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wnylib

(25,355 posts)
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 02:23 PM Jan 2025

Some notes I took during the Carter funeral.

Last edited Thu Jan 9, 2025, 05:43 PM - Edit history (1)

These are random thoughts that I jotted down as I watched.

BEFORE THE SERVICE STARTED:

Melania looks old, and not well groomed for a former model.

Kamala looks ready to cry.

The hymn being played early on is one of my favorites, Be Still My Soul.

Biden looks near tears as he is seated, passes his hand in front of his face without touching it, as if to wave away grief.

Will American decency get buried with Carter? Or will we be inspired by his example to carry on his legacy, for the sake of the nation and our values?

I was 26 when I voted for Carter the first time. I am 75 now. So long ago. Such a different world now.

Where's Michele Obama?

An era dies with Jimmy Carter's passing.

The first presidential funeral that I saw was JFK's. I was 14 years old.

DURING THE FUNERAL:

Great humor about Ford and Carter promising to do eulogies at each others' funerals.

From Mondale's eulogy, via his son. At the end of their term, Mondale and Carter discussed a summary of their term. Carter said, "We told the truth. We kept the law. We kept peace."

Carter's accomplishments praised in eulogy (by grandson Jason, I think) are now on the MAGA chopping block. Clean energy, conservation, civil rights, women's rights, Department of Education, international human rights, Panama treaty and return, taking in refugees, arms treaties, normalized relations with China, doing the right thing in spite of criticism.

Hillary Clinton is smiling, with a slight nod in agreement with the list of Carter accomplishnents.

Bill Clinton looks bored at religious parts of the service. Gets interested in listening, with slight head tilt when politics are referred to.

Obama looks solemn and thoughtful throughout the service every time the camera is on him.

Carter family passing tissue between them after Jason's eulogy.

Love the story about Jimmy accidentally dialing Jason when Jimmy was trying to take a photo with his phone and being puzzled to hear Jason's voice.

Navy hymn - Eternal Father Strong to Save. The church I grew up in sang that often enough for me to remember the first and last verses.

How do Doug Emhoff, other people of different faiths, and atheists feel at a Christian service during hymns and prayers in Jesus's name?

Joe Biden -- Good eulogy. Strong emphasis on character. Besides being the truth, it's gotta be a dig at Trump.

Does Trump envy the praise that Carter is getting? Fantasizing that people will praise him even more at his own funeral? Count on Trump to trash Carter now because he can't stand for anyone else to be so beloved and praised.

Son James reading the Beatitudes from the book of Matthew.

Amazing Grace -- beautiful rendition -- Amazing performance from a woman who is not a well known professional singer.

Andrew Young??? Did not recognize him.

SOME QUOTES (Not verbatim. I can't write that fast.)

Carter was the most Renaissance president of our modern times.

Carter was driven by his values. Love your neighbor as yourself was a core value to him.

Carter Center has international locations and employees.

Carter's work in small villages around the world -- He treated people as partners, with respect, not pity.

From Andrew Young -- Jimmy's spirit will live on.

At the closing, as people started filing out, the PBS camera showed the Amazing Grace singer. She was struggling not to cry.

SUMMARY OF MY OWN FEELINGS

I am a wimp and a spiritual pygmy. I don't have Carter's IQ, but I do have some abilities. Feels like I've wasted them compared to what Carter did with his abilities. I can't go back and change my life, but what use of my time and abilities could I make from now on?







