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Lunabell

(7,064 posts)
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 04:15 PM Nov 29

I heard something disturbing and sad standing in line at the grocery store.

The clerk was talking to a customer about her 1st and 2nd husbands. The first was Mexican and the 2nd was Honduran. A young black man behind me turned to his black female companion and said, "Yeah, and trump's gonna send their asses back, that's why we voted for him!" They both just giggled.

I was so sad and hurt for them. Their hatred for Latinos was paramount to the racism of the orange blobfather. I guess hate sells. Sad, but true.

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I heard something disturbing and sad standing in line at the grocery store. (Original Post) Lunabell Nov 29 OP
I am also saddened but shocked at the number of young men of all races broke for Trump. flying_wahini Nov 29 #1
they couldn't pass up the chance to vote against minority groups (immigrants and trans people) BlueWaveNeverEnd Nov 29 #9
Hillary Clinton RobinA Nov 29 #41
53% of white women voted for Trump in 2024 Number9Dream Nov 30 #48
I don't agree with the sentiment but the reality is that... brush Dec 1 #55
It's sad but I don't think you get it malaise Nov 29 #2
Good point... Think. Again. Nov 29 #3
Most of the Latino immigrants who get permanent visas malaise Nov 29 #5
W. developed a program of going to Latin American countries and touting the Republican party's summer_in_TX Nov 29 #18
Yes, I'm sure the strong "christian" connection to American rightwingers doesn't help. Think. Again. Nov 29 #22
Extremely reich-wing evangelicals markodochartaigh Nov 29 #30
I see that now, religion being used as a weapon yet again. Think. Again. Nov 29 #33
The strong influence of the Catholic Church moniss Nov 30 #45
Protestant churches, especially Protestant evangelical churches have edged out Catholicism summer_in_TX Nov 30 #47
Thank you for that information and a question moniss Nov 30 #49
Interesting numbers. summer_in_TX Dec 1 #50
I think the Pew numbers note the trendline moniss Dec 1 #51
That's just not true erodriguez Nov 29 #31
Thanks for that. I had no idea, but probably should have known, or at least guessed, HUAJIAO Nov 30 #44
Latino men voted anti immigrant too... against the latest wave of immigrants who they resent. BlueWaveNeverEnd Nov 29 #8
No, I get it. Lunabell Nov 29 #4
A Chinese restaurant owner tried that shit with my brother malaise Nov 29 #7
Ooooo, heh! electric_blue68 Nov 29 #29
This message was self-deleted by its author BannonsLiver Nov 29 #16
But there are Democrats that are tough on immigration like that NYC Mayor, Fetterman, and others JI7 Dec 1 #52
Divide and Conquer. usonian Nov 29 #6
One of our greatest weaknesses, and this breaks my heart, is not recognizing that Scrivener7 Nov 29 #10
And homo/transphobic folks too. Lunabell Nov 29 #12
Most definitely. Scrivener7 Nov 29 #14
Thing about Graham is not his sexuality (whatever), but his hypocrisy on many topics indicates likely hypocrisy on that Bernardo de La Paz Nov 29 #17
Misgendering someone who probably has internalized homophobia is trans/homophobic. Lunabell Nov 29 #21
Wait, Doesn't graham identify as male? Think. Again. Nov 29 #24
Yes. Lunabell Nov 29 #25
Oh, yes, that is rude. Think. Again. Nov 29 #26
I don' think misgendering and homo/transphobic as much as using Republican talking points. LiberalArkie Nov 29 #34
Exactly, and once we recognize this it's not difficult to understand why people voted for something as vile as Trump JI7 Dec 1 #54
The GOP plan is to bring back the atrocious bracero program Tweedy Nov 29 #11
Plain old fashioned mafia shakedown Clouds Passing Nov 29 #27
Right out of the magnificent seven Tweedy Dec 1 #58
A great example of how anyone can be racist BannonsLiver Nov 29 #13
So many fascist victims never believe they are already in a line, even as many others know. . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Nov 29 #15
I'm holding space for this incident Sympthsical Nov 29 #19
that's the unifying factor of trumpets: ignorance, greed, hatred and resentment. ecstatic Nov 29 #20
Damn 3auld6phart Nov 29 #23
Sadly, racism in not confined to any one group relayerbob Nov 29 #28
It is not hate, it's that they voted for a guy who will kick them out... NotHardly Nov 29 #32
Are they nuts? DownriverDem Nov 29 #35
What's SAD about it is that B.See Nov 29 #36
chris rock is right keroro gunsou Dec 1 #56
Exactly. And with the coming of Trump B.See Dec 1 #57
Evolve DAMMITT! Evolve Dammit Nov 29 #37
Trumps plan is to divide and conquer. LilElf70 Nov 29 #38
For what it's worth Red Mountain Nov 29 #39
The BeerBarrelPolka Nov 29 #40
It started with the Jews but I was not a Jew poem kimbutgar Nov 29 #42
MAHA: Make America Hata Again. patphil Nov 29 #43
I'm afraid the young black couple will be in for an ugly surprise after Trump is in office dlk Nov 30 #46
Most people that voted for Trump did so becsuse they are hoping he hurts certain other people JI7 Dec 1 #53

flying_wahini

(8,043 posts)
1. I am also saddened but shocked at the number of young men of all races broke for Trump.
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 04:17 PM
Nov 29

