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What's the most annoying thing someone can do at home, at a store or job or the road. anything that annoys you. (Original Post) debm55 Nov 2024 OP
Wearing a MAGA hat. Sneederbunk Nov 2024 #1
watching or listening to fox goptv. nt yaesu Nov 2024 #2
Thank you yaesu. I agree. debm55 Nov 2024 #3
Tailgating. debm55 Nov 2024 #4
I second that! Emile Nov 2024 #8
Thank you Emile. I totally agree. debm55 Nov 2024 #14
Definitely... And younger drivers seem increasingly likely to treat multi-lane Boulevards/Aveunues like freeways.. hlthe2b Nov 2024 #9
Extreme speeding. Some young fucker got caught going 150 on the interstate in ATL CurtEastPoint Nov 2024 #12
Thank you CurtEastPoint. very dangerous. I am glad he was caught before he hurt someone. debm55 Nov 2024 #89
I hope it works out for your area. Around here they don't have mufflers and it looks like that they are going to go over debm55 Nov 2024 #16
No. This is new technology. Not intersection cameras or masked vehicles/trucks with the equipment... hlthe2b Nov 2024 #23
Near the top of my list, along with incessant lane changing. LisaM Nov 2024 #34
Agree with you LisaM. It is frustrating and annoying. debm55 Nov 2024 #91
We lived in Lawrence County for a few years, and I was struck by how tailgating is rampant in PA. Harker Nov 2024 #65
Hi Harker, I still live in Allegheny County and it is all over the county and I guess the state to. debm55 Nov 2024 #66
Oh, yes. Harker Nov 2024 #67
HAHAHAHHHAHA debm55 Nov 2024 #68
Playing PokemonGo while driving! UGH!!! nt woodsprite Nov 2024 #5
Thank you woodsprite. Or any game or just talking. It is very dangerous. debm55 Nov 2024 #17
Shoppers leaving their grocery cart askew or in the middle of the aisle so other shoppers can't get past. CrispyQ Nov 2024 #6
I was going to say that :-) ! Also, after they leave the cart there, spooky3 Nov 2024 #11
Agree, spooky. That's why I move it for them debm55 Nov 2024 #21
😈😈😈 spooky3 Nov 2024 #22
Thank you CrispyQ, That is very annoying with the charts. I move their carts to get around. They are not too happy debm55 Nov 2024 #18
thank you CrispyQ , I agree. I move it for them debm55 Nov 2024 #90
Let's see. I had someone puke on my feet at a concert once. LuckyCharms Nov 2024 #7
Thank you LuckyCharms. that is gross. debm55 Nov 2024 #20
Sorry about that. Too much Jack. Lochloosa Nov 2024 #77
Shoppers who are too lazy to put their shopping cart Emile Nov 2024 #10
Thank you Emile. I agree with all three being annoying. It used to be the stores would pay for the damages to the car debm55 Nov 2024 #24
Re your second gripe (which I generally agree with) LisaM Nov 2024 #37
Sometimes they take up two spaces ,so no one its their truck. I have seen Trucks and expensive cars parked sideways debm55 Nov 2024 #62
In Texas, world capital of ostentanious pickup trucks, they park over 3 spaces. nt yellowdogintexas Nov 2024 #72
Thank you yellowdogintexas. Here in PA they park on an angle taking up two spaces. debm55 Nov 2024 #92
If they they have a decal, how do you know they don't have a handicap? DUMember24 Nov 2024 #60
Ah, my first fight on DU was over shopping carts! Phentex Nov 2024 #69
Oh my.Glad you are with us. debm55 Nov 2024 #70
Spitting JoseBalow Nov 2024 #13
JoseBalow, I agree. Do not like either. Spreads germs and is just dirty. debm55 Nov 2024 #25
Show a wanton disregard to another human being. OldBaldy1701E Nov 2024 #15
Good for you OldBaldy1701E. Who needs friends like that. That boy could have been seriously hurt. debm55 Nov 2024 #26
Tailgating!! Lunabell Nov 2024 #19
Thank you Lunabell. I pull over to the side of the road.and let them pass debm55 Nov 2024 #27
I only ever brake checked one time. Shermann Nov 2024 #29
Thank you Shermann. Great way to get back. debm55 Nov 2024 #35
In the house-not finishing the ice cream when the is one tablespoon inside or the same with milk. etc. debm55 Nov 2024 #28
Continually REORGANIZE stuff! elleng Nov 2024 #30
Thank you elleng. I agree. debm55 Nov 2024 #33
I guess workplace insults are roped off? Shermann Nov 2024 #31
