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It's OK to be an atheist (Original Post) FrodosPet Nov 2015 OP
I like it! nt Quackers Nov 2015 #1
Post removed Post removed Nov 2015 #150
I started to post something else. When I read it back, I was pretty sure it would get hidden. I... ChisolmTrailDem Nov 2015 #2
Bullshit! Dr. Strange Nov 2015 #3
Why is it not OK to gaspee Nov 2015 #4
I guess I just don't get it SoLeftIAmRight Nov 2015 #142
Yeah, whatever gaspee Nov 2015 #166
I hate that fucking pic. gcomeau Nov 2015 #5
If an adult believed in the Tooth Fairy, we'd rightfully so, mock them NightWatcher Nov 2015 #8
Yup. gcomeau Nov 2015 #13
This. kairos12 Nov 2015 #74
+1000 smirkymonkey Nov 2015 #106
Amen to that. nt eppur_se_muova Nov 2015 #116
Bingo. nt SusanCalvin Nov 2015 #129
100% correct (nt) Orrex Nov 2015 #11
^^^ this katsy Nov 2015 #17
Agreed. Saying a religion is nutty is miles apart from mysogynistic homophobic laws and violence JanMichael Nov 2015 #19
Also, I look at people as they're nuts when they say "God made man". BlueJazz Nov 2015 #56
Very well-said. nt Codeine Nov 2015 #31
+1 demmiblue Nov 2015 #37
Well the deal is, insecure believers WANT criticism classified like that. trotsky Nov 2015 #46
It's a deliberate defense mechanism for the religious. A false equation. n/t arcane1 Nov 2015 #53
I agree. This is bullshit. Arugula Latte Nov 2015 #61
Thank you...I agree 100%. Moostache Nov 2015 #94
"Double standard galore" - EXACTLY. nt SusanCalvin Nov 2015 #130
Agree n/t Bonx Nov 2015 #76
I have similar feelings about it. Gormy Cuss Nov 2015 #81
Thank you! nt RedCappedBandit Nov 2015 #170
I couldn't agree more. cleanhippie Nov 2015 #190
Good points about the comparison. But what is considered "silly" is relative, Zorra Nov 2015 #204
When it comes to belief, what is silly should be seen as universal. cleanhippie Nov 2015 #209
Sorry, if you are doing something stupid or mean, guided by your religious beliefs NightWatcher Nov 2015 #6
Agreed Orrex Nov 2015 #10
So what you're really saying it's Ok to be an atheist... MindPilot Nov 2015 #7
Much like national borders. LanternWaste Nov 2015 #18
That is kind of tangential to the conversation, but i don't disagree. MindPilot Nov 2015 #25
I would say national borders edhopper Nov 2015 #28
6 days is subjective too The2ndWheel Nov 2015 #40
All true edhopper Nov 2015 #44
It's all our attempt at objectivity in a universe that doesn't give a damn The2ndWheel Nov 2015 #114
I would say edhopper Nov 2015 #118
^THE THREAD WINNER!!! NT LostOne4Ever Nov 2015 #34
Yeah, that is basically what i got from it too. Hey, I believe in Leprechauns randys1 Nov 2015 #126
Yep! RedCappedBandit Nov 2015 #171
Your God is not real, edhopper Nov 2015 #9
It's that classic joke: Lizzie Poppet Nov 2015 #14
funny :D edhopper Nov 2015 #16
Very true. There are places where my atheism could get me killed. Lizzie Poppet Nov 2015 #22
Yes edhopper Nov 2015 #24
No, you may NOT! MindPilot Nov 2015 #27
MEAT IS MURDER!!!! edhopper Nov 2015 #30
You mean like places where not following Islam results in a death sentence? Nye Bevan Nov 2015 #50
None I can think of in the US, no. Lizzie Poppet Nov 2015 #73
Atheists have been fired from jobs. That's a bit beyond social rejection. Lars39 Nov 2015 #80
My family were "shunned" by the neighbor across the street Mariana Nov 2015 #161
I guess he was just so filled with that Christian Love that he had no room left for friendliness. Arugula Latte Nov 2015 #205
I guess some people would say Mariana Nov 2015 #212
Oh, shit, I just realized Mariana Nov 2015 #213
Oh no! Arugula Latte Nov 2015 #214
Is anger and hostility a requisite reaction to incorrect people FrodosPet Nov 2015 #182
It was meant edhopper Nov 2015 #184
Oh thank non-existent God you gave me permission to be an atheist! (nt) jeff47 Nov 2015 #12
You're welcome! FrodosPet Nov 2015 #185
One of those is not like the others whatthehey Nov 2015 #15
... trotsky Nov 2015 #49
I second you and the kitteh. hifiguy Nov 2015 #79
Bravo! smirkymonkey Nov 2015 #108
Thread winner stage left Nov 2015 #208
UNREC brooklynite Nov 2015 #20
Perfectly okay to make fun of mythology, oh, and everyone is born snooper2 Nov 2015 #21
? SoLeftIAmRight Nov 2015 #143
You are born believing "There is no God"? FrodosPet Nov 2015 #183
We are ALL born without belief in a god. Being an atheist is the default position. cleanhippie Nov 2015 #192
This thread edhopper Nov 2015 #23
Must be true RussBLib Nov 2015 #141
reality? SoLeftIAmRight Nov 2015 #144
The reality that questioning religious belief edhopper Nov 2015 #156
Sorry, I've been working a lot lately FrodosPet Nov 2015 #179
Alas, it kind of is FrodosPet Nov 2015 #178
The stereotype edhopper Nov 2015 #180
Shaming the homophobic, the misogynistic, the racist, and the hateful is okay. Iggo Nov 2015 #26
I have no problems with spirituality hifiguy Nov 2015 #29
As a secular humanist... Bigmack Nov 2015 #32
This Chitown Kev Nov 2015 #152
This post represents religious privilege... MellowDem Nov 2015 #33
Boom. hifiguy Nov 2015 #35
+1000 FLPanhandle Nov 2015 #39
Exactamente. Arugula Latte Nov 2015 #62
I agree almost 100%...one nit is missing in your description... Moostache Nov 2015 #98
What you don't realize edhopper Nov 2015 #36
Actually, Rudolph was into brandy. Koinos Nov 2015 #52
Is being homophobic, misogynistic and hateful in the name of Islam okay? ProudToBeBlueInRhody Nov 2015 #38
It's OK for muslims hifiguy Nov 2015 #41
Thank YOU! smirkymonkey Nov 2015 #109
I chalk it up to a particularly smarmy and hifiguy Nov 2015 #111
Do you have any links for that claim? cpwm17 Nov 2015 #140
Still no link for that claim that cpwm17 Nov 2015 #198
There could have been room... Act_of_Reparation Nov 2015 #43
And some nonsense about reindeer ProudToBeBlueInRhody Nov 2015 #45
"Ideas are people too!" or something. arcane1 Nov 2015 #55
Being homophobic, misogynistic and hateful is NOT ok in ANY circumstance FrodosPet Nov 2015 #189
K & R for the sanity of the OP's graphic. Koinos Nov 2015 #42
Really? edhopper Nov 2015 #47
Okay, I was thinking mostly of the first part: Koinos Nov 2015 #93
I bet there are plenty of religious beliefs edhopper Nov 2015 #105
Absurd beliefs deserve to be ridiculed. cleanhippie Nov 2015 #194
Can i shame religions that are against women?msilly post. Nt Logical Nov 2015 #48
Being an atheist is fine. Nye Bevan Nov 2015 #51
Stupid ideas deserve derision. nt Codeine Nov 2015 #58
It's fine to sneer at invisible sky daddies. You have no proof they exist. MillennialDem Nov 2015 #60
Saying "Pray for Paris" or whatever is obnoxious. Arugula Latte Nov 2015 #69
Wow. Nye Bevan Nov 2015 #84
I'm pointing out to you that what you think is perfectly normal is offensive to many. Arugula Latte Nov 2015 #121
I've always been a big fan of sauce for the goose. nt SusanCalvin Nov 2015 #131
