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She was missing from several events when the other presidents and spouses were but the Jackson Memorial?
marybourg
(13,614 posts)As is her right as a private citizen.
Quiet Em
(2,825 posts)I was going to answer the question with, "living in the heads of people who don't seem to understand that she is free to live her own life as she chooses."
question everything
(52,021 posts)presidency. She should have done the same by simply sitting there.
Ms. Obama may have hated all eight years in the White House but these years allow her to live in the style that she now chooses. Her portrait in the National Gallery has inspired man young girls. Perhaps still do.
There is nothing wrong with going through life with a sense of responsibility.
marybourg
(13,614 posts)Quiet Em
(2,825 posts)Michelle Obama has stated time and time again that she is not interested in political life at all. She gave eight years. That's it. It's her life.
question everything
(52,021 posts)But, of course, you know that.
Quiet Em
(2,825 posts)"paved the way for her"? That's pretty damn demeaning and insulting. Michelle Obama is an accomplished, successful, and respected woman all on her own.
obamanut2012
(29,312 posts)Ferrets are Cool
(22,801 posts)Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. Not a position to which I would aspire.
yardwork
(69,256 posts)quaint
(4,936 posts)The former first lady responded to backlash during an episode of her "IMO" podcast, admitting: "It took everything in my power to not do the thing that was perceived as right, but do the things that was right for me, that was a hard thing for me to do."
Revealing she was practicing the "art of saying no," Michelle noted, "It's a muscle that you have to build."
And I think we suffered, because it's almost like we started training late in life to build that muscle, right? I am just now starting to build it," she continued at the time.
She added, "I want our daughters, I want the young women out there I want my girls to start practicing different strategies for saying no."
"After all that I've done in this world, if I am still showing them that I have to keep- I still have to show people that I love my country, that I'm doing the right thing, that I am always setting, going high all the time, even in the face of a lot of hypocrisy and contradiction, all I'm doing is keeping that crazy bar that our mothers and grandmothers set for us," Michelle expressed.
quaint
(4,936 posts)NewHendoLib
(61,805 posts)Solly Mack
(96,809 posts)question everything
(52,021 posts)JI7
(93,488 posts)JustAnotherGen
(37,986 posts)That's her husband's career. Not hers.
Skittles
(171,005 posts)but it's not like Jesse Jackson has a lot of funerals
fujiyamasan
(1,585 posts)Thats her right as a private citizen. Im not sure why any of this matters.
Bookreadingliberal53
(151 posts)Her best friend growing up was his daughter Santita. Santita was also Maid of Honor when The Obamas got married.
fujiyamasan
(1,585 posts)Interesting connection.
question everything
(52,021 posts)Quiet Em
(2,825 posts)You are the one who is seems to bother. She's not your wife. Move on and mind your own business.
betsuni
(28,986 posts)Like Taylor Swift. Desperately taking out the Rich People Bad Both Sides Capitalism Bad Bad rubber stamp.
hlthe2b
(113,610 posts)I am really glad she is doing things for herself after working for the Nation as First Lady all those years. I hate to criticize her and I think I do understand what she is saying.
That said, her missing President Carter's memorial is more understandable to me than the incomparable leader of the civil rights movement- side by side with MLK Jr- the late Jesse Jackson. That one-truthfully surprises me and saddens me. I would have thought of any figure important to her personally, Jesse Jackson would be one and thus a memorial she'd want to attend.
MorbidButterflyTat
(4,407 posts)And what about Taylor Swift?!!
Beringia
(5,478 posts)
JI7
(93,488 posts)do this and that ?
JustAnotherGen
(37,986 posts)Her husband has been out of office for 10 years. She's a private citizen.
She's not obligated to do anything anymore.
niyad
(131,641 posts)that your OP, and all your posts in this thread, demand that Michele Obama answer to your perceived, vehemently-posted notions of her acceptable behaviour? Quite frankly, I am astounded to see the level of outrage expended here. I find it quite disconcerting.
Ilikepurple
(586 posts)If it was just the initial post, Id chalk it up to mere curiosity, but somehow this seems unduly important to the poster. I have no idea why she didnt show, but she hasnt struck me as someone who makes decisions lightly. Furthermore, she has asked nothing of me and I will afford her the same courtesy. Im not even sure what the aim is of this thread. Im sure none of us know Michelle Obamas personal situation or views on this matter. The only real options are to defend her or pile on her, so I dont know what OP wants. I am grateful for Michelle Obama and will not go down this road any further.
niyad
(131,641 posts)question everything
(52,021 posts)Just a common decency to honour a man who played an important part in her life. She was President Obama s partner during his campaign and presidency. Wasnt she? And has often appeared on posts here proposing her as a presidential candidate.
But I suppose we have different perspectives of what decency mean.
Good night. And Spring forward.
niyad
(131,641 posts)things one knows nothing about. Decency involves paying attention when one repeatedly says one has absolutely no interest in running for, or becoming president, no mattter how many times someone on an internet discussion board posts their desire for it. Decency involves knowing when to stop. remdi95
MustLoveBeagles
(15,824 posts)And they're none of our business.