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milestogo

(22,595 posts)
Sun Jan 4, 2026, 12:39 PM Sunday

When people brag about the US military I feel embarrassed for them.

First of all, its often done by people who have no skin in the game. In the case of TSF - he has never had skin in the game. He is chickenshit. But the three stooges (Rubio, Hegseth, and Trump) act like this military operation proves how manly they are.

Second, its always implied that might makes right. Sure we have a kickass military, but that is because we also have more money than most countries will ever see. That doesn't mean our military actions are always right.

Finally, it makes us look like a world bully. Nobody asked the US to be the world police. And to the degree that they expect it, its because the US is supposed to be a beacon of democracy for the world. Under Trump there is no mention of democracy and we shouldn't expect it. He is out to destroy democracy, starting at home.

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When people brag about the US military I feel embarrassed for them. (Original Post) milestogo Sunday OP
People also mistake expense for effectiveness, and "best" is so vague of an assessment RockRaven Sunday #1
And Vietnam. AverageOldGuy Sunday #10
I get really pissed when I hear him say things like "we won World War II". "We "? Walleye Sunday #2
A good retort is, "As did Rome" Kennah Sunday #3
In countries where history is measured in multiple millennia, I can only imagine the depth of their reaction. Tetrachloride Sunday #4
When I was a kid in the 60s most of the dads, including mine, were WWII vets. I don't Gaugamela Sunday #5
The thing about people who served in WWII is that they saw friends milestogo Sunday #6
Exactly. Gaugamela Sunday #9
My dad. Cherokee100 Sunday #15
Yes. WWII was brutal and horrific. Irish_Dem Sunday #26
Most of the WW II veterans I was around, including my Father thought crime Sunday #28
but it's a tried and true formula that has worked for ever HAB911 Sunday #7
Something sounds fishy to me AverageOldGuy Sunday #8
They were shot at...but the ground defense systems we're destroyed Melon Sunday #17
We hacked them, shut off their radar Johonny Sunday #32
You could do want Hegseth did. He ordered it All stuff is figured out by specific expertise and practice. RoeVWade Sunday #11
I could beat up my 2 granddaughters SCantiGOP Sunday #12
So what do have to say about those who served? marble falls Sunday #13
Yeah, that's an excellent question. MineralMan Sunday #19
Didn't he Cherokee100 Sunday #14
"...world bully". Yep. Rogue nation not to be trusted or even respected. Credibility in the crapper. n/t Evolve Dammit Sunday #16
Bragging about the military lonely bird Sunday #18
Were you ever in the military? MineralMan Sunday #20
No, I wouldn't survive. milestogo Sunday #21
OK, I see. I was in the USAF from 1965-69. There were women in MineralMan Sunday #22
I think it also depends on whether or not you came from a military family. milestogo Sunday #23
I suppose so. MineralMan Sunday #24
btw, thankyou for your service. marble falls Sunday #31
I really don't need to be thanked. MineralMan Monday #33
I joined because I wanted to. I enlisted after my exposure to the draft. I didn't want to be taken, I wanted to ... marble falls Monday #34
The military isn't right for everyone. But is necessary, the next time a national threat comes up ... marble falls Sunday #30
Never ceases to amaze how some people are so willing to send other people's kids off to die. paleotn Sunday #25
And not want to pay for that service. marble falls Monday #35
I am still angry at that display yesterday. Irish_Dem Sunday #27
WW2: We are here to save the day! Aussie105 Sunday #29

RockRaven

(18,738 posts)
1. People also mistake expense for effectiveness, and "best" is so vague of an assessment
Sun Jan 4, 2026, 12:55 PM
Sunday

as to be meaningless. Iraq, Afghanistan, and Ukraine have demonstrated (in some cases repeatedly) the limits of spending one's way to military success.

Most bragging is just people demonstrating how shallow their own thinking is.

Tetrachloride

(9,391 posts)
4. In countries where history is measured in multiple millennia, I can only imagine the depth of their reaction.
Sun Jan 4, 2026, 02:30 PM
Sunday

pretty much all of the Eastern Hemisphere.