Epicurus: panader0 Nov 2015 #113
Yes. He had it figured out long ago. Arugula Latte Nov 2015 #119
One of my favorite quotes hifiguy Nov 2015 #120
using this quote here shows a fundamenal misunderstand SoLeftIAmRight Nov 2015 #145
well, tough. Warren DeMontague Nov 2015 #89
Believers and atheists Lamonte Nov 2015 #54
I'm sure you take a similar view with regard to Codeine Nov 2015 #57
what about agnostics agnostic102 Nov 2015 #59
Agnostic and atheist are not mutually exclusive. Hell agnostic and theist are not MillennialDem Nov 2015 #66
You speak the truth. trotsky Nov 2015 #67
Most atheists are agnostics. I don't know for certain if a god (or gods) exist or not, but I have MillennialDem Nov 2015 #70
Every atheist I personally know is in the same boat. trotsky Nov 2015 #99
Richard also said he's a 6.9. I'd classify myself as similar. At least as far as the gods that MillennialDem Nov 2015 #107
The Jersey Devil is real! Dorian Gray Nov 2015 #139
First of all, the rules of debate require that the hifiguy Nov 2015 #64
but what does it mean to know? SoLeftIAmRight Nov 2015 #146
On the deepest philosophical levels that is hifiguy Nov 2015 #160
Here's the thing. Arugula Latte Nov 2015 #65
+1 MillennialDem Nov 2015 #71
And the "cosmos" of the people who dreamed up the Abrahamic creation myth hifiguy Nov 2015 #88
Yep. Serious misunderstanding of probabilities here. hifiguy Nov 2015 #92
Where is your evidence of this assertion that atheists claim knowledge of the unknowable? n/t Humanist_Activist Nov 2015 #75
As a matter of logic hifiguy Nov 2015 #82
True, but that's assertions from best available evidence, not claiming we have knowledge of the... Humanist_Activist Nov 2015 #85
Cosmologists and theoretical physicists hifiguy Nov 2015 #90
like logic works SoLeftIAmRight Nov 2015 #147
Logic, and the scientific method that derives from it hifiguy Nov 2015 #162
Not a true statement... Moostache Nov 2015 #115
kettle black? SoLeftIAmRight Nov 2015 #148
Christian reindeer will never know I am an atheist reindeer unless they aka-chmeee Nov 2015 #63
Although you caught some flak here deutsey Nov 2015 #68
The OP is a perfect case in point for 'faith' vs 'action'. The baiting, bigoted original post was Bluenorthwest Nov 2015 #154
Matter of perception, I suppose deutsey Nov 2015 #155
Does your persception see the OP discussing his 'points'? Do you wish to defend his points? Bluenorthwest Nov 2015 #158
Look, I know you have an axe that you're grinding on this subject deutsey Nov 2015 #159
Serious question for you, FrodosPet: Arugula Latte Nov 2015 #72
Thank you. I get so sick of that stuff. SusanCalvin Nov 2015 #132
LOTS of Christian assholery, no doubt FrodosPet Nov 2015 #169
But in our society saying "God Bless You" is not considered offensive, yet Arugula Latte Nov 2015 #203
This is bull MNBrewer Nov 2015 #77
What if you consider yourself to be a human being and nothing more? randome Nov 2015 #78
So religious beliefs should be given the same level of respect as people? n/t Humanist_Activist Nov 2015 #83
Religions are people, too, my friend! randome Nov 2015 #128
... Arugula Latte Nov 2015 #215
Unless you are Mormon, a Scientologist, or a RW Christian Goblinmonger Nov 2015 #86
Boom! nt SusanCalvin Nov 2015 #133
This message was self-deleted by its author Warren DeMontague Nov 2015 #87
Their Invisible Man In the Sky told them hifiguy Nov 2015 #91
This message was self-deleted by its author Warren DeMontague Nov 2015 #100
Seems to minimize or even trivialize the beliefs and world-views of other people when we say... LanternWaste Nov 2015 #95
Fart noises Solly Mack Nov 2015 #96
. . . hifiguy Nov 2015 #102
Ummm.... Adrahil Nov 2015 #97
Disagree. Moostache Nov 2015 #101
Ah. Quite true. Nt Adrahil Nov 2015 #127
I like that, even though it said nothing about agnostics, but that's OK. Agnosticsherbet Nov 2015 #103
What does an epistemological position have to do with who believes what? whatthehey Nov 2015 #157
Screw that... lame54 Nov 2015 #104
I think it's entirely appropriate to shame them when Vinca Nov 2015 #110
And here's the BIG difference: MindPilot Nov 2015 #138
This right here Lordquinton Nov 2015 #163
And a lot of them get a real charge Mariana Nov 2015 #165
Hmm, nice lesson, but it's disrespectful of caribou/reindeer HereSince1628 Nov 2015 #112
Glad someone knows enough about what's OK to be handing out such judgements. eppur_se_muova Nov 2015 #117
Thanks for posting this....... truegrit44 Nov 2015 #122
Oh yes, love this thread! Serendipity! nt SusanCalvin Nov 2015 #134
Imagine ozone_man Nov 2015 #123
Lol bigwillq Nov 2015 #124
Being a thinking adult... AlbertCat Nov 2015 #125
LOL...authoritarians are such silly people. Rex Nov 2015 #135
Thank you ever so - for the excellent replies you called forth. nt SusanCalvin Nov 2015 #136
Nearly Zen nt JonathanRackham Nov 2015 #137
If I had an ignore list the rec list for this would be a good addition to it Fumesucker Nov 2015 #149
I recced it to get the replies seen. SusanCalvin Nov 2015 #153
So religion is out of bounds of human enquiry? Yorktown Nov 2015 #151
No, I think you've pegged it. ozone_man Nov 2015 #167
Black or white, true or false, up or down FrodosPet Nov 2015 #188
That's an image full of false equivalency Bradical79 Nov 2015 #164
Yeah. No. Pretty big stretch to target atheism there. DirkGently Nov 2015 #168
Mockery gets people to kill themselves FrodosPet Nov 2015 #172
It’s funny how inconvenient my lack of faith as a bereaved mother can be for those on the outside. Fumesucker Nov 2015 #175
Why don't more athiests and non-secular people start stepping up then? FrodosPet Nov 2015 #181
Would that stop people making cruel comments about your deceased being in "a better place"? Fumesucker Nov 2015 #186
I highly doubt it FrodosPet Nov 2015 #187
The grieving parent is under no obligation to coddle a theistic busybody Orrex Nov 2015 #202
In many areas, there just aren't enough atheists Mariana Nov 2015 #195
They do. All the time. cleanhippie Nov 2015 #196
Because atheists do good things already, but they're not a monolithic group? DirkGently Nov 2015 #199
I wish we could edhopper Nov 2015 #201
... DirkGently Nov 2015 #206
Very well said. stage left Nov 2015 #210
President Obama has said Snobblevitch Nov 2015 #173
Apparently, he should be mocked then? FrodosPet Nov 2015 #174
Oh, well, then. I'm a Democrat, and he is too, so I guess I have to believe in God now! Arugula Latte Nov 2015 #207
Nails it.. whathehell Nov 2015 #176
This is DU blasphemy! ileus Nov 2015 #177
How about: just get a grip, calm the fuck down, and try to act like a well-behaved person? Quantess Nov 2015 #191
Very good. tabasco Nov 2015 #193
It's OK to be a believer. cleanhippie Nov 2015 #197
I see there are 199 posts here edhopper Nov 2015 #200
but he still has a stupid nose. Boudica the Lyoness Nov 2015 #211

