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MarineCombatEngineer

(18,025 posts)
Tue Nov 25, 2025, 12:22 AM Nov 2025

Ok, so I've rescheduled my trip to Vietnam for mid June as a non combatant per the Vietnamese Govt.

I will post numerous pictures of where I fought and survived.
The Govt. of Vietnam has graciously offered to pay for our expenses, up to and including our full time visiting their beautiful country.

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Ok, so I've rescheduled my trip to Vietnam for mid June as a non combatant per the Vietnamese Govt. (Original Post) MarineCombatEngineer Nov 2025 OP
Sounds like you'll have a wonderful trip! I look forward to seeing your photos. CaliforniaPeggy Nov 2025 #1
The Govt. has generously offered to pay for 2 weeks of all expenses paid, including hotel expenses, food,q MarineCombatEngineer Nov 2025 #2
That is super generous of them. Wow! CaliforniaPeggy Nov 2025 #4
I think it H2O Man Nov 2025 #5
A friend of mine was involved with that DFW Nov 2025 #10
Adrian Cronauer? nt MarineCombatEngineer Nov 2025 #12
Adrian it was DFW Nov 2025 #22
i have a friend who was a consultant for a 'based on a true story' movie mopinko Nov 2025 #23
They are entertainment, not journalism DFW Nov 2025 #40
Why are they doing this? What is their goal? Irish_Dem Nov 2025 #26
I can only guess, but I would say yes, that's part of the reason. MarineCombatEngineer Nov 2025 #27
How are you feeling about going back? Irish_Dem Nov 2025 #29
I'm excited to return to the places I was stationed at, MarineCombatEngineer Nov 2025 #30
Yes a marked improvement. Irish_Dem Nov 2025 #34
Oh yeah, Da Nang is on our itinerary. MarineCombatEngineer Nov 2025 #36
I was wondering when you were going..actually thought it was gonna be around this time of year.. Deuxcents Nov 2025 #3
My wish for you, MCE.... democrank Nov 2025 #6
Enjoy the country this time, it is a beautiful country with a rich history. Bev54 Nov 2025 #7
20 Vietnamese Dishes You Have To Try! 🇻🇳 🩶🩶🩶🔵 Celerity Nov 2025 #8
Even during the war, I got to experience Vietnamese food and let me tell you, MarineCombatEngineer Nov 2025 #9
Stay away from those tiny peppers, unless you love super hot stuff KS Toronado Nov 2025 #24
I love hot peppers, but at my advanced age, MarineCombatEngineer Nov 2025 #25
it's the cilantro, coriander, and culantro RussBLib Nov 2025 #41
Thanks! DET Nov 2025 #18
Fun,Ty! electric_blue68 Nov 2025 #19
My neighbor made the trip KT2000 Nov 2025 #11
I'm hoping it will bring closure to a sad chapter in my life, as I hope it brought closure to your neighbor. MarineCombatEngineer Nov 2025 #13
Yes it did KT2000 Nov 2025 #39
My son just returned from there. czarjak Nov 2025 #14
I was gonna say BaronChocula Nov 2025 #15
2 weeks and I plan to explore every place I served and fought at. MarineCombatEngineer Nov 2025 #16
Looking forward to hearing about it! BaronChocula Nov 2025 #17
Post removed Post removed Nov 2025 #20
Enjoy your stay. GoodRaisin Nov 2025 #21
Any possibility you will be passing by Nimn Hoa or Tuy Hoa gay texan Nov 2025 #28
Unfortunately, no, MarineCombatEngineer Nov 2025 #31
We lost him this year gay texan Nov 2025 #32
My deepest condolence to you and your family. MarineCombatEngineer Nov 2025 #33
Thank you mate gay texan Nov 2025 #35
FWIW, VFW pays for Purple Heart recipients to visit Vietnam all expenses paid dalton99a Nov 2025 #37
Have a good trip. Peace! surfered Nov 2025 #38
wow Skittles Nov 2025 #42

CaliforniaPeggy

(156,564 posts)
1. Sounds like you'll have a wonderful trip! I look forward to seeing your photos.
Tue Nov 25, 2025, 12:29 AM
Nov 2025

It will also be interesting to hear your memories, if you choose to share them. How long will you be there?

I hope you can take your time and really soak in the details. Hurrying around is truly not productive.

Have a fabulous trip!


MarineCombatEngineer

(18,025 posts)
2. The Govt. has generously offered to pay for 2 weeks of all expenses paid, including hotel expenses, food,q
Tue Nov 25, 2025, 12:34 AM
Nov 2025

travel and everything else.
How they can forgive us for the pain and suffering we, as a nation, caused them, is beyond my comprehension.

CaliforniaPeggy

(156,564 posts)
4. That is super generous of them. Wow!
Tue Nov 25, 2025, 12:37 AM
Nov 2025

I suspect they have several reasons for this: They are genuinely generous plus they would like to show the world that they hold no grudges over the terrible battles that they fought in.

H2O Man

(78,940 posts)
5. I think it
Tue Nov 25, 2025, 12:40 AM
Nov 2025

is because of older cultural influences that know that the American young men were not responsible, and that holding grudges is unhealthy. Over the years, I've seen numerous documentaries on the war and post-war years, including interviews with elders in hamlets that helped in the search for human remains.

I hope that you have a good visit there!

DFW

(60,058 posts)
10. A friend of mine was involved with that
Tue Nov 25, 2025, 02:18 AM
Nov 2025

The Pentagon had a small, unsung office whose task it was to work with Vietnam and Cambodia to help find MIAs (or what was left of them) to help their families get closure. Before he told me about it, I had never heard of the project. I visited him in their small office. They seemed quite busy. This was maybe twenty years ago. My friend was already about 70, and had served in Vietnam himself as a radio announcer. Hollywood even made a film about him. He said the story and portrayal of him in the film had little to nothing to do with how it really was (what else is new?).

