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I was in First Grade, She showed me were the gifts were hidden. I ran into my bedroom and cried. . However, I didn;t tell my parents for a couple of years as I thought I wouldn't get anything. When did you find out or realize ?::
wcmagumba
(3,232 posts)I saw a blue piece of vinyl luggage that I later got from Santa...didn't say anything...I was probably about 8 or so and already had strong doubts...fun while it lasted....
debm55
(38,155 posts)But had the facts. That's what PMO about her telling and showing me where they were.
NJCher
(38,184 posts)With gifts. As Santa was putting them under the tree, I said, "Mom, why does Santa have Eldon's (our neighbor) wedding ring on?"
Details, details.
debm55
(38,155 posts)jls4561
(1,592 posts)Apparently he was so upset when he found out Santa wasnt real, that he never wanted his precious baby girl to go through the same thing.
Nonetheless, I continued to reference Santa, have my picture taken with him, and joyfully await my stocking.
When I grew older and had some pocket money, I fixed stockings for my parents so they wouldnt feel left out. I remember mama always got the smallest box of the Whitmans sampler chocolates and I had to be extra sneaky in order to purchase their Santa presents.
People think its dreadful that I knew about Santa from an early age, but I didnt mind. I didnt tell my friends.
CrispyQ
(38,542 posts)I never had kids but I knew I'd never do the Santa thing if I did.
debm55
(38,155 posts)CrispyQ
(38,542 posts)I was in first grade, too. A kid at daycare told me & my cousin, & we both cried. And just like that, there went the Easter bunny & the tooth fairy & a few years later, God. So some good did come from it.
debm55
(38,155 posts)CanonRay
(14,922 posts)We really didn't have a chimney, so there's that. I was one of those pain in the ass logical kids. I knew how long it took to fly around the world.
debm55
(38,155 posts)find out the truth.
ShepKat
(431 posts)St. Nick was a real person who handed out gifts a long time ago and his spirit is known as Santa. When Santa's spirit sparkles your heart, the spirit of giving and caring fills the air. They bought it lol
debm55
(38,155 posts)sinkingfeeling
(53,206 posts)debm55
(38,155 posts)EYESORE 9001
(27,611 posts)A most unsettling development, I must say 😤
debm55
(38,155 posts)of not telling the Santa myth. or letting it go on. It does really hurt. I tended at certain age to tell my son it was Spirit of giving.and not a real person..
debm55
(38,155 posts)ProfessorGAC
(70,512 posts)I was at the shoe store with my mom. A guy came in and talked to the 2nd clerk.
He said "These cowboy boots are from Santa, but I bought the wrong size."
It wasn't Christmas yet.
Hmmmm!
A dad BOUGHT the present, which was going to be from Santa?
Before we left the store I said "Santa's not real, is he mom?"
I remember it so well, I can still picture that dad's face.
debm55
(38,155 posts)ProfessorGAC
(70,512 posts)I might have been bummed, but I was probably also proud that I figured out.
Just guessing about that.
debm55
(38,155 posts)Mad_Dem_X
(9,809 posts)one Christmas Eve: "You know there's no Santa Claus, right?" I answered, "I figured there wasn't." I didn't get upset or anything, I just realized one day that "Santa" was really my parents. Dad just asked me not to tell my younger sister, so I kept up with the charade, until my sister was old enough to figure out the truth.
debm55
(38,155 posts)mwmisses4289
(181 posts)I first heard the story "Yes, Virginia, There is a Santa Claus". I was about 7, and already beginning to realize Santa wasn't real.
Loved the story, though, still do.
debm55
(38,155 posts)Solly Mack
(93,185 posts)Honestly can't remember ever believing.
ProfessorGAC
(70,512 posts)...yesterday?
Solly Mack
(93,185 posts)debm55
(38,155 posts)Solly Mack
(93,185 posts)Used one of my old tricks of tying a string to something and then tying the other end to a door. Open the door and the object would fall. I got into a lot of trouble while perfecting that stunt.
