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debm55

(40,933 posts)
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 08:10 PM Sep 2024

Update. Today Rich will take part in ceremony to ring the bell --his radiation is done.for his cancer treatment.

Thank you everyone. Rich's parents have passed and my family has not called or sent a card still. But we will visit the doctor afterward. Love you all. Thank you for letting us share our journey with you all. All 28 treatments.

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Update. Today Rich will take part in ceremony to ring the bell --his radiation is done.for his cancer treatment. (Original Post) debm55 Sep 2024 OP
Good news for sure. Nt Biophilic Sep 2024 #1
Thank you. Biophilic debm55 Sep 2024 #15
Here's hoping for success. They had one of those bells where I was treated. captain queeg Sep 2024 #2
Thank you captain queeg. debm55 Sep 2024 #16
GREAT!!! elleng Sep 2024 #3
Thank you elleng debm55 Sep 2024 #18
That's a real milestone! RoadRunner Sep 2024 #4
Thank you RoadRunner. debm55 Sep 2024 #19
Wonderful news! Ring that bell loud!!!! Fla Dem Sep 2024 #5
Thank you, Fla Dem debm55 Sep 2024 #20
A Big F'ing Deal! Dave in VA Sep 2024 #6
Thank you Dave in VA debm55 Sep 2024 #21
Great news. sinkingfeeling Sep 2024 #7
Thank you sinkingfeeling debm55 Sep 2024 #22
Congratulations for making it through BittyJenkins Sep 2024 #8
Thank you BittyJenkins. debm55 Sep 2024 #23
Congratulations! That is great news. arkielib Sep 2024 #9
thank you arkielib debm55 Sep 2024 #25
Wonderful news! Doodley Sep 2024 #10
Thank you Doodley debm55 Sep 2024 #26
Wonderful news! Elessar Zappa Sep 2024 #11
Thank you Elessar Zappa debm55 Sep 2024 #27
Congratulations! Diamond_Dog Sep 2024 #12
Thank you Diamond_Dog. debm55 Sep 2024 #28
Great news. Wifey has rang it twice, once for stage 4 lymphoma and once for leukemia. Ferrets are Cool Sep 2024 #13
Thank you Ferrets are Cool. I can't wait. debm55 Sep 2024 #29
👏 Good news and sending best wishes for the both of you to enjoy your lives together Deuxcents Sep 2024 #14
Thank you Deuxcents debm55 Sep 2024 #30
Hugs. onecaliberal Sep 2024 #17
Thank you onecaliberal debm55 Sep 2024 #31
Great news nt doc03 Sep 2024 #24
Thank you doc03 debm55 Sep 2024 #32
Congratulations! Glad your husband will be finished with his radiation tomorrow. HeartsCanHope Sep 2024 #33
Thank you HeartsCanHope . I will debm55 Sep 2024 #37
Congrats on the milestone Picaro Sep 2024 #34
Thank you Picaro. debm55 Sep 2024 #38
Great news! Hope22 Sep 2024 #35
Thank you Hope22 debm55 Sep 2024 #39
Take care of each other displacedvermoter Sep 2024 #36
Thank you displacedvermotor. debm55 Sep 2024 #40
Such Wonderful News! PikaBlue Sep 2024 #41
Thank you PikaBlue. It has been a long journey for my husband Rich and posters here have shared our journey-a journey debm55 Sep 2024 #45
Yes! Ring that bell! skylucy Sep 2024 #42
thank you skylucy. debm55 Sep 2024 #46
That is good news. Continuing vibes for full recovery on every level niyad Sep 2024 #43
Thank you niyad. Love you debm55 Sep 2024 #47
Love you too. niyad Sep 2024 #52
Along time ago,....... WVreaper Sep 2024 #44
Thank you WVreaper. they didn't by any chance go to UPMC in Pittsburgh? Your parents are angels . God bless them both debm55 Sep 2024 #50
Wonderful news... Demsrule86 Sep 2024 #48
Thank you Demsrule86 debm55 Sep 2024 #51
Sooo happy to hear that judesedit Sep 2024 #49
Thank you judesedit debm55 Sep 2024 #75
