Welcome to DU! The truly grassroots left-of-center political community where regular people, not algorithms, drive the discussions and set the standards. Join the community: Create a free account Support DU (and get rid of ads!): Become a Star Member Latest Breaking News Editorials & Other Articles General Discussion The DU Lounge All Forums Issue Forums Culture Forums Alliance Forums Region Forums Support Forums Help & Search

Dyedinthewoolliberal

(16,182 posts)
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 07:57 PM Apr 2025

Well, for me, a semi retired 74 year old guy

the Tariff party hosted by Mango Mussolini today tells me I should stop spending, get debt as low as possible and hope the shit show doesn't cause my little part time job to be eliminated or reduced (giving out samples at Costco). I'm am in a way, perversely glad I'm not my kids and grandkids ages.........

33 replies = new reply since forum marked as read
Highlight: NoneDon't highlight anything 5 newestHighlight 5 most recent replies
Well, for me, a semi retired 74 year old guy (Original Post) Dyedinthewoolliberal Apr 2025 OP
Between Trump and climate change, the future does not look good. surfered Apr 2025 #1
I never had kids FoxNewsSucks Apr 2025 #4
I will be looking for more for that TalentAgency Apr 2025 #2
When I was 11 years old I decided not to have kids. multigraincracker Apr 2025 #3
Unless they can read about it in uncensored books, very young kids won't know what America once was elocs Apr 2025 #21
I've been working on the same - not spending as much, etc. hamsterjill Apr 2025 #5
Means I have to go back into part time Nursing was hoping to fully retir but not happening now🙃 FloridaBlues Apr 2025 #6
How is Costco doing lately! wolfie001 Apr 2025 #7
We were in our local Costco just yesterday, and the woman checking us out commented... 3catwoman3 Apr 2025 #8
Comments like this help me sleep soundly at nite!!! Thanks wolfie001 Apr 2025 #9
It seems busy as ever Dyedinthewoolliberal Apr 2025 #12
People always need groceries wolfie001 Apr 2025 #14
I've applied at Walmart and they clearly have their DEI program in place on their website. n/t elocs Apr 2025 #24
That's good to hear wolfie001 Apr 2025 #25
Every time we go it's packed Tree Lady Apr 2025 #13
Great to hear! nt wolfie001 Apr 2025 #15
I just paid off several debts. pfitz59 Apr 2025 #10
So did I. calimary Apr 2025 #11
Yep, there are those of us who need a bit of chocolate each day if possible. But I hear that will go up in price also. elocs Apr 2025 #27
I may go ahead and splurge anyway. calimary Apr 2025 #31
Of course that's the Full retirement age benefit wolfie001 Apr 2025 #16
That Trumpism dies a spectacular & permanent death is a nice hope, but I fear the US is changed forever. elocs Apr 2025 #26
There is a Costco about a half hour from my brother's house in Virginia DFW Apr 2025 #17
I'm in mid-Michigan. Dyedinthewoolliberal Apr 2025 #18
Quite the opposite in northern Virginia DFW Apr 2025 #22
I feel sorry for the young people who are still old enough to remember what America once was elocs Apr 2025 #19
Color me stupid DFW Apr 2025 #23
Re your last remark. If I had a dime for every time my husband has said "Glad we're not young" recently, Vinca Apr 2025 #20
I'm 65, thanks to RayGun I can't get full SS bennies until 67. CousinIT Apr 2025 #28
They're going to kill me anyway, The Madcap Apr 2025 #29
Save save save Johnny2X2X Apr 2025 #30
Your kids and grandkids will be dealing with climate change Kaleva Apr 2025 #32
I work at a detox, and Tickle Apr 2025 #33

FoxNewsSucks

(11,486 posts)
4. I never had kids
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 08:41 PM
Apr 2025

and am now so fucking glad. I don't know how anyone would want to birth a child into this world today.

multigraincracker

(36,845 posts)
3. When I was 11 years old I decided not to have kids.
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 08:13 PM
Apr 2025

That 64 years ago. Glad I don’t have to worry about that. I do have a ton of step children, grand kids and great grand kids. They are all great and I fear for them.