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Some notes I took during the Carter funeral. (Original Post) wnylib Jan 2025 OP
Beautiful post! K & R Emile Jan 2025 #1
Yes, thank you for posting. Trueblue1968 Jan 2025 #13
That was Andrew Young, former Atlanta mayor, and U.N. ambassador during Carter's administration. Ocelot II Jan 2025 #2
Sorry. I know the differrence. It was a senior brain fart. wnylib Jan 2025 #47
Oh yes, he was so handsome.. wonderful man mountain grammy Jan 2025 #61
Did you mean Andrew Young (former civil rights advocate with MLK and former UN ambassador?) hlthe2b Jan 2025 #3
He met with my church's youth several years ago. carpetbagger Jan 2025 #17
Yes. I meant Young, not Card. I fixed it. wnylib Jan 2025 #48
Love your writings snowybirdie Jan 2025 #4
Yes, I know the difference. Brain slipped. I have corrected the name. wnylib Jan 2025 #49
Still thought snowybirdie Jan 2025 #50
Very acurate samplegirl Jan 2025 #5
so, Kali Jan 2025 #45
Great summation OP ThePartyThatListens Jan 2025 #6
Loved this. Thank you. yardwork Jan 2025 #7
Thank you! KT2000 Jan 2025 #8
Of course Obama looked solemn... ECL213 Jan 2025 #9
I should have watched but I have boycotted all news since the election. LisaM Jan 2025 #10
IIRC, John Anderson didn't help. soldierant Jan 2025 #66
No, he didn't. LisaM Jan 2025 #67
Alas, I did Mme. Defarge Jan 2025 #82
We all make mistakes, soldierant Jan 2025 #86
I will never Fiddlelady11 Jan 2025 #72
I really hope that the last paragraph you wrote JMCKUSICK Jan 2025 #11
Thanks! I was also wondering where Michelle Obama was LymphocyteLover Jan 2025 #12
Depends? Mme. Defarge Jan 2025 #83
Nice review malaise Jan 2025 #14
I watched it again and it almost looked like he moved his chair forward. Good eye. cksmithy Jan 2025 #26
Yes indeed malaise Jan 2025 #27
Trump couldn't stand being in the second row. Irish_Dem Jan 2025 #39
Vulgar and uncouth malaise Jan 2025 #41
He is consistent, I have to give the SOB that. Irish_Dem Jan 2025 #44
Interesting TommyT139 Jan 2025 #33
Beautiful reflection. Thank you for sharing. chia Jan 2025 #15
Much appreciation for your post Alice Kramden Jan 2025 #16
Thank you for sharing. FemDemERA Jan 2025 #18
Do you mean Andrew Young, former UN Ambassador? Boomerproud Jan 2025 #19
Yes, I meant Andrew Young. I know the difference. Senior mind blooper. wnylib Jan 2025 #51
To answer your final question: You're doing it right here. TheRickles Jan 2025 #20
thanks for the notes. made me think/imagine orleans Jan 2025 #21
And there will be a mad scramble . . . AverageOldGuy Jan 2025 #25
that's for sure! lol nt orleans Jan 2025 #62
You called it.. homegirl Jan 2025 #65
Like you Carter was my first presidential election & Kennedy my first presidential funeral. CrispyQ Jan 2025 #22
Carter's campaign was not the first election that I voted in. wnylib Jan 2025 #53
The rest of the 'club' may have stuck Obama with the Toddler, Attilatheblond Jan 2025 #58
I thought Obama lost the coin toss. Srkdqltr Jan 2025 #79
Or drew the short straw? Attilatheblond Jan 2025 #80
Fabulous post!! Charging Triceratops Jan 2025 #23
You ask: AverageOldGuy Jan 2025 #24
That is what I was going to post... rasputin1952 Jan 2025 #81
Thanks for sharing your notes and thoughts..lots to think about and remember..such an extraordinary life Deuxcents Jan 2025 #28
That's how I felt during and after the eulogies. wnylib Jan 2025 #55
I am Jewish and have been to many Christian services BonnieJW Jan 2025 #29
I've learned more about my Christian faith after I Ilsa Jan 2025 #76
Thanks blueseas Jan 2025 #30
Video on DU home page TommyT139 Jan 2025 #43
This is a very nice post. My wife and I watched the funeral as well. We were surprised that PatrickforB Jan 2025 #31
He chose the music. TommyT139 Jan 2025 #37
Ah, good observation, Tommy. Imagine is a favorite of ours, as well. PatrickforB Jan 2025 #38
Consider taking the President Carter Challenge... ultralite001 Jan 2025 #32
Excellent post. Thank you. wnylib Jan 2025 #57
How do people of other faiths and atheists feel. Buzz cook Jan 2025 #34
Thank you for this ailsagirl Jan 2025 #35
Thank you for the post MustLoveBeagles Jan 2025 #36
Video is linked on DU home page TommyT139 Jan 2025 #42
Thank you MustLoveBeagles Jan 2025 #59
Great post! Irish_Dem Jan 2025 #40
Must be time for more plastic surgery. N/T Dark n Stormy Knight Jan 2025 #68
nice notes Kali Jan 2025 #46
A wonderful summary wnylib! lucca18 Jan 2025 #52
Beautiful summary. yellow dahlia Jan 2025 #54
Regarding you last question, I think you know the answer HereForTheParty Jan 2025 #56
Thank you, wnylib wendyb-NC Jan 2025 #60
Thank you Sequoia Jan 2025 #63
Great reporting on your experience.yeag thank you! we're the same age... and yeah good question, but you and I will not msfiddlestix Jan 2025 #64
Good summary, ty 😁 I didn't see any of it. Meowmee Jan 2025 #69
Great notes! Thank you! ReRe Jan 2025 #70
I heard she had a prior obligation in Hawaii Owens Jan 2025 #74
Don't hold yourself up to Carter. He's a unique being. LakeArenal Jan 2025 #71
I know better than to wish that I had the greatness wnylib Jan 2025 #73
I looked at the Carter funeral as the funeral for the USA. RicROC Jan 2025 #75
A funeral for what was good in the USA, yes, wnylib Jan 2025 #77
I noted the final hymn was Crown Him with Many Crowns. Ilsa Jan 2025 #78
Yes, I noticed that, too. Having grown up in a Protestant denomination, wnylib Jan 2025 #85
Thank you for the excellent notes... rasputin1952 Jan 2025 #84