That's fantastic, deb! True Dough Sep 2024 #53
Thank you, TrueDough. debm55 Sep 2024 #56
Yay! murielm99 Sep 2024 #54
Congratulations murielm99 and thank you. debm55 Sep 2024 #59
Congrats! SheltieLover Sep 2024 #55
Thank you , SheltieLover. debm55 Sep 2024 #57
YW! SheltieLover Sep 2024 #61
Great News Deb!! AmBlue Sep 2024 #58
Thank you AmBlue debm55 Sep 2024 #76
That's wonderful news, Deb. Doing a happy dance for you and Rich. sueh Sep 2024 #60
Thank you sueh debm55 Sep 2024 #77
Very happy to hear this news. Dem2theMax Sep 2024 #62
Thank you Dem2theMax debm55 Sep 2024 #79
This is good news 🔔🔔🔔 Polly Hennessey Sep 2024 #63
Thank you Polly Hennessey debm55 Sep 2024 #81
That is wonderful!! cate94 Sep 2024 #64
Thank you cate94 debm55 Sep 2024 #80
Exciting! Hugs to you both! emulatorloo Sep 2024 #65
Thank you emulatorioo debm55 Sep 2024 #85
They gave me 28 radiation treatments also KS Toronado Sep 2024 #66
KS Tororonad, Me too about the Chemo.Thank you debm55 Sep 2024 #87
Sharing your happiness BaronChocula Sep 2024 #67
HAHAHAHAHAH Thank you BaronChocula debm55 Sep 2024 #88
Awesome news, Deb! summer_in_TX Sep 2024 #68
Thank you summer_in_TX debm55 Sep 2024 #90
Congratulations! Didn't know about this tradition. May he remain cancer-free! electric_blue68 Sep 2024 #69
Thank you electric_blue68 debm55 Sep 2024 #84
great news! JoseBalow Sep 2024 #70
Thank you JoseBalow debm55 Sep 2024 #83
hem. congrats on rich. we care here . we are your extended fam. AllaN01Bear Sep 2024 #71
Thank you AllaN01Bear debm55 Sep 2024 #82
Fantastic 👍 that's the best feeling 💙 TommieMommy Sep 2024 #72
Thank you TommieMommy debm55 Sep 2024 #73
Glad to hear it! Congratulations Rich! OldBaldy1701E Sep 2024 #74
Thank you OldBaldy1701E debm55 Sep 2024 #78
Congratulations - may you enjoy the precious moments and successes even more now. waterwatcher123 Sep 2024 #86
Thank you waterwatcher123 debm55 Sep 2024 #91
Good news! and ... AltairIV Sep 2024 #89
Thank you Altair1V debm55 Sep 2024 #92
Hi Deb. OilemFirchen Sep 2024 #93
God bless you. Your post touched my heart. You are strong, and you are loved. Perhaps wait awhile and post again. We are debm55 Sep 2024 #97
Thanks, Debbie. OilemFirchen Sep 2024 #105
You are very welcome. debm55 Sep 2024 #111
Ring that bell, Rich! Niagara Sep 2024 #94
Thank you Niagara. debm55 Sep 2024 #98
Great news! Praying you and Rich will have many more happy milestones to celebrate! highplainsdem Sep 2024 #95
Thank you highplainsdem. they are what they are. After 69 years. I should know that. Thank you for your hugs. debm55 Sep 2024 #99
Great News indeed! K & R Emile Sep 2024 #96
Thank you , Emile, debm55 Sep 2024 #100
Wonderful news, let's keep it going, man...hopefully you'll all be done maybe, w/ the big stuff, and now will go SWBTATTReg Sep 2024 #101
Thank you SWBTATTReg debm55 Sep 2024 #102
That is great. Please let Rich know that we want the best of health for him (and, of course, for you). LoisB Sep 2024 #103
Thank you LoisB debm55 Sep 2024 #104
Going out to eat . We are feeling much better. especially Rich. debm55 Sep 2024 #106
Sorry I Missed This Yesterday, Deb ProfessorGAC Sep 2024 #107
Thank you ProfessorGAC debm55 Sep 2024 #108
Wonderful news, Deb! Different Drummer Sep 2024 #109
Thank you Different Drummer debm55 Sep 2024 #110
I got text from my cousin; i sent her one bout 5+ weeks ago, but forgot I was using a temporary phone # so she.. electric_blue68 Sep 2024 #112
Thank you electric_blue68 debm55 Sep 2024 #113

