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Generic Brad

(14,372 posts)
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 12:44 PM 7 hrs ago

I'm hesitant to post this

I usually steer away from posting personal information. But my health has taken an unexpected twist. Three weeks ago I went to my doctor because I was having difficulty breathing and had not slept for three days. She called an ambulance and I had a minor heart attack in the ER. Turns out I have congestive heart failure. So I’ve been dealing with that and getting my affairs in order just in case.

Four days ago my right leg quickly developed a Charlie Horse from my hip to my toes. The pain was so excruciating I called 911. I got airlifted to Vanderbilt and am still in the ICU. I had a blood clot that lodged in my femoral artery. They were initially bracing me for amputation. They appear to have saved my leg but it is in rough shape. And the potassium that was released when muscle cells were dying caused kidney failure. So I am dealing with major leg issues, dialysis, and then after that is all stabilized they will work on my heart.

It’s been a rough month. Hopefully I’ll pull through and be around for a few more years. I’m just an old voice in the DU wilderness and didn’t want to fade away without any explanation as to why I might no longer post. No one here knows me or chats with me. But I’ve been with this community since a few months after it started (as a different user) and you all still feel like brethren. I wish you all well.

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I'm hesitant to post this (Original Post) Generic Brad 7 hrs ago OP
At Vanderbilt, you are in good hands..wishing you a full recovery Demovictory9 7 hrs ago #1
Wishing you a quick recovery! That's a lot to deal livetohike 7 hrs ago #2
Your body really wants to heal, never forget that. Arne 7 hrs ago #3
Prayed for you. Get well soon and let us know Joinfortmill 7 hrs ago #4
Be Well,.. we all hope you experience a quick recovery. magicarpet 7 hrs ago #5
Wishing you a speedy recovery awesomerwb1 7 hrs ago #6
Consider yourself hugged if BittyJenkins 7 hrs ago #7
You're in good hands. I know and remember you - your DU name is memorable ms liberty 7 hrs ago #8
It sounds like you've had a rough month, Generic Brad Niagara 7 hrs ago #9
That's a lot to handle Marthe48 7 hrs ago #10
Hopefully you will recover and resume your life. pandr32 7 hrs ago #11
Wishing you the best as you recover from virgdem 7 hrs ago #12
Positive thoughts & healing vibes! CrispyQ 7 hrs ago #13
Dang, that's a lot of trauma! Bayard 7 hrs ago #14
I wish you the best outcome. Solly Mack 7 hrs ago #15
Generic Brad. Sending all my wishes and thoughts for your recoverery. debm55 7 hrs ago #16
Well, we know you now, Generic peggysue2 7 hrs ago #17
💙 Wishing you all the best, glad you posted to let us know your situation. Hugs! appalachiablue 7 hrs ago #18
Much luck Brad mdbl 7 hrs ago #19
I'm glad you posted. barbtries 6 hrs ago #20
OK, I had this almost a decade ago - TBF 6 hrs ago #21
I'm so sorry you're having to deal with all this, and I hope you're getting excellent care. Lonestarblue 6 hrs ago #22
Brad, I hope you are feeling much better soon people 6 hrs ago #23
Sending you healing vibes! MLAA 6 hrs ago #24
Sending positive thoughts and wishing you a speedy recovery. alwaysinasnit 6 hrs ago #25
positive thoughts your way.... markie 6 hrs ago #26
Sorry to hear of this sudden onslaught of health crises. 70sEraVet 6 hrs ago #27
Vibes to you on a complete recovery. My dad applegrove 6 hrs ago #28
I am in awe of your ability to keep calm and rational. That in itself can save your life and keep you sane. marble falls 6 hrs ago #29
Do as they tell you and you will surprise yourself. appleannie1 6 hrs ago #30
Wish you health and healing Richluu 6 hrs ago #31
We're wishing you all the best! CaptainTruth 6 hrs ago #32
Glad you survived all that and hoping that you are headed to improved health... Trueblue Texan 6 hrs ago #33
Wishing you well GB!💕 louslobbs 6 hrs ago #34
You are part of this community, Brad. Holding you in my heart. n/t TygrBright 6 hrs ago #35
Wishing you a quick recovery KS Toronado 6 hrs ago #36
Scary month for you. Take care and feel better. They seem to be taking good care of you. BoomaofBandM 6 hrs ago #37
All the best to you for a speedy recovery.💙 PittBlue 6 hrs ago #38
Big hugs Brad, and not generic ones, the big Bear Hug type Teacher of the Year 6 hrs ago #39