Response to Quackers (Reply #1)

 

ChisolmTrailDem

(9,463 posts)
2. I started to post something else. When I read it back, I was pretty sure it would get hidden. I...
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 01:33 PM
Nov 2015

...have too many hides as it is (2).

I just wonder why some things are off-limits while other equally dubious things are ridiculed and dismissed as non-sense.

gaspee

(3,231 posts)
4. Why is it not OK to
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 01:39 PM
Nov 2015

Be the exact thing the text of the bible says you should be when you claim to be an adherent to that faith. The bible specifically allows slavery, selling your own daughters, executing people for minor social crimes and so on and so forth. The very text the religion is based on says it's perfectly OK, no REQUIRED, to be all the things you cited.

I guess I just don't get it.

 

gcomeau

(5,764 posts)
5. I hate that fucking pic.
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 01:46 PM
Nov 2015

It equates the atheists daring to criticize an idea to two instances of outright bigotry directed at people (or reindeer) for what they were born as.

There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with calling silly ideas silly or not real claims not real. And putting it on equal ground with bigotry and homophobia is a contemptible tactic.

NightWatcher

(39,371 posts)
8. If an adult believed in the Tooth Fairy, we'd rightfully so, mock them
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 01:49 PM
Nov 2015

and thief obvious stupidity.

We don't have to respect their beliefs. We can acknowledge their beliefs and move on, or comment about it, just the same.

 

gcomeau

(5,764 posts)
13. Yup.
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 01:55 PM
Nov 2015

I've seen this meme repeated over and over, and it's nothing but an attempt to paint criticism of or dissent from religious claims as socially unacceptable. It's the age old game of declaring religious ideas to occupy privileged ground where critical scrutiny is socially unacceptable because they can't survive that scrutiny when subjected to it.

JanMichael

(25,725 posts)
19. Agreed. Saying a religion is nutty is miles apart from mysogynistic homophobic laws and violence
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 02:01 PM
Nov 2015

And what is worse is they use a fake reindeer as an example...pathetic.

Trying to give them equal standing is disingenuous at best. Malignant at worst.

 

BlueJazz

(25,348 posts)
56. Also, I look at people as they're nuts when they say "God made man".
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 03:38 PM
Nov 2015

If a God made man, he/it needs to go back to the drawing board.
If I was going to build a car, it would be something like a top-of-the-line Mercedes Benz, not a bag of bolts like a 1976 Yugo that catches every damn affliction/disease known to exist.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
46. Well the deal is, insecure believers WANT criticism classified like that.
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 03:04 PM
Nov 2015

Thus the chorus of "huzzahs" whenever this is posted.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
61. I agree. This is bullshit.
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 03:45 PM
Nov 2015

People get furious with atheists for pointing out that there is zero evidence to support the existence of a magical, supernatural realm or magical, supernatural creatures therein. They call that "mocking" and "rude" and "arrogant." Meanwhile, telling everybody to pray for this or that is NOT rude or arrogant because it is their deeply held belief. Double standard galore.

Moostache

(10,983 posts)
94. Thank you...I agree 100%.
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 04:56 PM
Nov 2015

The Above ... (Screw whoever made the "up" arrow Hillary gif too...its not funny)

I am sick and tired of the continued proclamation "we're all keeping 'x,y and z' in our thoughts and prayers".
The assumption being that everyone "prays" because .... Jesus? Mohammed? Fiddler on the Roof? Babs?

I do not conflate pointing out the flaws and lack of logical coherency in religious claims with intolerance or bigotry or hate speech.
I DO believe that the second example in the OP is spot on, but the attempt at false equivalency is more than a bridge too far.

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
81. I have similar feelings about it.
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 04:32 PM
Nov 2015

Also, it compares atheism only to Christianity which is problematic on many levels.

Zorra

(27,670 posts)
204. Good points about the comparison. But what is considered "silly" is relative,
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 01:17 PM
Nov 2015

depending on who makes determination.

Just ask Copernicus.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
209. When it comes to belief, what is silly should be seen as universal.
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 01:43 PM
Nov 2015

If it's patently absurd, then it's silly.

Believing people coming back to life after being dead for days....absurd
Eating a cracker and drinking wine believing it turns into flesh and blood...absurd
Getting dozens of virgins in heaven if one is a martyr...absurd

Just about all religious beliefs are absurd. Anything believed without evidence, especially when other evidence exists that supports something very very different, is absurd.

NightWatcher

(39,371 posts)
6. Sorry, if you are doing something stupid or mean, guided by your religious beliefs
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 01:46 PM
Nov 2015

I'm going to ridicule and or condemn you and your silly, erroneous beliefs.

Orrex

(66,691 posts)
10. Agreed
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 01:55 PM
Nov 2015

I have never in my life attacked or ridiculed a believer simply for having belief, but when they force those beliefs on someone or justify dangerous practices because of their beliefs, the gloves are off.

 

MindPilot

(12,693 posts)
7. So what you're really saying it's Ok to be an atheist...
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 01:46 PM
Nov 2015

as long as atheists stay quiet and mind their place.

Because pointing out that many religious beliefs have no basis in reality is exactly the same as being an anti-gay, racist, sexist bully.

Got it.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
18. Much like national borders.
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 02:00 PM
Nov 2015

"Because pointing out that many religious beliefs have no basis in reality..."

Much like national borders, which then becomes, "Because pointing out that national borders have no basis in reality..."

 

MindPilot

(12,693 posts)
25. That is kind of tangential to the conversation, but i don't disagree.
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 02:14 PM
Nov 2015

The idea that one's entire identity is defined by their GPS coordinates at the time of their birth is an antiquated idea that I think humans should be actively evolving away from.

edhopper

(37,095 posts)
28. I would say national borders
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 02:20 PM
Nov 2015

Last edited Tue Nov 17, 2015, 03:00 PM - Edit history (1)

are more like laws. An agreed upon construct that people adhere to for the sake of social good.

Those who think there is a difference in the actual land, say a yard difference between to countries or two States are deluded.

Of course I could see the same people who think God created the Earth in 6 days also thinking the ground is different on either side of a border.

The2ndWheel

(7,947 posts)
40. 6 days is subjective too
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 02:49 PM
Nov 2015

6 days on Earth aren't the same thing anywhere else, because our concept of time exists only in our heads.

Civilization is the physical manifestation of our abstract imagination. We've come up with a lot of things that don't actually exist anywhere. Not just God, or time, but direction, and even words. They're curved lines that we think make sense.

No such thing as Tuesday, but damn if it doesn't rule our lives.

edhopper

(37,095 posts)
44. All true
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 03:03 PM
Nov 2015

but we understand that those are concepts we agree on to go about our lives.

People believe God is an actual being that rules and created the Universe. Not a construct of our minds.

The2ndWheel

(7,947 posts)
114. It's all our attempt at objectivity in a universe that doesn't give a damn
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 05:56 PM
Nov 2015

God is a concept we agree on to go about our lives too, until we don't. People are clearly fallible, can do stupid and bad things. We crave something, anything, to give life meaning. The rule of law is as subjective as anything else humans come up with. People put their faith in that though.

We created the concept of God, a god, many gods, whatever, to rationalize and justify the things that we do. Or were doing when we came up with it. The Earth is 6,000 years old. Oddly enough, that's around the time when civilization really got going. Give or take a thousand years here or there. Why do people do the things that we do? What keeps people going more, that we're just clever and violent animals staring down the dark abyss of oblivion, whose actions and thoughts don't really matter in any way whatsoever, or that there's a God out there looking out for us, that looks weirdly like us?

edhopper

(37,095 posts)
118. I would say
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 06:12 PM
Nov 2015

faith in the law and faith in a god are two different uses of that word. Though fundamentalist probably think they are the same thing.

And civilization goes back at least 12,000 years. Much older than the young earthers want to accept.

randys1

(16,286 posts)
126. Yeah, that is basically what i got from it too. Hey, I believe in Leprechauns
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 07:47 PM
Nov 2015

and if you dont fine, just dont make fun of me.

Did I mention I use my belief in Leprechauns to spread hate of Gay people and others?

edhopper

(37,095 posts)
9. Your God is not real,
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 01:54 PM
Nov 2015

and there is no evidence for any of your supernatural beliefs.

Sorry I can't just STFU.