DFW

(60,058 posts)
22. Adrian it was
Tue Nov 25, 2025, 03:45 AM
Nov 2025

Most people don’t remember his name, just Robin Williams’ antics in the film. Adrian was nothing like that.

mopinko

(73,594 posts)
23. i have a friend who was a consultant for a 'based on a true story' movie
Tue Nov 25, 2025, 07:27 AM
Nov 2025

about his dad. it was about 10% true. (that’s generous.)
yeah, movies….

DFW

(60,058 posts)
40. They are entertainment, not journalism
Tue Nov 25, 2025, 07:11 PM
Nov 2025

Adrian wasn't amused or impressed, but he understood what was going on. The film was to make money, not to be a documentary about him.

MarineCombatEngineer

(18,025 posts)
30. I'm excited to return to the places I was stationed at,
Tue Nov 25, 2025, 01:00 PM
Nov 2025

this time with a camera instead of a weapon.

Irish_Dem

(80,858 posts)
34. Yes a marked improvement.
Tue Nov 25, 2025, 01:13 PM
Nov 2025

And a total change of dynamics and interaction.
All positive.

I am glad you are making the trip.

I would like to hear about it when you return.

If you get a chance to take a picture of Da Nang, I would like to see it.
But you probably won't go there I assume.

Have a good trip when you go!

MarineCombatEngineer

(18,025 posts)
36. Oh yeah, Da Nang is on our itinerary.
Tue Nov 25, 2025, 01:16 PM
Nov 2025

I'm anxious to see if any of the restaurants, hotels, etc are still there.
I would love to take some pictures, video to show my friends at DU and share my experiences.

Deuxcents

(26,520 posts)
3. I was wondering when you were going..actually thought it was gonna be around this time of year..
Tue Nov 25, 2025, 12:37 AM
Nov 2025

I agree with Miss Peggy..we will be wanting to see your pictures and hear all about your experiences.

Bev54

(13,403 posts)
7. Enjoy the country this time, it is a beautiful country with a rich history.
Tue Nov 25, 2025, 01:22 AM
Nov 2025

Take earplugs for the honking though!

MarineCombatEngineer

(18,025 posts)
9. Even during the war, I got to experience Vietnamese food and let me tell you,
Tue Nov 25, 2025, 02:04 AM
Nov 2025

it was delicious, Da Nang had, and I suspect it still has, wonderful food.
I intend to sample every dish they have on the menu.
I'll probably come back to the states weighing about 10 lbs more than when I left.

MarineCombatEngineer

(18,025 posts)
25. I love hot peppers, but at my advanced age,
Tue Nov 25, 2025, 12:38 PM
Nov 2025

my metabolism doesn't digest them like when I was a youngster, so, not hot peppers for me.

RussBLib

(10,571 posts)
41. it's the cilantro, coriander, and culantro
Thu Nov 27, 2025, 12:03 AM
Nov 2025

Last edited Thu Nov 27, 2025, 12:41 AM - Edit history (1)

I hope your trip goes well. Not everyone has that opportunity, obviously. Full circle.

I was so lucky to be a few years younger than you.

https://russblib.blogspot.com

electric_blue68

(26,740 posts)
19. Fun,Ty!
Tue Nov 25, 2025, 03:15 AM
Nov 2025

Unfortunately the first several had fish sauce.
But then the Xoi sticky rice! I love sticky rice. In Chinatown I'd get sticky rice in lotus leaves, and a different place had the sticky rice by itself with little bits of meat & vegs.
The Mi Quang also sounds good.
Have to watch the rest tomorrow.

MarineCombatEngineer

(18,025 posts)
13. I'm hoping it will bring closure to a sad chapter in my life, as I hope it brought closure to your neighbor.
Tue Nov 25, 2025, 02:21 AM
Nov 2025

MarineCombatEngineer

(18,025 posts)
16. 2 weeks and I plan to explore every place I served and fought at.
Tue Nov 25, 2025, 02:54 AM
Nov 2025

The Vietnamese Govt. is giving us unfettered access to past battle fields.

Response to MarineCombatEngineer (Original post)

gay texan

(3,199 posts)
28. Any possibility you will be passing by Nimn Hoa or Tuy Hoa
Tue Nov 25, 2025, 12:56 PM
Nov 2025

It's where my Dad fought in the 68 Tet.

MarineCombatEngineer

(18,025 posts)
31. Unfortunately, no,
Tue Nov 25, 2025, 01:02 PM
Nov 2025

I wasn't stationed there.
If your dad is still around, tell him Welcome Home Brother.

gay texan

(3,199 posts)
32. We lost him this year
Tue Nov 25, 2025, 01:09 PM
Nov 2025

Service related illness. He's no longer haunted by the things that happened there

dalton99a

(93,728 posts)
37. FWIW, VFW pays for Purple Heart recipients to visit Vietnam all expenses paid
Tue Nov 25, 2025, 01:20 PM
Nov 2025
Since 2005, 142 wounded Vietnam vets have returned to their former battlefields courtesy of the Ralph Charles Kahle Jr. Endowment Fund, which was established in 1999 following a $1.1 million bequest from Kahle’s estate.

https://www.vfw.org/media-and-events/latest-releases/archives/2017/8/purple-heart-vets-return-to-vietnam

Skittles

(171,146 posts)
42. wow
Thu Nov 27, 2025, 12:48 AM
Nov 2025

what an amazing and poignant experience that will be

do you know if any of the folk you served with will be doing this too?

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