That is quite a lot to deal with. I truly hope your health issues are resolved fully. Sending good vibes and major LoisB 6 hrs ago #40
Having similar problems with my heart, might I suggest ... relayerbob 6 hrs ago #41
Good info since I didn't know what CQ-10 actually can do. Wising you... electric_blue68 48 min ago #103
To modify a quote from the Fabulous Furry Freak Brothers: "DU will get you thru times of... FailureToCommunicate 6 hrs ago #42
Best of health Just Jerome 6 hrs ago #43
Yikes! Lulu KC 6 hrs ago #44
All the best to you, Generic Brad!! FeelingBlue 6 hrs ago #45
Generic Brad Faux pas 6 hrs ago #46
Sending love and all Good Thoughts. quaint 6 hrs ago #47
Sounds like you're where you need to be for now....hope you are well soon! PortTack 6 hrs ago #48
All the best Brad. You certainly have hit a few bumps in the road. Fla Dem 6 hrs ago #49
I'm glad you were able to share with us so that we can wish you a speedy recovery. chowder66 6 hrs ago #50
Holy Cow, GB!! Alliepoo 6 hrs ago #51
Hugs to you, nocoincidences 6 hrs ago #52
Wishing you only the best! Think. Again. 6 hrs ago #53
It sounds like you're in good hands oldtime dfl_er 5 hrs ago #54
Good luck. Wishing you all the best for a full recovery. mountain grammy 5 hrs ago #55
Had a somewhat similar experience KT2000 5 hrs ago #56
❤️ Donkees 5 hrs ago #57
Hang tough, Brad. LuckyCharms 5 hrs ago #58
I feel you, Generic Brad. Hang in there! dchill 5 hrs ago #59
I wish you the very best! Erda 5 hrs ago #60
I wish you well Figarosmom 5 hrs ago #61
Getting old is such a bitch. Lunabell 5 hrs ago #62
We can't lose another Democrat! 🙏 demosincebirth 5 hrs ago #63
May your healing be swift and whole ❤️ Clouds Passing 5 hrs ago #64
Thank you. Be well -- soon. Festivito 5 hrs ago #65
I'm so sorry you are suffering. I wish you well and may healing energy surround you. 58Sunliner 5 hrs ago #66
May heals and hugs be yours Tweedy 5 hrs ago #67
Oh Brad bdamomma 5 hrs ago #68
Get better soon XanaDUer2 5 hrs ago #69
Someone's always here to talk to. Elessar Zappa 5 hrs ago #70
Hey Brad Sugarcoated 5 hrs ago #71
Sorry to hear this. Pulling for your recovery. Nt BootinUp 5 hrs ago #72
Glad you're likely to keep your leg and your life together 0rganism 5 hrs ago #73
My best to you. I'm in your part of the country so you should feel some strong vibes... 2 Meow Momma 5 hrs ago #74
I wish two things for you sellitman 5 hrs ago #75
Sending good vibes and healing light berniesandersmittens 5 hrs ago #76
im onulsomide for conjestive heart failure 9 years ago. i wonder if the docs will put u on elloquiss . AllaN01Bear 4 hrs ago #77
Sending healing thoughts and energies your way... slightlv 4 hrs ago #78
That must have been terrifying. greatauntoftriplets 4 hrs ago #79
Sending positive healing vibes to you, Brad. skylucy 4 hrs ago #80
I hope that H2O Man 4 hrs ago #81
I am overwhelmed by you all Generic Brad 4 hrs ago #82
Wishing you a full recovery and a return to good health. Hang in there! ❤️ chia 4 hrs ago #83
Sending good vibes kanda 4 hrs ago #84
best wishes for a fast recovery! mike_c 4 hrs ago #85
Wish you well with your recovery. Martin68 4 hrs ago #86
Oh my... that's a lot AmBlue 4 hrs ago #87
Take on the problems one at a time, or together as your docs think you can handle it. DFW 4 hrs ago #88
Good Luck ProfessorGAC 3 hrs ago #89
All the best to you, G-Brad Wild blueberry 3 hrs ago #90
Hang in there, GB! (n/t) OldBaldy1701E 3 hrs ago #91
So sorry to hear this news. . . h2ebits 3 hrs ago #92
Sending tons of positive thoughts your way. Dem2theMax 2 hrs ago #93
Brad, I hope the outpouring of love in this thread True Dough 2 hrs ago #94
I will be thinking of you, and hoping the doctors will be able to help you. HeartsCanHope 2 hrs ago #95
We love you, Generic Brad. ❤️ littlemissmartypants 2 hrs ago #96
Keep fighting, Generic Brad rockbluff botanist 2 hrs ago #97
Wow - you have had a rough few weeks Ruby the Liberal 2 hrs ago #98
Good thoughts sent your way Brad. crosinski 1 hr ago #99
Don't you DARE check out on us!!! Sending vibes for recovery and healing. niyad 1 hr ago #100
Wishing you a full and quick recovery 🙏🙏🙏💙 LiberalLoner 1 hr ago #101
Sent up a prayer for quick healing for you. iluvtennis 59 min ago #102
Yikes, what a scary rollercoaster! Wishing you stabalized health, and the best recoveries possible in your various electric_blue68 42 min ago #104
Peace and good health. Magoo48 36 min ago #105
Nephrologist Nigrum Cattus 22 min ago #106
Sending Prayers samplegirl 7 min ago #107

