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Dyedinthewoolliberal

(16,074 posts)
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 08:57 PM Apr 2

Well, for me, a semi retired 74 year old guy

the Tariff party hosted by Mango Mussolini today tells me I should stop spending, get debt as low as possible and hope the shit show doesn't cause my little part time job to be eliminated or reduced (giving out samples at Costco). I'm am in a way, perversely glad I'm not my kids and grandkids ages.........

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Well, for me, a semi retired 74 year old guy (Original Post) Dyedinthewoolliberal Apr 2 OP
Between Trump and climate change, the future does not look good. surfered Apr 2 #1
I never had kids FoxNewsSucks Apr 2 #4
I will be looking for more for that TalentAgency Apr 2 #2
When I was 11 years old I decided not to have kids. multigraincracker Apr 2 #3
Unless they can read about it in uncensored books, very young kids won't know what America once was elocs Apr 3 #21
I've been working on the same - not spending as much, etc. hamsterjill Apr 2 #5
Means I have to go back into part time Nursing was hoping to fully retir but not happening now🙃 FloridaBlues Apr 2 #6
How is Costco doing lately! wolfie001 Apr 2 #7
We were in our local Costco just yesterday, and the woman checking us out commented... 3catwoman3 Apr 2 #8
Comments like this help me sleep soundly at nite!!! Thanks wolfie001 Apr 2 #9
It seems busy as ever Dyedinthewoolliberal Apr 2 #12
People always need groceries wolfie001 Apr 3 #14
I've applied at Walmart and they clearly have their DEI program in place on their website. n/t elocs Apr 3 #24
That's good to hear wolfie001 Apr 3 #25
Every time we go it's packed Tree Lady Apr 3 #13
Great to hear! nt wolfie001 Apr 3 #15
I just paid off several debts. pfitz59 Apr 2 #10
So did I. calimary Apr 2 #11
Yep, there are those of us who need a bit of chocolate each day if possible. But I hear that will go up in price also. elocs Apr 3 #27
I may go ahead and splurge anyway. calimary Apr 3 #31
Of course that's the Full retirement age benefit wolfie001 Apr 3 #16
That Trumpism dies a spectacular & permanent death is a nice hope, but I fear the US is changed forever. elocs Apr 3 #26
There is a Costco about a half hour from my brother's house in Virginia DFW Apr 3 #17
I'm in mid-Michigan. Dyedinthewoolliberal Apr 3 #18
Quite the opposite in northern Virginia DFW Apr 3 #22
I feel sorry for the young people who are still old enough to remember what America once was elocs Apr 3 #19
Color me stupid DFW Apr 3 #23
Re your last remark. If I had a dime for every time my husband has said "Glad we're not young" recently, Vinca Apr 3 #20
I'm 65, thanks to RayGun I can't get full SS bennies until 67. CousinIT Apr 3 #28
They're going to kill me anyway, The Madcap Apr 3 #29
Save save save Johnny2X2X Apr 3 #30
Your kids and grandkids will be dealing with climate change Kaleva Apr 4 #32
I work at a detox, and Tickle Apr 4 #33

FoxNewsSucks

(11,120 posts)
4. I never had kids
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 09:41 PM
Apr 2

and am now so fucking glad. I don't know how anyone would want to birth a child into this world today.

multigraincracker

(35,478 posts)
3. When I was 11 years old I decided not to have kids.
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 09:13 PM
Apr 2

That 64 years ago. Glad I don’t have to worry about that. I do have a ton of step children, grand kids and great grand kids. They are all great and I fear for them.

elocs

(24,109 posts)
21. Unless they can read about it in uncensored books, very young kids won't know what America once was
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 11:18 AM
Apr 3

and likely never will be again in their lifetimes. I wonder if they will ask themselves why we weren't more vigilant to protect and keep our democracy and its freedoms?

hamsterjill

(15,774 posts)
5. I've been working on the same - not spending as much, etc.
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 09:42 PM
Apr 2

I can offer that Costco seems to be doing great, at least in my area! It is more packed than I've ever seen it every time I go there. So here's hoping that means good things for your part-time employment.

