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What hairstyle did you have that thinking back was hideous. Mine was frosted hair that I did myself from a kit. (Original Post) debm55 Tuesday OP
'Shag' haircut. I cried! nt Tadpole Raisin Tuesday #1
I had a shag in high school Sequoia Tuesday #7
Youwere lucky, My family didn't believe in paying someone to cut hair. debm55 Tuesday #12
Ah, yes! My 4pm soap! I liked Angelique's eyes but she also scared me, lol. Tadpole Raisin Tuesday #19
My friend wanted me to give her a 'shag' haircut. woodsprite Tuesday #8
Thank you woodsprite. That is how I did mine. I brushed all my hair forward, I stood up to do it. I put a rubber band debm55 Tuesday #13
lol, good thing she went first! Tadpole Raisin Tuesday #16
Thank you Tadpole Raisin. I frosted my hair myself and then gave myself a shag. I never did that again. debm55 Tuesday #11
My mother let my friends in and they hid behind the bathroom door waiting for Tadpole Raisin Tuesday #17
We did that too. debm55 Tuesday #24
David Bowie in Labyrinth exmodee Tuesday #2
I think it was. But it didn't last long. debm55 19 hrs ago #72
My mother had me in bangs and Patty McCormack braids til age 12. no_hypocrisy Tuesday #3
Is that you on the right? debm55 Tuesday #25
Ha, no! Patty McCormack in both no_hypocrisy Tuesday #27
I really disliked her in The Bad Seed. debm55 Tuesday #45
As did I. You can't imagine my dismay/horror when I made the connection. no_hypocrisy Tuesday #51
I just saw the movie in TCM again recently and it was still disturbing and scary seeing that evil trait in a child kimbutgar Tuesday #59
Mine was always too short because my mom made me get it cut that way. House of Roberts Tuesday #4
In college my boyfriend and myself would braid each others hair. It was mid back. debm55 Tuesday #31
Really long hair that I had from about 7th-10th grade (before I joined Jr. ROTC) exboyfil Tuesday #5
That's funny thank you exboyfil. debm55 Tuesday #32
A permed mullet Marigold Tuesday #6
I had a permed mullet too. It was easy to take of. debm55 Tuesday #33
My mother always had my bangs cut way too short - more than halfway... 3catwoman3 Tuesday #9
Oh yes those high bangs. I word it that way in early grade school. TY debm55 Tuesday #34
The pixie cut. I looked like a boy. woodsprite Tuesday #10
Same here. It was hideous on me but my mom thought it would be Ocelot II Tuesday #30
Thank you woodsprite. I had a twiggy cut in my 6th grade class shot. debm55 Tuesday #35
A shag when I was a freshman in college. I worked as livetohike Tuesday #14
Thank you livetohike. It was a pain to let it grow out.You had to wait for each layer to grow out. Took forever. debm55 Tuesday #36
Exactly! Of course my curls stuck out at weird livetohike Tuesday #57
My Mom got her hair frosted at a salon. pandr32 Tuesday #15
Oooh!! Foot meet mouth! Tadpole Raisin Tuesday #20
Mine was a blond. It came by using one of those kits. The one I had done at the salon gave me orange streaks in it. debm55 Tuesday #38
Mom's were fine streaks of platinum. pandr32 Tuesday #50
I had hair back in the day. Basso8vb Tuesday #18
HAHAHAHHAHAH.Thank you Basso8vb. debm55 Tuesday #39
The poodle perm, for sure! GPV Tuesday #21
I has a poodle and latter a spiral. The spiral perm, I loved. But it didn't last long. Especially for the money I paid debm55 Tuesday #40
Same. Both fell out of my hair too, but the poodle GPV 20 hrs ago #65
Yes, It left my hair a mess. Thank you GPV debm55 19 hrs ago #66
Extra curly, permed hair for 8th. grade graduation. sinkingfeeling Tuesday #22
Thank you sinkingfeeling. They last a good while debm55 Tuesday #41
The one I have now KT2000 Tuesday #23
Oh my I am sorry. thank you KT2000. I hope it grows out fine. debm55 19 hrs ago #68
NONE! elleng Tuesday #26
HAHAHAHHAHAH Thank you . I know what that is. debm55 19 hrs ago #69
Brylcreem calguy Tuesday #28
Thank ypu calguy. Haven't heard that for a long time. debm55 19 hrs ago #70
My natural color was bright red. WestMichRad Tuesday #29
Sorry WestMichRad, My son is a strawberry blond. and he was called "Red" also. debm55 19 hrs ago #71
A Jheri Curl? ProfessorGAC Tuesday #37
Thank you ProfessorGAC, Wasn't it Michael Jackson who started it. I had one. When we met Rich looked like Grizzly Adams debm55 Tuesday #43
Probably Rick James ProfessorGAC Tuesday #46
Thank you ProfessorGAC Are you still in a band? debm55 Tuesday #48
Not For A While ProfessorGAC Tuesday #54
My hair is poker straight. Demobrat Tuesday #42
I liked it while it was new. But as the Perm started to go, it looked crappy. Decided to go straight and then got into debm55 Tuesday #44
Mine straightened out in sections. Demobrat Tuesday #49
Rattail sakabatou Tuesday #47
I remember those. It didn't last long. debm55 Tuesday #52
I was a brunette. I died my hair blue black. It came out really blue. applegrove Tuesday #53
Yes I had to call them a couple of times myself, Thank you debm55 Tuesday #55
Imagine being a teenage girl doing the following to your hair: Niagara Tuesday #56
OMG. Thank you Niagara. Didn't your hair break from all the teasing? debm55 19 hrs ago #67
You're welcome, Debbie. Fortunately I didn't have that problem as a teenager Niagara 13 hrs ago #79
The Flatop with a little crew wax to make the front stand up. surfered Tuesday #58
I remember seeing a lot of those. Thank you surfered. debm55 19 hrs ago #73
Beehive if..fish..had..wings Tuesday #60
Thankfully I missed that. Thank you if..fish..had..wings debm55 19 hrs ago #74
I don't think it was hideous. My Dad did. Aristus Tuesday #61
Thank you Aristus. times have changed. debm55 19 hrs ago #75
Probably humorous more than hideous sorcrow Yesterday #62
Thank you socrow. He was easy on the eyes. debm55 19 hrs ago #76
a "perm" it was called CountAllVotes Yesterday #63
Thank you CountAll Votes. I had a perm like that. Sticky like I had jelly on my head. I refused to pay. and walked out. debm55 18 hrs ago #77
I shaved my head on a dare when I was 16. Luciferous 22 hrs ago #64
Oh wow. Thank you Luciferous. Now it is style. debm55 18 hrs ago #78