Ocelot II

(129,021 posts)
2. That was Andrew Young, former Atlanta mayor, and U.N. ambassador during Carter's administration.
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 02:30 PM
Jan 2025

Andrew Card was W's chief of staff. Definitely not the same guy.

wnylib

(25,355 posts)
47. Sorry. I know the differrence. It was a senior brain fart.
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 05:41 PM
Jan 2025

I remember Andrew Young from when he was with MLK and then became UN Ambassador. In my mind, I still picture him as a young man, so I did not recognize him.

I will go back and correct the name in the OP.

mountain grammy

(28,676 posts)
61. Oh yes, he was so handsome.. wonderful man
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 08:12 PM
Jan 2025

I met him a few times when I was in college working on some projects. I would not have recognized him, but I could finally see him.

Thank you for your beautiful post. I'm 77 and really related to it.

hlthe2b

(112,794 posts)
3. Did you mean Andrew Young (former civil rights advocate with MLK and former UN ambassador?)
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 02:30 PM
Jan 2025

also a reverend? He's 92 yo and honestly I thought he had passed some time ago.

Oh, and yes, a former excellent Atlanta mayor...

carpetbagger

(5,407 posts)
17. He met with my church's youth several years ago.
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 03:38 PM
Jan 2025

Still very alive.

Or Andrew Card has had a hell of a ride after leaving politics and came out a completely different man.

snowybirdie

(6,563 posts)
4. Love your writings
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 02:33 PM
Jan 2025

One thing...it was Andrew Young not Andy Card. Card was Bush 43s sidekick. Young was a very involved civil rights leader. Especially liked your attention to orangy wanting to dismantle much of Carter's work. I realized that myself. A special day.

samplegirl

(13,734 posts)
5. Very acurate
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 02:36 PM
Jan 2025

Except Trump kept talking to Obama and Melania looked last me she really didn't want to be there.

ECL213

(429 posts)
9. Of course Obama looked solemn...
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 02:56 PM
Jan 2025

Can you imagine having to sit next to that stinky MF throughout an entire funeral?

LisaM

(29,487 posts)
10. I should have watched but I have boycotted all news since the election.
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 03:01 PM
Jan 2025

I will never get over the way Biden was forced out by the media (despite an effective and successful presidency) and how Trump was given a pass.

For that matter, the press wasn't all that kind to Carter when he was in office. In fact, they were awful to him. And so we got Reagan and because of that we have GWB and Citizens United and Trump.

