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Aristus

(68,327 posts)
Tue Oct 1, 2024, 03:14 PM Oct 1

I am officially at the day-drinking stage of unemployment.

Not every day. Or even most days. But I want a drink, so dammit; I’m having one.

I’ll lift this one in honor of the centenary of one of the greatest men ever to serve as President: James Earl Carter, Jr. To your health, sir!

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I am officially at the day-drinking stage of unemployment. (Original Post) Aristus Oct 1 OP
Cheers FirefighterJo Oct 1 #1
And to you. Aristus Oct 1 #13
Ever consider a career True Dough Oct 1 #2
Not unless you can picture a bartender gingerly sifting ingredients for a cocktail Aristus Oct 1 #4
I'd say that's a good reason to have a drink in the afternoon. Happy Birthday President Carter! Diamond_Dog Oct 1 #3
Definitely! Aristus Oct 1 #5
I quit alcohol 30 years ago.. Permanut Oct 1 #6
But first: well-deserved congratulations for thirty years. Aristus Oct 1 #7
To Jimmy Carter! Permanut Oct 1 #8
Hear, hear peppertree Oct 1 #29
I got a glass of my non alcohol Merlot made by FRE raised to you, Aristus! CTyankee Oct 1 #9
It's always good to see you, CTYankee! Aristus Oct 1 #10
Nothing wrong with a drinking day every once and a while 🍸 IrishAfricanAmerican Oct 1 #11
And that's all it is: once in a while. Aristus Oct 1 #12
I don't drink no more. OAITW r.2.0 Oct 1 #14
Hey! Aristus Oct 1 #15
When I went to visit Germany in the 90's, Elessar Zappa Oct 1 #16
Oh lord... jmowreader Oct 2 #50
A noble toast. Cheers Mr. President. Evolve Dammit Oct 1 #17
Enjoy it carpetbagger Oct 1 #18
Any nibbles yet? Warpy Oct 1 #19
I haven't started applying yet. Aristus Oct 1 #20
Beats the hell out of burnout Warpy Oct 1 #22
I can officially start the filing process for Social Security today . . . SarcasticSatyr Oct 1 #21
That's wonderful! Aristus Oct 1 #24
Yippee! The Madcap Oct 1 #41
Do some calculations central scrutinizer Oct 2 #47
while interesting . . . SarcasticSatyr Oct 2 #49
A beautiful toast! birdographer Oct 1 #23
Definitely. Aristus Oct 1 #25
If you are like me, birdographer Oct 1 #26
Life IS short! Aristus Oct 1 #30
I have pretty strict two drink limit biophile Oct 1 #40
Do what works. Aristus Oct 1 #42
For me, the third drink is always a mistake!😏 biophile Oct 1 #43
Holding up my Dr. Pepper for the toast - TBF Oct 1 #27
Enjoy! Aristus Oct 1 #32
I'll join you! BaronChocula Oct 1 #28
Excellent! Aristus Oct 1 #33
To Jimmy! Happy 100! mountain grammy Oct 1 #31
Most definitely! Aristus Oct 1 #34
Yup. OldBaldy1701E Oct 1 #35
You can't drink all day Mr.Bill Oct 1 #36
Come on up KT2000 Oct 1 #37
Long drive from Puyallup. Aristus Oct 1 #38
Yes. there are trumpers KT2000 Oct 1 #44
I only ever go to Port Angeles in order to take the ferry Aristus Oct 1 #45
Kind of like retirement! biophile Oct 1 #39
I never day-drank, but I am an alcoholic. LudwigPastorius Oct 1 #46
I'll drink to that1 Different Drummer Oct 2 #48
Oh, listen, my orchestra colleagues in the opera orchestra of Venice's La Fenice theater would fierywoman Oct 2 #51
Thank you for the interesting story. Aristus Oct 3 #54
Be careful, Rich, has been sober for 40 years. Love ya. debm55 Oct 2 #52
Enjoy! PJMcK Oct 3 #53

True Dough

(20,244 posts)
2. Ever consider a career
Tue Oct 1, 2024, 03:17 PM
Oct 1

as a bartender? You'd surely make a fine one (as long as you didn't sample everyone's drinks).