Sequoia

(12,534 posts)
7. I had a shag in high school
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 04:13 PM
Tuesday

But looked okay on me. Told hairdresser to cut my hair in the style of Roxanne onTV serial, Dark Shadows.

woodsprite

(12,199 posts)
8. My friend wanted me to give her a 'shag' haircut.
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 04:19 PM
Tuesday

We tried it out on our Barbies first by hanging them upside down. It worked and looked OK, so she said she wanted me to try. She hung her head over the side of her bed and I chopped away. Didn't quite look the same. It wasn't my idea so I didn't let her do mine. She spent a bit of time with our neighbor who was in hairdressing school to fix it up.

debm55

(35,903 posts)
13. Thank you woodsprite. That is how I did mine. I brushed all my hair forward, I stood up to do it. I put a rubber band
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 04:33 PM
Tuesday

around all the gathered hair and cut right under the band and the hair fell back in place. Not what I was expecting.

debm55

(35,903 posts)
11. Thank you Tadpole Raisin. I frosted my hair myself and then gave myself a shag. I never did that again.
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 04:25 PM
Tuesday

Tadpole Raisin

(1,499 posts)
17. My mother let my friends in and they hid behind the bathroom door waiting for
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 04:44 PM
Tuesday

me to come home and came out after I started bawling.

Prior to that we ironed our hair…

no_hypocrisy

(48,778 posts)
3. My mother had me in bangs and Patty McCormack braids til age 12.
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 04:06 PM
Tuesday

OMG, I looked like The Bad Seed kid!!!

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no_hypocrisy

(48,778 posts)
51. As did I. You can't imagine my dismay/horror when I made the connection.
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 07:58 PM
Tuesday

I'm convinced that my parents purposely chose that look for me as I was regarded as the family trouble-maker. And thus, I was "the bad seed" of my family.

kimbutgar

(23,254 posts)
59. I just saw the movie in TCM again recently and it was still disturbing and scary seeing that evil trait in a child
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 08:57 PM
Tuesday

And they are still amongst us!

House of Roberts

(5,683 posts)
4. Mine was always too short because my mom made me get it cut that way.
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 04:09 PM
Tuesday

I would have had it collar length if she had let me have it the way I wanted it.