Anyway, once up the stairs, the string was pulled, and the noise made. The youngest of us, myself and my other sister, heard the noise and the others acted as if they didn't know who made that noise, but it must be Santa.
We ran back down the stairs to a once empty tree being full of presents. It was a cool trick.
My first reaction was, "How did you do that?". Because I was still perfecting my string stunt. I needed to know. They refused to admit to it.
I was maybe 3 or 4.
Even so, I always knew my mother bought the gifts because I was the one who went shopping with her for gifts for my siblings. I was and am killer at keeping a secret. Even under threat from much older siblings.
Same for birthdays. Always knew what they were getting.
She actually did tell us to go to bed early or Santa won't come.
I believed in the magic of it all because to me it was magical.
debm55
(38,155 posts)no_hypocrisy
(49,151 posts)And saw my parents bring up the presents.
I still feel pangs of disappointment. There was and never will be anyone as wonderful as Santa Claus. You could do no wrong. (Don't believe the myth about Santa bringing coal.) Santa was better than parents. Santa was better than God.
debm55
(38,155 posts)Emile
(30,689 posts)😭😭😢😭
debm55
(38,155 posts)debm55
(38,155 posts)Blappy
(135 posts)but I misunderstood what he said, so for a time I thought Jesus killed Santa Claus.
debm55
(38,155 posts)Blappy
(135 posts)but I think when I heard Santa was a ruse for the celebration of Jesus' birthday, I had to 'blame' someone. In retrospect, I do not think Jesus would approve of the ruse, but Santa would say, "Ho Ho Ho, lighten up, dude!"
WestMichRad
(1,876 posts)Thank goodness I still have the Easter Bunny, though.
LoisB
(8,940 posts)debm55
(38,155 posts)WestMichRad
(1,876 posts)LoisB
(8,940 posts)memory.
debm55
(38,156 posts)place it was hidden. ^*&%&%$$$ cousin,
Native
(6,668 posts)And when it finally got through to me, I was bereft cuz I assumed he had died. Bottom line I was hysterical, and the conversation concluded with my mother saying, "We had to tell you because we figured if we didn't you would believe in Santa for the rest of your life."
debm55
(38,156 posts)those less fortunate then ourselves.
rsdsharp
(10,270 posts)the day after Christmas break.
That said, theres a small sign on the wall eight feet from where I sit that reads This House Believes. You can take that any way you choose.
debm55
(38,156 posts)strangers.
rsdsharp
(10,270 posts)Dont forget presents. Lots and lots of presents 🎁 🎁 🎁!
debm55
(38,156 posts)LeftInTX
(30,504 posts)There was just too much evidence...(All the different Santas, no chimney, store bought items, presents hidden under their bed ) I think the lying just got too old....
So, then I ask, "I guess you are the Easter Bunny and Tooth Fairy too?"
Picaro
(1,842 posts)It was a price tag from Peoples Drugs left on my Lincoln Logs. Always been a born skeptic, but this price tag caused the shaky Santa narrative to fall apart.
I then checked with my middle sister and she woefully confirmed my logic. I then decided to maintain the illusion of belief for that year so as to not disrupt the ambiance.
My youngest believed until she was 11. We elected to allow her to believe as long as she liked.
elleng
(136,754 posts)He answered "I am your best friend."
He always was, and still is. (My mother died when I was young. Dad died a few years ago, at the age of 98.)
Clouds Passing
(2,674 posts)I wasnt upset or sad, just hmm well that is that about that.
debm55
(38,156 posts)gopiscrap
(24,206 posts)told me both about Santa and Sex in the same conversation.needless to say it was a traumatic afternoon for me
Dulcinea
(7,592 posts)I was fine with that. I told my kids the same thing.
soldierant
(7,973 posts)are terrified of Santa Claus ... I don't remember what age, but I was incredibly relieved.
I think it was my mom that told me. I remember one year they told me Santa was coming and I hid under the bed in panic - which gave my mother and grandmother time and space to do the gift wrapping they didn't want me to see - but it was a highly traumatic experience for me.