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oldsoldierfadingfast

(220 posts)
Sat Mar 22, 2025, 01:04 PM Mar 2025

To all DUers, here's...

a quote that I keep pasted on the side of my computer: It describes my feelings for all of you - well, most all of you anyway! lol

"But oh! the blessing it is to have a friend to whom one can speak fearless on any subject; with whom one's deepest as well as one's most foolish thoughts come out simply and safely. Oh, the comfort --- the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person ---having neither to weigh thoughts nr measure words, but pouring them all right out, just as ther are, chaff and grain together; certain that a faithful hand will take and sift them, keep what is worth keeping and then with the breath of kindness blow the rest away.

1866 - Dinah Maria Mulock Craik in a book titled, "A Life for a Life"

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To all DUers, here's... (Original Post) oldsoldierfadingfast Mar 2025 OP
That's so beautiful! May we all have such people in our lives. jmbar2 Mar 2025 #1
A little wonderful part of DU is: When I say TRUMP sucks!..Nobody gets Pissed off! chouchou Mar 2025 #2
very relevant statement even today peacebuzzard Mar 2025 #3
You are most welcome... oldsoldierfadingfast Mar 2025 #5
Beautiful and appropriate description senseandsensibility Mar 2025 #4
Lovely malaise Mar 2025 #6
Beautiful, thank you for sharing. LoisB Mar 2025 #7
💙💙💙💙💙💙💙 LiberalLoner Mar 2025 #8
TU, LL oldsoldierfadingfast Mar 2025 #14
Hugs to you and sunshine 💙💙💙💙💙 LiberalLoner Mar 2025 #24
I read that years & years ago. It's as lovely & true now as it ever was... thank you... Hekate Mar 2025 #9
After reading some ... oldsoldierfadingfast Mar 2025 #11
When I come to DU, I'm depressed and feeling little hope. When I leave, elocs Mar 2025 #10
I am so sorry ... oldsoldierfadingfast Mar 2025 #15
you are honest. I think I understand where that is coming from, peacebuzzard Mar 2025 #22
Well, elocs, thanks for your honesty. 1WorldHope Mar 2025 #12
Quite apropos. It IS B.See Mar 2025 #13
What a wonderful quote. StarryNite Mar 2025 #16
Yes, such a nice place to come for comfort among people of like minds. Thanks to all. allegorical oracle Mar 2025 #17
Agreed n/t oldsoldierfadingfast Mar 2025 #21
It Is A Good Quote Baron2024 Mar 2025 #18
Thank you Baron2024... oldsoldierfadingfast Mar 2025 #20
That is definitely a quote worth keeping wendyb-NC Mar 2025 #19
Thanks for sharing blueseas Mar 2025 #23

peacebuzzard

(5,797 posts)
3. very relevant statement even today
Sat Mar 22, 2025, 01:40 PM
Mar 2025

Because in today's one-minute relationship extravaganza, with the multitudes encountered every day, blow the breath of kindness to get rid of the majority with whom you do not care to develop a moments relationship again.

This is a skill that needs training, refining, and keeping. Thank you, old soldierfadingfast!

11. After reading some ...
Sat Mar 22, 2025, 02:40 PM
Mar 2025

of your posts, I think that years and years ago, you and I were reading a lot of the same things. lol

 

elocs

(24,486 posts)
10. When I come to DU, I'm depressed and feeling little hope. When I leave,
Sat Mar 22, 2025, 02:40 PM
Mar 2025

I'm more depressed and with less hope. No quote will fix that.

15. I am so sorry ...
Sat Mar 22, 2025, 03:06 PM
Mar 2025

that you are depressed. And yes, you are right, a 'quote' will not fix it; nor will telling you to "just snap out of it".
You may need help beyond anything we here on DU can do.
Are you seeking professional help?
For what it is worth; as one who studied Psych for a BS, I think you may need some counseling.

peacebuzzard

(5,797 posts)
22. you are honest. I think I understand where that is coming from,
Sat Mar 22, 2025, 04:30 PM
Mar 2025

and it's from a place I deal with often. I could throw out some philosophy or short meaningless colloquialisms which is nothing but ramblings and justifications for a situation that is so terrible it is hard to explain/express. something along the lines of cheer up, get a grip, move on, or so on.
But when I have tried to find a different mindset it is fragile.
I do like to find humor but while you are in "that place" it seems thin, and pointless, and I just go back to just trying to stay neutral and get myself nourishments and pedal around with what I have brought my life to.
Mainly though, I try to negotiate life onward with as little or as small of an impact possible.
Maybe what it is for me is depression as well, but I just go on with whatever it can be described or analyzed as, and go about my business and live day by day.

And to tell you the absolute truth this doomsday depressing feeling is politically related. The clowns in the white house have everything to do with it.

1WorldHope

(1,862 posts)
12. Well, elocs, thanks for your honesty.
Sat Mar 22, 2025, 02:51 PM
Mar 2025

I read your comment and had to chuckle. It was good to hear someone say something that I was thinking.
That said, I do love DU. Without it I would be clueless about what was happening in the world like many people around me. Ignorance is bliss?

 

Baron2024

(1,492 posts)
18. It Is A Good Quote
Sat Mar 22, 2025, 03:36 PM
Mar 2025

Community is a part of Resistance. So is keeping our fighting spirits up. DU helps with both. It is easy to slip into despair, but we can not afford to. We have to keep fighting. Thanks for the good post.

wendyb-NC

(4,603 posts)
19. That is definitely a quote worth keeping
Sat Mar 22, 2025, 03:51 PM
Mar 2025

I'm bookmarking, so I can Copy it to refer to as often as I can.

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