RoadRunner

(4,598 posts)
4. That's a real milestone!
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 08:15 PM
Sep 2024

Congratulations! I finished that 16 years ago and I’m still kicking. He will be too.

Elessar Zappa

(16,275 posts)
11. Wonderful news!
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 08:22 PM
Sep 2024

And try not to let your family’s lack of compassion to get you down. You’ve got tons of people here who care about you and Rich.

Diamond_Dog

(35,632 posts)
12. Congratulations!
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 08:22 PM
Sep 2024


They rang the bell for me 17 years ago and I remember it like it was yesterday. Good going! You made it!

Ferrets are Cool

(22,077 posts)
13. Great news. Wifey has rang it twice, once for stage 4 lymphoma and once for leukemia.
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 08:24 PM
Sep 2024

It's a wonderful feeling. Congratulations!!!

Deuxcents

(20,597 posts)
14. 👏 Good news and sending best wishes for the both of you to enjoy your lives together
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 08:36 PM
Sep 2024

In peace and good health

HeartsCanHope

(772 posts)
33. Congratulations! Glad your husband will be finished with his radiation tomorrow.
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 09:16 PM
Sep 2024

Hoping for good news from the doctor for you both. You've both been in my thoughts. I'm sorry about your family ignoring you. I certainly understand how disappointing family members can be. It hurts that they can't even try. I am no contact with my family now, and although it is a good thing it can feel lonely at times. Please give us an update when you feel able. Take care.

Picaro

(1,864 posts)
34. Congrats on the milestone
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 09:19 PM
Sep 2024

Sorry to hear about the estrangement within your family.

You and Rich are your family. Celebrate.

PikaBlue

(275 posts)
41. Such Wonderful News!
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 09:26 PM
Sep 2024

I know it has been a long night's journey into day - but you made it!

debm55

(40,933 posts)
45. Thank you PikaBlue. It has been a long journey for my husband Rich and posters here have shared our journey-a journey
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 09:32 PM
Sep 2024

that started with a routine yearly check up in June.

niyad

(121,581 posts)
43. That is good news. Continuing vibes for full recovery on every level
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 09:28 PM
Sep 2024

for both of you.

WVreaper

(650 posts)
44. Along time ago,.......
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 09:28 PM
Sep 2024

Both of my parents, both dying of cancer, went into what was then experimental treatments. I can remember my dad going through three days of treatments, coming home and we had to take him back to the hospital. Because of what my parents went through, they learned a lot. Their sacrifice was not in vain.

debm55

(40,933 posts)
50. Thank you WVreaper. they didn't by any chance go to UPMC in Pittsburgh? Your parents are angels . God bless them both
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 09:38 PM
Sep 2024

for their love and support of others that forever were helped forever .

KS Toronado

(20,141 posts)
66. They gave me 28 radiation treatments also
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 10:38 PM
Sep 2024

Wonder if that's a magic number? Glad he didn't need chemo.

BaronChocula

(2,535 posts)
67. Sharing your happiness
Mon Sep 16, 2024, 10:56 PM
Sep 2024

Continue to listen to the docs (except when not doing so on occasion might make life a little better ) .

TommieMommy

(1,366 posts)
72. Fantastic 👍 that's the best feeling 💙
Tue Sep 17, 2024, 04:37 AM
Sep 2024

I hope he is totally cured and feels wonderful for a long time 🙏💙 😁

AltairIV

(713 posts)
89. Good news! and ...
Tue Sep 17, 2024, 07:11 AM
Sep 2024

Congratulations! Keeping you both in my thoughts as your journey enters a new phase.