Sherman anything that annoys you is up for grabs. debm55 Nov 2024 #32
There were donuts at work last week and somebody took one bite of one and put it back. nt Shermann Nov 2024 #49
Well hell , Shermann, that is totally gross. Did you say anything? debm55 Nov 2024 #50
The culprit's identity is unknown. Also, I'd already put in my two weeks' notice. nt Shermann Nov 2024 #53
Do you have another job lined up? debm55 Nov 2024 #54
I start tomorrow, thanks! nt Shermann Nov 2024 #57
E-bikes and scooters on the sidewalks. LisaM Nov 2024 #36
Thank you LisaM. That is very rude on the biker's part. debm55 Nov 2024 #38
They need to be banned. LisaM Nov 2024 #39
Agree, be safe. debm55 Nov 2024 #40
People who turn right on red without looking for pedestrians LisaM Nov 2024 #41
As you have a right to. After covid I noticed that drivers were very careless about the rules of driving and did as they debm55 Nov 2024 #42
Yes, the roads were so empty, people started driving differently. LisaM Nov 2024 #44
Thanks. debm55 Nov 2024 #46
Drive a giant pickup The Madcap Nov 2024 #43
Yep drive a 45,000 truck with flags and complain they can't afford eggs. debm55 Nov 2024 #45
Or gas! n/t LisaM Nov 2024 #47
True, debm55 Nov 2024 #48
Speaking Of That... ProfessorGAC Nov 2024 #51
Thank you ProfessorGAC. That sure is annoying. debm55 Nov 2024 #52
I'll donate eggs when he drives by in it. nt Shermann Nov 2024 #61
Thank you Shermann. That's funny. debm55 Nov 2024 #93
Hovering around me, especially at the store, when I was alone at first looking at some items, and they can't wait SWBTATTReg Nov 2024 #55
Thank you ,I always found that annoying. debm55 Nov 2024 #58
When a magst opens its mouth & spews whiny shit SheltieLover Nov 2024 #56
Thank you SheltieLover. I agree and then they get into their 45,000 big truck. debm55 Nov 2024 #59
Telephone scammers who won't give me their Emile Nov 2024 #63
I have tried that. No one answers. debm55 Nov 2024 #64
Backseat driving. Different Drummer Nov 2024 #71
Different Drummer. I agree. and their comments on how you are driving and how to get there an easier way. debm55 Nov 2024 #94
Vehicles with high mounted headlights which hit me directly in the eyes yellowdogintexas Nov 2024 #73
Thank you yellowdogintexas. I really agree with the headlights.sometimes I do swear they are using their highbeams. debm55 Nov 2024 #95
Riding bikes with silencers off jfz9580m Nov 2024 #74
Thank you jfz9580,. We have one around here. You can hear him all the way down the road. Annoying. debm55 Nov 2024 #96
Not using their headlights when it's dark and/or raining! Mad_Dem_X Nov 2024 #75
Thank you Mad_Dem_X, I agree. That is so dangerous. debm55 Nov 2024 #97
My neighbor sneaking up behind me on my property Emile Nov 2024 #76
Thank you Emile. Thank can be very dangerous. debm55 Nov 2024 #88
People coughing, and they don't even bother to cover their mouth samplegirl Nov 2024 #78
Thank you samplegirl. And they don't care either debm55 Nov 2024 #82
I have a small car and I usually park farther out in the lot and walk a little bit Diamond_Dog Nov 2024 #79
Thank you Diamond_Dog Those are really things debm55 Nov 2024 #80
Sitting at a red light PennRalphie Nov 2024 #81
Thank you, PennRalphie. I always wondered what was so important that the had to make a call.Pull over and make or debm55 Nov 2024 #83
Drivers behind me HoosierDebbie Nov 2024 #84
Thank you HoosierDebbie, They do that here too. Verry annoying. debm55 Nov 2024 #87
Throwing trash on the ground, trump signs still around and that darn Wegovy TV commercial 😡 TommieMommy Nov 2024 #85
Thank you TommieMommy. Agree with your annoying things. debm55 Nov 2024 #86
Totally agree about the Trump signs - here in Central Texas they have been walkingman Nov 2024 #101
Spitting on the shop floor or all over the jobsite. Find a fucking trash can and use it. nt Hotler Nov 2024 #98
People who crack/snap/pop gum in public. Dulcinea Nov 2024 #99
Thank you Dulcinea. I agree with you. debm55 Nov 2024 #100
Being rude. catbyte Nov 2024 #102
Thsnk you catbyte. I agree. Ran across one here yesterday, Very rude. debm55 Nov 2024 #103