 

Lizzie Poppet

(10,164 posts)
14. It's that classic joke:
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 01:56 PM
Nov 2015

Q: How do you know if someone is an atheist (or vegan or bike commuter or cross-fit enthusiast or...)?

A: Just wait...they'll fucking tell you.

edhopper

(37,095 posts)
16. funny :D
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 01:59 PM
Nov 2015

but in reality, in much of this country and more seriously in parts of the world, people have to hide it if they are atheists.

(I know you were just joking in your post)

 

Lizzie Poppet

(10,164 posts)
22. Very true. There are places where my atheism could get me killed.
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 02:06 PM
Nov 2015

Even more places where I might not be in physical danger, but would certainly be a social pariah. It's good not to lose sight of the amazing progress that has been made on this (and related) fronts.

edhopper

(37,095 posts)
24. Yes
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 02:09 PM
Nov 2015

but can I tell you how I bike to work everyday? Not burning any fossil fuels and so healthy. Really, the world would be so much better if more people rode bikes.

 

MindPilot

(12,693 posts)
27. No, you may NOT!
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 02:18 PM
Nov 2015

The message has been brought to you by the Partnership for a Smug-free Society and the Office of National Smug Control Policy.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
50. You mean like places where not following Islam results in a death sentence?
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 03:29 PM
Nov 2015

You don't mean in the USA, do you?

 

Lizzie Poppet

(10,164 posts)
73. None I can think of in the US, no.
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 04:11 PM
Nov 2015

I mean, you can always run into a nutter, but I can't think of anywhere in the US where being known as an atheist would get you anything beyond social rejection.

Mariana

(15,613 posts)
161. My family were "shunned" by the neighbor across the street
Wed Nov 18, 2015, 01:03 PM
Nov 2015

in Texas, when we lived there. When they moved in, my husband went over to introduce himself and the man asked him where we go to church. My husband answered we don't, and that's the last time he ever spoke to or even looked at any of us. We thought it was funny most of the time, but it was very sad in one way. The wife was very nice, always smiled and waved at us - unless her husband was there with her. Then she would studiously ignore us the same way he did.

He was a jerk in other ways. He used to pile his tree and shrub trimmings and his trash on pickup day in the street instead of at the edge of his yard, because he didn't want them to mess up his precious lawn. They would then be a hazard for drivers, especially after dark. I called the city on him every time and public works would come remove the debris from the street. Eventually they ticketed him and he stopped doing it.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
205. I guess he was just so filled with that Christian Love that he had no room left for friendliness.
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 01:19 PM
Nov 2015

Mariana

(15,613 posts)
212. I guess some people would say
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 04:29 PM
Nov 2015

that we were mocking and ridiculing his beliefs by saying straight out to his face that we don't go to church (my husband didn't use the word atheist), and the man was only avoiding us to defend himself from our verbal abuse.

On the same street, another Christian family had kids close to my daughter's age, and the children became friends. They were good kids, but they were thoroughly brainwashed. These people constantly tried to convert my daughter to their crazy-ass fundie wacko flavor or Christianity, by fair means and by foul. I was very glad when they moved away.

Mariana

(15,613 posts)
213. Oh, shit, I just realized
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 04:31 PM
Nov 2015

I mocked and ridiculed someone's religious beliefs in that post. Bad atheist! Bad!

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
214. Oh no!
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 04:34 PM
Nov 2015

Even saying the word atheist is offensive! How dare you?!

The religious people, on the other hand, have deeply held beliefs and should feel free to express them at all times.

FrodosPet

(5,169 posts)
182. Is anger and hostility a requisite reaction to incorrect people
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 09:33 AM
Nov 2015

And who said I believe in the Abrahamic "God"?

whatthehey

(3,660 posts)
15. One of those is not like the others
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 01:59 PM
Nov 2015

Atheists aren't bombing buildings or shooting up concerts in the name of the absence-of-gods. We aren't fighting against equal rights for gays or women because the absence-of-gods likes straight white men the best. We aren't pouring millions into hate crusades because the absence-of-gods suspiciously hates the same people we do. We aren't using our voting supermajority to pass laws forcing masses of unwanted children to be born into lives likely to be beset by poverty and want and brutality because the absence-of-gods can't tell the difference between an embryo and a bus driver. We aren't torturing our own children, often to death, because we think the absence-of-gods will and must cure all medical conditions, or because we think they are possessed by the absence-of-demons, or because we think the absence-of-gods hates the idea of our daughters enjoying sex. We aren't retarding scientific research that could save and improve the lives of millions because we think the absence-of-gods cares what happens to already discarded fetuses. We aren't supporting a huge ring of pedophiles from criminal prosecution by shuffling them off to other jobs, hushing up the victims and withholding evidence from police. And above all we aren't tacitly enabling aqll of the above by equating anybody who complains about the above with religio-crazy bigots like this OP does, or by reacting in shocked aggrieved dismay when anybody points out that believers really can be terrorists, bigots, evil or insane and still be genuine believers. Afer all, no atheist I've ever seen pretends Pol Pot wasn't, at least publicly, one.

But we are indeed sometimes snarky to believers on the internet (it has to be the internet because absent a few celebrities, anybody trying it in real life would be and has been anything from killed to beaten to ostracized to fired to disowned to reviled for trying it). So that makes us just as bad, right?

 

brooklynite

(96,882 posts)
20. UNREC
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 02:02 PM
Nov 2015

If your religious beliefs are so fragile that my comments -- thoughtful or not -- are hurtful, maybe you should reconsider your religious beliefs.

I do agree about the reindeer.

FrodosPet

(5,169 posts)
183. You are born believing "There is no God"?
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 09:35 AM
Nov 2015

I believe everyone is born agnostic - they don't have knowledge either pro or against the existence of a supreme being.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
192. We are ALL born without belief in a god. Being an atheist is the default position.
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 12:12 PM
Nov 2015

And we're ALL agnostic, for we can never "know" whether any of the thousands of gods humans have believed in, or still believe in, are real.

But we CAN use reason and logic to conclude that, in the absence of any evidence to support the idea that any "god" is real, that "gods" don't exist.

Yet so many of us seem unable to use their 'god given' reason and logic at all...

RussBLib

(10,425 posts)
141. Must be true
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 11:16 PM
Nov 2015

Haven't seen the Frodo back after the OP.

Perhaps he thought he was being open-minded, only to be slapped by reality.

Or embarrassed to show his face again.

Or perhaps he's just a dick.

FrodosPet

(5,169 posts)
179. Sorry, I've been working a lot lately
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 09:19 AM
Nov 2015

Am I a dick? Somewhat, yes. But I am almost always polite and helpful, even to complete strangers. So if I piss off a few people online along the way, I am not going to sweat it.

I am not trying to defend the terrible shit "The Church" has historically done. I just think there are better ways of trying to educate people beyond "you are a stupid dumb doody head who believes in fairy tales".

edhopper

(37,095 posts)
180. The stereotype
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 09:22 AM
Nov 2015

that atheist don't like to be labeled bigots because they question the beliefs of others.

That challenging the existence of God and asking for evidence is the same as homophobia.

Yeah the origin of telling atheists to STFU is strong.

Iggo

(49,662 posts)
26. Shaming the homophobic, the misogynistic, the racist, and the hateful is okay.
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 02:15 PM
Nov 2015

Ridiculing the ridiculous is okay.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
29. I have no problems with spirituality
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 02:20 PM
Nov 2015

and Buddhism.

I feel duty bound by honesty (not an Invisible Sky Man) to shame and ridicule anyone who believes things that are transparent idiocy, disbelieves science and proven, established facts, and wants to force other people to live by their unsubstantiated "beliefs" to placate or try to appease their Invisible Man In The Sky because 'he" demands that they do so.

No time for that bullshit whatsoever.

 

Bigmack

(8,020 posts)
32. As a secular humanist...
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 02:24 PM
Nov 2015

... I never mock any religion.

Until...

They go after me first. Telling me how atheists have no morality, etc.

Then the gloves come off and all my bile gets poured on their heads.