OilemFirchen

(7,179 posts)
93. Hi Deb.
Tue Sep 17, 2024, 08:04 AM
Sep 2024

On March 1, I was diagnosed with prostate cancer. This may sound familiar: three Gleason 9 sets of cores, four Gleason 4 individual cores, and non-metastasized. Following a PET scan, my newly-assigned surgical oncologist informed me that a prostatectomy was unlikely to be successful and I began the process of ADT therapy, then the 28 days of radiology.

During that period, I noted your posts about your Rich. I wanted to reach out, but I was so frightened and depressed that I simply couldn't. In fact, my last post on DU was March 10. I had intended, following treatment, to compose an "I'm back!" post and re-engage, but it seemed pretentious and, as my recovery was very difficult, I found all social media participation impossible.

I'm still shy about participation here, but wanted to take this opportunity to congratulate Rich and give you both a virtual hug. The very best experience during this ordeal was forming a kinship with some of the other men I met along the way. The bond was so strong that we began to come early or stay late to participate in each others' bell-ringing. I rang the bell on July 8 - two of the guys who had finished their therapy before me, and whose bell-ringing I attended, came to my mine. One traveled his 1 1/2 hour slog to be there and I sobbed like a baby.

All of this is say that I am so very happy to read of Rich's success. If his journey was anything like mine, I know how difficult it must have been for you both. To this day, I can see the sadness in my partner's eyes. I fell madly in love with her again after thirty years together. I hope that your bond with Rich is equally as affirming.

I'll likely not participate here much, if at all, in the future. Once again, all my best to you both. Please, please reach out to me personally should you feel the urge to talk. The ADT therapy can be quite a challenge, so if either of you are finding it difficult to cope, know that it does get better and that a "seasoned" ear can be a comfort.

Bless you both.

debm55

(40,933 posts)
97. God bless you. Your post touched my heart. You are strong, and you are loved. Perhaps wait awhile and post again. We are
Tue Sep 17, 2024, 09:56 AM
Sep 2024

back and it felt so good. I wrote your name down in my notebook I will contact you. Please don't be a stranger here. YOU ARE LOVED.
thank you for sharing your experience with us. Love.Debbie.

OilemFirchen

(7,179 posts)
105. Thanks, Debbie.
Tue Sep 17, 2024, 10:40 AM
Sep 2024

I forgot to mention that my most recent labs (three weeks ago today) show a PSA of 0.00875. That's Rich's next milestone!

highplainsdem

(53,396 posts)
95. Great news! Praying you and Rich will have many more happy milestones to celebrate!
Tue Sep 17, 2024, 08:29 AM
Sep 2024

And please do not let your terrible relatives' disgraceful behavior interfere.

Sending hugs...

debm55

(40,933 posts)
99. Thank you highplainsdem. they are what they are. After 69 years. I should know that. Thank you for your hugs.
Tue Sep 17, 2024, 09:59 AM
Sep 2024

SWBTATTReg

(24,620 posts)
101. Wonderful news, let's keep it going, man...hopefully you'll all be done maybe, w/ the big stuff, and now will go
Tue Sep 17, 2024, 10:10 AM
Sep 2024

into a progress mode/follow-thru every month/six months/etc. period of time to see if any recurrences occur. May the powers that be, grant us a total remission, cure.

LoisB

(9,219 posts)
103. That is great. Please let Rich know that we want the best of health for him (and, of course, for you).
Tue Sep 17, 2024, 10:37 AM
Sep 2024

electric_blue68

(19,562 posts)
112. I got text from my cousin; i sent her one bout 5+ weeks ago, but forgot I was using a temporary phone # so she..
Tue Sep 17, 2024, 11:32 PM
Sep 2024

didn't realize it *was* me. Duh on me!
I guess either she decided to take a look, or my sister mentioned it to her.

Anyway I wanted to text her bc I hadn't heard from her, and to find out when -her- radiation treatments were over. I thought she was going to early Oct.

Nope, she's done! 🎉
1I wouldn't have known to ask before you mentioned it for Rich; and, yes, she rang a gong at her treatment place. 👍

Enjoy some relaxing days ahead and more.

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