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FirstLight

(15,770 posts)
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 12:49 PM Jun 2025

Still debating going to No Kings... I really wanna support, but scared to go alone, and I'm disabled....

I have a walker with a seat, so I could probably make it for a minute... But I'm also not sure about going by myself. I think it will be a lot of familiar faces and locals and maybe even hispanic families I have loved as I worked in schools etc...

I really wanna show solidarity... Mostly I'm afraid of my physical limitations and being alone is not good when you're not able to run...

Our police aren't usually agressive...but we also have the area for gathering right next to the highway and people will be trolling and throwing things at cars could happen, or vice versa. Can't talk about it in our local FB group without being screamed at and insulted by magas, they have to turn off comments.

Who's doing what tomorrow??? Should I just bite the bullet and go?

https://southtahoenow.com/06/11/2025/no-kings-peaceful-rally-set-for-south-lake-tahoe

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Still debating going to No Kings... I really wanna support, but scared to go alone, and I'm disabled.... (Original Post) FirstLight Jun 2025 OP
Sit it out for your personal safety. SheltieLover Jun 2025 #1
Right there with you. Feel so frustrated I can't help and be part of things. LiberalLoner Jun 2025 #22
I am with you on this SheltieLover Jun 2025 #23
What a wonderful idea! 😍😍😍 LiberalLoner Jun 2025 #24
I agree! And we aren't the only ones who are unable to go. SheltieLover Jun 2025 #30
Count me in! Mossfern Jun 2025 #35
We can have our own little party here while our community stands in for us SheltieLover Jun 2025 #47
I live in Naples, Florida and we had a bunch of seniors protesting with walkers. kerry-is-my-prez Jun 2025 #40
This. orangecrush Jun 2025 #44
Most articles I've seen recommend going with someone else. Can you find a ride with a local organization? erronis Jun 2025 #2
I posted at my friends on FB to see who might be going... FirstLight Jun 2025 #4
I am concerned about your safety. We saw what ICE did to Sen Padilla, a big strong man. Irish_Dem Jun 2025 #3
god, it's so hard to think this way! FirstLight Jun 2025 #5
This is how we must think now. It is like a war. Irish_Dem Jun 2025 #12
I have neuropathy and was pushed to the ground bedazzled Jun 2025 #29
Forgive, me but I am a hockey fan, so I'm curious about where this happened to you. Xavier Breath Jun 2025 #39
We used to have a bunch of unruly kids fighting at Univ. of Michigan. kerry-is-my-prez Jun 2025 #41
I've always wanted to attend a game at Yost. Xavier Breath Jun 2025 #45
Florida panthers. No great surprise bedazzled Jun 2025 #48
We plan to go. bamagal62 Jun 2025 #6
I'm feeling hesitant too Alice Kramden Jun 2025 #7
If I were Traildogbob Jun 2025 #8
awww...thank you! FirstLight Jun 2025 #9
Rock out!!. Traildogbob Jun 2025 #10
I can dig it! FirstLight Jun 2025 #13
Don't do anything that makes you unsafe. 1WorldHope Jun 2025 #11
I plan on doing this. kerry-is-my-prez Jun 2025 #42
I also am not going. ananda Jun 2025 #14
There are several virtual rallies you could join: WhiskeyGrinder Jun 2025 #15
I would sit it out, you will still be there in your own way obamanut2012 Jun 2025 #16
I did a little extra. Sharing the karma. usonian Jun 2025 #17
I'm going by myself, and I'm not nervous. The person I went to the Hands Off march in April can't make it chia Jun 2025 #18
I'll drive by myself Marthe48 Jun 2025 #19
Go! Ms. Toad Jun 2025 #20
I went to the BLM stuff here... FirstLight Jun 2025 #25
I have gone to many, MANY protests... Trueblue Texan Jun 2025 #28
ICE protests - yes. Ms. Toad Jun 2025 #37
You haven't seen the local FB groups. Sounds like MAGA are itching for a fight. Nt Trueblue Texan Jun 2025 #49
We're in a marathon now. There will be other opportunities Arazi Jun 2025 #21
I don't think you should go. Trueblue Texan Jun 2025 #26
Go with a buddy or two, or make friends there and ask for protection. Be on the edges, be like water Bernardo de La Paz Jun 2025 #27
River Park Square, Spokane EarthAbides Jun 2025 #31
It's not mandatory JustAnotherGen Jun 2025 #32
At my Hands Off protest kacekwl Jun 2025 #33
In our group we are going to have an area dedicated for those with disabilities milestogo Jun 2025 #34
Yeah ..im staying here. FirstLight Jun 2025 #36
K&R UTUSN Jun 2025 #38
I know exactly what you mean. Sparkly Jun 2025 #43
I went alone to the last one Tree Lady Jun 2025 #46