Aristus

(68,327 posts)
4. Not unless you can picture a bartender gingerly sifting ingredients for a cocktail
Tue Oct 1, 2024, 03:21 PM
Oct 1

into a glass, squinting closely at a bar book recipe, and taking five minutes to mix a drink.

Because that’s me.

Plus, I don’t want to deal with a bunch of bad-tempered drunks on a regular basis. Or any basis, really.

CTyankee

(65,015 posts)
9. I got a glass of my non alcohol Merlot made by FRE raised to you, Aristus!
Tue Oct 1, 2024, 04:02 PM
Oct 1

I'm too old to drink wine any more so I drink a non alcohol one. It tastes like Merlot but with no alcohol and I love the taste. It goes well with my dinner. I highly recommend it, if you can get it. It is quite delicious and festive!

Elessar Zappa

(15,888 posts)
16. When I went to visit Germany in the 90's,
Tue Oct 1, 2024, 04:50 PM
Oct 1

I saw some construction workers, presumably on break, sitting on the curb and drinking beer. It was 11 am. So I say, be like the Germans and feel free to indulge!

jmowreader

(51,438 posts)
50. Oh lord...
Wed Oct 2, 2024, 07:09 PM
Oct 2

At Field Station Berlin we had "ops guard" duty. If we had to hire a civilian company to do work on the building, someone with a security clearance had to watch the workers all the time to be sure he didn't go somewhere he wasn't authorized.

Most of us had at least a few stories of the workers bringing beer with them. I had to watch this guy who was soldering the flashing around the edge of the roof who cracked a cold one then started soldering the roof with a torch and a bar of what I presume was lead. Do one seam, drink some beer...all day long.

carpetbagger

(4,777 posts)
18. Enjoy it
Tue Oct 1, 2024, 04:58 PM
Oct 1

My dad had some extended periods of unemployment as he was in a high place in a small industry. He was out of work nearly all of my 9th grade. My friends noticed how happy he was... Golf, pool, nap, day drinking.. they referred to him as "gainfully unemployed". He died at 61, but he had those times.

Warpy

(113,130 posts)
19. Any nibbles yet?
Tue Oct 1, 2024, 05:06 PM
Oct 1

You should be getting a few now that the fiscal year is over.

I don't drink, so the worst stage of unemployment for me was when I'd bring in the mail after 10 PM because I didn't want to run into any of my neighbors and answer any questions.

Aristus

(68,327 posts)
20. I haven't started applying yet.
Tue Oct 1, 2024, 05:20 PM
Oct 1

My severance package has given me a little leeway in terms of a time period for the job search. I could easily go back to my previous employer. They’d hire me tomorrow. But then it would be back to the overwork and relentless schedule. Which, to be honest, is preferable to the office politics and micromanagement I was dealing with. As long as I’m still getting paid and my benefits are in working order, I’m going to chill for a bit.

Warpy

(113,130 posts)
22. Beats the hell out of burnout
Tue Oct 1, 2024, 05:42 PM
Oct 1

I was pretty fried by the time I left to care for a dying mother. Then I went blind for the first time, which saved me from going back.

No bennies, no severance, just enough to live on for 3 years, which turned out to be exactlyright.

The Madcap

(374 posts)
41. Yippee!
Tue Oct 1, 2024, 06:42 PM
Oct 1

I envy you. I'm only a few months away myself. Forty years in a career is looking like enough. Just hoping Kamala wins so it would be more feasible. If T**** wins, I'm likely to be selling pencils on a street corner after he kills the stock markets and Social Security.

central scrutinizer

(12,441 posts)
47. Do some calculations
Wed Oct 2, 2024, 01:21 PM
Oct 2

Every year you delay starting collecting, your benefit increases by 8%. With compounding and COLAs it really adds up.

birdographer

(2,527 posts)
23. A beautiful toast!
Tue Oct 1, 2024, 05:49 PM
Oct 1

Be careful with day drinking. Quite the slippery slope. Hold off till 6, at least? (This coming from someone who actually holds off till about 6:45, and no hard stuff after dinner. That's the best I can do these days...)