In the 90s my wife wanted me to grow it out enough to tie it into a ponytail and one night the older stepson came home with his head shaved and that's when I decided to grow it longer. I still have it in a ponytail, but the hairline is a little higher.

exboyfil

(17,995 posts)
5. Really long hair that I had from about 7th-10th grade (before I joined Jr. ROTC)
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 04:09 PM
Tuesday

I can't believe I used to have it that long. Emulating my older rocker brother. It was uncomfortable and didn't look very good (because I put no effort in keeping it up). Not styled in any fashion just long.

I do have really good hair and only have a little gray even at 61. My mom, who had my type of hair, grayed suddenly around 70 so I guess I have that to look forward to. At least no balding for now (unlike my brother's monkey a__ on the back of his head (his words - not mine)).

Marigold

(193 posts)
6. A permed mullet
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 04:11 PM
Tuesday

with the ears cut out. It was all the rage in the 80's. Even my husband had a perm at the time.

3catwoman3

(25,430 posts)
9. My mother always had my bangs cut way too short - more than halfway...
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 04:21 PM
Tuesday

Last edited Tue Nov 19, 2024, 08:30 PM - Edit history (1)

...up my forehead. I cringe when I look at elementary school pictures of myself.

By junior high, I had some say in the matter. Ever since, my bangs must be touching my eyebrows or I feel shorn.

woodsprite

(12,199 posts)
10. The pixie cut. I looked like a boy.
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 04:21 PM
Tuesday

Or it could have been when I used Sun In on my dark brown hair. It makes pretty highlights on blond hair, but turns brown hair to orange.

Ocelot II

(120,813 posts)
30. Same here. It was hideous on me but my mom thought it would be
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 07:08 PM
Tuesday

a good idea because my hair was (and still is) fine and unmanageable and I resisted getting it braided or otherwise messed with. So I had to get the pixie cut, absolutely hated it, cried and carried on, was mortified to have to go to school. I didn't look like a boy; I looked like a homely little girl with glasses and ears that stuck out. It seemed like it took forever for that disaster to grow out.

livetohike

(22,962 posts)
14. A shag when I was a freshman in college. I worked as
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 04:33 PM
Tuesday

a short order cook in the college cafeteria and would end my shift needing to wash the grease out of my hair. So I went from shoulder length hair to a shag. My hair is thick and curly. It was such a mistake.

Growing it out was horrendous and I vowed never to cut it short again. So my hair length in the past 50 years has alternated from below the shoulders to waist length. It’s in between that now.

debm55

(35,903 posts)
36. Thank you livetohike. It was a pain to let it grow out.You had to wait for each layer to grow out. Took forever.
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 07:20 PM
Tuesday

pandr32

(12,165 posts)
15. My Mom got her hair frosted at a salon.
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 04:38 PM
Tuesday

She was gone for hours and then when she proudly strutted through the door my Dad exclaimed, "All that money just to look like you're going gray!"

debm55

(35,903 posts)
38. Mine was a blond. It came by using one of those kits. The one I had done at the salon gave me orange streaks in it.
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 07:23 PM
Tuesday

pandr32

(12,165 posts)
50. Mom's were fine streaks of platinum.
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 07:54 PM
Tuesday

Against her brunette hair it did look like gray throughout.
She never did it again.
Sounds like you just managed to lighten your locks to the orange stage. It needed serious toning. Most home streaks looked similar.

debm55

(35,903 posts)
40. I has a poodle and latter a spiral. The spiral perm, I loved. But it didn't last long. Especially for the money I paid
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 07:27 PM
Tuesday

for it.

KT2000

(20,832 posts)
23. The one I have now
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 06:00 PM
Tuesday

Thought I would cut it myself but after I got started, my hip steroid injection for arthritis went into a flare so I had to wack it off as fast as I could so I could collapse. There is no saving it - just grow it out I guess.

ProfessorGAC

(69,851 posts)
37. A Jheri Curl?
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 07:22 PM
Tuesday

I had it for the "rock star" look in an 80s band.
It was unpopular with the EVPs of the company.

debm55

(35,903 posts)
43. Thank you ProfessorGAC, Wasn't it Michael Jackson who started it. I had one. When we met Rich looked like Grizzly Adams
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 07:35 PM
Tuesday

Long full hair and a full beard. they made him cut it all off to a business man look.