Gaugamela

(3,249 posts)
5. When I was a kid in the 60s most of the dads, including mine, were WWII vets. I don't
Sun Jan 4, 2026, 02:42 PM
Sunday

remember anyone talking like that back then. People didn’t constantly say “thank you for your service”. People didn’t idolize the military like they do now. If it was mentioned at all it would be a joke about FUBAR or SNAFU and how nothing ever goes right in the army. Of course, they had a high regard for everyone who served and they deeply honored the sacrifice that they and their fellow service members made, but they didn’t need to make a big deal about it because it was real to them. For many too real.

People today love the military because it’s macho and kicks ass and makes them feel important. It’s like supporting a winning football team. It’s shallow sentimentality, just like their expressions of patriotism and Christian faith. It makes my skin crawl.

milestogo

(22,595 posts)
6. The thing about people who served in WWII is that they saw friends
Sun Jan 4, 2026, 02:46 PM
Sunday

die in front of them and they had to keep on fighting. They had no idea when the war would end. And most of them did NOT want to talk about it at all. WAR really is hell.

Cherokee100

(434 posts)
15. My dad.
Sun Jan 4, 2026, 03:21 PM
Sunday

My dad, was in the Battle of the Bulge. Two Purple Hearts and one Bronze Star. He would never talk about it. He would get mad if I (being a stupid teenager) asked him anything. We didn't know anything about his awards, until after his death. He almost died in a POW camp.

Irish_Dem

(79,882 posts)
26. Yes. WWII was brutal and horrific.
Sun Jan 4, 2026, 04:07 PM
Sunday

Killing and being killed.

Nothing to talk or joke about.
Or pound your chest about.

thought crime

(1,226 posts)
28. Most of the WW II veterans I was around, including my Father
Sun Jan 4, 2026, 04:30 PM
Sunday

were glad to have survived and didn't show much interest in guns.

AverageOldGuy

(3,362 posts)
8. Something sounds fishy to me
Sun Jan 4, 2026, 02:55 PM
Sunday

Helicopters flew across Caracas, landed in Maduro’s front yard, grabbed them, and took off?

Back in a place called Vietnam, I helicoptered into a lot of landing zones. It’s noisy, busy, and gets a lot of attention.

How about this rumor: Maduro’s “capture” was set up in advance. He will plead guilty to some stuff, be sentenced, Trump will pardon him, then he can live safely and quietly in the US — which is far superior to being deposed and killed in a coup.

Melon

(1,101 posts)
17. They were shot at...but the ground defense systems we're destroyed
Sun Jan 4, 2026, 03:26 PM
Sunday

There are videos this morning of burning ground defense systems in Venezuela.

He was undoubtedly turned over by his own forces. The entire thing took two hours.

But…the entire air defense system was likely jammed by the US. Any threats were destroyed by drones and Apache helicopters. Despite Maduro’s bluster, Venezuela had no realistic chance of doing anything. I also doubt there people were going to realistically die for a dictator that made each of their lives that difficult. During Vietnam, they could still shoot down un-armored helicopters with rifle fire.

Johonny

(25,493 posts)
32. We hacked them, shut off their radar
Sun Jan 4, 2026, 06:38 PM
Sunday

Meaning they had little communication, no radar guided weapons. We used a huge amount of assets on this.

RoeVWade

(832 posts)
11. You could do want Hegseth did. He ordered it All stuff is figured out by specific expertise and practice.
Sun Jan 4, 2026, 02:58 PM
Sunday

He contributed his assholiness.

SCantiGOP

(14,664 posts)
12. I could beat up my 2 granddaughters
Sun Jan 4, 2026, 03:03 PM
Sunday

They are 8, so that would not be something to be proud of.

MineralMan

(150,649 posts)
19. Yeah, that's an excellent question.
Sun Jan 4, 2026, 03:28 PM
Sunday

I'm not sure how many in this thread have been in the military, but I suspect not many.

