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Floyd R. Turbo

(33,765 posts)
Sat Jul 4, 2026, 08:32 AM Saturday

"Grief Is a Form of Patriotism, Too.

This 4th of July, many of us won't be waving flags or watching fireworks.
Not because we hate our country, but because we love it too much to pretend everything is fine.”

Rev. Benjamin Cremer

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"Grief Is a Form of Patriotism, Too. (Original Post) Floyd R. Turbo Saturday OP
Well said. PittBlue Saturday #1
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Yeah, not feeling it this time, for sure... Wounded Bear Saturday #3
😥 Floyd R. Turbo Saturday #7
I refuse to let a group of mealy-mouthed psychopaths steal my joy. littlemissmartypants Saturday #4
I have joy relogic Saturday #9
Attention is your most vital tool. Whatever you focus your attention on, you strengthen. littlemissmartypants Saturday #18
Or one may focus relogic Sunday #21
I'm sorry relogic, this doesn't make any sense to me and if it's supposed to persuade me to alter my perspective... littlemissmartypants Sunday #22
Persuasion relogic 19 hrs ago #23
... littlemissmartypants 11 hrs ago #24
🫡🇺🇸 Floyd R. Turbo Saturday #12
🫡 littlemissmartypants Saturday #19
... littlemissmartypants Saturday #20
Mr. B and I are going to go watch fireworks. ShazzieB Saturday #5
😊 Floyd R. Turbo Saturday #13
Happy Farce of July...this year... MiHale Saturday #6
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That is very well said. yardwork Saturday #8
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DING.THIS!!!!!!!! AllaN01Bear Saturday #10
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I do love my country. It just isn't the same one magats love. paleotn Saturday #11
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littlemissmartypants

(35,883 posts)
4. I refuse to let a group of mealy-mouthed psychopaths steal my joy.
Sat Jul 4, 2026, 10:42 AM
Saturday

Sending hope and strength to all.

Onward.

❤️🤍💙 RESIST!! ✊️

relogic

(411 posts)
9. I have joy
Sat Jul 4, 2026, 11:26 AM
Saturday

for fond memories of a country once known and celebrated for it’s ideals. Those ideals have been demeaned and relinquished to a dark place where joy does not reside.

relogic

(411 posts)
21. Or one may focus
Sun Jul 5, 2026, 12:15 AM
Sunday

perhaps (obsess, fixate) to the point of consumption of the energy needed, bereft of the desired strength.

littlemissmartypants

(35,883 posts)
22. I'm sorry relogic, this doesn't make any sense to me and if it's supposed to persuade me to alter my perspective...
Sun Jul 5, 2026, 02:25 AM
Sunday

It's not working.

So, you are either going to need to rephrase, elaborate, and give concrete examples or forget about it.

Thanks anyway.

❤️

relogic

(411 posts)
23. Persuasion
Thu Jul 9, 2026, 02:24 PM
19 hrs ago

You responded to me challenging (might say attempting to persuade me) to your philosophy of correct “focusing”. I simply responded to your objection. This was perhaps too cryptic for me: “ Attention is your most vital tool. Whatever you focus your attention on, you strengthen.”

Me: “Those ideals have been demeaned and relinquished to a dark place where joy does not reside.” You disagree? Clearly, “joy” may reside in the places where it finds natural accommodation. I interpreted your comment as critical and promoting a reliance on stoicism in this climate of overt lawlessness.

Keep in mind , LMSP appeals to think positively from another’s’ perspective is not always welcome, nor was I soliciting it. I will continue to, focus upon things that motivate, energize and nurture my intelligence and character while guarding against the foci that depletes them. That was and is my position.

BTW. Setting the rules of this casual debate is not necessary. We just will disagree, apparently on our life philosophy.🌻

“ mealy-mouthed psychopaths” TOTALLY AGREE

ShazzieB

(23,140 posts)
5. Mr. B and I are going to go watch fireworks.
Sat Jul 4, 2026, 10:45 AM
Saturday

But ONLY because fireworks are pretty, not because of anything they're meant to signify. 🫤

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