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CanonRay

(15,049 posts)
Tue Oct 29, 2024, 07:00 PM Oct 2024

Just got a shock from a young (40) intelligent, female friend

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She told me she was leaving for Peru tomorrow so I asked her if she voted yet. "I don't follow politics, so I don't vote" was her response. I was speechless. I said even if you don't follow closely, you can vote. She said she didn't believe in it. This is a very bright, college educated, progressive woman. I was, and am still, stunned. How can someone that age, and a woman, just not give a shit? OK, rant over.

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Just got a shock from a young (40) intelligent, female friend (Original Post) CanonRay Oct 2024 OP
She doesn't believe in voting pretty must says she loves authoritarianism. sinkingfeeling Oct 2024 #1
Or she is lazy and self centered Attilatheblond Oct 2024 #3
Better that she doesn't vote. She would not vote our way MaryMagdaline Oct 2024 #5
Not really. TwilightZone Oct 2024 #7
Damn shame! N/T luvallpeeps Oct 2024 #2
In 2020, about 1/3 of vote-eligible people didn't vote. TwilightZone Oct 2024 #4
Probably wealthy enough not to care.... getagrip_already Oct 2024 #6
No, she's a massage therapist CanonRay Oct 2024 #9
'Didn't believe in it' is not 'bright, educated or progressive,' sorry to say. elleng Oct 2024 #8
Wonder if she's aware True Dough Oct 2024 #10
Your friend is dumb, not intelligent NoRethugFriends Oct 2024 #11
I disagree with her take, however... MLF1981 Oct 2024 #12
She is not bright. She is not intelligent. SamKnause Oct 2024 #13
nor is she progressive Skittles Oct 2024 #14
Not as intellegent Figarosmom Oct 2024 #15
Locking. Lasher Oct 2024 #16

sinkingfeeling

(54,016 posts)
1. She doesn't believe in voting pretty must says she loves authoritarianism.
Tue Oct 29, 2024, 07:02 PM
Oct 2024

Attilatheblond

(5,099 posts)
3. Or she is lazy and self centered
Tue Oct 29, 2024, 07:03 PM
Oct 2024

The people I have known who 'don't believe in voting' are both of those things.

MaryMagdaline

(7,934 posts)
5. Better that she doesn't vote. She would not vote our way
Tue Oct 29, 2024, 07:05 PM
Oct 2024

TwilightZone

(28,835 posts)
7. Not really.
Tue Oct 29, 2024, 07:10 PM
Oct 2024

I know people who are liberals through and through who think their single votes won't make any difference, so they don't bother. I've been trying to convince them otherwise for years.

They're also in a very red area (80%+) where there's not much hope of Democrats even winning local races, which increases the apathy.

luvallpeeps

(1,150 posts)
2. Damn shame! N/T
Tue Oct 29, 2024, 07:02 PM
Oct 2024

TwilightZone

(28,835 posts)
4. In 2020, about 1/3 of vote-eligible people didn't vote.
Tue Oct 29, 2024, 07:04 PM
Oct 2024

There are a lot of people like your friend out there. It's a huge untapped market, but it's difficult to convince someone who firmly believes that there's no point that there really is.

getagrip_already

(17,624 posts)
6. Probably wealthy enough not to care....
Tue Oct 29, 2024, 07:06 PM
Oct 2024

Just more into her social life than the world little problems. She can buy her way out of problems.

In Peru, that doesnt take that much wealth.

CanonRay

(15,049 posts)
9. No, she's a massage therapist
Tue Oct 29, 2024, 07:19 PM
Oct 2024

and getting by, but doesn't come from or have money. She's more the new age hippy type.

elleng

(138,101 posts)
8. 'Didn't believe in it' is not 'bright, educated or progressive,' sorry to say.
Tue Oct 29, 2024, 07:13 PM
Oct 2024

True Dough

(21,726 posts)
10. Wonder if she's aware
Tue Oct 29, 2024, 07:29 PM
Oct 2024

of the political strife in Peru? It's been affected by a great deal of unrest over the past several years.

NoRethugFriends

(3,166 posts)
11. Your friend is dumb, not intelligent
Tue Oct 29, 2024, 07:33 PM
Oct 2024

MLF1981

(211 posts)
12. I disagree with her take, however...
Tue Oct 29, 2024, 07:36 PM
Oct 2024

I can understand it. I'm a few years older than her, and all my generation has ever seen are politicians who are mostly corrupt, self-serving, and don't give a fuck about the concerns of common people one whit. Now there are exceptions of course, but for every Bernie Sanders or Elizabeth Warren, you've got a Joe Manchin or a Krysten Sinema. And that's to say nothing of Republicans, who obviously don't give a fuck about common people.

That being said, I do believe in voting, I've voted in every election, including midterms and special elections since I was 19. But not everyone is like me, most people look at the corruption and venality in DC and say, "What's the point? These people don't give a fuck about me at all."

SamKnause

(14,007 posts)
13. She is not bright. She is not intelligent.
Tue Oct 29, 2024, 07:43 PM
Oct 2024

Apparently her education didn't cover civics.

Skittles

(161,791 posts)
14. nor is she progressive
Tue Oct 29, 2024, 09:15 PM
Oct 2024

nope

Figarosmom

(4,366 posts)
15. Not as intellegent
Tue Oct 29, 2024, 10:24 PM
Oct 2024

As you're giving her credit for

Lasher

(28,602 posts)
16. Locking.
Wed Oct 30, 2024, 03:53 AM
Oct 2024

Please, no politics in the Lounge.

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