I tell myself not to be like that, but I comfort myself by knowing that Jesus will forgive me. Since he forgives assholes like Vitter and Josh Duggar, I figure I'll be OK.

MellowDem

(5,018 posts)
33. This post represents religious privilege...
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 02:27 PM
Nov 2015

Very, very well.

Shaming bad ideas or wrong ideas is usually considered OK.

But make it a religious idea? Not OK.

Religious privilege in action.

Moostache

(10,983 posts)
98. I agree almost 100%...one nit is missing in your description...
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 05:07 PM
Nov 2015

Make it MY religious idea? (or one that I associate with) and Not OK...

You can find all kinds of "Christians" running around extolling the virtues of religious tolerance, until it comes time to extend that same benefit of the doubt to Jews, or Hindus, or Jainists, or....you get the picture!

I think that believers should spend a lot more time contemplating the thousands of discarded gods which they do not believe in as "real" and a lot less time worrying about atheists calling them out for professing to be-LIE-ve that which there is no empirical evidence for (and a mountain of evidence against).

edhopper

(37,095 posts)
36. What you don't realize
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 02:36 PM
Nov 2015

is all the other reindeer were Christian, and the red nose was a metaphor for being Gay.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
38. Is being homophobic, misogynistic and hateful in the name of Islam okay?
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 02:38 PM
Nov 2015

Just want a clarification, or did the creator of the sign just run out of room?

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
41. It's OK for muslims
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 02:56 PM
Nov 2015

but not for xtianits. You will be told this time and again on DU.

I say fuck them both, and sideways, to invoke John Oliver's recent rant.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
109. Thank YOU!
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 05:31 PM
Nov 2015

WTF is with the double standard? It's either wrong across the board or not at all. Can't have it both ways.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
111. I chalk it up to a particularly smarmy and
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 05:36 PM
Nov 2015

disgusting sort of self-flagellating (mostly white) guilt. They damn near do prove the old RWNJ talking point that there are (at least some who call themselves) liberals who blame America for everything and anything.

I prefer to blame America and its brutally corrupt capitalist system for exactly what it deserves to be blamed for. That in itself is an almost unimaginably long list of rotten things.

 

cpwm17

(3,829 posts)
198. Still no link for that claim that
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 12:43 PM
Nov 2015

being "homophobic, misogynistic and hateful in the name of Islam okay", according to some on DU.

As you claim: "You will be told this time and again on DU." That is a bold claim. You then should be able to produce numerous links.

Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
43. There could have been room...
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 03:02 PM
Nov 2015

...if the author didn't waste their time equating atheists who criticize bad ideas with Christians who promote homophobia and misogyny.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
45. And some nonsense about reindeer
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 03:04 PM
Nov 2015

Apparently it was more important to make a lame ass joke than address more serious matters.

 

arcane1

(38,613 posts)
55. "Ideas are people too!" or something.
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 03:37 PM
Nov 2015

If criticizing an idea is the same thing as bigotry toward a person, then DU is by definition an anti-conservative hate site.

It's a stupid definition.

FrodosPet

(5,169 posts)
189. Being homophobic, misogynistic and hateful is NOT ok in ANY circumstance
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 11:24 AM
Nov 2015

Unless of course, you hate religious people. Then it is OK, because they are incorrect.

edhopper

(37,095 posts)
47. Really?
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 03:04 PM
Nov 2015

pointing out the illogic of some religious beliefs is just like homophobia. Really?

Koinos

(2,800 posts)
93. Okay, I was thinking mostly of the first part:
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 04:52 PM
Nov 2015

Shaming religions and spirituality is not okay.

But I guess I am not a hard-core, militant atheist.

The rest is a bit unbalanced.

edhopper

(37,095 posts)
105. I bet there are plenty of religious beliefs
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 05:23 PM
Nov 2015

you shame. Do you sit by while people claim the world is 6 thousand years old, or that women need to be subservient and covered head to toe?

Spirituality is such an loose term, some are silly, some aren't. "The Lesson" and Shirley MacLaine for instance, are silly.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
51. Being an atheist is fine.
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 03:31 PM
Nov 2015

Being an atheist and sneering about "invisible sky daddies" is obnoxious. And not as clever as they think it is.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
69. Saying "Pray for Paris" or whatever is obnoxious.
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 03:57 PM
Nov 2015

Where was this magical being BEFORE the shit went down? We're supposed to kowtow to a supernatural sociopath that either caused or allowed this stuff? 'Cuz, you know, if the deity has the power to take action after the fact, it certainly has the power to take action before the fact. Telling people to pray to the hateful sky god to ask it for crumbs of mercy is offensive to me.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
121. I'm pointing out to you that what you think is perfectly normal is offensive to many.
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 07:14 PM
Nov 2015

Your religious privilege is such that you and your believer cohorts don't even think about what you're actually saying when you demand people "pray" for such and such nonsense. Saying "ask the omnipotent God to intervene for X or Y!" is just as sneering and condescending as saying "invisible Sky Daddy."

panader0

(25,816 posts)
113. Epicurus:
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 05:53 PM
Nov 2015

Epicurus

“Is God willing to prevent evil, but not able? Then he is not omnipotent.
Is he able, but not willing? Then he is malevolent.
Is he both able and willing? Then whence cometh evil?
Is he neither able nor willing? Then why call him God?”

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
89. well, tough.
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 04:41 PM
Nov 2015

I realize some people miss the good old days when we stayed silent about not believing.

But if your faith is really so deep, solid, and intellectually profound, it should be able to withstand someone saying "okay, what is the objective specific difference between what you believe in, and a giant invisible daddy in the sky"?

Lamonte

(85 posts)
54. Believers and atheists
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 03:35 PM
Nov 2015

The interesting thing to me is that both think they know the unknowable. Why is it so difficult to say, I don't know?

 

Codeine

(25,586 posts)
57. I'm sure you take a similar view with regard to
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 03:39 PM
Nov 2015

Santa Claus, the Tooth Fairy, and The Jersy Devil, right?

agnostic102

(198 posts)
59. what about agnostics
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 03:43 PM
Nov 2015

are we okay? i keep getting made fun of because i refuse to "choose" a side.. hahah..

 

MillennialDem

(2,367 posts)
66. Agnostic and atheist are not mutually exclusive. Hell agnostic and theist are not
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 03:52 PM
Nov 2015

mutually exclusive either.

 

MillennialDem

(2,367 posts)
70. Most atheists are agnostics. I don't know for certain if a god (or gods) exist or not, but I have
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 04:00 PM
Nov 2015

no proof god exists, therefore I don't think she does. Thus I'm atheist and agnostic.

Present some good evidence that she does and I would change me mind.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
99. Every atheist I personally know is in the same boat.
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 05:07 PM
Nov 2015

Even the much-maligned British atheist Richard Dawkins said he can't be certain of the non-existence of gods, rating himself a 6 on his scale of 1 (convinced of god's existence) to 7 (convinced of god's non-existence).

 

MillennialDem

(2,367 posts)
107. Richard also said he's a 6.9. I'd classify myself as similar. At least as far as the gods that
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 05:26 PM
Nov 2015

man has dreamed up goes.

Gods in general that haven't been dreamed up? That's more like a regular 6.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
64. First of all, the rules of debate require that the
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 03:50 PM
Nov 2015

proponent of an idea or position present sufficient evidence to support their case in order to win. That has been a rule of rhetoric ever since the age of the Greeks. The proponent of an idea ALWAYS has the burden of PROOF. And "Because" or any of its infinite variations does NOT constitute evidence of anything other than what is in that person's head. Which is NOT extrinsic evidence.

Atheists are merely applying reason and logic. If a phenomenon exists, it necessarily must manifest itself in some observable way or it can be deemed not to exist. You might want to read a book by theoretical physicist Victor Stenger, "God - The Failed Hypothesis" in which he adds a variety of scientific disproofs to the strictly logical ones offered by everyone from Daniel Dennett to Christopher Hitchens.