I am scared to death about the future. I'm in my sixties and have one child, but no grandchildren. I'm grateful for that because I fear what's to come.

I just wish that someone would do something to stop the asshole. I was excited about what Cory Booker did, but we need much, much more than just that.

wolfie001

(4,709 posts)
7. How is Costco doing lately!
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 09:48 PM
Apr 2

I've heard business has been booming because of all the hate generated by Dump and his hate cult. Have you noticed an uptick? Just curious.

3catwoman3

(26,547 posts)
8. We were in our local Costco just yesterday, and the woman checking us out commented...
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 10:15 PM
Apr 2

...that they have had a lot of new members who have left Sam's club. Good!

wolfie001

(4,709 posts)
14. People always need groceries
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 09:42 AM
Apr 3

I shop Union here in Maryland! No exceptions. I'm retired Union so that's where my money goes. Kohl's still has its DEI program in place, so I've been getting big-discounted items from there for my family. Cheers

elocs

(24,109 posts)
24. I've applied at Walmart and they clearly have their DEI program in place on their website. n/t
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 01:05 PM
Apr 3

wolfie001

(4,709 posts)
25. That's good to hear
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 01:10 PM
Apr 3

Maybe they're paying attention to the bigger picture. Best of luck to ya!

Tree Lady

(12,364 posts)
13. Every time we go it's packed
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 05:24 AM
Apr 3

southern Oregon, red city blue state.

It's pretty much always like this though, we all love Costco.

pfitz59

(11,460 posts)
10. I just paid off several debts.
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 10:36 PM
Apr 2

I'm 65. Will be Social Security eligible in a year. 66 yrs and 10 mos. Thanks Reagan. Reducing my obligations to stay withing my small pension and part-time budget. My house is paid off and car loan manageable. I worry about younger folk, especially those saddled with student loans. For many folk Trumpism is doomsday. All their long-term plans and goals have been upended. The market is topsy turvy and retirement funds are shrinking. The malignant narcissist in DC is reveling in the destruction. He loves how folks are groveling and begging him for favors. It is sick. I'd follow the original poster's advice. Hunker down and hope Trumpism dies a spectacular and permanent death. Then rebuild.

calimary

(85,966 posts)
11. So did I.
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 10:57 PM
Apr 2

My spending is so low by now that it’s hard to see! There’s just nothing I really need anymore, except for food, a regular supply of tea bags, and maybe a little chocolate every day. Thank You, God!

And that’s how it’s gonna stay. Grateful that neither my husband nor I have any big bills to pay down anymore, other than the mortgage. Plus, both kids are PLENTY old enough to handle all their own needs by now, and they actually seem to be enjoying it. Thank You, God, for THAT, too!

Simplification is a good thing. A VERY good thing!

elocs

(24,109 posts)
27. Yep, there are those of us who need a bit of chocolate each day if possible. But I hear that will go up in price also.
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 01:15 PM
Apr 3

Well, I had 10 decent years of retirement before this befell our nation. If only we had been more vigilant in defending our democracy.

calimary

(85,966 posts)
31. I may go ahead and splurge anyway.
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 11:53 PM
Apr 3

If you want to call it that. One good Hershey bar oughta suffice. Maybe one of those big ones. Milk chocolate. No nuts. Don’t need those. Already have plenty of nuts in my head.

wolfie001

(4,709 posts)
16. Of course that's the Full retirement age benefit
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 09:45 AM
Apr 3

More if you wait till 70 or so, less if you take it at 62. Like Dorothy, you're always had the chance to flee the Land of Oz once you turned 62

elocs

(24,109 posts)
26. That Trumpism dies a spectacular & permanent death is a nice hope, but I fear the US is changed forever.
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 01:12 PM
Apr 3

Sadly, Democrats and the Left were not vigilant in protecting our democracy, evidently thinking it was a permanent fixture and too many of us were complacent and overconfident about this. We underestimated Trump and maga as just being stupid and whining about a stolen election when for years they have been planning what is happening now.
I hope that young, preschool children may learn about what America once was, a shingle beacon to the world if the books still exist for them to learn this.