Is our military its senior officer corps or the mass of people who do what that officer corps tells them to do? Which "military" is being discussed?

I'm a veteran, but I was never near any place where there was warlike activity happening. I have an expert marksman ribbon that I earned, but other than at the range in basic training, I never saw a weapon. So, was I military? I don't know, but I wore the uniform for four years and got paid no more than $256 per month at any time. Why did I do that? I don't have a sensible answer for that question, but I don't regret those years.

It's relatively stupid to talk about "the military" without being very specific about what you're talking about.

Such threads as this one rarely do much of anything to enlighten anyone.

Cherokee100

(434 posts)
14. Didn't he
Sun Jan 4, 2026, 03:08 PM
Sunday

Didn't he (trump) take a bullet, for the country?. Seems like, I read that somewhere. Maybe it was Fox/false news. (sarcasm)

Evolve Dammit

(21,501 posts)
16. "...world bully". Yep. Rogue nation not to be trusted or even respected. Credibility in the crapper. n/t
Sun Jan 4, 2026, 03:25 PM
Sunday

lonely bird

(2,778 posts)
18. Bragging about the military
Sun Jan 4, 2026, 03:28 PM
Sunday

If you have to brag about your military then you have a problem. The amount of resources spent on the military/industrial/university/congressional complex is astounding.

How many join the military because of lack of options?

Sure, the military is an impressive machine but at what cost?

The military, imo, as currently constructed and organized is made to fight wars that do not get fought anymore. Asymmetrical warfare, intense urban warfare, informational warfare etc are far more difficult to fight. Hell, the book on insurgency was shown to be useless in Iraq/Afganistan.

The American people are indoctrinated to rah-rah-ism and exceptionalism which means they don’t ask questions.

MineralMan

(150,649 posts)
20. Were you ever in the military?
Sun Jan 4, 2026, 03:31 PM
Sunday

I'm just asking, because it makes a difference how you view it, I think.

milestogo

(22,595 posts)
21. No, I wouldn't survive.
Sun Jan 4, 2026, 03:33 PM
Sunday

But I'm female, and when I was the right age to enlist I didn't know any women who were doing that.

MineralMan

(150,649 posts)
22. OK, I see. I was in the USAF from 1965-69. There were women in
Sun Jan 4, 2026, 03:41 PM
Sunday

the USAF at that time. There still are, of course. I'm not really talking about you personally. It's just that people tend to comment on "the military" without being clear what they're talking about. It's not just one thing, you see. People like me, for example were IN the military, but had nothing to say about what the military did or did not do. We just had jobs, most of which had nothing to do with fighting.

I'm just trying to clarify the term a little more for everyone. Not everyone connected with the military is "the military."

milestogo

(22,595 posts)
23. I think it also depends on whether or not you came from a military family.
Sun Jan 4, 2026, 03:46 PM
Sunday

Although I had a couple of relatives who served in WWII nobody of my generation enlisted. My father had a medical exclusion. So my impressions are from a distance.

MineralMan

(150,649 posts)
24. I suppose so.
Sun Jan 4, 2026, 03:48 PM
Sunday

I was in the military, so I feel OK about commenting in threads about the military. I do know something about how it operates and who is in charge.

MineralMan

(150,649 posts)
33. I really don't need to be thanked.
Mon Jan 5, 2026, 10:54 AM
Monday

It was my choice. I needed a few year to figure out what direction to take with my life. I didn't want to be drafted into the Army, so I enlisted in the USAF. It was an interesting four years. At the end of that, I was 24 years old and ready to return to college and get on with my life. I had decided what I wanted to do during my enlistment and also learned many other things that would be useful to me.

But, hey, thanks for paying your taxes!

marble falls

(71,104 posts)
34. I joined because I wanted to. I enlisted after my exposure to the draft. I didn't want to be taken, I wanted to ...
Mon Jan 5, 2026, 11:28 AM
Monday

... make a pressure free choice.