"I'd rather know than believe." - Carl Sagan

"That which is asserted without evidence may be dismissed without evidence." - Christopher Hitchens

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
160. On the deepest philosophical levels that is
Wed Nov 18, 2015, 01:02 PM
Nov 2015

a valid questionof epistemology. But it can be answered on an everyday basis - knowledge is something which has been observed or otherwise proven to be (conditionally, if one wants to be more precise) true, such as by way of a mathematical theorem subject to test - and upon the presupposition of which actions may be baed with some reasonable expectaion of a result predcted by prior experience.

You throw the ball, it moves in a parabola and it comes to rest.

The sun arises o the eastern horizon and sets on the western horizon.

A mechanical system, say a car, gives predictable and repetitive results to inputs from its controls.

Yu therefore "know" these things to be at least conditionally true for ordinary circumstances.

I amnot going to addres quantum probabilities becaue they are not applicable to macro-scale systems like cats and people, cars and ships. And while I have read extensively on these subjects I know my limits.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
65. Here's the thing.
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 03:52 PM
Nov 2015

It's not a 50-50 coin toss that maybe a god exists, maybe it doesn't. If you start with no assumptions and then build your case for god/s on evidence, that's one thing. So far no human being has provided a shred of evidence for the existence of a supernatural being or beings.

A lot of us realize there is zero evidence to support belief in a magical creator/ruler of the universe which focuses its attention on the hairless apes that evolved relatively recently on one little planet in a vast universe of 100 billion galaxies, and when we say so, we're the arrogant, narcissistic ones. Hah! Think about that irony. Yet religious people feel no compunction to rein in the spouting of their mythologies as if they are fact-based, and they are rarely called impolite or arrogant for saying religious things or assuming everyone agrees with them and wants to pray, etc.

Massive double standard.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
88. And the "cosmos" of the people who dreamed up the Abrahamic creation myth
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 04:38 PM
Nov 2015

consisted of a few hundred miles surrounding the spot where they were and some inexplicable lights in the sky, one big, one medium sized and the others small. Needless to say, that ismore than slightly problematic. "Low information" doesn't even begin to describe the state those Bronze Age people were in.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
92. Yep. Serious misunderstanding of probabilities here.
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 04:48 PM
Nov 2015

X either exists or it doesn't, and no appeal to the quantum conundrums are allowed in this case because it's not stated in terms of probabilities.

Though if string theory is ever proven even remotely true, "god" may turn out to be a small, bearded gnome named Rozzlewort living in one of those posited curled-up dimensions.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
75. Where is your evidence of this assertion that atheists claim knowledge of the unknowable? n/t
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 04:22 PM
Nov 2015
 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
82. As a matter of logic
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 04:33 PM
Nov 2015

a universe consists of all that can be. For something or some"body" that entity would have to stand outside of the universe, which is a logical impossibility. It's a classic infinite regression fallacy.

I am sticking with Lee Smolin and Lawrence Krauss for plausible theories about where our universe came from. Physics are far more plausible than fairytales.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
85. True, but that's assertions from best available evidence, not claiming we have knowledge of the...
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 04:35 PM
Nov 2015

currently unknown, that's what theists assert when they claim that God created the universe, or life, or whatever.

ON EDIT: I do have a problem with the term "unknowable" given our track record, yes some things may be outside our current knowledge, but that's the most we can assert, in fact, claiming something is unknowable is claiming knowledge of the unknowable, or something.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
90. Cosmologists and theoretical physicists
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 04:42 PM
Nov 2015

are reasonably certain what occurred within a few billionths of a second after the Big Bang. Not there yet but not too bad.

There is far more to learn than we know but the scientific method has made remarkable progress since Copernicus, Kepler, Galileo and Newton.

Three or four more Einsteins and we might get to the Bottom of It All, if we don't destroy our species and planet first in the name of profits for the few.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
162. Logic, and the scientific method that derives from it
Wed Nov 18, 2015, 01:13 PM
Nov 2015

is one of the only tools we humans have that has proven itself to work.

Logic and the scientific method have cured and controlled deadly diseases, explained genomes, sent men to the moon and returned them sefely home and sent probes to the stars.

Yes, logic works.

Moostache

(10,983 posts)
115. Not a true statement...
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 05:58 PM
Nov 2015

You're using a limited and narrow, highly specific definition of "atheist" to make a point that does not hold up...

Hypothetical Believer: "I KNOW I am saved and destined for the curse of 'eternal, unchanging life' because Jeebus."
Hypothetical Atheist: "I reject your claims, based on a total lack of verifiable or objective evidence to support them."

By taking ALL atheist positions to mean "I KNOW that your claim is wrong...." is to conflate them with some thing other than what they are.

A LACK of belief is not the same thing as a STATED belief.

A- (without) -theist ("belief in god[s]&quot
is NOT
"believing the unknowable"
;

And in the immortal words of one Jules Winfield (of Pulp Fiction fame and renown): "Ain't no ballpark neither. It ain't the same game, it ain't even the same fucking sport."

aka-chmeee

(1,225 posts)
63. Christian reindeer will never know I am an atheist reindeer unless they
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 03:49 PM
Nov 2015

bring their ridiculous beliefs up. If they persist after I tell them I ain't buyin' what they're selling, they deserve whatever unattractive, unpleasant, blasphemous response I deliver.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
154. The OP is a perfect case in point for 'faith' vs 'action'. The baiting, bigoted original post was
Wed Nov 18, 2015, 08:29 AM
Nov 2015

placed with privileged impunity and then the OP vanished and refused to discuss or to defend the homophobic, disgusting shit he has posted here. From the action of posting then hiding we see that the OP is not confident in his belief system.

The OP does not even understand the Rudolph story. Which is a kid's story and not that hard to manage.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
158. Does your persception see the OP discussing his 'points'? Do you wish to defend his points?
Wed Nov 18, 2015, 09:14 AM
Nov 2015

He says that to be critical of a philosophy that says some humans are inferior to others is very wrong, but that the philosophy that says others are inferior is very right. It's a defense of bigotry, it's a declaration that anything tagged as 'faith' must not be criticized, this is a world where 'faith' is given as reason to murder, beat, rape and oppress.
Now what's your perspective on that?

deutsey

(20,166 posts)
159. Look, I know you have an axe that you're grinding on this subject
Wed Nov 18, 2015, 09:51 AM
Nov 2015

Grind away. I liked the overall sentiment. You don't. I get it.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
72. Serious question for you, FrodosPet:
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 04:05 PM
Nov 2015

Are church signs saying things such as "believe in God/Jesus or burn," slogans such as "in God We Trust" on our money, group prayers in non-church settings, the postings of religious pictures/sentiments on Facebook, demands that we "Pray for X" and so on what you would consider "shaming" Atheism? After all, they are direct slaps in the face to those who don't believe in the supernatural due to lack of evidence, and they imply that atheists are stupid, wrong, and bad for not buying into religious belief. So why are those things okay if Atheists saying "these beliefs are silly and unfounded" IS wrong like your little post implies?

SusanCalvin

(6,592 posts)
132. Thank you. I get so sick of that stuff.
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 08:49 PM
Nov 2015

If you're going to tell me I'm going to Hell, at least keep it inside your church, not on your marquee.

FrodosPet

(5,169 posts)
169. LOTS of Christian assholery, no doubt
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 10:30 AM
Nov 2015

I just think the assholery can be best combatted by being polite, mature and helpful, even when others are being gigantic jackasses, as opposed to the "you stupid superstitious poopy head get a brain morans" method of education and persuasion.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
203. But in our society saying "God Bless You" is not considered offensive, yet
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 01:15 PM
Nov 2015

saying "There is no God" is considered offensive and over-the-top. People will tell you to keep that to yourself, which means that basically they're saying atheists should never express anything related to atheism at any time. Of course, religious expression at any time is always okay. If an atheist complains about religious expression, s/he's considered an oversensitive jackass and a jerk and "militant."

