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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsJust want to share something my MAGA cousin said to me. First, I have pretty much
gotten her out of my life because trump.
Also, I have always said that I believe prosperity follows generosity, (and that is why trump has continued his grifts all these years.He loses it as fast as he makes it). I have wondered why she, in her early 60's with a husband and no kids cannot afford to retire. I don't believe I ever said that specifically to her. But, I know they have done all the stupid trump things - like buying silver, buying those black rocks from Russia to protect against 5G and getting involved with bitcoin. (I have seen all of these things advertised on MAGA shows etc I also saw Ivermectin advertised right next to a Trump advertisement so there is something weird there)
Anyway there was a conversation between her and me recently - after a real falling out when I finally realised that the reason she stopped inviting me for Thanksgiving etc was fuck face trump and she admitted it.
Sooooooo, the last text from her was, "I helped 20 people today. What did you do?" The truth of it is she is a MD and she does acupuncture so she was speaking about people who literally PAID HER for her help. I know people go into fields where they can help people and they really like it but damn, do not tell me that is your frigging charity work!
She makes a very good salary. I don't know now what it is but in general doctors do well.
Anyway, that's it. If someone has experienced something similar I would love to know.
vanlassie
(6,220 posts)your good deeds.
FalloutShelter
(14,190 posts)A rich man goes to Heaven and St. Asks him, what were your charitable acts?
The rich man says I gave a penny here and I gave a penny there.
St. Peter said, Take your two cents and go to Hell.
in2herbs
(4,243 posts)Disaffected
(6,168 posts)doesn't help anybody except herself. Might be worth pointing that out to her (even though it will probably to be fruitless).
Wiz Imp
(9,016 posts)vanlassie
(6,220 posts)it was the only professional my former major insurance employer would pay for acupuncture.
iemanja
(57,401 posts)are legit? (I got this impression from your use of quotes.)
vanlassie
(6,220 posts)our physicians. I could be wrong.
iemanja
(57,401 posts)which has its own knowledge base. I might point out that the Chinese are far healthier than Americans.
vanlassie
(6,220 posts)writerJT
(467 posts)who are trained in western medicine.
And much like here, theres a difference between them and the people who have degrees in Chinese medicine, acupuncture, etc.
And its kind of strange to assume that the Chinese (really?) are healthier because theyre all using the same approach.
writerJT
(467 posts)Demobrat
(10,263 posts)It definitely works. Medicare covers it now for lower back pain. The practitioner has to be under the supervision of an MD. Or I guess be one.
Wiz Imp
(9,016 posts)But I have never gone to a General Practitioner or Family Medicine Doctor who considered it legitimate medical treatment.
Maraya1969
(23,419 posts)years ago. And I would have to admit that she is really good. I don't know if insurance pays for these people but she does it once a week.
SomewhereInTheMiddle
(607 posts)A DO who used acupuncture alongside more common western treatments would not surprise me.
According to my MD here in Rwanda who got his degree from a western medical school in China, TCM (Traditional Chinese Medicine) was a required part of the western medicine curriculum at his school.
There are TCM medical schools and departments in many large hospitals in China.
I have never had acupuncture or TCM and have no personal opinion on its efficacy.
Demobrat
(10,263 posts)she cant afford to retire? Thats
.weird. Anyway she sounds insufferable. The response that comes to mind is I did my job, same as you.
But no response is an excellent response
2MuchNoise
(723 posts)Qutzupalotl
(15,663 posts)Tribetime
(7,063 posts)Never retired..Always worked medical bills strspoed him most of his life. I think there are plenty of people like me.
FullySupportDems
(408 posts)It's kind of like a turd in the swimming pool. A little bit of shitty makes a lot of something nice not nice anymore. And standing with the racist bigoted hateful people who want to hurt about half our country and every foreigner they can get ahold of... is so shitty.
BannonsLiver
(20,282 posts)Scrivener7
(58,377 posts)BannonsLiver
(20,282 posts)Scrivener7
(58,377 posts)womanofthehills
(10,718 posts)Many of us are working well beyond our 60s - because we have to or we like to or both. If she did put her money in Bitcoin- shes good.
Maraya1969
(23,419 posts)I know she invested in one company that was either a scam or went bankrupt and she lost everything.
nini
(16,821 posts)Cut her out of your life. There's enough negativity to deal with already, then to have to put up with intentionally cruel people like that?
Do yourself a favor and be dine with her.
H2O Man
(78,650 posts)I come from a fairly large extended family. My father was one of 14 siblings. My mother had 4 siblings. Hence, I have a lot of cousins. A heck of a lot, in fact. A total of three cousins are maga. I stay in touch with two of them, on good terms. We just don't talk about politics. The third one I just avoid. She has lived a pampered life, and has always been a spoiled brat. The last time we spoke was in the felon's first term. She attempted to take maga positions, and in surprisingly self-confident manner, considering she is not that bright. I hurt her feelings, not by attacking her, but simply telling how much of a creep the felon is.
RockRaven
(18,739 posts)But it is pretty on brand for a MAGAt to classify defrauding someone as helping them.
And if she is a 5G-bogeyman dumbass, she's gonna have to engage some industrial grade cognitive dissonance to deal with these new "Trump phones" that are apparently the hellspawn clan's newest grift.
Martin Eden
(15,367 posts)With your vote for Trump.
purple_haze
(401 posts)Oh shit, I'm screwed, I guess. I've been doing it for decades. And my parents and grandparents before me.