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James Dearman was charged with aggravated manslaughter of a child in connection with the boys death. Investigators said the suspects other son demonstrated how Dearman used his 270-pound frame to pin the victim against a couch, saying, When dad squished him, he got dead.
Theres not a detective or anybody who isnt pretty upset about this and finds it egregious and malicious, the treatment of a six-year-old child, Sheriffs Department Captain John Walsh said.
Investigators said the incident started when Dearman and his girlfriend, Ashley Cole, told the two boys to go to bed in their bedroom around 7:30 pm that night. When the children refused, Dearman ordered them to stand facing their wall.
Cole told authorities that Dearman later caught the victim watching the couple play video games, prompting the suspect to force the boy to lie on the couch on his side while facing the rear cushions. At that point, she said, Dearman pinned the boy against the cushions, and ignored him when he yelled that he could not breathe. Five minutes later, the boy became motionless.
Instead of attending to him, however, Cole and the suspect left the room to smoke cigarettes in their garage. When they returned 10 minutes later, Cole noticed that the boy was not breathing, then ran back to the garage to pray while Dearman called 911 and tried to perform CPR. Paramedics later took the boy to a local hospital, where he was pronounced dead.
http://www.rawstory.com/2016/01/florida-man-fatally-smothers-young-son-while-playing-video-game-then-goes-out-to-smoke/
arcane1
(38,613 posts)How did that go?
2naSalit
(94,064 posts)Iggo
(48,644 posts)Lizzie Poppet
(10,164 posts)malaise
(279,482 posts)They can pray in prison - fuck them
RKP5637
(67,112 posts)catnhatnh
(8,976 posts)How hard it is to get second hand prayer out of the furnishings?
TexasBushwhacker
(20,777 posts)SHE went to the garage to pray (or dump the drugs).
ProudToBeBlueInRhody
(16,399 posts)rjsquirrel
(4,762 posts)That is the true opiate of the idiocracy.
I find adults who play such games very curious.
ProudToBeBlueInRhody
(16,399 posts)We all have our broad brushes to bear.
Humanist_Activist
(7,670 posts)mainstream and that age is actually increasing as the people who played video games as kids grow up.
Its no more unusual than playing board or card games, or watching TV, or any numerous other hobbies that exist out there.
Ed Suspicious
(8,879 posts)Nye Bevan
(25,406 posts)Does that make me "curious"?
Initech
(102,801 posts)rjsquirrel
(4,762 posts)It's like watching sitcoms or eating junk food for the mind.
Those games teach violence and GTA is racist as hell.
Bluenorthwest
(45,319 posts)Or like puritan bullshit. So cite?
Human101948
(3,457 posts)Are the effects of gaming harmful? According to experts, it depends.
In 2011, American Academy of Pediatrics published a study that found that depression, anxiety, and poor grades in school may be the result of too much gaming.
According to psychologist C. Shawn Green, in the same way we learn to read, use a map or play the piano, video games can and do change the actual physical structure of our brains. Green likens this to exercising in order to build muscles.
Based on a Queensland University study, playing video games is a better option than TV for young children.
Is there a right or wrong answer? No one seems sure. Despite pressure from numerous groups and the medical community debate that rages on, the gaming industry continues to disagree with those who cast a negative light on the issue.
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http://www.huffingtonpost.com/tom-lowery/gaming-health_b_4981076.html
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nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)romanic
(2,841 posts)I also work 40-50 hours a week, run errands and pay bills, take care of my physically disabled dad whenever I can, and volunteer my time at a local homeless shelter three times a month. I'm far from an idiot as are many adult gamers.
Skittles
(160,705 posts)it's those who are REALLY.INTO.IT that are freaking pitiful
rjsquirrel
(4,762 posts)And the violence. It's so gross.
To me that shit is for teenagers.
I've been hacking since the 1980s. I've known lots of gamers.
Katashi_itto
(10,175 posts)I own my own rather profitable company and hold several degrees.
So being REALLY into video games, (Fallout 4 right now) makes me pitiful....Ok I see I see the logic there.
chalmers
(288 posts)there are plenty of people who are meth addicts who are also business owners. whats your point?
Katashi_itto
(10,175 posts)Last edited Sat Jan 2, 2016, 01:06 PM - Edit history (1)
"it's not the playing of video games adults I find disturbing
it's those who are REALLY.INTO.IT that are freaking pitiful"
Plus, cite some numbers about these vast numbers of Meth using CEO's please.
As for your question. Since I do commercials and now finishing my first feature length movie. I would have to say yes.
Video games have helped me.
I always am aware of good story flow in a game and am fascinated by how it's properly or improperly pulled off.
justiceischeap
(14,040 posts)I'm no idiot that's for sure and I bet my hand/eye coordination will be better than most when I get older.