livetohike

(22,770 posts)
2. Wishing you a quick recovery! That's a lot to deal
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 12:49 PM
7 hrs ago

with, but it sounds like you are receiving good care. Hang in there and check in with your progress.

BittyJenkins

(539 posts)
7. Consider yourself hugged if
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 12:52 PM
7 hrs ago

you are okay with hugs. Sounds like you are in a good spot where they know what they are doing.

ms liberty

(9,716 posts)
8. You're in good hands. I know and remember you - your DU name is memorable
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 12:53 PM
7 hrs ago

I'll be sending you vibes, and please keep us updated as you are able!

Niagara

(9,161 posts)
9. It sounds like you've had a rough month, Generic Brad
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 12:56 PM
7 hrs ago


DU is without fail devastated when we lose a member, so here's wishing you better health and better days ahead.



If you ever need to talk or vent, someone is always here to listen.

pandr32

(12,037 posts)
11. Hopefully you will recover and resume your life.
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 01:00 PM
7 hrs ago

I've had a few medical issues which have scared and sidelined me, sometimes for months at a time.
My advice would be to eat food that is actually good for you, get lots of rest, and to get your body moving as much as you are able. Also, find something you like, as in reading, visits with people you actually like, writing, or starting a project you are able to do that makes you happy. A positive self-push can be really good medicine.
We do have an awesome community, don't we? So glad you shared with us 'brethren'.

virgdem

(2,193 posts)
12. Wishing you the best as you recover from
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 01:04 PM
7 hrs ago

your medical ordeal. Thanks for updating us on your condition. It sounds like you are receiving the best of care.

CrispyQ

(37,850 posts)
13. Positive thoughts & healing vibes!
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 01:09 PM
7 hrs ago

It's absolutely startling when you have a totally unexpected health event. I had a health event a few years ago that changed my life & if you'd told me that that particular organ was going to be the one I would have issues with I would have scoffed. But here I am.