MNBrewer

(8,462 posts)
77. This is bull
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 04:25 PM
Nov 2015

with respect to comparing "shaming religion and spirituality as silly and not real" with things that actually harm people such as homophobia, misogyny and racism.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
78. What if you consider yourself to be a human being and nothing more?
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 04:26 PM
Nov 2015

Can I point out flaws in other philosophies then?
[hr][font color="blue"][center]You should never stop having childhood dreams.[/center][/font][hr]

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
128. Religions are people, too, my friend!
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 08:33 PM
Nov 2015

[hr][font color="blue"][center]You should never stop having childhood dreams.[/center][/font][hr]
 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
86. Unless you are Mormon, a Scientologist, or a RW Christian
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 04:37 PM
Nov 2015

Because people that aren't atheist mock the fuck out them on DU.

Response to FrodosPet (Original post)

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
91. Their Invisible Man In the Sky told them
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 04:44 PM
Nov 2015

that we atheists are evil, so it's all copacetic for them.

Response to hifiguy (Reply #91)

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
95. Seems to minimize or even trivialize the beliefs and world-views of other people when we say...
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 04:59 PM
Nov 2015

Seems to minimize or even trivialize the beliefs and world-views of other people when we tell someone "It's OK for you to think that" as though our validation were required for them. It's not. My acknowledgment of what a person may or may not believe is not only irrelevant, it's actually self-centered.

It appears on the same level as saying "bless your little heart..."

Moostache

(10,983 posts)
101. Disagree.
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 05:11 PM
Nov 2015

Religions are VERY real...all too real in fact.
Their tenets and crazy ideas about a deity that grants its followers special privilege in the expansive universe is completely unreal and conjecture of the worst kind...the kind that can make good people do evil things.

lame54

(39,216 posts)
104. Screw that...
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 05:22 PM
Nov 2015

As long as religion is used to make laws that I HAVE TO FOLLOW - they will be ridiculed

Vinca

(53,364 posts)
110. I think it's entirely appropriate to shame them when
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 05:33 PM
Nov 2015

atheists often act more like a Christian is supposed to act than an actual Christian. You don't need a magical reason to be kind to people and help those in need. The faux Christians are everywhere, beating their chests and waving their Bibles and today demanding homeless refugees stay away. Jesus would not be pleased.

 

MindPilot

(12,693 posts)
138. And here's the BIG difference:
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 09:47 PM
Nov 2015

We atheists will point and laugh at silly beliefs in things that are clearly not real. We may even file a lawsuit if you are using the power of government to force their silly beliefs on everyone. And then we're done; believe what ever silly shit they want. None of us really care.

But in the religionist's mind, not only is non-belief deserving of punishment; the punishment for not buying the bullshit is a violent death and eternal torture.

Two very different mindsets.

Lordquinton

(7,886 posts)
163. This right here
Wed Nov 18, 2015, 02:27 PM
Nov 2015

Atheists talk about beliefs, not believers. Theists talk about atheists, not a lack of belief.

Mariana

(15,613 posts)
165. And a lot of them get a real charge
Wed Nov 18, 2015, 03:19 PM
Nov 2015

when they fantasize about everyone who doesn't believe as they do - along with everyone they don't particularly like - being tortured for eternity. The idea gives some of them a great deal of pleasure.

HereSince1628

(36,063 posts)
112. Hmm, nice lesson, but it's disrespectful of caribou/reindeer
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 05:40 PM
Nov 2015

The picture is of deer. Deer are not the same species or even in the same genus as caribou.

Tough is it to get clip art of a reindeer/caribou?

eppur_se_muova

(41,009 posts)
117. Glad someone knows enough about what's OK to be handing out such judgements.
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 06:08 PM
Nov 2015

Because, otherwise, you know, we'd all be clueless.

truegrit44

(332 posts)
122. Thanks for posting this.......
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 07:28 PM
Nov 2015

it has given us non believers a great thread to vent, and thanks to all the intelligent, truthful replies. Enjoyed it!

ozone_man

(4,825 posts)
123. Imagine
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 07:30 PM
Nov 2015

Nothing to kill and die for
And no religion too

I always thought the order of lines was reversed from what makes more sense:

Imagine no religion
Nothing to kill and die for

Perhaps that was part of his genius and finesse.

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
125. Being a thinking adult...
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 07:45 PM
Nov 2015

... and believing in ancient superstitions and spiritual woo is...

downright embarrassing!

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
135. LOL...authoritarians are such silly people.
Tue Nov 17, 2015, 08:53 PM
Nov 2015

Their need for control only rivals their massive insecurities with the world at large. It is OK to do a drive by post, just a little in poor taste is all.

SusanCalvin

(6,592 posts)
153. I recced it to get the replies seen.
Wed Nov 18, 2015, 06:56 AM
Nov 2015

It was already on the greatest when I got here, or I would probably have let it sink.

Oh dear - I just looked at that graphic and the accompanying sentiments again. It *is* awful, isn't it?

 

Yorktown

(2,884 posts)
151. So religion is out of bounds of human enquiry?
Wed Nov 18, 2015, 01:49 AM
Nov 2015

Because it's one or the other: either religions are right, or they are wrong.

Example: The Old Testament and the Quran say that homosexuality is an abomination.

That statement is either right or wrong.

If it is a wrong statement, the Old Testament and the Quran are silly and not OK.

In total contradiction with the OP's image.

FrodosPet

(5,169 posts)
188. Black or white, true or false, up or down
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 11:22 AM
Nov 2015

The world is a binary place. Shades of gray are for sexual fiction.

 

Bradical79

(4,490 posts)
164. That's an image full of false equivalency
Wed Nov 18, 2015, 03:01 PM
Nov 2015

The reasons have already been pointed out further up thread very well. I like to believe the OP's heart is in the right place.

I can think Islam, Christianity, Scientology, and so on are overall negative influences in our world without thinking most who are members of those groups are murderous monsters, or recognizing a number of sub-groups have rejected many of the awful portions of their holy writings or previous teachings. I also see no problem being strongly critical or mocking of man made organizations, written teachings, actions of your group's leadership, or calling out someone on their support of an awful organization.

DirkGently

(12,151 posts)
168. Yeah. No. Pretty big stretch to target atheism there.
Wed Nov 18, 2015, 08:01 PM
Nov 2015

I don't care for militant or nasty expressions of ideology of any stripe, including that shown by some fellow atheists -- Bill's Maher's wacky sniping at Stephen Colbert the other night comes to mind.

But there is no equivalency whatsoever between "shaming" (read: mockery) of faith and being "homophobic, misogynistic, racist."

Mockery doesn't kill people. Or enslave them. Or tell them who they can have sex with, adopt, or marry.

This is a contrived, intellectually dishonest roundabout attempt to rip atheism, in my opinion.





FrodosPet

(5,169 posts)
172. Mockery gets people to kill themselves
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 12:08 AM
Nov 2015

Is politeness a bad thing?

Does Atheism need fewer ambassadors and more soldiers?

Are we destined to become a world full of rude jerks in the defense of our non-beliefs?

Fumesucker

(45,851 posts)
175. It’s funny how inconvenient my lack of faith as a bereaved mother can be for those on the outside.
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 06:13 AM
Nov 2015
http://www.salon.com/2015/10/24/please_stop_telling_me_my_daughter_is_in_heaven/

My daughter was born three years ago. I went into pre-term labor at 22 weeks gestation, and try as they might, the doctors could not keep her here with us. Her short life, just eight hours long, has marked my life and my husband’s life deeply. Margaret Hope (or Maggie, as we refer to her) continues to exist with us in her own way, but this persistence has absolutely nothing to do with god or Jesus or angels or any other specific afterworld. This is what works for us as parents. It’s what works for about two percent of the U.S. population who currently identify as atheists, and for about 20 percent who are agnostic or unaffiliated with any particular set of beliefs.