They are all drooling over Carter now but it was a far different matter when he was actually in office.

Mme. Defarge

(8,886 posts)
82. Alas, I did
Fri Jan 10, 2025, 12:57 PM
Jan 2025

and I have long, deeply regretted it. As a registered Republican I simply could not bring myself to vote for a “B” actor nor did I want to vote for a Democrat. But even my dad, who was a “Goldwater” Republican, told me he was voting for Carter because - Social Security and Medicare. Soon after that election I reregistered as a Democrat and have never looked back.

soldierant

(9,285 posts)
86. We all make mistakes,
Fri Jan 10, 2025, 07:39 PM
Jan 2025

especially when we are young and still trying to grasp how things work. And you must have been fairly young, I know I was.

Fiddlelady11

(101 posts)
72. I will never
Fri Jan 10, 2025, 10:27 AM
Jan 2025

forgive the media for what they did to Carter and Biden and giving the orange pos a pass.

JMCKUSICK

(5,107 posts)
11. I really hope that the last paragraph you wrote
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 03:13 PM
Jan 2025

Is what most of us take away from this. I feel embarrassed for how little I've done.
Thank you President Carter for your grace, kindness, generosity and for standing up for what was right, popular or not.
God Speed.

malaise

(292,692 posts)
14. Nice review
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 03:22 PM
Jan 2025

Rec

The one thing you missed the Felon leaning forward to pretend he was in the sane row with The Pres, VP and their wives😀



At 1.00.10-15ish

cksmithy

(423 posts)
26. I watched it again and it almost looked like he moved his chair forward. Good eye.
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 04:44 PM
Jan 2025

Not sure of the seating, chairs or pews, but you are right, he somehow tried to move himself into the front row. He is and will always be a jerk to me. I curse like a sailor in real life, but never here. I also, hardly ever post, but rec a lot. Thank you for pointing that out, I watched the funeral and missed that.

Irish_Dem

(79,741 posts)
39. Trump couldn't stand being in the second row.
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 05:15 PM
Jan 2025

So he just moved himself where he wanted to be.

TommyT139

(2,147 posts)
33. Interesting
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 05:05 PM
Jan 2025

I assumed it was his usual "toilet perch" posture, but hadn't been focusing on him.

Alice Kramden

(2,876 posts)
16. Much appreciation for your post
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 03:33 PM
Jan 2025

I was not able to watch, so I am gleaning information from posts like yours - many thanks

Boomerproud

(9,150 posts)
19. Do you mean Andrew Young, former UN Ambassador?
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 03:42 PM
Jan 2025

The facade of decency was evident today. Never lasts. The 20th will be here before we know it.

wnylib

(25,355 posts)
51. Yes, I meant Andrew Young. I know the difference. Senior mind blooper.
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 06:01 PM
Jan 2025

I remember Andrew Young from when he was with MLK. So young then and I had not seen him anywhere since his days as an ambassador. Did not recognize him. In my mind, he was still a fresh faced young man.

TheRickles

(3,156 posts)
20. To answer your final question: You're doing it right here.
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 03:52 PM
Jan 2025

By writing such a beautiful summary for those of us who didn't watch the ceremony, you're making great use of your time and abilities. Thanks!

orleans

(36,668 posts)
21. thanks for the notes. made me think/imagine
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 03:57 PM
Jan 2025

trump funeral:
they'll drop his sorry orange ass in a fucking box and SLAM THE LID
lara will sing "ymca"
melanoma will be behind a closed door dancing and pouring herself more champagne
eric is the only child attending trump's lame send-off
a couple proud pukes will tie a rope and drag that box out to a u-haul
off to bedminster
next to ivana's "grave" there is an open hole
proud pukes finish their beers and accidentally drop the box in the hole
box cracks open
pukes don't notice b/c they are so drunk.
they grab shovels and fill in the hole
slap a flag on top and pass out in the u-haul
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AverageOldGuy

(3,331 posts)
25. And there will be a mad scramble . . .
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 04:37 PM
Jan 2025

. . . as the rest of us line up to piss on the grave.

