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Last edited Wed Jan 15, 2025, 10:01 AM - Edit history (1)
Well, here goes. I'm at the Dr office and ready to head in. I want to say a huge thank you to you all as I read your kind wishes throughout the day yesterday as my anxiety would build up. Your words were medicine to me, and I'm sorry I haven't been able to thank each of you but please be assured that I'm blanketed by your words, thoughts and energies. Thanks to all of you again and I'll update later today when I get home.
I love you all,
John
I'm going in to meet the Cardiac Surgeon tomorrow morning. I know the news is going to be bad in the sense that I have multiple arterial blockages. I'm just praying there isn't anything worse.
I've been really anxious about this appointment since before Christmas and now it's almost here.
Thank you all for the amazing support and love you keep showing me. It's kept my mind from going to some really dark places as fear goes.
I will post an update as soon as I'm able tomorrow.
Love,
John
riversedge
(79,362 posts)JMCKUSICK
(5,107 posts)Demovictory9
(37,113 posts)JMCKUSICK
(5,107 posts)usonian
(23,514 posts)❤️
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(5,107 posts)Laurelin
(765 posts)I hope the news will be better than expected.
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(5,107 posts)Nanuke
(902 posts)JMCKUSICK
(5,107 posts)XanaDUer2
(15,769 posts)JMCKUSICK
(5,107 posts)Different Drummer
(9,083 posts)JMCKUSICK
(5,107 posts)OLDMDDEM
(3,037 posts)Go into this with an open mind and do not fear what you will be told. Just go with it. You will be fine. It takes time but you will come out of this just fine.
JMCKUSICK
(5,107 posts)That's very reassuring.
OLDMDDEM
(3,037 posts)debm55
(55,640 posts)JMCKUSICK
(5,107 posts)you've been a beacon of light and I'm forever grateful.
PoindexterOglethorpe
(28,452 posts)amazing and wonderful. Hang in there.
JMCKUSICK
(5,107 posts)I'm certainly happy its 2025 and not 1975 lol
MLAA
(19,669 posts)JMCKUSICK
(5,107 posts)SheltieLover
(76,736 posts)JMCKUSICK
(5,107 posts)WDLAL
(73 posts)JMCKUSICK
(5,107 posts)OldBaldy1701E
(10,160 posts)But, I will send what I can!
JMCKUSICK
(5,107 posts)Hope22
(4,467 posts)Prayers and thoughts for an appointment that leads to you feeling better soon! 💗💗💗
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(5,107 posts)Joinfortmill
(20,037 posts)JMCKUSICK
(5,107 posts)KatK
(231 posts)JMCKUSICK
(5,107 posts)Nigrum Cattus
(1,220 posts)The same thing happens with us cancer survivors before our follow-up's.
Also, get a second opinion if it is serious. I the U.S.
https://www.patientadvocate.org/download-view/second-opinions/
JMCKUSICK
(5,107 posts)I've opened up the link and it looks like a great resource.
pandr32
(13,767 posts)I know a few guys who have gone through triple bypass surgery and are doing well today.
You will too!
Fear is understandable. I would be full of fear, but you will get this taken care of and be able to continue your life.
JMCKUSICK
(5,107 posts)zanana1
(6,467 posts)I'm 72 now, and still kicking! You'll feel so much better if you have the surgery.
JMCKUSICK
(5,107 posts)That will be nice
RestoreAmerica2020
(3,471 posts)JMCKUSICK
(5,107 posts)The candle is a nice touch.
Fla Dem
(27,421 posts)All the best to you.
JMCKUSICK
(5,107 posts)AKwannabe
(6,876 posts)ananda
(34,393 posts)!!!
JMCKUSICK
(5,107 posts)oldtime dfl_er
(7,147 posts)modern medicine is miraculous
S/V Loner
(9,489 posts)I had a triple bypass 6 years ago and I am as good as new. I never knew I had a heart issue until my physician saw a new blip on an EKG. I never had any symptoms. They did test and found I had one artery 100% blocked and two 80% blocked. Turns out I had corollaries (I had to find that out on my own because the Docs won't tell you about that. Once I mentioned it they confirmed) which means my body created a bunch of small arteries that went around the blockages. My cardiologist said, once I mentioned the corollaries, that I may or may not have an issue. Well, I'm a wildlife photographer and I thought that if I did have an issue I might be a mile back in the woods and it would be weeks before anyone found me. I decided to have the surgery and couple weeks after getting home I was back out with the camera. LOL... my Doctors were not pleased but both said my recovery was off the charts.
Good luck. All will be good.
Johnny Noshoes
(2,001 posts)mahina
(20,425 posts)a cut somehow! Amazing what docs can do now. Seeing you happy and well, and feeling so very much better soon. Aloha.
