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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsUpdate. Today Rich will take part in ceremony to ring the bell --his radiation is done.for his cancer treatment.
Thank you everyone. Rich's parents have passed and my family has not called or sent a card still. But we will visit the doctor afterward. Love you all. Thank you for letting us share our journey with you all. All 28 treatments.
Biophilic
(5,181 posts)debm55
(40,933 posts)captain queeg
(11,780 posts)debm55
(40,933 posts)elleng
(137,621 posts)debm55
(40,933 posts)RoadRunner
(4,598 posts)Congratulations! I finished that 16 years ago and Im still kicking. He will be too.
debm55
(40,933 posts)Fla Dem
(26,142 posts)debm55
(40,933 posts)Dave in VA
(2,185 posts)Congratulations!
debm55
(40,933 posts)sinkingfeeling
(53,640 posts)debm55
(40,933 posts)BittyJenkins
(591 posts)Everything! Enjoy tomorrow. 💕🐝
debm55
(40,933 posts)arkielib
(386 posts)debm55
(40,933 posts)Doodley
(10,473 posts)debm55
(40,933 posts)Elessar Zappa
(16,275 posts)And try not to let your familys lack of compassion to get you down. Youve got tons of people here who care about you and Rich.
debm55
(40,933 posts)Diamond_Dog
(35,632 posts)They rang the bell for me 17 years ago and I remember it like it was yesterday. Good going! You made it!
debm55
(40,933 posts)Ferrets are Cool
(22,077 posts)It's a wonderful feeling. Congratulations!!!
debm55
(40,933 posts)Deuxcents
(20,597 posts)In peace and good health
debm55
(40,933 posts)onecaliberal
(36,594 posts)debm55
(40,933 posts)doc03
(37,250 posts)debm55
(40,933 posts)HeartsCanHope
(772 posts)Hoping for good news from the doctor for you both. You've both been in my thoughts. I'm sorry about your family ignoring you. I certainly understand how disappointing family members can be. It hurts that they can't even try. I am no contact with my family now, and although it is a good thing it can feel lonely at times. Please give us an update when you feel able. Take care.
debm55
(40,933 posts)Picaro
(1,864 posts)Sorry to hear about the estrangement within your family.
You and Rich are your family. Celebrate.
debm55
(40,933 posts)Hope22
(3,385 posts)Love to both of you! 💗💗🙏🏼💐
debm55
(40,933 posts)displacedvermoter
(3,403 posts)and keep thinking positive thoughts.
debm55
(40,933 posts)PikaBlue
(275 posts)I know it has been a long night's journey into day - but you made it!
debm55
(40,933 posts)that started with a routine yearly check up in June.
skylucy
(3,888 posts)debm55
(40,933 posts)niyad
(121,581 posts)for both of you.
debm55
(40,933 posts)niyad
(121,581 posts)WVreaper
(650 posts)Both of my parents, both dying of cancer, went into what was then experimental treatments. I can remember my dad going through three days of treatments, coming home and we had to take him back to the hospital. Because of what my parents went through, they learned a lot. Their sacrifice was not in vain.
debm55
(40,933 posts)for their love and support of others that forever were helped forever .
Demsrule86
(71,036 posts)I am so happy to hear this.
debm55
(40,933 posts)judesedit
(4,526 posts)debm55
(40,933 posts)True Dough
(21,460 posts)Elated for both of you!
debm55
(40,933 posts)murielm99
(31,605 posts)I rang the bell a couple of years ago.
debm55
(40,933 posts)SheltieLover
(61,280 posts)debm55
(40,933 posts)AmBlue
(3,447 posts)I'm so happy for both of you! Sending big hugs!!
debm55
(40,933 posts)sueh
(1,881 posts)debm55
(40,933 posts)Dem2theMax
(10,542 posts)Tell Rich to ring that bell extra loud so we can hear!
debm55
(40,933 posts)Polly Hennessey
(7,610 posts)debm55
(40,933 posts)cate94
(2,921 posts)debm55
(40,933 posts)emulatorloo
(45,709 posts)debm55
(40,933 posts)KS Toronado
(20,141 posts)Wonder if that's a magic number? Glad he didn't need chemo.