SheltieLover

(76,767 posts)
1. Sit it out for your personal safety.
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 12:53 PM
Jun 2025

Going alone is not advisable, imo.

I can't go either due to mobility issues & the fact that i get really sick very quickly in the heat, so I feel your frustration.

kerry-is-my-prez

(10,207 posts)
40. I live in Naples, Florida and we had a bunch of seniors protesting with walkers.
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 05:10 PM
Jun 2025

The media was impressed with all the people that were out there with walkers - it made national news. This was a protest against the Iraq war.

erronis

(22,652 posts)
2. Most articles I've seen recommend going with someone else. Can you find a ride with a local organization?
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 12:54 PM
Jun 2025

Where I live we have several volunteer groups that can give individual rides. And since volunteers tend to be more, ahem, liberal good-hearted folkes, they may be planning to go to an event anyway.

Check your senior center or Council on Aging. I'm guessing the Tahoe area has a lot of good people.

Good luck!

FirstLight

(15,770 posts)
4. I posted at my friends on FB to see who might be going...
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 12:55 PM
Jun 2025

that's probably the only way I'll go... not with strangers. But I also don't know what my body will feel like tomorrow...

Irish_Dem

(79,782 posts)
3. I am concerned about your safety. We saw what ICE did to Sen Padilla, a big strong man.
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 12:55 PM
Jun 2025

Grabbed him and threw him on the floor.

If ICE or NG starts shooting bullets you cannot protect yourself or run quickly.

Yes other bad actors might pose a threat as well.

I am also concerned you might pose a safety hazard to other people.
If someone stops to help you, they are in harm's way.
Or your walker blocks the way preventing escape for others.

FirstLight

(15,770 posts)
5. god, it's so hard to think this way!
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 12:57 PM
Jun 2025

My little town is so chill and cool...but it also has magas who will infiltrate and disrupt... UGFH!

Irish_Dem

(79,782 posts)
12. This is how we must think now. It is like a war.
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 01:22 PM
Jun 2025

Another concern I have for myself is that I am older with osteoporosis.
If I am pushed and fall, I would probably break a bone.

I am also concerned that if things go badly at the event, the paramedics
will be called to treat a lot of people. If they are treating me, a young person might not get
medical care at the scene.

I come from a military family and one rule of war is that you have to stay alive to fight another day.

bedazzled

(1,885 posts)
29. I have neuropathy and was pushed to the ground
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 03:27 PM
Jun 2025

At a hockey game. You don't look at crowds the same way again. I am always looking behind me.

I wish to be there, but will have to send mental energy only...

Xavier Breath

(6,471 posts)
39. Forgive, me but I am a hockey fan, so I'm curious about where this happened to you.
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 05:06 PM
Jun 2025

Did the perpetuator or perpetrators suffer any consequences for their actions?

And, don't feel bad about not going. Some of us will be there in spirit.

kerry-is-my-prez

(10,207 posts)
41. We used to have a bunch of unruly kids fighting at Univ. of Michigan.
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 05:14 PM
Jun 2025

I sat in front of a bunch of them. Never seen such “jerky” kids. They left me alone and I left them alone though. They were outnumbered by a bunch of college kids.

Xavier Breath

(6,471 posts)
45. I've always wanted to attend a game at Yost.
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 05:19 PM
Jun 2025

It's definitely one of the barns to visit on this fan's bucket list.

bedazzled

(1,885 posts)
48. Florida panthers. No great surprise
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 05:41 PM
Jun 2025

This state has been infested with demons.