CrispyQ

(40,665 posts)
22. Like you Carter was my first presidential election & Kennedy my first presidential funeral.
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 04:09 PM
Jan 2025

Thank you for that summary. I smiled at Clinton being bored during the religious parts. Obama's always spot on. He took one for the team sitting beside Trump.

wnylib

(25,355 posts)
53. Carter's campaign was not the first election that I voted in.
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 06:15 PM
Jan 2025

My first time voting was in 1972, Nixon vs. McGovern. No, I did not vote for Nixon. Never would have since I was a Dem before I was old enough to vote.

Besides, I was one of the few people who heard the news reports about the Watergate break-in the morning after it happened, on the hourly radio news. A weekend, Saturday, I think. My husband and I were at my parents' house later that afternoon and I told them about it, but by that time, the story had been pulled from the news.

My second time voting was for Carter the first time he ran in 1976. Of course I voted for him again in 1980.

Attilatheblond

(8,274 posts)
58. The rest of the 'club' may have stuck Obama with the Toddler,
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 06:31 PM
Jan 2025

since Obama didn't bring his better half?

AverageOldGuy

(3,331 posts)
24. You ask:
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 04:36 PM
Jan 2025
How do Doug Emhoff, other people of different faiths, and atheists feel at a Christian service during hymns and prayers in Jesus's name?


Doug Emhoff and most of the rest of us are decent people. They respect our practices, we respect theirs. They bow their heads, observe silence, and do not act like assholes. There's a difference between good, decent people and what we will experience after Jan 20.

rasputin1952

(83,497 posts)
81. That is what I was going to post...
Fri Jan 10, 2025, 12:44 PM
Jan 2025

At least something along those lines.

As an atheist, I have no problem with other belief systems, as long as they are not forced upon me.

Respecting another individual is what it is all about. One can go, or not go to such events. If you go, you respect the individual in their "territory". I've been to Jewish funerals and have worn a yarmulka, and a Sikh funeral with an Orange head cloth, what's the big deal?



Deuxcents

(25,494 posts)
28. Thanks for sharing your notes and thoughts..lots to think about and remember..such an extraordinary life
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 04:52 PM
Jan 2025

President Carter never wasted a minute and used every opportunity for the betterment of people. I feel insignificant in the sense that I haven’t come close to being the best I could have been.

wnylib

(25,355 posts)
55. That's how I felt during and after the eulogies.
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 06:26 PM
Jan 2025

I hope that those eulogies will inspire people.

BonnieJW

(3,079 posts)
29. I am Jewish and have been to many Christian services
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 05:00 PM
Jan 2025

When hymns are sung and prayers are said, I enjoy them. I learn something. Sometimes they prayers are similar to Jewish ones. Most of all, I feel peace as I do in a synagogue. The services I attended were weddings, christenings, or funerals. The attendees were always there because of love.

Ilsa

(63,816 posts)
76. I've learned more about my Christian faith after I
Fri Jan 10, 2025, 12:19 PM
Jan 2025

started learning more about Judaism, the Torah, etc.

For example, the Shema (Deuteronomy 6:5) sets the first law of monotheism, and then follows with the greatest commandment of loving G-d with all your heart, soul, and might. In the New Testament, hoping to trip up Jesus on law, he was asked "what is the greatest commandment?" To that he replied with "to love G-d with all your heart, soul, and might," and he added on "to love your neighbor as yourself." I didn't know that last part is in Leviticus 19:18: "You shall not take vengeance or bear a grudge against any of your people, but you shall love your neighbor as yourself: I am the LORD".

I was in Sunday School every Sunday. Learned more than average. But most Christians don't spend enough time on the Old Testament, Prophets, writings, etc (Tanakh).

blueseas

(11,714 posts)
30. Thanks
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 05:00 PM
Jan 2025

I could not see President Carter's funeral.
I appreciate the time you took to let us all know.



PatrickforB

(15,339 posts)
31. This is a very nice post. My wife and I watched the funeral as well. We were surprised that
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 05:01 PM
Jan 2025

the song 'Imagine' was played since Carter was so devout.