debm55
(40,933 posts)BaronChocula
(2,535 posts)Continue to listen to the docs (except when not doing so on occasion might make life a little better ) .
debm55
(40,933 posts)summer_in_TX
(3,399 posts)Congratulations to you both!
debm55
(40,933 posts)electric_blue68
(19,562 posts)debm55
(40,933 posts)JoseBalow
(6,196 posts)debm55
(40,933 posts)AllaN01Bear
(23,747 posts)debm55
(40,933 posts)TommieMommy
(1,366 posts)I hope he is totally cured and feels wonderful for a long time 🙏💙 😁
debm55
(40,933 posts)OldBaldy1701E
(6,965 posts)And to you for being such a partner to him.
debm55
(40,933 posts)waterwatcher123
(291 posts)debm55
(40,933 posts)AltairIV
(713 posts)Congratulations! Keeping you both in my thoughts as your journey enters a new phase.
debm55
(40,933 posts)OilemFirchen
(7,179 posts)On March 1, I was diagnosed with prostate cancer. This may sound familiar: three Gleason 9 sets of cores, four Gleason 4 individual cores, and non-metastasized. Following a PET scan, my newly-assigned surgical oncologist informed me that a prostatectomy was unlikely to be successful and I began the process of ADT therapy, then the 28 days of radiology.
During that period, I noted your posts about your Rich. I wanted to reach out, but I was so frightened and depressed that I simply couldn't. In fact, my last post on DU was March 10. I had intended, following treatment, to compose an "I'm back!" post and re-engage, but it seemed pretentious and, as my recovery was very difficult, I found all social media participation impossible.
I'm still shy about participation here, but wanted to take this opportunity to congratulate Rich and give you both a virtual hug. The very best experience during this ordeal was forming a kinship with some of the other men I met along the way. The bond was so strong that we began to come early or stay late to participate in each others' bell-ringing. I rang the bell on July 8 - two of the guys who had finished their therapy before me, and whose bell-ringing I attended, came to my mine. One traveled his 1 1/2 hour slog to be there and I sobbed like a baby.
All of this is say that I am so very happy to read of Rich's success. If his journey was anything like mine, I know how difficult it must have been for you both. To this day, I can see the sadness in my partner's eyes. I fell madly in love with her again after thirty years together. I hope that your bond with Rich is equally as affirming.
I'll likely not participate here much, if at all, in the future. Once again, all my best to you both. Please, please reach out to me personally should you feel the urge to talk. The ADT therapy can be quite a challenge, so if either of you are finding it difficult to cope, know that it does get better and that a "seasoned" ear can be a comfort.
Bless you both.
debm55
(40,933 posts)back and it felt so good. I wrote your name down in my notebook I will contact you. Please don't be a stranger here. YOU ARE LOVED.
thank you for sharing your experience with us. Love.Debbie.
OilemFirchen
(7,179 posts)I forgot to mention that my most recent labs (three weeks ago today) show a PSA of 0.00875. That's Rich's next milestone!
debm55
(40,933 posts)Niagara
(10,038 posts)Here's to your good health and happiness!
Love to you both.
debm55
(40,933 posts)highplainsdem
(53,396 posts)And please do not let your terrible relatives' disgraceful behavior interfere.
Sending hugs...
debm55
(40,933 posts)Emile
(31,831 posts)debm55
(40,933 posts)SWBTATTReg
(24,620 posts)into a progress mode/follow-thru every month/six months/etc. period of time to see if any recurrences occur. May the powers that be, grant us a total remission, cure.
debm55
(40,933 posts)LoisB
(9,219 posts)debm55
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(40,933 posts)ProfessorGAC
(71,311 posts)Happy for both of you.
debm55
(40,933 posts)Different Drummer
(8,933 posts)debm55
(40,933 posts)electric_blue68
(19,562 posts)didn't realize it *was* me. Duh on me!
I guess either she decided to take a look, or my sister mentioned it to her.
Anyway I wanted to text her bc I hadn't heard from her, and to find out when -her- radiation treatments were over. I thought she was going to early Oct.
Nope, she's done! 🎉
1I wouldn't have known to ask before you mentioned it for Rich; and, yes, she rang a gong at her treatment place. 👍
Enjoy some relaxing days ahead and more.