Being an atheist in a believer’s world can be difficult at times, especially when some of the more fervently religious are close family or friends. It’s even more daunting when faced with grief and death. Christians believe that when we die, we either go to heaven or hell. Many, of course, believe babies go to heaven because they are, well, babies. When our daughter died, my husband requested to have our baby baptized, fearing in some way for her soul, a remnant of his Catholic upbringing. There was no time for a traditional baptism while she was alive but her NICU doctor performed the rite for her while we held her in our arms for the first time, our tiny, frail, lifeless daughter whose eyes never even got a chance to see. It felt bizarre to me, but I allowed it because my husband was suffering and it seemed to bring him some comfort. Later, as reality hit harder, he would lose all faith as I had done.

(. . .)

The thing is, though, if you tell someone of faith that you don’t believe your child is in heaven, you’re met with confusion, or sad looks, or sometimes even a bit of anger. People don’t understand how or why you wouldn’t want to believe that your child is in a better place. Quite often, they take it as a personal attack on their belief when it’s really more about being honest about your own grief. It’s funny how inconvenient my lack of faith as a bereaved mother can be for those on the outside. (Actually, it’s not funny at all.)

I sought out support groups in my area, but could not find any that were not held within a church. I did not feel comfortable going to one of these places for fear of verbally assaulting anyone who might suggest my daughter had earned her angel wings. It made me want to shake people until they realized that maybe she died simply because people die. Maybe she died because there were errors made in the care I received at the hospital I visited twice in the week before she died, where those who saw me shrugged off that I was spotting without reason. Maybe she died because I was unable to visit a new doctor because the office refused to see me without receiving the paperwork from my previous doctor in Miami, whose office continuously forgot to fax over my records, leaving me without regular medical care for weeks. Maybe she died because I had experienced tremendous stress after being fired from my job due to early pregnancy complications that required me to miss work, causing me to go on Medicaid in the first place, resulting in the aforementioned doctor shuffle. Maybe she died because of any other reason except that it was god’s will. Maybe it was more about socio-economics and my own personal health than about imaginary lords in the sky.

FrodosPet

(5,169 posts)
181. Why don't more athiests and non-secular people start stepping up then?
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 09:29 AM
Nov 2015
"I sought out support groups in my area, but could not find any that were not held within a church."


If atheists want to get rid of the ugly stereotype they are stuck with, perhaps they can step up and start providing the human services, such as bereavement and other support groups, that churches traditionally have.

Fumesucker

(45,851 posts)
186. Would that stop people making cruel comments about your deceased being in "a better place"?
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 10:34 AM
Nov 2015

Orrex

(66,691 posts)
202. The grieving parent is under no obligation to coddle a theistic busybody
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 01:15 PM
Nov 2015

If the theist is offended that the grieving person doesn't want to hear the theist's sermon, then that's the theist's problem. In times of grief, the absolute priority goes to the person who is suffering. Any attempt to proselytize, whether by the atheist or the theist, is boorish at best and the height of inexcusable rudeness.

I have been atheist for more than three decades, I have known many atheists, and have known many people who've suffered loss. In all that time I have never once seen an atheist take advantage of that suffering in order to advertise a worldview that the sufferer might not share. For instance, no atheist tells a grieving believer "you know there's no heaven, right?" Find me the atheist who does that, and I will call him out as a cruel asshole.

In stark and vile contrast, I see theists do it all the time. ALL THE TIME. In fact, I have seen them do it in literally every case of loss or suffering that I have ever witnessed. Sure, they do it under the pretense of "meaning well," but it boils down to one of the following:

1. They do or don't know the sufferer's views but don't know how else to offer comfort
2. They don't know the sufferer's views and don't care to know them
3. They know the sufferer's views and don't respect them

#1 is frustrating but understandable, while 2 and 3 are clear statements that the "comforter's" views are more important than the sufferer's view and, further, that the "comforter's" views are more important than the sufferer's grief.


So I'm sorry that you find it "rude and confrontational," but when an atheist has finally had enough and is willing to risk the repercussions of revealing her lack of belief, then you can be assured that's a response to the subtly (and not so subtly) "rude and confrontational" theists they've endured for years or decades.

Mariana

(15,613 posts)
195. In many areas, there just aren't enough atheists
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 12:18 PM
Nov 2015

to form support groups or to provide much in the way of services. You're trying to lay a pretty large burden on a small minority of the population, if you really expect them to provide the same kind of support that churches and religious groups offer for their members.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
196. They do. All the time.
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 12:21 PM
Nov 2015

One of the biggest secular groups that help more people than any other....


The Red Cross


Google is your friend.

DirkGently

(12,151 posts)
199. Because atheists do good things already, but they're not a monolithic group?
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 12:58 PM
Nov 2015

You are displaying a fundamental misunderstanding of what being non-religious means here.

Not buying other people's belief systems is not a belief system. This is the core idiocy of most complaints about atheism. It's not another form of religion. There isn't a book of dogma, or a set of rules. There are no uniforms or prayers. That's kind of the POINT.

Therefore not signing on to a religious faith does not create an obligation to provide a parallel alternative. Just not believing other people's religious ideas is the entirety of atheism.

Plenty of non-believers are active in doing various good things. Probably most of them, in fact. But they don't do it somehow "in the name of" non-religion, because that doesn't make sense. You could do that, if you wanted to, I guess, and maybe someone somewhere has, but there is no reason in the world to expect that, much less demand it. All lack of religion requires is not actively buying someone else's tradition.

You make it sound non-believers supposed to wave a flag or wear or uniform or shout slogans, or something, so that religious people will accept them. An argument which sounds, by the way, very much like bigoted demands that Muslims march around decrying terrorism to prove they are "the good ones."

No one is under any obligation to reassure religious people that non-religious people are just as good as they are, or that they don't hate them or hold them in contempt. Religious people are under an obligation not to assume the contrary.

As for mockery making people "kill themselves," really?

I would be very concerned if anti-religious sentiment was driving religious teens to suicide the way religious people's anti-gay bigotry has, for example. I don't think that's a realistic danger, however, do you? Without dogma and organization and the persecution of others that goes with it, people have nothing to fear, which again, is part of the point of not subscribing to religion in the first place.

All going to the original point that individual atheists being militant or snarky may show them to be jerks, but it holds no parallel whatsoever to religious dogma used to support everything from homophobia to outright murder. People being disagreeable about not agreeing with you may be uncouth on an individual basis, but it's not a group decision by the non-believers in the world, because by definition THERE IS NO ONE GROUP OF NON-BELIEVERS.

stage left

(3,203 posts)
210. Very well said.
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 01:50 PM
Nov 2015

"There is no one group of non-believers." Atheism is not a belief system; atheists don't do things in the name of non-belief. At least, this atheist doesn't.

Snobblevitch

(1,958 posts)
173. President Obama has said
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 12:52 AM
Nov 2015

he has a faith in Jesus. He has been photographed with his family on their way to-from church.

FrodosPet

(5,169 posts)
174. Apparently, he should be mocked then?
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 01:41 AM
Nov 2015

Dr. King, Elizabeth Warren, so many well respected people are, for whatever reasons, Christians.

As far as my own beliefs, I don't believe in the supernatural. But I am not prepared to mock and attack people who do believe. It is unnecessarily RUDE and counterproductive. For the most part, they are sincere people who want to do the right thing, even if they are not clear on what that is. Yes, sick and greedy individuals affiliated with their religion have performed some evil acts and promoted destructive ideas. But the best path to get people to listen is a positive face of reason and rationality, not a barrage of beratement.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
207. Oh, well, then. I'm a Democrat, and he is too, so I guess I have to believe in God now!
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 01:22 PM
Nov 2015

I seeeeee the light! Praaaaaaise Jesus!

*puts hands in air and sways back and forth with eyes closed*

whathehell

(30,363 posts)
176. Nails it..
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 07:38 AM
Nov 2015

I couldn't care less what anyone believes or does NOT believe -- I just don't want them insulting and/or bullying me because I may

view things differently. It can be quite a problem on DU, and NOT from the believing side.

Quantess

(27,630 posts)
191. How about: just get a grip, calm the fuck down, and try to act like a well-behaved person?
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 12:11 PM
Nov 2015

Although I must admit, "well-behaved person" is different between Western cultures and Muslim cultures.

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