As to your last paragraph, allow me to gently chide you on this 'wimp and spiritual pygmy' thing. What kind of talk is that? All we ever have is the great here and now. The past is water under the bridge and you must release it - forgive yourself, forgive others and work to get rid of fears and ego-attachments.

I have known many successful people over a career spanning nearly four decades and without exception they are mission driven. But the truly successful people? Their life missions involve helping others in some way. Most do this through their love for family, friends and even pets, and their job. Whatever your job might be (or if you are retired, maybe your social and leisure activities, the clubs you're in), it provides a powerful basis from which to help others - some jobs more than others. But every single person can make a difference in some way.

You never know but what some little tiny thing you say or do can make a lifetime of difference for someone else. It is never too late to work toward uplifting those around you - making the world a tiny bit better because you have lived.

Jimmy Carter was a truly great man, and one who blessed this whole world just by his presence in it. To my mind, he was everything a devout Christian should be, and I loved the way they read from the Sermon on the Mount in Matthew. Carter lived the Beatitudes. Now, he has left to be reunited with his beloved wife, and with all his friends who have gone on before.

As for all of us, we are here now, and all of us can work to bring light into this world.

We are about to enter an unpleasant (understatement, I know) time, but there is always hope and that hope is in our hearts. It shines forth through our feelings, thoughts, words and deeds.

Warm regards!

TommyT139

(2,147 posts)
37. He chose the music.
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 05:11 PM
Jan 2025

"Imagine" was evidently a favorite song of his, which makes sense, if you look at the words.

Even the "no heaven" part -- Carter's was a very imminent, incarnational faith, lived with his mind and hands as much as with his heart. I speculate that he had seen too much of the type of Christianity which focused only on heaven, ignoring the word and neighbors here and now.

PatrickforB

(15,339 posts)
38. Ah, good observation, Tommy. Imagine is a favorite of ours, as well.
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 05:14 PM
Jan 2025

Yes, Carter's faith was very much present in all he did. He showed us his faith by shining example.

ultralite001

(2,364 posts)
32. Consider taking the President Carter Challenge...
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 05:03 PM
Jan 2025

The President Carter Challenge: Through one simple gesture of love, President Carter suggested together we can change the world.

https://mbcplains.org/president-carter-challenge


Buzz cook

(2,831 posts)
34. How do people of other faiths and atheists feel.
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 05:07 PM
Jan 2025

I can only speak from my own atheist perspective. I feel respect for the ceremonies and the people involved.
Religious speech doesn't bother me it just doesn't effect me. I love religious music though and am happy to sing along with the hymns.

As most people do, I understand grief and the many ways people deal with it. I'm in favor of most anything that makes that loss easier to bear.

Irish_Dem

(79,741 posts)
40. Great post!
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 05:15 PM
Jan 2025

Thank you for the summary and some very interesting details.

I agree, Melania looked bad today.

wendyb-NC

(4,603 posts)
60. Thank you, wnylib
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 08:00 PM
Jan 2025

Your reflections are eloquent and thought provoking, and from the heart.

msfiddlestix

(8,162 posts)
64. Great reporting on your experience.yeag thank you! we're the same age... and yeah good question, but you and I will not
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 08:33 PM
Jan 2025

likely ever know. I certainly hope my granddaughters will experience it.

Meowmee

(9,212 posts)
69. Good summary, ty 😁 I didn't see any of it.
Fri Jan 10, 2025, 04:18 AM
Jan 2025

One thing- people of different faiths go to all sorts of funerals, not a big deal. I have not been to many, just a few wakes for christian funerals as I recall.

The only time it was a problem for me was when at my mother's funeral at the funeral home part, they set up a cross even though we told them she was not religious, lol. I told them to take it down- that pissed me off. There wasn't even any service there. It was all at the gravesite and then our home.