I really, really enjoy killing "things" in video games to relieve stress. Does that make me curious or smart for spending so little on therapy?
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)surely you realize that both stupidity and shitty parenting predate the xbox.
NutmegYankee
(16,350 posts)I do PC gaming only (no consoles). I work as an engineer and pull in a 6 figure income, hardly the story of an idiot.
rjsquirrel
(4,762 posts)I rest my case!
Bluenorthwest
(45,319 posts)they are mindless and cruel and of course, deluded. I think that part makes you uncomfortable as a faith based judge of others.
rjsquirrel
(4,762 posts)faith based what now? I have no opinion on their "faith" except lol whut? I hope their deity is a forgiving one. I doubt He exists.
No, I'm talking about how mentally vacant they appear to be, as evidence that parents who play video games while sitting on their children until they die are bad people.
exboyfil
(18,053 posts)plays them. He also has a Harvard PhD in Biochemistry, his dissertation was the top one of his year, he had an article of the cover of Science, he is currently leading a team of researchers on new antibiotics, he is married to the music director of a large church, his daughter has a great shot at getting into a Julliard graduate program for flute performance, and his son is an All State musician looking at going into Pharmacy.
I don't play them, but many do it for a hobby. I am not sure you could find a more well adjusted person than my brother in law.
I have a phd in a related field from an equally august institution, and I've never played computer games.
Ask your bro in law about canons of evidence and inference, correlation and causation, and statistical significance. 🙂🙂🙂🙂
Obviously "video games" covers too broad a territory. I apologize for offending.
But when I see grownup people spending hours at an Xbox or watching reality TV I worry about our future. These are solipsistic, alienating activities that appeal to a hunger for fantasy and escape. I find them politically concerning.
exboyfil
(18,053 posts)The older brother of my daughter's best friend is also a video gamer and is working on his doctorate at UW Madison.
I do agree with your sentiments in general about people who spend a significant chunk of their free time on any activity (whether it is watching sports, chatting/posting on the internet, binging Netflix, or playing video games). I don't think video games per se are a problem. I have never been interested in them after I hit my 20s, but I can see the attraction for some people who have high stress jobs. I personally binge watch shows while rowing which is my stress reliever. I could visualize in the future as technology advances actual hand weapon type games with simulated swords and what not with EM resistance that would allow for a good work out while playing the game. Safer than beating on someone else with weapons.
I agree with you about reality television. You lose brain cells by merely being in the room when they are on. When my wife turns them or soaps on, my first reaction is to run from the living room.
tabasco
(22,974 posts)The strident defense of this avocation is an indicator of how deeply ingrained it has become.
Lizzie Poppet
(10,164 posts)PhD from an Ivy here (and I do philosophy of science for a living, actually)...avid gamer. I have zero doubt there are countless examples on either side of the gamer/non-gamer divide. Given the difficulty in performing an empirically rigorous reduction of confounding causal factors (of which there are a metric fuck-ton in a complex psychological matter like this), it's hard even to establish true correlation, to say nothing of asserting that gaming has any particular causal relationship to academic success at a high level.
I do, however, share your view of the effect of mindless entertainment in general. Or, to be more specific, the effect of overindulgence in mindless entertainment, which I suspect was your core point. The political implication lies in the area of the effect of a disconnected, broadly ignorant electorate on the proper function of democracy. Combined with the tremendous influence over political decisions that economic desperation possesses, and 24/7 fear-mongering in the media, we have in place a perfect formula for keeping the working masses pliable. I hate to sound like a tinfoil hat wearer, but I'm by no means convinced that's entirely coincidental.
Facility Inspector
(615 posts)When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.
1 Corinthians 13:11
Omaha Steve
(103,974 posts)K no R.
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TexasTowelie
(117,933 posts)Last edited Sat Jan 2, 2016, 08:48 AM - Edit history (1)
Kalidurga
(14,177 posts)It is not taken seriously. He murdered his kid. It wasn't manslaughter at all it was premeditated murder. You could argue he wasn't actually trying to kill the kid, but he went to the garage and smoked a cigarette when the child was motionless, wtf did they think that was a good sign he wasn't dead? Nope, they pretty much have to have known there was a serious problem and didn't f'n care.
exboyfil
(18,053 posts)who let a 12 year old bleed out without doing jack after shooting him.
HughBeaumont
(24,461 posts)What a surprise.
Fucking pig.
alphafemale
(18,497 posts)bigwillq
(72,790 posts)May he rot.
B Calm
(28,762 posts)exboyfil
(18,053 posts)I vote for the latter myself.