hlthe2b

(107,850 posts)
9. Definitely... And younger drivers seem increasingly likely to treat multi-lane Boulevards/Aveunues like freeways..
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 12:22 PM
Nov 2024

Tail-gating and flashing lights to try to get one to move into the right lane. Well, Boulevards and Avenues are designed for slower traffic and frequent right and left turns. Where these idiots get the idea that they should be treated like interstate highways (ignoring how aggressive and dangerous their driving is there), just drives me nuts. Even in the wee hours, I encounter this to the point local law enforcement is going to deploy new unrecognizable speed and license plate detection technology all over areas I drive. Anyone driving over 10 mph over the speed limit will get a ticket in the mail and repeat offenders will eventually face court appearances.

I know it is not JUST younger drivers, but they seem to be the worst--male teens--in my experience. Some horrific wrecks lately have me really unnerved.

debm55

(42,600 posts)
89. Thank you CurtEastPoint. very dangerous. I am glad he was caught before he hurt someone.
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 09:36 AM
Nov 2024

debm55

(42,600 posts)
16. I hope it works out for your area. Around here they don't have mufflers and it looks like that they are going to go over
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 01:05 PM
Nov 2024

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your car. Usually they are those big trucks.Thank you hlthe2b. I hope the new measures work for your area.

hlthe2b

(107,850 posts)
23. No. This is new technology. Not intersection cameras or masked vehicles/trucks with the equipment...
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 01:20 PM
Nov 2024

They aren't being extremely forthcoming, but a few Denver news types have been allowed to gain some insight under agreements not to fully report. They have said that these devices will not be identifiable--at least until new tech can identify their (miniaturized) camera signatures.

LisaM

(28,975 posts)
34. Near the top of my list, along with incessant lane changing.
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 01:52 PM
Nov 2024

Usually the same drivers are guilty of both. Pick a lane, FFS. Preferably well in advance of when you need to go four lanes over to exit.

Harker

(15,578 posts)
65. We lived in Lawrence County for a few years, and I was struck by how tailgating is rampant in PA.
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 04:44 PM
Nov 2024

I saw a bumper sticker there, from a safe distance, that read, "I'm sorry for driving so close in front of you."

debm55

(42,600 posts)
66. Hi Harker, I still live in Allegheny County and it is all over the county and I guess the state to.
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 04:49 PM
Nov 2024

Harker

(15,578 posts)
67. Oh, yes.
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 04:52 PM
Nov 2024

We're in upstate NY now, and if there's somebody riding my bumper it's almost always a Pennsylvanian.

Not you, of course!

CrispyQ

(39,049 posts)
6. Shoppers leaving their grocery cart askew or in the middle of the aisle so other shoppers can't get past.
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 12:14 PM
Nov 2024

When I'm driving, pretty much everything other drives do irritates me.

spooky3

(36,959 posts)
11. I was going to say that :-) ! Also, after they leave the cart there,
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 12:30 PM
Nov 2024

They stand between the cart and the shelves forever deciding which product to put in their cart.

debm55

(42,600 posts)
18. Thank you CrispyQ, That is very annoying with the charts. I move their carts to get around. They are not too happy
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 01:12 PM
Nov 2024

About me doing that , but what the heck , move it yourself and I won't have to do it.

Emile

(32,466 posts)
10. Shoppers who are too lazy to put their shopping cart
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 12:24 PM
Nov 2024

in the parking lot corral.

People who open their car doors and allow it to rub the next vehicle.

People who park in handicap spaces without being handicapped.

debm55

(42,600 posts)
24. Thank you Emile. I agree with all three being annoying. It used to be the stores would pay for the damages to the car
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 01:21 PM
Nov 2024

from the carts but no more. They have signs that say "you park at your own risk"

LisaM

(28,975 posts)
37. Re your second gripe (which I generally agree with)
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 01:57 PM
Nov 2024

Sometimes it's impossible not to when people don't park their car between the lines or park a huge vehicle in a space meant for a compact car.

debm55

(42,600 posts)
62. Sometimes they take up two spaces ,so no one its their truck. I have seen Trucks and expensive cars parked sideways
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 04:00 PM
Nov 2024

between two parking spaces.