Don't know who it was. I need help getting up and I got it. There are nice people too but so embarrassing!

Will be sending all good energies to those who are standing up!

bamagal62

(4,350 posts)
6. We plan to go.
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 12:57 PM
Jun 2025

But, my husband is immune compromised. So we will need to wear masks. Still debating it.

Alice Kramden

(2,876 posts)
7. I'm feeling hesitant too
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 12:57 PM
Jun 2025

Just had minor surgery, and I would be alone. There are other ways for us to be supportive, and let the healthy people represent

Traildogbob

(12,561 posts)
8. If I were
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 12:59 PM
Jun 2025

Within a hundred miles of you, I would be at your Door at FIRSTLIGHT, and carry you, even with my freshly steroidal L5 , and crippling Heel spur that I got from actually serving and fell 20 feet to the deck from the ships mast.
Keep the spirit my friend, we will walk for you.
Us vets are good about caring and fighting for those that can not, to fight for what this country is suppose to be.
Watch and be proud of all that care for the Nation.
I will draw my strength from you.

FirstLight

(15,770 posts)
9. awww...thank you!
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 01:03 PM
Jun 2025

I just had an L4 injection june 6th! They also gave me steriods for this week cuz my hands are so painful right now...

Thank you for your service and strength! Thinking of doing a home-based solidarity...playiing my drum and singing prayers for peace! :salute:

Traildogbob

(12,561 posts)
10. Rock out!!.
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 01:08 PM
Jun 2025

I am a guitarist, trying to stay ahead of arthritis.
I need some Keith Richards pain control. I promise, I will hold your desire to be with us in my heart.
Maybe play Collins’s “In the Air Tonight’ in my headphones and do the solo drum entry in the air, just in your honor.
Cheers.

1WorldHope

(1,862 posts)
11. Don't do anything that makes you unsafe.
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 01:22 PM
Jun 2025

If you have a car, drive by and honk. Watch what is happening on TV and call your reps. But, be well and take care of yourself. We are gonna need a lot of fruit pickers for a while until we get rid of this brain eating amoeba. 🤭

ananda

(34,414 posts)
14. I also am not going.
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 01:28 PM
Jun 2025

I have a hot knee, probably from some sort
of insect or spider bite.

I'm there in spirit tomorrow!

obamanut2012

(29,172 posts)
16. I would sit it out, you will still be there in your own way
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 01:35 PM
Jun 2025

At church, we say to stand to pray in body or spirit. You will be protesting in spirit.

Your safety is paramount.

try and find a livestream to watch.

usonian

(23,535 posts)
17. I did a little extra. Sharing the karma.
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 01:36 PM
Jun 2025

I made an $86.47 donation to Indivisible

And wrote a song. Free to use and share. No attribution needed nor wanted.

https://www.democraticunderground.com/100220391634

Some graphics, too.

chia

(2,751 posts)
18. I'm going by myself, and I'm not nervous. The person I went to the Hands Off march in April can't make it
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 02:02 PM
Jun 2025

this time. I've got my sign and I'm ready.

I am in good health though, and understand that those who have mobility issues have more to think about, understandably. But at the last march, I saw people in wheelchairs with signs, waving at and supporting those of us passing them by. If you can do that - comfortably and easily - then I'm sure your local marchers would love to see you as they pass by.

Marthe48

(22,715 posts)
19. I'll drive by myself
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 02:18 PM
Jun 2025

I'll know many of the people who join the protest. We are in an almost 100% white community, in a red county, red state, so I don't expect scrutiny from i c.e. or fbi, at least I hope not.
Once I get to the protest, I'll do what I can and support others who can do more
I have room on my sign, thought I'd make a border showing is with me in spirit. I have multi- colored pipe cleaners, thought I could punch holes across the bottom and twist a bit of pipe cleaner through. Be a subtle reminder of Pride as well

Ms. Toad

(38,282 posts)
20. Go!
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 02:28 PM
Jun 2025

These organized protests are generally extremely orderly (aside from people driving up and down the route honking horns). Most have peacekeepers to help ensure it stays orderly.

Stay away from anyplace you suspect people might throw things - but my guess is it will be a party-like atmosphere, and it will do you good to find like-minded people.

