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UTUSN
(71,816 posts)stopdiggin
(12,341 posts)people got enough issues - and plenty to deal with
Why would you come up with the squirrelly idea that this was somehow 'helping'?
UTUSN
(71,816 posts)And were not upset with me, but thanks.
UTUSN
(71,816 posts)stopdiggin
(12,341 posts)Well, actually .. kinda' did.
And still think .. from a stranger, in a happy hour environment (or most other environments for that matter) ... ? Whoa, pull up on 'em reins, pardner!
But, I'll allow as you probably meant well - even if a generally bad idea - and the good thing is that no one got hurt. (at least tonight) So - more than willing to call it a wash.
Peace. And have a good night, friend!
IbogaProject
(3,291 posts)A single remark to nudge one or both can't hurt. I think you did alright.
stopdiggin
(12,341 posts)in the direction of other people that you similarly know nothing of ... ?
Can't hurt !? WTF ! Amazed that you would suggest ...
Bad call ! Really bad call !
LudwigPastorius
(10,213 posts)I hate drama.
I guess everybody's got to have a hobby, though. Do whatchawannado.
UTUSN
(71,816 posts)***** OP:
So, new Happy Hour server, quiet, air of I've-had-a-tough-life-am-doing-a-job. She was attentive. Late in the Happy Hour a dude arrived and there was obviously some kind of connection vibe. Somebody was dominant.
So my -dar kicked in and the dude did his dude thing about not interacting yet being somewhere there.. But eventually he went outside to smoke and I asked (none of my business), are you all something and she said yes, but there was some kind of complication. What could it be, the predictable things like somebody's married, kids are somewhere, what. None of my business. Some hurt in the air somewhere.
So post-smoke, dude back, and I say (not supposed to say unasked for things), you all are a purty couple. He didn't deny it. Should I continue with this?