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From The Ashes

(2,679 posts) Thu Oct 3, 2024, 07:07 AM Oct 3

So today (10/3) is a sad anniversary for me.

My mom passed away 20 years ago. My emotions are all over the place today.

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So today (10/3) is a sad anniversary for me. (Original Post) From The Ashes Oct 3 OP

Sending hugs across the miles BlueKota Oct 3 #1

Thanks for the hug... From The Ashes Oct 3 #6

May her memories be a blessing to to during this sad time. debm55 Oct 3 #2

they do every single day. From The Ashes Oct 3 #5

I'm sorry. I get it; my mom's 30th death day was in December. ms liberty Oct 3 #3

Just remember... From The Ashes Oct 3 #4

So very sorry snowybirdie Oct 3 #7

Hugs and Love from multi-colored Minnesota! (n/t) OldBaldy1701E Oct 3 #8

Hugs and good vibes sent your way. Elessar Zappa Oct 3 #9

Sending hugs! lark Oct 3 #10

I'm right there with you... Basso8vb Oct 3 #11

.... Niagara Oct 3 #12

BlueKota

(3,643 posts)

1. Sending hugs across the miles

Reply to From The Ashes (Original post)

Thu Oct 3, 2024, 07:21 AM

Oct 3

From The Ashes

(2,679 posts)

6. Thanks for the hug...

Reply to BlueKota (Reply #1)

Thu Oct 3, 2024, 08:17 AM

Oct 3

debm55

(35,929 posts)

2. May her memories be a blessing to to during this sad time.

Reply to From The Ashes (Original post)

Thu Oct 3, 2024, 07:29 AM

Oct 3

From The Ashes

(2,679 posts)

5. they do every single day.

Reply to debm55 (Reply #2)

Thu Oct 3, 2024, 08:16 AM

Oct 3

Today is just so hard.

ms liberty

(9,826 posts)

3. I'm sorry. I get it; my mom's 30th death day was in December.

Reply to From The Ashes (Original post)

Thu Oct 3, 2024, 07:38 AM

Oct 3

Objectively I feel like I should be better adjusted by now, but my heart is still devastated when it comes to mind. I feel like you never really get over it, you just get used to living with it.

From The Ashes

(2,679 posts)

4. Just remember...

Reply to ms liberty (Reply #3)

Thu Oct 3, 2024, 08:14 AM

Oct 3

Grief is not a linear thing: it gets better but doesn't go away and we're all here to support you.

snowybirdie

(5,627 posts)

7. So very sorry

Reply to From The Ashes (Original post)

Thu Oct 3, 2024, 08:36 AM

Oct 3

So many of us miss our mothers forever. A hug.

OldBaldy1701E

(6,338 posts)

8. Hugs and Love from multi-colored Minnesota! (n/t)

Reply to From The Ashes (Original post)

Thu Oct 3, 2024, 10:30 AM

Oct 3

Elessar Zappa

(15,888 posts)

9. Hugs and good vibes sent your way.

Reply to From The Ashes (Original post)

Thu Oct 3, 2024, 11:05 AM

Oct 3

I know this isn’t very helpful but your continued grief indicates what an awesome mother she must have been.

lark

(24,149 posts)

10. Sending hugs!

Reply to From The Ashes (Original post)

Thu Oct 3, 2024, 12:26 PM

Oct 3

My mom passed away on 10/13, 10 years ago. I always think about her so much, especially around this time.

Basso8vb

(281 posts)

11. I'm right there with you...

Reply to From The Ashes (Original post)

Thu Oct 3, 2024, 03:35 PM

Oct 3

9/30/88

Niagara

(9,565 posts)

12. ....

Reply to From The Ashes (Original post)

Thu Oct 3, 2024, 06:58 PM

Oct 3

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