1WorldHope
(1,861 posts)My mom has a heart attack at 43. Now days they can do so much with little fanfare. The doctors do so many of these surgeries they could do then with their eyes closed. I wish you a speedy recovery. Try to keep the dark away with light. Catch yourself self talking negative and tell the thought to be gone. You get to control what you think.
Omaha Steve
(108,417 posts)Midnight Writer
(25,142 posts)niyad
(129,513 posts)StarryNite
(11,972 posts)Remember, just breathe, you will be fine.
madashelltoo
(1,821 posts)Father, please grant courage and peace that passes understanding. Be in the midst of this medical situation. Let the prognosis be within the parameters of medical abilities to repair. Then, we ask that You heal as only You can. We ask in the name of Jesus. Amen.
Blessings
bernieb
(96 posts)I don't know if you're Christian, but here is my prayer for you. From the Book of Common Prayer of the Episcopal Church:
Almighty God our Heavenly Father, graciously comfort your servant John in his suffering and bless the means made use of for his cure. Fill his heart with confidence that, though at times he may be afraid, he yet may put his trust in you, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen
debm55
(55,640 posts)surfered
(11,464 posts)Theyve gotten really good at this: stents, by pass surgery. Have faith. Good luck.
JMCKUSICK
(5,107 posts)I had 2 stents implanted in 2015.
Thanks for the perspective.
surfered
(11,464 posts)The patient asked. Can I get a second opinion? The doctor told him he might not live until a second opinion. He went to the hospital and they did 3 bypasses. Hes fine now.
I understand its a scary procedure, but they do them all over the country every day.
Hoping for good news for you.
KitFox
(506 posts)get some concrete information and a good positive plan for what comes next. Waiting and wondering arent easy and you are facing this with tons of courage already!!! Your DU family is behind you all the way!! Please keep us posted. We care!!!!!🩷
Elessar Zappa
(16,385 posts)applegrove
(130,226 posts)LoisB
(12,355 posts)MustLoveBeagles
(14,728 posts)I hope everything works out for you.
sdfernando
(6,019 posts)I have a friend that had a non-stemi (so??) at 54. Hes was very fit but a smoker. He quit cigarettes about 6 months before the heart attack. Ended up getting a total of 4 stents over the years. Now he is 61 and going strong. Dont lose hope. Im rooting for you!
Clouds Passing
(6,962 posts)Effing atherosclerosis. Somebody has to come up with a less severe way to deal with it. With some its genetic, no matter healthy lifestyle.
ancianita
(42,844 posts)Be hopeful. Know that you're in good hands. Heart surgery is the most common and successful of surgeries. Compared to many other major surgeries, heart surgery, particularly coronary artery bypass grafting (CABG), generally exceeding a 90% success rate with significantly improved survival rates for patients with severe coronary artery disease.
You're going to be okay. Stay peaceful. Sleep well.
Wicked Blue
(8,439 posts)Let's hope you get the best possible diagnosis
Figarosmom
(9,724 posts)Good vibes and just know the docs know what to do to help.
Bluethroughu
(7,215 posts)than you're expecting. Healing good vibes your way!
Rhiannon12866
(250,075 posts)And hoping that your fears are put to rest by your surgeon. Please let us know how it goes...
Katcat
(540 posts)But youre on DU so you must be one of the good ones. Fingers, toes, arms and eyes crossed for you to get better fast!
evilhime
(372 posts)And healing thoughts for you!!!!🔆❤️🩹
JMCKUSICK
(5,107 posts)KT2000
(21,936 posts)I mean it - he rides his bicycle every day. I hope that is what they can do for you. I have 5!!
JMCKUSICK
(5,107 posts)I love all the positivity.
electric_blue68
(25,882 posts)🤔 I think that covers almost all possibilities.
Good Luck!
forgotmylogin
(7,940 posts)JMCKUSICK
(5,107 posts)As I raise my doughnut to yours, let's toast to long and happy lives.
Siwsan
(27,809 posts)The kid cats and I are all pulling for you!
JMCKUSICK
(5,107 posts)I think of you and your babies often.
Erda
(218 posts)May you heal quickly.
JMCKUSICK
(5,107 posts)calimary
(89,034 posts)Might help to focus on the color green. Green is the color of everything you need to keep your mind focused on:
Health
Healing
Renewal
Spring
New growth
Vitality
The color for Go
And all that other good stuff!
JMCKUSICK
(5,107 posts)"I love Calimari".
You'll be happy to know that colors are huge to me and help define me.
I bought a set of new green bed sheets for this specific occasion along with another that is Lavender in color.