My advice to young people is to take the very best care of yourself now. Ditch or at least modify bad habits. Get new, good ones. EXERCISE!!! Diet, too, but I swear regular exercise gave me a huge edge through all of this.

I hope you have a good support system. It's tough, I know, but hang in there.

Bayard

(23,844 posts)
14. Dang, that's a lot of trauma!
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 01:10 PM
7 hrs ago

Don't be hesitant to post--your family here want to be with you now.

May you have a good outcome. Please keep us posted.

peggysue2

(11,376 posts)
17. Well, we know you now, Generic
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 01:21 PM
7 hrs ago

I'm sure I speak for the DU community in wishing you improved health and a full recovery.

You've been through a lot and far more than enough for anyone.

Keep the faith and best wishes for a healthier future.

barbtries

(29,557 posts)
20. I'm glad you posted.
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 01:23 PM
6 hrs ago

I hope you recover rapidly and entirely from this terrible sequence of events Generic Brad.

TBF

(33,621 posts)
21. OK, I had this almost a decade ago -
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 01:29 PM
6 hrs ago

I was younger obviously (40s) and had a clot connected to birth control. A bad one that put pressure on the right side of my heart. I was in critical condition but came out of the procedure well (they used a clot buster on that one because it was actually called PE at that point). I am going to hope your clot is stabilized and perhaps that will even help with other issues you're having. We need you to pull through this and see our first female president take the oath of office! Hugs.

Lonestarblue

(11,428 posts)
22. I'm so sorry you're having to deal with all this, and I hope you're getting excellent care.
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 01:29 PM
6 hrs ago

Hang in there, and know that DU users all send good vibes for your full recovery.

people

(675 posts)
23. Brad, I hope you are feeling much better soon
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 01:30 PM
6 hrs ago

This sounds like a whole lot of big difficult things at once. But, they are figuring them all out and dealing with them. In a week or two hopefully you will be on a new course and feeling better. Thinking about you . . . .

70sEraVet

(4,058 posts)
27. Sorry to hear of this sudden onslaught of health crises.
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 01:36 PM
6 hrs ago

Good to know that you are in one of the premier hospitals in the country. I'm a fellow Tennessean -- about a 80 minute drive from Nashville. A few years ago, I had an operation at Vanderbilt that was the equal of Luke Skywalker's firing the torpedos into the Death Star!
May the force be with you and your doctors.

applegrove

(122,173 posts)
28. Vibes to you on a complete recovery. My dad
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 01:37 PM
6 hrs ago

had a blood clot. Then heart failure. Medicine worked great and he had no future problems.

marble falls

(60,921 posts)
29. I am in awe of your ability to keep calm and rational. That in itself can save your life and keep you sane.
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 01:39 PM
6 hrs ago

appleannie1

(5,173 posts)
30. Do as they tell you and you will surprise yourself.
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 01:41 PM
6 hrs ago

I have many stents for clogged arteries, take blood thinners daily, have 3rd stage kidney failure, and heart problems. Have for years. My advice to you is stay active, drink lots of water (I drink flavored water. Just make sure there is no sodium) walk as much as possible. And watch your salt intake. If your feet are swollen lay flat on your couch with your feet up on pillows higher than your heart to watch tv. Staying active, walking a lot, drinking water and cutting way back on salt are key.
Good luck. Stay strong and post once in a while.

CaptainTruth

(7,129 posts)
32. We're wishing you all the best!
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 01:44 PM
6 hrs ago

You are in our thoughts. Stay strong & don't let the whole thing drag you down.

Sending healing energy & hugs...

Trueblue Texan

(2,813 posts)
33. Glad you survived all that and hoping that you are headed to improved health...
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 01:46 PM
6 hrs ago

I'm also glad you let us all know who you are and that we have you on our side. Please get well and come back to post more! We are on your side as well!

39. Big hugs Brad, and not generic ones, the big Bear Hug type
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 01:51 PM
6 hrs ago

We can recuperate together. I'm so sorry to hear how things cascaded badly for you. I know, from experience, that each step down the rung hurts so much emotionally. Get your mind wrapped around one thing, and another thing kicks your feet out from under you.