I'd do it again. It taught me how show up every day, how to get along, about working on machinery I'd never get to touch as a civilian. That maintenance was worth a bunch of knowing how to fix it, and that fixing it right took less time and money than knocking it out, I learned that crew cooperation made everything run smoother. And I got education that made college work smoother for me once I reentered school as a civilian again.

I got to go places and see things I'd have missed if I had stayed in Akron, where I was comfortable but not getting anywhere. And where else was I going to ever get to ride in a submarine?

I thank you for your service because you showed up. And if the shit got deep, you knew how to pull your trouser legs up and wade through. How to maintain coolness when cool was the tool to head off a disaster. How to keep reaction in proportion to the event.

I pay my taxes because government contracts to the lowest bidder, but I still like good roads and bridges. Being sure those in lesser circumstances get a chance. Same as you. We only want the wealthy to pay their fair share. The system helps them preserve their wealth. It's only fair they pay for what they have, you and I paid by being available to do whatever needed to be done to keep the system paying off for them: they need to be paying at a significantly higher rate cash-wise than we of the middle and lower classes. We risked our lives - even the clerks and office personnel, they get to open their wallets.

marble falls

(71,104 posts)
30. The military isn't right for everyone. But is necessary, the next time a national threat comes up ...
Sun Jan 4, 2026, 06:07 PM
Sunday

... we won't have to start from scratch. A good military shortens wars. And WWII was ended by a huge percentage of those who were not ready to be in the military. Having a skeleton of veterans already in uniform and trained saved lives.

I submit the largest, most well equipped humanitarian relief organizations is the US military. And our military has been used as peace keepers all over the planet, putting themselves between partisans in terrible situations. I'd ask millions of civilians in Kosovo, Croatia, Herzegovina, Bosnia, the Congo what they think of the US military. Places where the military was not the cause of war, but politicians were.

It's not the US military, which has a long and continued reputation for keeping it's nose out civilian government, but our politicians who try to make to use the military as a sledge hammer. The regular army got used in very few confrontations in this nation, and the military felt burnt by it. Politicians have used National Guards to dismal results, but the National Guards are controlled by politicians.

The military doesn't make national policy, the politicians do. The Defense Department Secretary is a civilian politician chosen by another politician. The Secretaries of the various services are civilian politicians named by a politician.

Vote wisely and the military is no danger to anyone.

paleotn

(21,576 posts)
25. Never ceases to amaze how some people are so willing to send other people's kids off to die.
Sun Jan 4, 2026, 04:01 PM
Sunday

If they've "seen the elephant" themselves, they're less like to, but still not immune.

Dad got 2 Purple Hearts fighting a real existential threat, not just a perceived political enemy. He didn't want his sons to serve, but not out of any sort of pacifist ideals. He knew well that sometimes you had no choice. He figured he'd done and seen enough to cover himself and his boys. Relented on me joining the Navy. After all, what trouble could I get into being a squid. Well, that depends on what type of squid.

Irish_Dem

(79,882 posts)
27. I am still angry at that display yesterday.
Sun Jan 4, 2026, 04:10 PM
Sunday

It puts our troops in harm's way.

Once you start acting like a bully and bragging, your enemies will go hell bent for leather.

It also demeans and humiliates a proud but humble military.
The hallmark of the US military.

The US military is the best in the world.
They don't need to act like juvenile tin soldiers.

Aussie105

(7,654 posts)
29. WW2: We are here to save the day!
Sun Jan 4, 2026, 04:43 PM
Sunday

And you did.
Basked in your moment of glory, the Hero Country that saved Europe from having to learn German!

Ever since, America has stayed on a war footing with a massive and expensive military looking for somewhere in the world to repeat the WW2 experience.

The urge to be the world's policeman has morphed into something truly psychotic and has come at a horrific cost.

America is backwards in education, health services, gun control etc, and there are 26 gravesites of American soldiers on foreign soil.

There is jubilation in some parts of the world from Venezuelan ex pats, surely now things back home will get better now that America has taken over!

History tells me that is unlikely.

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