I am amazed at how many people apparently have no experience with organized demonstrations and are afraid to go, or afraid to sign up. I've been to dozens starting when I was somewhere shy of 10 years old. I went to one just after the end of the Vietnam war with my grandfather. I've been to two since Trump took office. Not a single hint of violence at any of them. You do have added reasons to be cautious - it is challenging to navigate in a walker in a crowd. If you think you can navigate in a walker in a friendly crowd, don't let the fear of violence or people running keep you away.

That said - don't feel obligated to go. We all do what we are capable of doing - and when some of us step back, others step forward.

FirstLight

(15,770 posts)
25. I went to the BLM stuff here...
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 03:16 PM
Jun 2025

but I was more able to walk and my kid was a Junior/Senior in HS and we went with extra kids..It was really moving.
We went a few nights...

Trueblue Texan

(4,187 posts)
28. I have gone to many, MANY protests...
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 03:21 PM
Jun 2025

...but this one carries more threats of violence. They WANT violence to be able to justify their overreach.

Arazi

(8,698 posts)
21. We're in a marathon now. There will be other opportunities
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 02:32 PM
Jun 2025

Stay safe above all at the moment.

We need you 🙂

Trueblue Texan

(4,187 posts)
26. I don't think you should go.
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 03:18 PM
Jun 2025

Especially if you have to go alone with no support. Even I would not go alone and I am not disabled. I am going with 2 other senior ladies. We all had lunch together and made signs. We are driving over to the courthouse tomorrow where the protest begins at 9 a.m. I will march for you, FirstLight.

Bernardo de La Paz

(60,320 posts)
27. Go with a buddy or two, or make friends there and ask for protection. Be on the edges, be like water
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 03:19 PM
Jun 2025

Every bit helps, but you don't have to go. We benefit from a healthy you more than an extra sign or person at the protest. All the same, every person at the protest helps and inspires.

EarthAbides

(425 posts)
31. River Park Square, Spokane
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 03:33 PM
Jun 2025

I want to go, but my husband would not be able to walk from the public parking garage to the demonstration, and I won't leave him behind. I'm so pissed that this protest is at River Park Square. There is no place to park on the streets surrounding the park, the parking garage only has 1,300 spaces and the only way you can see this protest is by being there. Hopefully the local media will cover it. The last protest (Hands-Off) against the fascist pig started in a neighborhood park and spilled out onto a very busy street. It was so visible to everyone!

JustAnotherGen

(37,555 posts)
32. It's not mandatory
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 03:55 PM
Jun 2025

My Ladies Gun Club is meeting tomorrow and we have a few members who ate going to others how to preserve foods. I'm sharing techniques for drying foods. Our grandma's survived Jim Crow with these skills.

We are gonna survive this regime. That's how we protest.

kacekwl

(8,874 posts)
33. At my Hands Off protest
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 04:00 PM
Jun 2025

everything was so cool and relaxed. There were thousands of people there without any problems. I didn't even see any police there. I realize that this time may be different if maga morons try anything but I don't expect it. Good luck to all.

milestogo

(22,573 posts)
34. In our group we are going to have an area dedicated for those with disabilities
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 04:01 PM
Jun 2025

and marshals to look out for them. If your protest is big enough there should be a plan for that.

Is there any way you can contact a local organizer to let them know you would like to come but need some support?

FirstLight

(15,770 posts)
36. Yeah ..im staying here.
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 04:23 PM
Jun 2025

I don't even want to leave the house when tourists are afoot...so I'll give my anxiety a break

Sparkly

(24,823 posts)
43. I know exactly what you mean.
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 05:18 PM
Jun 2025

I love the spirit of protest marches, and wanted to go just to put my body where my beliefs are and be counted! But my health is poor now (metastatic cancer - I'm in mid-chemo for the second time) and it's wreaked havoc on my spine and strength.

I loved seeing people older than me out there in years past, and I aim to be there again!!

Meanwhile, I'll be cheering on everyone who can go!!

Tree Lady

(13,006 posts)
46. I went alone to the last one
Fri Jun 13, 2025, 05:20 PM
Jun 2025

You could do a drive by check it out. Hang out with others your age not in the most crowded area.

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