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tecelote

(5,155 posts)
Wed Jul 9, 2025, 01:54 PM Jul 2025

Undocumented Neighbors

My neighbors of many years were undocumented.

They were some of the nicest people I've known. Everyone in town knew them. They were a well-respected and a valued part of our community.

They were good people. Everyone knew they were undocumented, including the sheriff and deputies.

Every year, they held a neighborhood party. I never heard a negative word about them.

They passed away a few years ago, and I believe they would say they had a good life, surrounded by many good friends.

'Sounds strange to say this, but I'm glad they did not live to see today. They would be heartbroken.





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SheltieLover

(76,738 posts)
1. I know exactly what you mean. I'm glad everyday that my parents are both dead, they did not live to see a ruskie asset
Wed Jul 9, 2025, 01:57 PM
Jul 2025

illegally squatting in our WH.

I'm so glad your neighbors had a wonderful life with many friends.

FirstLight

(15,770 posts)
2. man, when you used past tense, I was worried...
Wed Jul 9, 2025, 02:01 PM
Jul 2025

I thought the gestapo got them... glad they are "safe" in the afterlife

Skittles

(169,516 posts)
3. I've lived in Texas for half a century
Wed Jul 9, 2025, 02:06 PM
Jul 2025

I've never had a problem with any immigrants documented or undocumented.

I've had PLENTY of problems with racist asshole repukes though.

BonnieJW

(3,079 posts)
9. I know what you mean
Wed Jul 9, 2025, 04:17 PM
Jul 2025

I grew up in Tucson with many kids of different colors and ethnicities. They were wonderful friends and I treasured relationships with them. Their parents were very strict with them and you never saw any of them being disrespectful or unkind.

Skittles

(169,516 posts)
10. I grew up as a GI brat
Wed Jul 9, 2025, 04:42 PM
Jul 2025

I moved constantly and met all kinds of folk - I'm very comfortable living in a metroplex and I think it s because I love variety

Skittles

(169,516 posts)
11. I've said it many times
Wed Jul 9, 2025, 04:43 PM
Jul 2025

I'll take an undocumented immigrant as a neighbor ANY DAY over a fucking MAGAt, because ONE of them believes in America, the other most certainly does NOT.

Ping Tung

(4,137 posts)
7. "For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me"
Wed Jul 9, 2025, 03:21 PM
Jul 2025
Matthew 25:31-46

ShazzieB

(22,205 posts)
12. I get it.
Wed Jul 9, 2025, 04:48 PM
Jul 2025

I've been guilty of the same thing, for different but also 47-related reasons.

I have definitely felt grateful that my husband's brother did not live to see this administration. Same with my sister. Both of them were in nursing homes paid for by Medicaid. God knows what would have become of them if they were still living once the Big Abominable Bill's funding cuts go into affect.

AllaN01Bear

(28,592 posts)
13. a little story.
Wed Jul 9, 2025, 04:53 PM
Jul 2025

was visiting my late dads for either christmas or birthay. was in his car whiulst he was at drs . didnt see the 2 ppl involved but , iremember the exchange quite well ,,, person one . (male) " are u leagel "? )person 2 ( femail) , yes i am.!!!!! love the comeback, an d what buisness is it of yours anyways) nothing more was said.

tishaLA

(14,715 posts)
14. I live just a few blocks from MacArthur Park
Wed Jul 9, 2025, 05:03 PM
Jul 2025

so you can imagine that a lot of my neighbors are undocumented. The wait staff at my local pupusería is also likely undocumented. I've taught lots of undocumented students at my university -- back in the day they were called "AB 540" students because of the assembly bill that gave undocumented students in-state tuition, but fortunately that shorthand has disappeared. As I've told my friends in small towns on the east coast where there are far fewer undocumented people, these people are my neighbors, friends, students, and strangers I cross paths with every day at the supermarket or on public transportation, so seeing the pain and sensing the fear in community members hurts. A lot.

Every year in LA, there seems to be an infinite supply of illegal fireworks going off in the weeks before, during, and after July 4th. This year it was much quieter because people aren't outside as much and, if they are, they don't want to draw attention to themselves. I'd always hated those goddamned fireworks going off at all hours for weeks on end, but now I miss them because of what the relative silence signifies.

rampartd

(3,754 posts)
15. looking at thwe remains of my grandmother;s house after katrina
Thu Jul 10, 2025, 09:45 AM
Jul 2025

i was glad she did not have to see that.

tolkien called death "the gift of men"

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