 

elocs

(24,486 posts)
21. Unless they can read about it in uncensored books, very young kids won't know what America once was
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 10:18 AM
Apr 2025

and likely never will be again in their lifetimes. I wonder if they will ask themselves why we weren't more vigilant to protect and keep our democracy and its freedoms?

hamsterjill

(16,912 posts)
5. I've been working on the same - not spending as much, etc.
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 08:42 PM
Apr 2025

I can offer that Costco seems to be doing great, at least in my area! It is more packed than I've ever seen it every time I go there. So here's hoping that means good things for your part-time employment.

I am scared to death about the future. I'm in my sixties and have one child, but no grandchildren. I'm grateful for that because I fear what's to come.

I just wish that someone would do something to stop the asshole. I was excited about what Cory Booker did, but we need much, much more than just that.

wolfie001

(6,965 posts)
7. How is Costco doing lately!
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 08:48 PM
Apr 2025

I've heard business has been booming because of all the hate generated by Dump and his hate cult. Have you noticed an uptick? Just curious.

3catwoman3

(28,487 posts)
8. We were in our local Costco just yesterday, and the woman checking us out commented...
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 09:15 PM
Apr 2025

...that they have had a lot of new members who have left Sam's club. Good!

wolfie001

(6,965 posts)
14. People always need groceries
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 08:42 AM
Apr 2025

I shop Union here in Maryland! No exceptions. I'm retired Union so that's where my money goes. Kohl's still has its DEI program in place, so I've been getting big-discounted items from there for my family. Cheers

 

elocs

(24,486 posts)
24. I've applied at Walmart and they clearly have their DEI program in place on their website. n/t
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 12:05 PM
Apr 2025

wolfie001

(6,965 posts)
25. That's good to hear
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 12:10 PM
Apr 2025

Maybe they're paying attention to the bigger picture. Best of luck to ya!

Tree Lady

(12,977 posts)
13. Every time we go it's packed
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 04:24 AM
Apr 2025

southern Oregon, red city blue state.

It's pretty much always like this though, we all love Costco.

pfitz59

(12,266 posts)
10. I just paid off several debts.
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 09:36 PM
Apr 2025

I'm 65. Will be Social Security eligible in a year. 66 yrs and 10 mos. Thanks Reagan. Reducing my obligations to stay withing my small pension and part-time budget. My house is paid off and car loan manageable. I worry about younger folk, especially those saddled with student loans. For many folk Trumpism is doomsday. All their long-term plans and goals have been upended. The market is topsy turvy and retirement funds are shrinking. The malignant narcissist in DC is reveling in the destruction. He loves how folks are groveling and begging him for favors. It is sick. I'd follow the original poster's advice. Hunker down and hope Trumpism dies a spectacular and permanent death. Then rebuild.

calimary

(88,863 posts)
11. So did I.
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 09:57 PM
Apr 2025

My spending is so low by now that it’s hard to see! There’s just nothing I really need anymore, except for food, a regular supply of tea bags, and maybe a little chocolate every day. Thank You, God!

And that’s how it’s gonna stay. Grateful that neither my husband nor I have any big bills to pay down anymore, other than the mortgage. Plus, both kids are PLENTY old enough to handle all their own needs by now, and they actually seem to be enjoying it. Thank You, God, for THAT, too!

Simplification is a good thing. A VERY good thing!

 

elocs

(24,486 posts)
27. Yep, there are those of us who need a bit of chocolate each day if possible. But I hear that will go up in price also.
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 12:15 PM
Apr 2025

Well, I had 10 decent years of retirement before this befell our nation. If only we had been more vigilant in defending our democracy.

calimary

(88,863 posts)
31. I may go ahead and splurge anyway.
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 10:53 PM
Apr 2025

If you want to call it that. One good Hershey bar oughta suffice. Maybe one of those big ones. Milk chocolate. No nuts. Don’t need those. Already have plenty of nuts in my head.

wolfie001

(6,965 posts)
16. Of course that's the Full retirement age benefit
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 08:45 AM
Apr 2025

More if you wait till 70 or so, less if you take it at 62. Like Dorothy, you're always had the chance to flee the Land of Oz once you turned 62

 

elocs

(24,486 posts)
26. That Trumpism dies a spectacular & permanent death is a nice hope, but I fear the US is changed forever.
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 12:12 PM
Apr 2025

Sadly, Democrats and the Left were not vigilant in protecting our democracy, evidently thinking it was a permanent fixture and too many of us were complacent and overconfident about this. We underestimated Trump and maga as just being stupid and whining about a stolen election when for years they have been planning what is happening now.
I hope that young, preschool children may learn about what America once was, a shingle beacon to the world if the books still exist for them to learn this.