It makes me very frightened for women and our country

BlueWaveNeverEnd

(10,478 posts)
9. they couldn't pass up the chance to vote against minority groups (immigrants and trans people)
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 04:58 PM
Nov 29

women were just collateral damage

brush

(58,022 posts)
55. I don't agree with the sentiment but the reality is that...
Sun Dec 1, 2024, 03:51 AM
Dec 1

there is quite a bit of racism towards Black Americans among some Latino Americans who adapt the racism of some whites who they identify with.

malaise

(278,775 posts)
2. It's sad but I don't think you get it
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 04:24 PM
Nov 29

Non- African roots Tom, Dick Harry, his brother, cousins and friends arrive in the USA and treat the descendants of enslaved People who were dragged there centuries ago by white people like shit.
They are treated like criminals and outsiders in their own country by recent arrivals.
Walk a mile in their shoes.

summer_in_TX

(3,294 posts)
18. W. developed a program of going to Latin American countries and touting the Republican party's
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 05:17 PM
Nov 29

values as being aligned with those of Latinos. Family values, don't you know. He took his relationship with them as a Texan with him to the eight years in the White House. Texas governors appoint Mexican-Americans to hold office at a high rate. W did and so does Abbott.

Dems have made a lot of assumptions about how Latinos' votes will align with our party, but they don't continue the relationship and seem to start over every four years.

We should be finding ways to communicate about our shared values, maintaining active and respectful relationships, invest in the communities and include paying Hispanic-owned media and other companies as a regular part of outreach. Make it harder to spread disinformation about who we are because they know good people who respect them who are Dems and support their work.

markodochartaigh

(2,221 posts)
30. Extremely reich-wing evangelicals
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 06:31 PM
Nov 29

have spread from Mexico to Chile over the past few decades. Their "gospels" of prosperity and hate sell very well to people who have been marginalized in their own countries by their wealthy elite. And in many US cities half of the strip malls have churches dedicated to specific local immigrant communities with this same message.

moniss

(6,150 posts)
45. The strong influence of the Catholic Church
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 02:08 PM
Nov 30

in the Latino community is not kept in mind when some candidates are wondering about not getting the Latino vote. I guarantee that the MAGA nuts with their strict "no abortions ever for any reason" garbage plays well in communities strongly influenced by the Catholics.

summer_in_TX

(3,294 posts)
47. Protestant churches, especially Protestant evangelical churches have edged out Catholicism
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 03:21 PM
Nov 30

in many Latin American countries.

moniss

(6,150 posts)
49. Thank you for that information and a question
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 11:27 PM
Nov 30

it raises for me is where the numbers stand among US adult Hispanics. I found this from Pew Research, no pun intended, showing figures from 2022. The article is from 4/13/23. It would appear the US mix is around 43% Catholic, 27% other and 30% unaffiliated. The unaffiliated numbers sort of surprise me that they are about the same as the US generally because I would have thought the family influence was stronger than in the Anglo community. Given that these are overall numbers it would be interesting to see if they hold for the subgroup that are voters.

"Catholics remain the largest religious group among Latinos in the United States, even as their share among Latino adults has steadily declined over the past decade, according to a new analysis of Pew Research Center surveys. By contrast, the share of Latinos who identify as Protestants – including evangelical Protestants – has been relatively stable, while the percentage who are religiously unaffiliated has grown substantially over the same period.

As of 2022, 43% of Hispanic adults identify as Catholic, down from 67% in 2010. Even so, Latinos remain about twice as likely as U.S. adults overall to identify as Catholic, and considerably less likely to be Protestant. Meanwhile, the share of Latinos who are religiously unaffiliated (describing themselves as atheist, agnostic or “nothing in particular”) now stands at 30%, up from 10% in 2010 and from 18% a decade ago in 2013. The share of Latinos who are religiously unaffiliated is on par with U.S. adults overall."

https://www.pewresearch.org/religion/2023/04/13/among-u-s-latinos-catholicism-continues-to-decline-but-is-still-the-largest-faith/

summer_in_TX

(3,294 posts)
50. Interesting numbers.
Sun Dec 1, 2024, 12:15 AM
Dec 1

I actually thought the percentage of evangelicals was closer to that of Catholics than Pew shows.

moniss

(6,150 posts)
51. I think the Pew numbers note the trendline
Sun Dec 1, 2024, 12:43 AM
Dec 1

is heading in that direction because if the Protestant figure holds stable, as Pew indicates it's been doing, at around 27% and the numbers for Catholics continue to decline from 43% we may well see them coming closer as the unaffiliated numbers inch up.