ProfessorGAC

(69,851 posts)
46. Probably Rick James
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 07:40 PM
Tuesday

Then Prince, then Michael, and other R&B stars.
Mine wasn't as tight, as I'm not black & it was long-ish.
In that last band, the look was Italian suits, so I cut it shorter (making the VPs happy), combed straight back.
I still wear it that way today, except I've got a 10" ponytail in back. That would have annoyed the VPs, too. But, I retired first!

ProfessorGAC

(69,851 posts)
54. Not For A While
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 08:13 PM
Tuesday

The 80-85 gigs a year started bumping against an incessant travel schedule for my job.
I was 51 & it was getting to be too much. We were together 20 years, so it wasn't like we pulled the plug too soon.
The guys and I still hosted some jam nights after we wrapped it up, though.
I've done a few solo acoustic gigs & sat in on keys with a band who are pals of mine.
But, nothing regular.
I play for my own enjoyment & to continue to get better.
I have a list of songs I need to record, which I may do this winter. I haven't recorded in 2 or 3 years, so I'm due.

Demobrat

(9,789 posts)
42. My hair is poker straight.
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 07:34 PM
Tuesday

I wear it long and all one length. In the eighties I had it cut to my shoulders and permed. That didn’t last long.

debm55

(35,903 posts)
44. I liked it while it was new. But as the Perm started to go, it looked crappy. Decided to go straight and then got into
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 07:38 PM
Tuesday

French braids.

Demobrat

(9,789 posts)
49. Mine straightened out in sections.
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 07:52 PM
Tuesday

So I had wavy sections and straight sections. Luckily I was able to blow it all out straight and let it grow back.

applegrove

(123,111 posts)
53. I was a brunette. I died my hair blue black. It came out really blue.
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 08:11 PM
Tuesday

I called the 1 800 #clarol phone number on the instructions and they told me what dye to get to reverse it. Worked like a charm.

Niagara

(9,564 posts)
56. Imagine being a teenage girl doing the following to your hair:
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 08:29 PM
Tuesday

Crimping. They still sell crimpers and crimped hair looks awful



I sported a 80's half pomp lob but with bangs for a brief time (think a slight punk style)



The rest of the 80's my bangs were teased sky high and the sides of my hair were teased it looked like I had wings and was about ready to fly away. Lots of teased hair volume, lots of hairspray. Bad hair day? Tease it some more and add more hairspray, make it higher ...it's fine

surfered

(3,077 posts)
58. The Flatop with a little crew wax to make the front stand up.
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 08:35 PM
Tuesday

A lot of photos of those in high school yearbooks.

Aristus

(68,327 posts)
61. I don't think it was hideous. My Dad did.
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 09:28 PM
Tuesday

After Star Wars was released in 1977, every guy my age (nine) in the neighborhood wanted to look like Luke Skywalker. So we grew our hair out in the classic 1970’s disco shag. My career military officer father complained, but didn’t force me to cut it.

Now that I’m almost completely bald, I wear my bald-fringe Marine-short.

sorcrow

(510 posts)
62. Probably humorous more than hideous
Wed Nov 20, 2024, 12:18 AM
Yesterday

When I was in the third grade, my mother let my high school age sister dye my hair blonde so that I could look like the coolest guy on TV, namely Illya kuryakin, the Man from UNCLE. I think I even had a turtleneck like he wore occasionally in the show.

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CountAllVotes

(21,066 posts)
63. a "perm" it was called
Wed Nov 20, 2024, 01:21 AM
Yesterday

I have fine hair and I went to get a perm.

They left the crap in my hair too long and it came out sticking straight up and all frizzy!

I was so upset!

The "stylist" saw my expression and asked me what did I think.

I was speechless and then she asked me if I ever did acid.

I replied, "No I have not but after this mess maybe I should!".

Another big failure was the "box" haircut. Very short and popular in the early 1960s. It was a plain short haircut and made your hair look like a box, hence the name. Ugh.

debm55

(35,903 posts)
77. Thank you CountAll Votes. I had a perm like that. Sticky like I had jelly on my head. I refused to pay. and walked out.
Wed Nov 20, 2024, 10:28 AM
18 hrs ago

That was at Penney's . Went to my regular and they fixed it.

Luciferous

(6,261 posts)
64. I shaved my head on a dare when I was 16.
Wed Nov 20, 2024, 06:43 AM
22 hrs ago

My dad took a picture to remind me of how dumb it looked 😄

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