DUMember24

(20 posts)
60. If they they have a decal, how do you know they don't have a handicap?
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 03:51 PM
Nov 2024

Are you referring to people parked without a decal, or just the ones who don't "look handicap", even though they legitimately have a decal? I've seen some Karen situations where people actually have non-visible handicaps.

Phentex

(16,597 posts)
69. Ah, my first fight on DU was over shopping carts!
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 04:55 PM
Nov 2024

Mod told me to F-OFF!

Said poster is no longer with us.

I marveled at the ways people justified not returning their carts.

OldBaldy1701E

(7,238 posts)
15. Show a wanton disregard to another human being.
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 01:03 PM
Nov 2024

I once watched a group of young guys walking across a city walkway and approach a set of stairs. The second one started to go down as the first one hit the landing and turned. The guy behind him suddenly shoved him down the stairs. He and all his friends thought it was hilarious. The guy who was pushed was pretty mad, but was unhurt. The first guy was indifferent to it all.

I thought about strolling over and cracking open the guy's skull with my police baton. (Usually concealed on my person in non-local areas.) That kind of thing is not funny and the brat deserved to be reamed out for doing it. The others deserved to be yelled at for being so indifferent to such a dangerous act. And, I bet they still think that guy is their friend.

debm55

(42,600 posts)
26. Good for you OldBaldy1701E. Who needs friends like that. That boy could have been seriously hurt.
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 01:25 PM
Nov 2024
 

Lunabell

(7,309 posts)
19. Tailgating!!
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 01:12 PM
Nov 2024

If it weren't illegal to brake-check, I'd be in a lot of rear end accidents. I just tap my brakes, then slow to a crawl until they go around me.

Shermann

(8,831 posts)
29. I only ever brake checked one time.
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 01:34 PM
Nov 2024

It almost caused a road rage incident, and I haven't repeated it.

I have developed and rolled out a milder form of retribution. If the offender is behind me in the right lane and I am making a right turn, I do it eeeeeeever so slowly. Deaccelerate reaalllllly gradually. Put on my right-hand turn signal at the last minute (don't want to break the law). Then reeaaallly reaaallly gingerly and cautiously make my right turn. Lots of brake.

debm55

(42,600 posts)
28. In the house-not finishing the ice cream when the is one tablespoon inside or the same with milk. etc.
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 01:33 PM
Nov 2024

Shermann

(8,831 posts)
49. There were donuts at work last week and somebody took one bite of one and put it back. nt
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 03:09 PM
Nov 2024

LisaM

(28,975 posts)
36. E-bikes and scooters on the sidewalks.
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 01:54 PM
Nov 2024

I am sick of dodging these assholes. Then they leave them strewn wherever, often blocking sidewalk cuts and endangering blind people.

LisaM

(28,975 posts)
39. They need to be banned.
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 02:00 PM
Nov 2024

Some cities are starting to figure it out. Pedestrians have the right of way but you'd never know it in Seattle.

LisaM

(28,975 posts)
41. People who turn right on red without looking for pedestrians
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 02:03 PM
Nov 2024

or even stopping in some cases. I walk almost everywhere and I am short and I dread crossing the street. It's almost impossible to make eye contact with most drivers because of their effing tinted windows. I have never seen anyone ticketed for not yielding to a pedestrian, either.

Clearly I have many peeves on this topic!

debm55

(42,600 posts)
42. As you have a right to. After covid I noticed that drivers were very careless about the rules of driving and did as they
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 02:06 PM
Nov 2024

pleased.

LisaM

(28,975 posts)
44. Yes, the roads were so empty, people started driving differently.
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 02:09 PM
Nov 2024

Great observation.

ProfessorGAC

(71,574 posts)
51. Speaking Of That...
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 03:30 PM
Nov 2024

...saw a guy in an oversized pickup truck, lifted with the $1,000 each wheels & $500 each tires, moaning about the price gas. Bur, while pumping gas while his truck was running! In May. Not cold, not hot.
But, left the truck running & was whining about gas prices while driving a truck that had to set him back 60 grand or more.

