the battle lines had already been drawn up.

Stop blaming DEMs for the reality that too many people are too lazy, self-centered and STUPID to see thru/past the barrage of propaganda and 'tax cuts!' mantras TPTB have cultivated for decades to keep stupid people feeling ok about stupidity, racism.
It's not like history isn't full of cycles where the fools let the vile govern.

SnoopDog

(2,695 posts)
67. Ok, so Dems are not to blame...
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 07:54 PM
Nov 2024

Where was Dem Leadership over the decades pushing better education? Getting on school boards? All I hear is repubs saying how awful our education and making sure it is.

No, it is the Dem Leadership, or lack thereof, that should have made education a priority - but they didn't.

What's upsetting is how Dems can blame everything and everyone else except for ourselves.

Attilatheblond

(8,586 posts)
69. WHAT, specifically would you have had them do differently?
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 09:40 PM
Nov 2024

What's upsetting is so many voters are fucking stupid, ill-informed, racists idiots who can't read beyond a 6th grade level and can't think outside of their bible.

Autumn

(48,888 posts)
19. You know what? If there's any victims it's the voters.
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 05:00 PM
Nov 2024

You know whos screwed? We are. Every elected politician, both parties, will be just fucking fine. We have the right to discuss and figure out what went wrong.

Feel free to lose your shit. It's a free country. For now.

beemerphill

(599 posts)
21. No Blame is Necassary
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 05:35 PM
Nov 2024

This was an election held in a democratic country. There is NO need to Blame anyone for anything. The vote count speaks for itself. If you don't like it, live with it. It happened, and it's over. Most of us are not thrilled with the results, but that is part of living in a free country. You will not like how every election turns out.

Response to beemerphill (Reply #21)

PortTack

(35,816 posts)
27. I think it's was 80% or more of the issue. This misogynistic racist country said clearly they do not want a Fe prez
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 05:45 PM
Nov 2024

Sickening!!

valleyrogue

(2,649 posts)
39. If the Republicans weren't sexist, they'd have voted for Haley over the Combover Caligula.
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 06:22 PM
Nov 2024

The reason is obvious and it isn't because she is a person of color.

DownriverDem

(7,000 posts)
22. Agree
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 05:35 PM
Nov 2024

The right wing control the print media, TV, podcasts and talk radio. Their messages are put out there 24/7. Rich liberals need to do some soul searching. We need them to step up. We need their help. When we had Air America we had balance.

Magoo48

(6,713 posts)
29. I hear ya. Blame if any type is a waste of time and energy.
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 05:52 PM
Nov 2024

Instead, how about your ideas on how we resist Agent Orange and his projectopolypse 25.

relayerbob

(7,405 posts)
33. Thank you
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 06:07 PM
Nov 2024

Everyone has their own pet theory, but reality is … Trump voters are idiots. Period. One of the top google searches has been, “how do I change my vote”. Morons, through and through

valleyrogue

(2,649 posts)
38. It's really kinda dumb.
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 06:21 PM
Nov 2024

In about my almost 70 years of existence, the Republicans have had about 5/6 more years of the presidency than Democrats. It has always been back and forth.

To hear all the wailing, you'd think we haven't won a presidential election in 100 years.

In the end, blame goes clearly to the voters who voted for Trump, and no, they were not the "majority of Americans" or the "majority of people of voting age."

oldmanlynn

(806 posts)
55. Agreed
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 06:52 PM
Nov 2024

All we tried to do is save democracy and save woman rights amongst other things and we somehow are to blame.

Yes we dems didnt save democracy in this election but that not because we didnt try.

MontanaFarmer

(761 posts)
56. It's uncomfortable.
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 07:07 PM
Nov 2024

But if we don't figure out that single issues and identity politics don't change partisan votes on election day we can stay in the wilderness.

valleyrogue

(2,649 posts)
73. We aren't "in the wilderness."
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 12:38 PM
Nov 2024

To hear that says that Democrats never win elections. That is simply ridiculous.

This has nothing to do with "identity politics" except for the aggrieved white males who have lost their shit that they are actually losing an itty bitty bit of their unearned privilege.

We don't need their votes--ever. They can't be helped.

LAS14

(15,477 posts)
68. You might want to put the quotation ark after "losing" instead of "thread." I had to read it a couple of times. nt
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 07:56 PM
Nov 2024

AntiFascist

(13,747 posts)
70. Ask the Mayor of Dearborn Michigan what went wrong with this election...
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 09:50 PM
Nov 2024

I'm sure he would give you an earful.

kentuck

(115,330 posts)
77. A good way to put it.
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 01:54 PM
Nov 2024

We tried to prevent it from happen. The people that voted for Trump are the ones to blame.

Rebl2

(17,586 posts)
79. I have
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 05:57 PM
Nov 2024

almost gotten to the point that I don’t read much here anymore for this very reason. I stick to looking at posts of photographs, pets, sports, art, and cooking.

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