Hang in there. One good thing about us old-time DUers...we are ornery. Hang in there.
Brett

LoisB

(8,301 posts)
40. That is quite a lot to deal with. I truly hope your health issues are resolved fully. Sending good vibes and major
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 01:55 PM
6 hrs ago

hugs to you.

relayerbob

(6,932 posts)
41. Having similar problems with my heart, might I suggest ...
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 02:01 PM
6 hrs ago

getting CoQ10, aka ubiquinol. It is actually a requirement if you are taking statins (if you look at the fine print, the manufacturers suggest it), as they stop the liver's production of this critical molecule that feeds your body. When I started taking it, my LVEF was 17% and I was almost unable to do anything. I had developed dry, brittle skin, varicose veins, and had scrapes on my arms that wouldn't heal after months. When I was told by my GP to take the CoQ10, within days, my skin firmed up, the wounds on my arms healed and within a few weeks, the varicose veins mostly went away,. More importantly, I felt 1000 times better, and am able to do almost everything, despite my extremely low LVEF. Wen I see the cardiologists and/or other medical people that are unaware of my history, they are always shocked at how I am, they expect someone in my condition to be in a wheelchair, using oxygen. Not me! With the ubiquinol (there are two types, the ubiquinol version is far better), I have spent the last ten years doing almost everything I would normally do. No cramping, minimal exhaustion, exercising regularly, etc.

And in case, you are concerned, this is non-prescription and is not a drug. It was researched in Japan, and there is a lot of clinical work and studies with it. It is the primary molecule that transports carbohydrates through the cell walls to feed cells. The name ubiquinol comes from the work ubiquitous, because this molecule is used throughout the body, and especially by the heart. There is no overdose limits, as little as 100mg/day will help, I take 400 mg/day, and studies have given people up to 4000 mg/day with zero side effects (although above 300-500 mg/day, there is no benefit, excess is just peed out).

Anyway, just a thought, take it for what is it, I know it has helped me and many, many others.

electric_blue68

(17,234 posts)
103. Good info since I didn't know what CQ-10 actually can do. Wising you...
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 07:35 PM
48 min ago

continued good, stabilized health.

FailureToCommunicate

(14,279 posts)
42. To modify a quote from the Fabulous Furry Freak Brothers: "DU will get you thru times of...
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 02:04 PM
6 hrs ago

no health, better than health will get you thru times of no DU".

Hang in there, good luck, and keep checking in!

Lulu KC

(3,241 posts)
44. Yikes!
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 02:05 PM
6 hrs ago

It sounds like you are in good hands but that is some sequence of events. I'm hoping for the very best outcome for you, Generic Brad.

FeelingBlue

(745 posts)
45. All the best to you, Generic Brad!!
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 02:05 PM
6 hrs ago

You’ll get fabulous care, there! I imagine they are going to get you through this and then you’ll be dealing with a new diet. We are cheering you on!!!! And, make sure you’ve arranged to vote- even from the ICU! We need you!!

All the best in your recovery!!!!

Fla Dem

(25,450 posts)
49. All the best Brad. You certainly have hit a few bumps in the road.
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 02:12 PM
6 hrs ago

I sincerely wish you as much recovery as possible from all these unexpected medical issues.

Also, just because you're not a chatty Kathy or Chucky you are still very much appreciated and cherished by your DU Family.

Hang in there Brad and never, ever don't hesitate to reach out to us if you're feeling dowm and just need to talk, or if you have a funny story to share. We're here for all of it.!!!

Alliepoo

(2,432 posts)
51. Holy Cow, GB!!
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 02:18 PM
6 hrs ago

What the heck? I’m sending every good healing vibe your way. If you feel a tingle- it’s all those vibes I’m sending you! You’re in good hands at Vanderbilt. Hope you can try to relax and concentrate on getting better. Your DU family is here wishing you all the best!!