She was baptized in Wee Free Kirk but was a nominal christian and was never religious. I like the Jewish funerals where you say the kaddish at the gravesite and then sit shiva. My grandmother had a synagogue funeral and my grandfather was the only one who knew the kaddish by heart in Hebrew. During the ceremony first the Rabbi talks about the person and then people who knew the deceased get up and talk about them, similar to christian and other faith funerals probably. My father was pissed off at what the rabbi said about his mother 😹

ReRe

(12,164 posts)
70. Great notes! Thank you!
Fri Jan 10, 2025, 09:32 AM
Jan 2025

I too wondered where Michelle was. Maybe they were told of the seating arrangement placing her next to you-know-who and she opted out? And I do think I seen HRC being a bit stand-offish in attention to her stage left (in W's direction).
Was so proud of the President's row.

Owens

(588 posts)
74. I heard she had a prior obligation in Hawaii
Fri Jan 10, 2025, 11:02 AM
Jan 2025

But don't blame her for not showing up, Trump and his MAGA minions have lied about and insulted the Obamas relentlessly.

LakeArenal

(29,949 posts)
71. Don't hold yourself up to Carter. He's a unique being.
Fri Jan 10, 2025, 10:07 AM
Jan 2025

What you can do is be the good person he hopes we all can be.

Treat others well, accept life as it comes, resist succumbing to mediocrity.

As for atheists hearing hymns, this one listens with respect. Especially at a funeral of a good Christian who truly believes.

wnylib

(25,355 posts)
73. I know better than to wish that I had the greatness
Fri Jan 10, 2025, 10:31 AM
Jan 2025

of Carter. He is, as you said, unique.

But his life example of doing as much as possible with what he had makes me realize that I could have done more with what I have. So I regret that I didn't and want to do what I can from now on. His life is an inspiration to people at all levels, from all backgrounds.

wnylib

(25,355 posts)
77. A funeral for what was good in the USA, yes,
Fri Jan 10, 2025, 12:19 PM
Jan 2025

unless we who still believe in what Kamala calls the "promise of America" keep the torch burning. We can keep on believing in and living those values, even when the nation's top offices are filled with people who want to destroy it all.

Ilsa

(63,816 posts)
78. I noted the final hymn was Crown Him with Many Crowns.
Fri Jan 10, 2025, 12:27 PM
Jan 2025

I had never heard this selected for s funeral before. Trump probably thought Carter was trying to exult himself, but nothing is further from the truth. After days of remembrances, honors, eulogies, Pres. Carter wanted to redirect attention from himself back to God, and honor God above all.

wnylib

(25,355 posts)
85. Yes, I noticed that, too. Having grown up in a Protestant denomination,
Fri Jan 10, 2025, 02:27 PM
Jan 2025

I was familiar with all the hymns chosen for the funeral. The lyrics of Crown Him With Many Crowns is clearly about God, specifically about Jesus as the Son in the Trinity, and not about a US President.

As a Boomer, I am also familiar with Imagine. I was surprised to hear it at the funeral of a religious man, but then as I listened in the context of a church funeral, I realized that, as another poster upthread said, it was fitting. Even in religions that teach about heaven and hell, the ideal is to do right in the name of love, for its own sake, and not for the sake of gaining brownie points or an excuse to condemn others.

rasputin1952

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84. Thank you for the excellent notes...
Fri Jan 10, 2025, 01:18 PM
Jan 2025

Over the past three years, I have lost my best friend, my older brother, several others, and a few are on the brink. I was not enamored to watch, as I am sick of death, but I am impressed that Jimmy went on his own terms. I hope I can do as well.

I only saw the tail end, I'm not particularly fond of funerals. I did enjoy Imagine.

I recall the assassination and Funerals of JFK, MLK, and RFK. Rough times back then. In a few short years after JFK, I would find myself in a distant land in an ill-conceived war. I believe JFK would have ended that war before it had gone much further, thereby I'd not have to deal with what I deal with now.

As a tolerant atheist, I can walk away from any zealot, they are not worth my time. Jimmy Carter was an exceptional individual thrust into a very strange part of our history. An honest and decent man who walked the walk he spoke to others about, and never thought this nation should be a Theocracy.

Your summation is quite eloquent and you have performed a service for all of here that did not see it in real-time.

Thank you, not only for the summation, but for your integrity as well.



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