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I wish the article would tell us if there was any push back from the audience!!!
Mom Says The R-Word Is OK Because It's In The Dictionary
Wait until she hears what else is in the dictionary!
https://crooksandliars.com/2024/11/mom-says-r-word-ok-because-its-dictionary
By Chris capper Liebenthal November 18, 2024
A mom in Forest Lake, Minnesota, addresses the local school board with a grave concern - protecting her right to use the R-word:
I am totally supportive in creating a great place for everybody, but I just think we have to be cautious that it's not going to violate religious freedoms and freedom of speech. An example of a violation of freedom of speech, I recently learned from one of my kids in high school that a word that I regularly use that I think is a regular word is apparently on the don't use list. So, I learned that from my high school children, which is the word retard. Retard means slow. It's in the dictionary. It literally, you know, retardant slows down fires. And I did not and I did not realize, no, you cannot control my speech, Mr. Rafael. So, you cannot. I can use the word retard. OK, so this is one of those violations of freedom of speech that really concerned me. So, I really think there needs to be a lot more caution placed on specific parameters so that you respect those other constitutional rights.
That woman - who might be a mother but definitely ain't no mom - feels it's her constitutional right to use a slur on a regular basis. In reality, it's not a right. She has no more right to use the R-word to insult someone than she has the right to refer to someone using the N-word. Even if it is in the dictionary.
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Gotta believe that someday at least some of them will look back and say, "What the hell was I thinking?" Ahhhhhh, video lives FOREVER!
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Fish700
(95 posts)Haven't the slightest idea what the word is.
DeepWinter
(465 posts)"Retard"
Jit423
(276 posts)Is Libtard in the dictionary?
Eugene
(62,646 posts)That doesn't make it appropriate, especially in an educational setting.
LeftinOH
(5,413 posts)insults during my entire public school years; everyone knows this -- you couldn't even get through a single day without hearing both words, many times over. Maybe that's still the case. The fact that both words are in the dictionary is an absurd defense. WTF?
Xavier Breath
(5,004 posts)Hearing those terms being bandied about was just as normal as hearing the morning announcements.
In Trump's America, she's done nothing wrong. In fact, she'll be heralded as a hero and be celebrated on every Fox show.
Passages
(1,030 posts)Prairie Gates
(3,038 posts)So she goes in front of the whole community and shows her ass. Like, honestly, do you want to have this person over to your house for a PTA planning session after this?
By the way, these are the people we're supposed to "communicate with" and "find common ground with." They think that freedom of speech means having the right to be a vicious bully without cnsequences. What are the situations in which this woman wants to call somebody a "retard?" That's really the question I'd like answered.
It's pretty clear what happened: one of her kids told her that it was wrong and mean-spitrited to use the word, and she got her back up, dug in, and doubled down. What an embarrassing person and parent.
yardwork
(64,318 posts)Her first sentence is a perfect example of Republican double-speak, in the pattern of:
"I agree with being nice to people BUT..."
I am totally supportive in creating a great place for everybody, but I just think we have to be cautious that it's not going to violate religious freedoms and freedom of speech.
yardwork
(64,318 posts)Why anyone would want to do this is beyond me.
Irish_Dem
(57,338 posts)The public starts to use the dx as pejorative and insult.
So then we have to change the diagnostic manuals to something neutral,
the public then uses that in a nasty way, then we have to change that too.
prodigitalson
(2,884 posts)euphemism treadmill
(lexicography) The process by which euphemisms fall into disuse and are replaced by new ones, as the old ones become socially unacceptable over time
Irish_Dem
(57,338 posts)I worked over 40 years in the mental health field, and terms that were perfectly acceptable
when I was a young professional had to be changed.
Mental retardation was an acceptable term but then had to be changed.
My mother was in health care too, and dx like "imbecile" was acceptable but then had to be changed.
EYESORE 9001
(27,514 posts)Along with cretin, which was nearly the bottom rung on their hierarchy of mental development.
Irish_Dem
(57,338 posts)These terms were acceptable and standard usage at the time. But of course people grabbed onto to the nomenclature
as pejoratives, so then the ratings went to low average, borderline, very low, etc.
Mariana
(15,094 posts)Nowadays it's usually called Congenital Iodine Deficiency Syndrome.
prodigitalson
(2,884 posts)disabilities, as both a classroom teacher and when I was younger for what was then The Department of Mental Health and Mental Retardation. Way before that (I worked there in the 80s and 90s), Idiot (IQ below 25), Imbecile (IQ 26-50) and Moron (51-70) were actual medical terms according to Chat GPT. In the 80s we referred to people roughly in those three categories as severely, moderatley and mildly retarded. I have no doubt that within my children's lifetimes they will cringe when they see old videos of me casually tossing around cruel insults like "intellectual disability" or "developmental delay."
allegorical oracle
(3,053 posts)10 inches thick, sitting on its own podium. Stumbled across the word "fuck" and it's meaning. (Interestingly, it said it's a slang acronym believed to be "for unlawful carnal knowledge." -- a synonym for another R word, "rape".)
Maeve
(42,959 posts)Acronyms are mostly 20th century and that term goes back at least to the 15th, probably the 13th. Germanic in origin.
https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/what-the-fuck/
LiberalArkie
(16,497 posts)I have often said that if someone was to holler "HEY RETARD" in a stadium, I would stand up and holler "OVER HERE". As an Aspis I have been called that so many times that I just got used to it and more or less accept it and called it my own.
Swede
(34,591 posts)If it offends other people, don't use it. Especially when it is punching down.
Emile
(29,784 posts)I read down the article.
Ocelot II
(120,813 posts)to tell her she's stupid and cruel, and that although she can constitutionally insult and degrade other people as much as she wants, she's just showing us what kind of a person she really is.
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Norbert
(6,526 posts)so I guess we can use it freely.
DBoon
(23,052 posts)and the definition includes a picture of this woman
MagickMuffin
(17,133 posts)And I said why I aint gonna stop. Im a christian and I can say anything I want. It allows me to be hateful, cruel, mean spirited, spiteful and a horrible human being. But Jesus gets us. Dont ya know. So, Im gonna keep using the word because god invented the word and the word is the word of god.
Christianity has become extremely cruel from when I attended back in the 70s. There was the fire, hell and brimstone preachers most certainly here in Texas. But it was nothing like this. Makes me consider joining to infiltrate their system, but dont want to waste my time. Although, it would be fun to play with them by filling out their visitor cards with false data. Make them waste their time trying to find you to convert you.
electric_blue68
(17,977 posts)LakeArenal
(29,797 posts)intheflow
(28,925 posts)Obviously, this woman has no need for that.
yellowcanine
(36,336 posts)Blue Full Moon
(1,153 posts)BannonsLiver
(17,967 posts)ZonkerHarris
(25,268 posts)Crunchy Frog
(26,974 posts)drmeow
(5,279 posts)should start calling her that word - all the time. I'm guessing she wouldn't like that much.