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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsI am officially at the day-drinking stage of unemployment.
Not every day. Or even most days. But I want a drink, so dammit; Im having one.
Ill lift this one in honor of the centenary of one of the greatest men ever to serve as President: James Earl Carter, Jr. To your health, sir!
FirefighterJo
(355 posts)Aristus
(68,327 posts)Fire fighters ROCK!
True Dough
(20,244 posts)as a bartender? You'd surely make a fine one (as long as you didn't sample everyone's drinks).
Aristus
(68,327 posts)into a glass, squinting closely at a bar book recipe, and taking five minutes to mix a drink.
Because thats me.
Plus, I dont want to deal with a bunch of bad-tempered drunks on a regular basis. Or any basis, really.
Diamond_Dog
(34,613 posts)Aristus
(68,327 posts)Permanut
(6,636 posts)but I'll gladly join you in a lemonade toast to a great man!
Aristus
(68,327 posts)Now: To Jimmy Carter!
Permanut
(6,636 posts)peppertree
(22,850 posts)CTyankee
(65,015 posts)I'm too old to drink wine any more so I drink a non alcohol one. It tastes like Merlot but with no alcohol and I love the taste. It goes well with my dinner. I highly recommend it, if you can get it. It is quite delicious and festive!
Aristus
(68,327 posts)IrishAfricanAmerican
(4,170 posts)Aristus
(68,327 posts)Best!
OAITW r.2.0
(28,361 posts)But I don't drink no less!
Elessar Zappa
(15,888 posts)I saw some construction workers, presumably on break, sitting on the curb and drinking beer. It was 11 am. So I say, be like the Germans and feel free to indulge!
jmowreader
(51,438 posts)At Field Station Berlin we had "ops guard" duty. If we had to hire a civilian company to do work on the building, someone with a security clearance had to watch the workers all the time to be sure he didn't go somewhere he wasn't authorized.
Most of us had at least a few stories of the workers bringing beer with them. I had to watch this guy who was soldering the flashing around the edge of the roof who cracked a cold one then started soldering the roof with a torch and a bar of what I presume was lead. Do one seam, drink some beer...all day long.
Evolve Dammit
(18,603 posts)carpetbagger
(4,777 posts)My dad had some extended periods of unemployment as he was in a high place in a small industry. He was out of work nearly all of my 9th grade. My friends noticed how happy he was... Golf, pool, nap, day drinking.. they referred to him as "gainfully unemployed". He died at 61, but he had those times.
Warpy
(113,130 posts)You should be getting a few now that the fiscal year is over.
I don't drink, so the worst stage of unemployment for me was when I'd bring in the mail after 10 PM because I didn't want to run into any of my neighbors and answer any questions.
Aristus
(68,327 posts)My severance package has given me a little leeway in terms of a time period for the job search. I could easily go back to my previous employer. Theyd hire me tomorrow. But then it would be back to the overwork and relentless schedule. Which, to be honest, is preferable to the office politics and micromanagement I was dealing with. As long as Im still getting paid and my benefits are in working order, Im going to chill for a bit.
Warpy
(113,130 posts)I was pretty fried by the time I left to care for a dying mother. Then I went blind for the first time, which saved me from going back.
No bennies, no severance, just enough to live on for 3 years, which turned out to be exactlyright.
SarcasticSatyr
(1,285 posts). . . . .
Aristus
(68,327 posts)Im happy for you!
The Madcap
(374 posts)I envy you. I'm only a few months away myself. Forty years in a career is looking like enough. Just hoping Kamala wins so it would be more feasible. If T**** wins, I'm likely to be selling pencils on a street corner after he kills the stock markets and Social Security.
central scrutinizer
(12,441 posts)Every year you delay starting collecting, your benefit increases by 8%. With compounding and COLAs it really adds up.
SarcasticSatyr
(1,285 posts)I don't think I'm likely to live more than a few more years, I really don't care anymore.
birdographer
(2,527 posts)Be careful with day drinking. Quite the slippery slope. Hold off till 6, at least? (This coming from someone who actually holds off till about 6:45, and no hard stuff after dinner. That's the best I can do these days...)
Aristus
(68,327 posts)This is not a slope I plan to risk often.
But just once, I thought to myself; its the middle of the day. I have no obligations or responsibilities. Im going to have a drink, dammit.
birdographer
(2,527 posts)the more you deny yourself the drink, the more you want it! Until you get tired of arguing with yourself and you do what you want (even if you don't want you to). I cannot say that on a really hot day I do not crack open a beer and sit on the deck with it in the middle of the afternoon. Life is short!!!!
Aristus
(68,327 posts)For fourteen years, I have tried to serve the underserved, and help those who could find it nowhere else. My patients loved me for it. My employers, interested only in revenue, didn't; not so much.
After fourteen years of overwork and office politics, I'm going to take it easy for a little while before jumping back in.
biophile
(349 posts)It doesnt matter much when I start, but I do hold off until noon at least. Sometimes Ive had my two by 1:30 pm. So that is it for the day. Sometimes its closer to dinner. I do have 1-2 drinks almost every day.
I dont drink much, I just drink often!
Aristus
(68,327 posts)biophile
(349 posts)Just makes me feel crappy. Two is good for the buzz; three means regrets 😖
TBF
(34,285 posts)I don't drink much anymore (arthritis meds) ... but will certainly join you. I know something better is going to be coming your way! And Cheers to Jimmy Carter, who is certainly one of the best men we've had as president. Whenever I picture him it's with a hammer working on one of the Habitat for Humanity houses.
BaronChocula
(2,517 posts)Aristus
(68,327 posts)mountain grammy
(27,271 posts)Aristus
(68,327 posts)Good to see you, gram!
OldBaldy1701E
(6,338 posts)Mr.Bill
(24,790 posts)unless you start in the morning.
KT2000
(20,832 posts)to the Olympic Peninsula! We always need PAs.
Aristus
(68,327 posts)Anyway, my erstwhile employers operated a clinic on the Peninsula. I worked there a number of times. Lot of Trumpsters out there. I give every patient 100% regardless of their politics. But I'd like to avoid them if I can.
Anyway, thanks for the recommendation!
KT2000
(20,832 posts)but not so much in Sequim (old people) and Port Townsend (very liberal). I try not to go to Port Angeles.
Aristus
(68,327 posts)to liberal Victoria, BC.
Lifes too short to spend around dipshit right-wingers.
biophile
(349 posts)🤣
LudwigPastorius
(10,782 posts)That was part of the mind game, "well, at least I'm not getting wasted while the sun is up".
I'm glad someone can enjoy a nice adult beverage whenever they want it...because I sure can't. So, I'll live vicariously through you.
Different Drummer
(8,568 posts)fierywoman
(8,105 posts)ALL have "un ombretta" at the 11:15 break -- one of those little beveled glasses of wine. "Ombretta" is a word with the same etymological root as "umbrella"; "ombra" is a shadow; in Venice, red wine is called "vin nero" (black or dark wine) so the "ombretta" kind of denotes the shadow of the wine ... Me, I used to always have a cappuccio (it's hard to leave the Protestant Ethic behind ) Enjoy your break, dear Aristus, GOd knows you deserve it.
Aristus
(68,327 posts)Im already dreading getting back into the swing of things. I guess I was more burned out than I thought.
debm55
(35,919 posts)I might join you when I get home from my meetings this morning.
Just be responsible and safe.