KT2000

(20,766 posts)
56. Had a somewhat similar experience
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 02:26 PM
5 hrs ago

a few years ago. I learned that the hospital staff is there to save your life and pull you through - they are good at that. You are in the thick of it now but not everything you are going through is permanent and kudos to them for saving your leg. Kidneys are rather cool organs that learn to step up after such trauma - I hope that they do for you.

I wish you well. When you come out of this (please be patient because it may take time) I am betting you will be living with new insights. That in itself is a miracle.

LuckyCharms

(18,570 posts)
58. Hang tough, Brad.
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 02:37 PM
5 hrs ago

You have a lot going on, but stay strong and you can beat.

Take advantage of the day when you start feeling just a little bit better. Build on that day, and stay positive.

Wishing you all the best.

Figarosmom

(1,640 posts)
61. I wish you well
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 02:47 PM
5 hrs ago

It's astonishing how fast we start to fall apart. Here's good wishes you'll be put back together and be around for much longer.

Lunabell

(6,663 posts)
62. Getting old is such a bitch.
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 02:50 PM
5 hrs ago

It's not for the feint of heart. Sending you positive vibes and a big fat DU virtual hug! Get better soon!

bdamomma

(65,506 posts)
68. Oh Brad
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 03:03 PM
5 hrs ago

I send you healing thoughts and good vibes. And this too: hug: We are all here for you.

The Drs. and Nurses will support you.

Elessar Zappa

(15,294 posts)
70. Someone's always here to talk to.
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 03:07 PM
5 hrs ago

And if you need to talk to someone, feel free to PM me. I’m on DU basically all day lol. Sending good vibes that your health gets better.

0rganism

(24,469 posts)
73. Glad you're likely to keep your leg and your life together
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 03:16 PM
5 hrs ago

Blood clots are a serious threat, but you seem to have gotten through the worst of it. Best of luck and godspeed with your healing and reconditioning.

sellitman

(11,659 posts)
75. I wish two things for you
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 03:19 PM
5 hrs ago

1. That you recover enough to enjoy the rest of your days

2. That you vote!!!!!

AllaN01Bear

(22,659 posts)
77. im onulsomide for conjestive heart failure 9 years ago. i wonder if the docs will put u on elloquiss .
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 03:29 PM
4 hrs ago

a dr many moons ago told me to take vitamin e for charlie horses and varicose veins . sending you good vibes ur way.

slightlv

(4,023 posts)
78. Sending healing thoughts and energies your way...
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 03:32 PM
4 hrs ago

it's a scary time, I can imagine. Hang in there; we look forward to many more articles and posts from you, Brad!
,

H2O Man

(75,066 posts)
81. I hope that
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 03:43 PM
4 hrs ago

medical treatment is successful, and that you feel much better in the days to come. Please keep us updated on your proogress. And be patient with yourself, and don't try to do too much until you are fully recovered.

kanda

(177 posts)
84. Sending good vibes
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 03:47 PM
4 hrs ago

Sending you the most sincere healthy vibes possible over the cyber waves. You’ve got a lot to deal with. Hope you have a good support system—friends or family close by to assist.

AmBlue

(3,403 posts)
87. Oh my... that's a lot
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 04:08 PM
4 hrs ago

I am glad you are at Vanderbilt and in very good hands. I will be sending you healing vibes and all my best wishes for the best possible outcome.

As an aside, I joined DU about the same time as you (after lurking since the election of 2000), and also don't post much tho i read here every day. You've got me beat by almost 3x as many posts lol!!

Get well please, then come back, and don't be a stranger. We are indeed your brethren.

DFW

(56,204 posts)
88. Take on the problems one at a time, or together as your docs think you can handle it.
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 04:11 PM
4 hrs ago

Though not in your shoes, I'll briefly tell you about two friends of mine.