Lunabell

(7,064 posts)
4. No, I get it.
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 04:32 PM
Nov 29

I do. It's just sad. There's a lot of hate between/among all people. I was eating at a Chinese restaurant with some black friends. There was a problem with the order and the Chinese owner came out and started berating my friends and used the "You people" phrase. We all got up and walked out before eating. We did not pay and there was nothing they could do about it.

As much as I try, as a white southern woman I could never really walk in their shoes. But, I can do what I can to see truth.

malaise

(278,775 posts)
7. A Chinese restaurant owner tried that shit with my brother
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 04:48 PM
Nov 29

and his diverse UT friends in Toronto. The racist asshole didn’t know three of them spoke Mandarin.

Reports were hilarious and they sure dined for free that night.

Response to malaise (Reply #2)

JI7

(90,880 posts)
52. But there are Democrats that are tough on immigration like that NYC Mayor, Fetterman, and others
Sun Dec 1, 2024, 12:46 AM
Dec 1

they are still voting for Trump here and I don't think it's just becsuse of what you describe.

I think most Trump voters are bigoted no matter what race they are.

Scrivener7

(53,188 posts)
10. One of our greatest weaknesses, and this breaks my heart, is not recognizing that
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 04:58 PM
Nov 29

there are racists and sexists among Democrats and those who are often Democratic allies.

This weakness has cost us two elections now.

Lunabell

(7,064 posts)
12. And homo/transphobic folks too.
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 05:07 PM
Nov 29

EarlG had to make it clear that shit won't fly on DU. Sadly, People don't get it and continue to misgender Lindsey Graham.

Bernardo de La Paz

(51,252 posts)
17. Thing about Graham is not his sexuality (whatever), but his hypocrisy on many topics indicates likely hypocrisy on that
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 05:17 PM
Nov 29

Graham has flipped positions so many times, most notably from being against tRump numerous times but supporting him many other times.

So when he stakes out policy that is injurious to LGBT+, there is a high likelihood he is being hypocritical on that issue for personal gain in a red state, given his demeanour and other indicators.

It's not about attacking an LGBT+, if that's what he is, and it is not about using LGBT+ as a pejorative, as a negative.

It's about the strongly indicated hypocrisy. Regardless, if that aspect is not made clear then misgendering by itself is a mistake or worse.

Lunabell

(7,064 posts)
21. Misgendering someone who probably has internalized homophobia is trans/homophobic.
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 05:40 PM
Nov 29

And made clear by the admins that it is NOT tolerated. Even if the post does not get removed, the admins will remove it. N/T

Lunabell

(7,064 posts)
25. Yes.
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 05:57 PM
Nov 29

And calling him "Miss Lindsey" to insult him is misgendering and homo/transphobic. But, some people on here still go there.

Think. Again.

(19,041 posts)
26. Oh, yes, that is rude.
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 06:02 PM
Nov 29

Gender identity and sexual orientation are two different things.

So many people are stuck in the binary mindset and don't comprehend how diverse humanity actually is.

LiberalArkie

(16,655 posts)
34. I don' think misgendering and homo/transphobic as much as using Republican talking points.
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 06:36 PM
Nov 29

I do not understand how he tolerates his own people.

JI7

(90,880 posts)
54. Exactly, and once we recognize this it's not difficult to understand why people voted for something as vile as Trump
Sun Dec 1, 2024, 01:04 AM
Dec 1

We lose white voters overall but the fact is if we look to educated whites and certain religious minorities than we have a better chance of gaining among educated whites than certain religious minorities.

In close elections these things can make a difference.

And there are some issues we need to be more tough on and show it publicly such as being tough on crime and immigration/ border . This will also make it easier even we want to legalize certain people like children that were brought here as undocumented immigrants .

Tweedy

(1,220 posts)
11. The GOP plan is to bring back the atrocious bracero program
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 04:58 PM
Nov 29

while shaking down businesses and farmers for “donations”*.

The GOP initiated shakedowns last time we listened to shrill, hateful noise about tariffs and deportations. Basically some businesses got “exemptions” from tariffs while their competitors got raided by the INS. Why did some get exemptions? Follow the money incoming to various GOP fronts.