DFW

(57,806 posts)
17. There is a Costco about a half hour from my brother's house in Virginia
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 09:48 AM
Apr 3

My hat goes off to those people handing out those samples all day!! What a job! I do get to speak more Tagalog there than I usually speak in my whole time in Washington. I'm surprised there are any Anglos left doing that job!

Dyedinthewoolliberal

(16,074 posts)
18. I'm in mid-Michigan.
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 10:44 AM
Apr 3

Pretty white here If food is seasoned with pepper here it's too spicy for many!!

DFW

(57,806 posts)
22. Quite the opposite in northern Virginia
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 11:35 AM
Apr 3

White Anglos are a small minority of the folks in the Costco where my brother shops (and I, when I'm there). Both immigrants and diplomats mixing--logical since they like to eat the same stuff. Spicy food is omnipresent and welcome. Since my brother and I like it too, we are frequent and willing targets for the offerings. If it's Asian (Turkey to Vietnam, it doesn't matter) or South American, we're in!

elocs

(24,109 posts)
19. I feel sorry for the young people who are still old enough to remember what America once was
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 11:07 AM
Apr 3

and will never be again. We will be a pariah, a second world nation with nukes among the free nations of the world and hopefully a lesson to them as well to be vigilant in protecting their freedoms and not become complacent in believing things will always be the same.

DFW

(57,806 posts)
23. Color me stupid
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 11:39 AM
Apr 3

But I think there is still enough will and initiative out there to bust out of this dark mode. I remember the optimism when Bill Clinton, then Barack Obama, and then Joe Biden took office. Each time, the Republicans managed to sour the mood, but each time, we bounced back, too. I'll maintain a glimmer of hope. The Europeans are such pessimists, I get enough of that here already.

Vinca

(51,946 posts)
20. Re your last remark. If I had a dime for every time my husband has said "Glad we're not young" recently,
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 11:17 AM
Apr 3

I'd be . . . not rich . . . able to buy a decent steak. Never thought I'd see such a clusterfuck in my lifetime and I remember getting an 11% mortgage when we bought our first house.

CousinIT

(11,258 posts)
28. I'm 65, thanks to RayGun I can't get full SS bennies until 67.
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 01:18 PM
Apr 3

If it's still there, benefits will probably be cut for all of us because privatizing it will skyrocket administrative costs.

My employer won't let me take all of my 401 (k) out, but I took half out. Now, I'm sweating what's going to happen to the rest and wondering what the hell Social Security will be like in two years.

UGH.

This is a BAD, BAD time for anyone to be near retirement. I mean stressful, fear-inducing, and hair-raising (those who still have hair).

Medicare will probably be privatized too. Pfft.



The Madcap

(1,115 posts)
29. They're going to kill me anyway,
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 01:22 PM
Apr 3

so I might as well have a year or two of freedom before they do it.

Johnny2X2X

(22,775 posts)
30. Save save save
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 01:37 PM
Apr 3

My savings are my key focus right now. No revolving debt.

Putting off expensies. Was going to rebuild my deck, I'm painting it instead. Was doing a week vacation for an anniversary, going camping now instead.

Kaleva

(39,251 posts)
32. Your kids and grandkids will be dealing with climate change
Fri Apr 4, 2025, 04:57 AM
Apr 4

My guess is that, in time, they'll be envious of your current situation as they struggle to survive

Tickle

(4,031 posts)
33. I work at a detox, and
Fri Apr 4, 2025, 05:20 AM
Apr 4

we've had layoff, because lots of grants are going away. Rumpy ran on stopping fentanyl deaths. It doesn't make much sense to take away from those of us trying to help.

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