One was successful businessman in Paris--smart, personable, riding on top of the world. He had recently re-taken up smoking at age 59. I said what in the world for? He said it was just a temporary thing. He usually took Wednesdays off, but one Thursday morning, he didn't show up at the office either. He had suffered a fatal heart attack at home, and was gone by the time his worried employees had the cops break into his home to see if he needed help. They were a day too late.

The other is still with us, but barely, and wishes he weren't. He is German, and we have known him for 50 years. He was a doctor with his own practice, smart wife, two children. Suddenly, his wife ran off with a doctor from Switzerland, told him it was over, and left him high and dry. He found another woman, got re-married, but shortly after that, had a massive stroke, is an invalid who could barely get around on a walker, and developed Parkinson's disease to boot. His son deveöoped a glioblastoma and died, and his daughter now wants no contact with him. About tow or three of his old friends (incliding my wife and myself) keep up any kind of contact with him, and he is looking toward a slow decline into nothing, which he, as a doctor, can diagnose only too well. Now THERE is misery.

You, on the other hand, want to fight your ailments and come out on top, and are looking for the lgiht at the other end of the tunnel. As long as you have that perspective, the fight is worth fighting, and you just might look back at this period and say, man am I glad THAT episode is over and done with! There is no magic pill to take and make what ails you disappear. but if you persist, you might wake up one morning and think to yourself, hey, that's more like it!

And we'll be rooting for you every step of the way.

Wild blueberry

(7,090 posts)
90. All the best to you, G-Brad
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 04:32 PM
3 hrs ago

Thank you for telling us. You've had some big shocks to your system and are now mending. Your spirit is strong.
Please know you matter to us in DU. Big northern Wisconsin hug!

Dem2theMax

(10,169 posts)
93. Sending tons of positive thoughts your way.
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 05:31 PM
2 hrs ago

Can't imagine being hit with one big health crisis after another. Glad you are in a good hospital where you can receive great care.

I always notice when you do post, because I love your username.

Someone is always up on DU. I know, because I'm often lurking late Into the night. So don't forget that we are here for you, anytime. And we do mean that. Any time. This place is always open.

Take good care, and I hope your healing goes a lot quicker than you think it will.



True Dough

(19,611 posts)
94. Brad, I hope the outpouring of love in this thread
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 05:35 PM
2 hrs ago

will mean you're not hesitant to share your predicament again. You're appreciated here. We wish you all the best in recovery and many years of posts (and other pleasures) to come!

HeartsCanHope

(644 posts)
95. I will be thinking of you, and hoping the doctors will be able to help you.
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 05:56 PM
2 hrs ago

If you are able, please let us know how you are doing. Take care.

rockbluff botanist

(320 posts)
97. Keep fighting, Generic Brad
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 06:04 PM
2 hrs ago

Sometimes life sends an avalanche of troubles. When this happens, I always ask the universe why it couldn't be spread around.

I hope you have a good network of friends and family. Stay strong.



Ruby the Liberal

(26,253 posts)
98. Wow - you have had a rough few weeks
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 06:16 PM
2 hrs ago

Thank you for sharing your update. I most certainly know you here, and have enjoyed reading your thoughts over the years. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts.

Get yourself out of the ICU where you can update us without being tangled in a brazillion cords and tubes.



niyad

(118,671 posts)
100. Don't you DARE check out on us!!! Sending vibes for recovery and healing.
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 06:43 PM
1 hr ago

Seriously, I am glad that you told us what is going on with you. Please know that your DU family is here for you. Lean as hard as you need. And please keep us posted!

electric_blue68

(17,234 posts)
104. Yikes, what a scary rollercoaster! Wishing you stabalized health, and the best recoveries possible in your various
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 07:41 PM
42 min ago

issues! So you enjoy more years of life and 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞 Mdme President Kamala's term(s).

(I'm a way later finder, and joiner of DU in 2020. So glad I did)

Nigrum Cattus

(17 posts)
106. Nephrologist
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 08:00 PM
22 min ago

Your nephrologist will be your primary for a while, at least.
Keep as positive an attitude as possible, it helped me greatly with cancers.
Positive vibes for afar !

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