We have been told by the GOP repeatedly that everybody has to pay them to play and failure to do so will result in state sanctioned punishment. Listen. Some GOP frontman says this just about everyday.

We watched this extortionist grift play out in Florida with Disney within everybody’s short term memory.

No doubt this is a grift that will cause real pain and suffering. That too is welcomed by today’s GOP. Nonetheless, the primary purpose is grift.

*wing nut welfare is a gop institution that runs throughout our supposedly charitable sectors. Wingnut “charities” help billionaires, buy adherents cheaply and work to destroy just about everything that makes America great.

Why? The easier to rob our country many people do say.

Bernardo de La Paz

(51,252 posts)
15. So many fascist victims never believe they are already in a line, even as many others know. . . . nt
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 05:11 PM
Nov 29

ecstatic

(34,515 posts)
20. that's the unifying factor of trumpets: ignorance, greed, hatred and resentment.
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 05:24 PM
Nov 29

It's disgusting but this is America for now.

NotHardly

(1,365 posts)
32. It is not hate, it's that they voted for a guy who will kick them out...
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 06:35 PM
Nov 29
... the joke is literally on them.

B.See

(3,823 posts)
36. What's SAD about it is that
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 06:44 PM
Nov 29

young Black voters like those cited in the op, Latino Trump supporters, and other minorites who voted for Trump don't realize we are all in the SAME BOAT.

That's how hate peddling fascists and chaos agents like Trump work.

By playing upon resentment and dividing people in ways that make them think they're not among the "you people" who Trump and his MAGAS hate.

keroro gunsou

(2,231 posts)
56. chris rock is right
Sun Dec 1, 2024, 05:22 AM
Dec 1

(paraphrasing here since it's 4 am)

after 9/11 there was a LOT of accepted racism against foreigners, especially the ones from the middle east, and to the public, that was cool... but over time the message evolved and started to quietly add other minority groups. - that train is NEVER late.

he's right. when it comes to hatred, no one is safe.

B.See

(3,823 posts)
57. Exactly. And with the coming of Trump
Sun Dec 1, 2024, 06:47 PM
Dec 1

it's gotten progressively worse. To the point where Black homeowners in white majority neighborhoods have had cops called on them by bigots questioning their legitimacy and Black kids participating in school sporting events are getting called the n-word from bigots in the bleachers.

Yet there are minority voters who voted Trump, thereby empowering and rubber stamping that kind of shit.

Then we have privileged prcks like Donnie Jr. celebrating the win of a blonde Miss Universe by posting shit like,

'Biological & objectively attractive women are allowed to win beauty pageants again. WE ARE SO BACK!!!' 

So yes. SOME of us know what fkrs like Trump mean when they speak of 'poisoning the blood'...

even though some apparently don't (or don't CARE).

LilElf70

(545 posts)
38. Trumps plan is to divide and conquer.
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 06:53 PM
Nov 29

So far, he's right in line with his ultimate goal of dictator.

Buckle up tight.

His next 4 years will be by far, much worse.

And I expect to hear more stories, just like this. It's so sad.

Red Mountain

(1,928 posts)
39. For what it's worth
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 06:57 PM
Nov 29

The Hispanics I used to work with (all from Mexico) didn't like black people, to put it nicely.

They were undocumented but able to work because they were grandfathered in prior to e-verify. They had fake social security #s, paid their taxes through their paychecks and couldn't file a return. You'd think that would raise some flags but the system doesn't seem to care, go figure.

I always suspected it was in part due to friction between the groups when Hispanics arrived on the scene and began moving into poor historically black areas......they were easy prey. I doubt that lasted long but it was embedded in local Hispanic culture from the get-go......probably amplified by their media (though that's pure conjecture).

Anyway, page from the classic playbook......keep the poor at each other's throats and they won't notice who is really keeping them down. Never seems to fail.

Sad.

kimbutgar

(23,607 posts)
42. It started with the Jews but I was not a Jew poem
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 07:14 PM
Nov 29

That young black couple might be made second class slaves if the white supremacy gets it way in this country under the orange Hitler 2.0.

patphil

(7,111 posts)
43. MAHA: Make America Hata Again.
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 07:20 PM
Nov 29

As if they needed to be encouraged to hate.
Something the Magats never understood, and never will: Hate never made anything great.
They can never be happy as long as their prime reaction to so much of what makes America great is hatred.

dlk

(12,468 posts)
46. I'm afraid the young black couple will be in for an ugly surprise after Trump is in office
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 03:04 PM
Nov 30

n/t

JI7

(90,880 posts)
53. Most people that voted for Trump did so becsuse they are hoping he hurts certain other people
Sun Dec 1, 2024, 12:53 AM
Dec 1
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