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live love laugh

(16,245 posts)
Wed Jul 9, 2025, 12:34 AM Jul 2025

I am helping a migrant tonight.

Approaching home I saw her walking carrying a toddler looking very tired. I asked if she was okay and gave her cash. She spoke no English.

I smiled and drove away as she and her son walked between two cars parked on an auto repair shop lot and sat down on the ground.

I drove away unable to figure out how to help or if I should. I couldn’t stand the thought of going to my comfy home knowing they were out there especially with cloudy skies and a forecast of rain.

In the garage I sat a minute then went back. Using Google Translate and the few words of Spanish I remember I managed to ask where was ‘casa’ thinking maybe I could drop her off. No casa. I asked if she wanted to go with me. She got in the car.

I immediately let them shower and put their dirty clothes in the wash and fixed a few burgers. Then she needed pampers so we went for them.

From Translate, she told me that her suitcase of belongings had been stolen two days earlier, and she had been robbed of the little money she had and hit in the head. She showed me an unstitched wound on her scalp that was healing.

I am thankful to be able to be of help to someone in these times. The language barrier makes it harder but I told her I would find “trabajo“ at home. My garage needs organizing and I need some weeds pulled. So tomorrow she can help out and I can pay her.

In the meanwhile, I’m going to be looking to see if any help is available though I doubt it. She is from Venezuela. I want to know more about her story and will hopefully find out more. They’re resting now.

I cannot change the troubling things that we’re witnessing. But just doing this gives me a small feeling of hope about the unity we so desperately need right now.

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I am helping a migrant tonight. (Original Post) live love laugh Jul 2025 OP
While trying to find help Figarosmom Jul 2025 #1
This makes my heart happy and sad godsentme Jul 2025 #2
what a wonderful kindness. thank you for caring enough to offer her some aid and comfort orleans Jul 2025 #3
Thank you for helping these people in need JoseBalow Jul 2025 #4
These links might be good starting points in your search for resources for your guests. alwaysinasnit Jul 2025 #5
"GOD BLESS YOU", as the saying used to go.... Jack Valentino Jul 2025 #6
Every little thing. calimary Jul 2025 #7
... Demovictory9 Jul 2025 #8
Good hearted people have always kept America oasis Jul 2025 #9
Please let us know how things go Marthe48 Jul 2025 #10
I bet if you started a little gofundme and posted the link here BWdem4life Jul 2025 #11
I REALLY want to and she needs it but I'm grappling with the invasion of my privacy to do so. live love laugh Jul 2025 #16
You are a good soul. I've been thinking lately Joinfortmill Jul 2025 #12
Thank you so much for doing this........ a kennedy Jul 2025 #13
Thanks for sharing pattyloutwo Jul 2025 #14
Thank you. Ani Yun Wiya Jul 2025 #15

Figarosmom

(10,234 posts)
1. While trying to find help
Wed Jul 9, 2025, 12:41 AM
Jul 2025

Watch you don't give her location in case ICE moniters calls to different legal groups or help organizations.

orleans

(36,720 posts)
3. what a wonderful kindness. thank you for caring enough to offer her some aid and comfort
Wed Jul 9, 2025, 02:15 AM
Jul 2025

that is simply terrific that you are able to do that and that you did.

Jack Valentino

(4,594 posts)
6. "GOD BLESS YOU", as the saying used to go....
Wed Jul 9, 2025, 03:17 AM
Jul 2025

I still use it often, although not so much in a religious context
as only my highest expression of appreciation....

THANKS for doing what you can!


"trabajo" means 'job' !

(I use Google translate myself to converse over the internet with spanish speakers...
even learned a little spanish myself, although I have backslid in that regard the past two years, sigh)


calimary

(89,240 posts)
7. Every little thing.
Wed Jul 9, 2025, 03:22 AM
Jul 2025

ANY little thing.

Thank you for your generosity and your compassion. Thank you!!!

You’re gonna go to Heaven when you die.

Marthe48

(22,821 posts)
10. Please let us know how things go
Wed Jul 9, 2025, 06:03 AM
Jul 2025

Reading your post made my day. Tell the lady I wish her all the best

live love laugh

(16,245 posts)
16. I REALLY want to and she needs it but I'm grappling with the invasion of my privacy to do so.
Thu Jul 10, 2025, 12:09 AM
Jul 2025

Joinfortmill

(20,387 posts)
12. You are a good soul. I've been thinking lately
Wed Jul 9, 2025, 04:40 PM
Jul 2025

that the situation here is very much like Germany in the 1930s. I suspect we will see more of us helping people. Stay safe.

a kennedy

(35,512 posts)
13. Thank you so much for doing this........
Wed Jul 9, 2025, 04:54 PM
Jul 2025
You restored her faith in this country……thank you, thank you, thank you.

Ani Yun Wiya

(827 posts)
15. Thank you.
Wed Jul 9, 2025, 06:42 PM
Jul 2025

For being such a good and kind person. I hope you can get the lady and her child settled in a good place.

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