DFW

(59,694 posts)
17. There is a Costco about a half hour from my brother's house in Virginia
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 08:48 AM
Apr 2025

My hat goes off to those people handing out those samples all day!! What a job! I do get to speak more Tagalog there than I usually speak in my whole time in Washington. I'm surprised there are any Anglos left doing that job!

Dyedinthewoolliberal

(16,182 posts)
18. I'm in mid-Michigan.
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 09:44 AM
Apr 2025

Pretty white here If food is seasoned with pepper here it's too spicy for many!!

DFW

(59,694 posts)
22. Quite the opposite in northern Virginia
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 10:35 AM
Apr 2025

White Anglos are a small minority of the folks in the Costco where my brother shops (and I, when I'm there). Both immigrants and diplomats mixing--logical since they like to eat the same stuff. Spicy food is omnipresent and welcome. Since my brother and I like it too, we are frequent and willing targets for the offerings. If it's Asian (Turkey to Vietnam, it doesn't matter) or South American, we're in!

 

elocs

(24,486 posts)
19. I feel sorry for the young people who are still old enough to remember what America once was
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 10:07 AM
Apr 2025

and will never be again. We will be a pariah, a second world nation with nukes among the free nations of the world and hopefully a lesson to them as well to be vigilant in protecting their freedoms and not become complacent in believing things will always be the same.

DFW

(59,694 posts)
23. Color me stupid
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 10:39 AM
Apr 2025

But I think there is still enough will and initiative out there to bust out of this dark mode. I remember the optimism when Bill Clinton, then Barack Obama, and then Joe Biden took office. Each time, the Republicans managed to sour the mood, but each time, we bounced back, too. I'll maintain a glimmer of hope. The Europeans are such pessimists, I get enough of that here already.

Vinca

(53,228 posts)
20. Re your last remark. If I had a dime for every time my husband has said "Glad we're not young" recently,
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 10:17 AM
Apr 2025

I'd be . . . not rich . . . able to buy a decent steak. Never thought I'd see such a clusterfuck in my lifetime and I remember getting an 11% mortgage when we bought our first house.

CousinIT

(12,165 posts)
28. I'm 65, thanks to RayGun I can't get full SS bennies until 67.
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 12:18 PM
Apr 2025

If it's still there, benefits will probably be cut for all of us because privatizing it will skyrocket administrative costs.

My employer won't let me take all of my 401 (k) out, but I took half out. Now, I'm sweating what's going to happen to the rest and wondering what the hell Social Security will be like in two years.

UGH.

This is a BAD, BAD time for anyone to be near retirement. I mean stressful, fear-inducing, and hair-raising (those who still have hair).

Medicare will probably be privatized too. Pfft.



The Madcap

(1,693 posts)
29. They're going to kill me anyway,
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 12:22 PM
Apr 2025

so I might as well have a year or two of freedom before they do it.

Johnny2X2X

(23,670 posts)
30. Save save save
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 12:37 PM
Apr 2025

My savings are my key focus right now. No revolving debt.

Putting off expensies. Was going to rebuild my deck, I'm painting it instead. Was doing a week vacation for an anniversary, going camping now instead.

Kaleva

(40,132 posts)
32. Your kids and grandkids will be dealing with climate change
Fri Apr 4, 2025, 03:57 AM
Apr 2025

My guess is that, in time, they'll be envious of your current situation as they struggle to survive

 

Tickle

(4,131 posts)
33. I work at a detox, and
Fri Apr 4, 2025, 04:20 AM
Apr 2025

we've had layoff, because lots of grants are going away. Rumpy ran on stopping fentanyl deaths. It doesn't make much sense to take away from those of us trying to help.

Latest Discussions»General Discussion»Well, for me, a semi reti...