SWBTATTReg

(24,816 posts)
55. Hovering around me, especially at the store, when I was alone at first looking at some items, and they can't wait
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 03:42 PM
Nov 2024

for me to get done, so they edge in, hoover, etc., irritating the hell out of me. Wait your f**king turn! Good grief. So many people are in such a hurry, that they literally run over everybody else. My motto: Screw you, you rude blank.

Emile

(32,466 posts)
63. Telephone scammers who won't give me their
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 04:05 PM
Nov 2024

personal cell phone number so I can call them back at a more convenient time.

debm55

(42,600 posts)
94. Different Drummer. I agree. and their comments on how you are driving and how to get there an easier way.
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 09:57 AM
Nov 2024

yellowdogintexas

(23,025 posts)
73. Vehicles with high mounted headlights which hit me directly in the eyes
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 12:13 AM
Nov 2024

and they are always the extra bright ones too. ( or have the high beams on)

Also, drivers who speed up on me, whip out into the left lane then jump in front of me to exit. OR the opposite: drivers who come up the ramp and then merge in at a snail's pace

When I lived in Nashville, there was some sort of rule that no driver could let anyone get in front of them. I would start out in the appropriate distance behind a car and before I knew it there would be 3 cars in front of me.

debm55

(42,600 posts)
95. Thank you yellowdogintexas. I really agree with the headlights.sometimes I do swear they are using their highbeams.
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 10:01 AM
Nov 2024

jfz9580m

(15,584 posts)
74. Riding bikes with silencers off
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 12:40 AM
Nov 2024

It doesn’t just annoy me..it drives me around the bend . I am sensitive to noise.

It is usually young men..

debm55

(42,600 posts)
96. Thank you jfz9580,. We have one around here. You can hear him all the way down the road. Annoying.
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 10:04 AM
Nov 2024

Emile

(32,466 posts)
76. My neighbor sneaking up behind me on my property
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 08:07 AM
Nov 2024

with his battery operated golf cart.

samplegirl

(12,509 posts)
78. People coughing, and they don't even bother to cover their mouth
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 08:36 AM
Nov 2024

Was in the store the day before yesterday and a woman was telling a man that she has Covid. Coughing went crazy. I was quite a ways across from her, but could hear the conversation then said nothing political, please.

Diamond_Dog

(35,926 posts)
79. I have a small car and I usually park farther out in the lot and walk a little bit
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 08:49 AM
Nov 2024

keeping 3-4 spaces empty on either side of my car. Too many times to count ….. a large pickup or SUV will park right next to me and leave me about 10” to open the drivers side door on my car. Grrrr!

WAY too many ads for prescription drugs on TV.

MAGATs in stores or doctors offices who strike up a conversation with me assuming I am on their side because I am white.

Trying to get ahold of ANY service or business on the phone and/or waiting for them to call you back.

I could go on and on ……

PennRalphie

(397 posts)
81. Sitting at a red light
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 08:57 AM
Nov 2024

Head down, you know they’re on the phone, not moving, especially at the fast changing lights.

debm55

(42,600 posts)
83. Thank you, PennRalphie. I always wondered what was so important that the had to make a call.Pull over and make or
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 09:08 AM
Nov 2024

receive your call.

HoosierDebbie

(405 posts)
84. Drivers behind me
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 09:22 AM
Nov 2024

Drivers behind me at a traffic light who want to turn right on a red arrow. They expect me to go ahead and turn after stopping, but this would be a traffic violation. Drivers must wait for a green arrow unless there is a sign posted allowing such a move.

An intersection that I occasionally traverse has this type of signal where I only ever turn right. Sometimes drivers behind me are irritated enough to back up a little and move over to the breakdown lane to get around me.

TommieMommy

(1,503 posts)
85. Throwing trash on the ground, trump signs still around and that darn Wegovy TV commercial 😡
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 09:26 AM
Nov 2024

walkingman

(8,856 posts)
101. Totally agree about the Trump signs - here in Central Texas they have been
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 01:02 PM
Nov 2024

around for the last 8 years. So every time I drive down the road, it disgusts me. And to make it even worse it will perpetuate our daily lives seemingly forever.

Hotler

(12,675 posts)
98. Spitting on the shop floor or all over the jobsite. Find a fucking trash can and use it. nt
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 11:57 AM
Nov 2024

Dulcinea

(7,852 posts)
99. People who crack/snap/pop gum in public.
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 11:57 AM
Nov 2024

I HATE THAT NOISE WITH EVERY FIBER OF MY BEING.

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