Aristus

(68,327 posts)
25. Definitely.
Tue Oct 1, 2024, 05:52 PM
Oct 1

This is not a slope I plan to risk often.

But just once, I thought to myself; it’s the middle of the day. I have no obligations or responsibilities. I’m going to have a drink, dammit.

birdographer

(2,527 posts)
26. If you are like me,
Tue Oct 1, 2024, 05:54 PM
Oct 1

the more you deny yourself the drink, the more you want it! Until you get tired of arguing with yourself and you do what you want (even if you don't want you to). I cannot say that on a really hot day I do not crack open a beer and sit on the deck with it in the middle of the afternoon. Life is short!!!!

Aristus

(68,327 posts)
30. Life IS short!
Tue Oct 1, 2024, 05:58 PM
Oct 1

For fourteen years, I have tried to serve the underserved, and help those who could find it nowhere else. My patients loved me for it. My employers, interested only in revenue, didn't; not so much.

After fourteen years of overwork and office politics, I'm going to take it easy for a little while before jumping back in.

biophile

(349 posts)
40. I have pretty strict two drink limit
Tue Oct 1, 2024, 06:42 PM
Oct 1

It doesn’t matter much when I start, but I do hold off until noon at least. Sometimes I’ve had my two by 1:30 pm. So that is it for the day. Sometimes it’s closer to dinner. I do have 1-2 drinks almost every day.
I don’t drink much, I just drink often!

biophile

(349 posts)
43. For me, the third drink is always a mistake!😏
Tue Oct 1, 2024, 06:59 PM
Oct 1

Just makes me feel crappy. Two is good for the buzz; three means regrets 😖

TBF

(34,285 posts)
27. Holding up my Dr. Pepper for the toast -
Tue Oct 1, 2024, 05:57 PM
Oct 1

I don't drink much anymore (arthritis meds) ... but will certainly join you. I know something better is going to be coming your way! And Cheers to Jimmy Carter, who is certainly one of the best men we've had as president. Whenever I picture him it's with a hammer working on one of the Habitat for Humanity houses.

Aristus

(68,327 posts)
38. Long drive from Puyallup.
Tue Oct 1, 2024, 06:32 PM
Oct 1

Anyway, my erstwhile employers operated a clinic on the Peninsula. I worked there a number of times. Lot of Trumpsters out there. I give every patient 100% regardless of their politics. But I'd like to avoid them if I can.

Anyway, thanks for the recommendation!

KT2000

(20,832 posts)
44. Yes. there are trumpers
Tue Oct 1, 2024, 10:38 PM
Oct 1

but not so much in Sequim (old people) and Port Townsend (very liberal). I try not to go to Port Angeles.

Aristus

(68,327 posts)
45. I only ever go to Port Angeles in order to take the ferry
Tue Oct 1, 2024, 10:40 PM
Oct 1

to liberal Victoria, BC.

Life’s too short to spend around dipshit right-wingers.

LudwigPastorius

(10,782 posts)
46. I never day-drank, but I am an alcoholic.
Tue Oct 1, 2024, 10:45 PM
Oct 1

That was part of the mind game, "well, at least I'm not getting wasted while the sun is up".

I'm glad someone can enjoy a nice adult beverage whenever they want it...because I sure can't. So, I'll live vicariously through you.

fierywoman

(8,105 posts)
51. Oh, listen, my orchestra colleagues in the opera orchestra of Venice's La Fenice theater would
Wed Oct 2, 2024, 07:52 PM
Oct 2

ALL have "un ombretta" at the 11:15 break -- one of those little beveled glasses of wine. "Ombretta" is a word with the same etymological root as "umbrella"; "ombra" is a shadow; in Venice, red wine is called "vin nero" (black or dark wine) so the "ombretta" kind of denotes the shadow of the wine ... Me, I used to always have a cappuccio (it's hard to leave the Protestant Ethic behind ) Enjoy your break, dear Aristus, GOd knows you deserve it.

Aristus

(68,327 posts)
54. Thank you for the interesting story.
Thu Oct 3, 2024, 10:40 AM
Oct 3


I’m already dreading getting back into the swing of things. I guess I was more burned out than I thought.
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