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The Wandering Harper

(767 posts)
Fri Dec 6, 2024, 01:20 PM Dec 6

A story from my former career: the cigarette scrounger and slick suit guy

I live near a gentrified little city in New England.
I came here 27 years ago, the recipient of a private scholarship to an expensive college.
At the time I liked it very much here, so stuck around. It was less gentrified back then.

But the colorful teens and twenty somethings enlivening the little downtown dispersed as rental rates climbed,
and the variety and distinctness of the shops diminished. There has been a very visible homeless population
as long as I've been here, and it has only increased over the years. Putting on my sardonic humor hat,
at least there are more alcoves for them to shelter in as more shops close.

How I came to this point would be a big digression, but
about 15 years ago I embarked on a career as a street musician.
It was often difficult and grueling, and I burned out on it,
but for a little while it barely covered my necessities,
and it gave me a lot of experiences.

During my time working the street downtown I became familiar with this man who I'd see
scrounging the sidewalk for any cigarette butt with a bit of "meat" left on it. He hardly spoke,
but we got familiar enough to greet each other with a glance or a nod now and then.
I probably gave him several cigarettes over the years. His clothes were filthy and shabby.
I remember how happy I got that day I saw him showered and clean in some new clothes
and how his spirits seemed so lifted by it.

One slow day I was starting to feel like I was wasting my time and energy out there,
when an immaculately well dressed young man walking down the sidewalk stops by me,
pulls out a packed money clip with a $100 on top, looks at it, digs in his pocket again to find
two quarters to tip me with. A maddeningly exasperating experience.
Almost frustrating enough to pack it in for the day,
but I stuck it out for a few more minutes because I can get stupidly stubborn sometimes.

A couple minutes after slick suit guy is gone, the cigarette scrounger comes along.
He stops and digs in his pocket. This is unusual, he's never done this before.
He pulls out the most dilapidated dollar bill I've ever seen.
It had just enough structural integrity to be usable.
He puts it in my all but empty tip jar.
I'm in shock.
I want to tell him to keep his dollar.
But this feels like a gift of the highest order
and I don't want to offend him.
He mumbled something unintelligible and shambled off.

"I'm fucking done."
And I packed up and went home feeling very discombobulated



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A story from my former career: the cigarette scrounger and slick suit guy (Original Post) The Wandering Harper Dec 6 OP
K&R.nt jfz9580m Dec 6 #1
thank you ! The Wandering Harper Dec 6 #8
You are welcome jfz9580m Dec 6 #9
High praise. Hugin Dec 6 #2
thank you The Wandering Harper Dec 6 #5
reminds me of a song GusBob Dec 6 #3
Great Song The Wandering Harper Dec 6 #6
That is a beautiful story Easterncedar Dec 6 #4
having played for so many hours on the "free" side of that equation The Wandering Harper Dec 6 #7
I like all of The Wandering Harper's posts jfz9580m Dec 7 #10
I love this story, OP soandso Dec 7 #11
thank you, and I'd love to hear yours if you'd like /nt The Wandering Harper Dec 7 #12
Here it is soandso Dec 7 #13
wow, that did make me cry The Wandering Harper Dec 10 #14
5. thank you
Fri Dec 6, 2024, 02:12 PM
Dec 6

love your username
I was pretty deep into Heathenry for a time
I've shifted back toward agnostic now
but I found some good lessons in those old poems

6. Great Song
Fri Dec 6, 2024, 02:36 PM
Dec 6

all too real
I like to think I still have that dollar somewhere
I've lost track of so many things

Easterncedar

(3,633 posts)
4. That is a beautiful story
Fri Dec 6, 2024, 02:00 PM
Dec 6

Reminded me of Joni Mitchell’s song titled something like Playing Real Good for Free.

7. having played for so many hours on the "free" side of that equation
Fri Dec 6, 2024, 02:43 PM
Dec 6

my limited entertainment budget is committed to shoestring operations, unknowns, and street performers

jfz9580m

(15,584 posts)
10. I like all of The Wandering Harper's posts
Sat Dec 7, 2024, 02:41 AM
Dec 7

I am sad they never get 100s of recs, but I kick them when I do pop in…
There was another poster MLF1981 whose posts I liked, but they dropped off after the election.

As the last post I am going to make for at least 6 months, I thought this should be it..

I like posts that talk about poverty and inequality honestly and without aggression and violence.


People who say “eat the rich” don’t get that we will be eating each other (poor, lower middle class, moderately upper middle class but with severe stress and overwork -think most doctors/scientists/these days probably cyber-security workers/even small co ceos etc.) not the rich. The rich (Zuck, Musk etc,) and celebrities etc. will be safe with armed security and post truth realities. Not that they should be eaten either, but widespread social unrest and violence ending up harming pretty much everyone but the rich.

The only real form of discipline I back for the rich-some tax payment, rule following and regulations like the rest of us deal with will never ever come for them.
What efforts Lina Khan etc made probably angered wealthy tech CEOs. Governance is for the rest of us. The Biden admin had bought some anti-trust actions against the UHC which a conservative judge booted out..

When any real discipline for the real rich rather than coddling is considered communism this is what you end up with.

And so it goes…

 

soandso

(1,631 posts)
11. I love this story, OP
Sat Dec 7, 2024, 02:53 AM
Dec 7

I had a couple of encounters with a guy who lived under bridge by a Texaco refinery that had a huge impact on me, like biblical.

 

soandso

(1,631 posts)
13. Here it is
Sat Dec 7, 2024, 07:31 PM
Dec 7

I lived in Long Beach CA and worked in Hermosa Beach, taking the shortest route to work took me through a super industrial and seedy area, with the huge refinery complex. I'd noticed a really dirty, hair matted bum walking along with a dog trailing behind, about 50'. I made sure I had some cash and a box of dog biscuits for when I saw him next. When I saw them, I pulled my car over and ran after him, yelling, "Sir!". I had to yell it a few times before he stopped and approached me. He was the dirtiest person I have ever seen, with bumps all over his face from the grime being spewed around there, I stuck out my hand and introduced myself, telling him I'd seen him out there. He hesitated to shake my hand, saying he was dirty but I said, "That's okay, I'm not worried about it" and he perked right up, shook my hand and introduced himself with a first and last name, followed by "St Louis, Missouri". I couldn't hang around and talk because my car was stopped in a traffic lane, on a bridge, so I just said I had some money and dog biscuits for him so they could both eat. He thanked me and went on his way. A day or two later, I was looking for him and the doggo and didn't see them. I drove to a nearby liquor store and asked about him and they told me he was found dead under the bridge and someone else had taken the dog. I cried my eyes out, heartbroken. Later, I felt like I'd encountered an angel (or something like that) and the purpose of the encounter was exactly what happened, with me caring enough to stop. Once that took place, his mission here was finished. It was very profound! I could just about cry telling the story and am eternally grateful to have been chosen for the experience.

14. wow, that did make me cry
Tue Dec 10, 2024, 09:09 AM
Dec 10

Thanks for sharing.
Some say gods or angels or what-have-you sometimes manifest in these forms to test or teach us.
I'm agnostic, but I don't discount that

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