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JMCKUSICK

(1,785 posts)
Tue Jan 14, 2025, 02:38 PM Jan 14

Any positive vibes, prayers etc would be welcome right now please

Last edited Wed Jan 15, 2025, 11:01 AM - Edit history (1)

Well, here goes. I'm at the Dr office and ready to head in. I want to say a huge thank you to you all as I read your kind wishes throughout the day yesterday as my anxiety would build up. Your words were medicine to me, and I'm sorry I haven't been able to thank each of you but please be assured that I'm blanketed by your words, thoughts and energies. Thanks to all of you again and I'll update later today when I get home.
I love you all,
John


I'm going in to meet the Cardiac Surgeon tomorrow morning. I know the news is going to be bad in the sense that I have multiple arterial blockages. I'm just praying there isn't anything worse.
I've been really anxious about this appointment since before Christmas and now it's almost here.

Thank you all for the amazing support and love you keep showing me. It's kept my mind from going to some really dark places as fear goes.
I will post an update as soon as I'm able tomorrow.
Love,
John

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Any positive vibes, prayers etc would be welcome right now please (Original Post) JMCKUSICK Jan 14 OP
May the good angels be with you and your family. riversedge Jan 14 #1
Thank you Riversedge JMCKUSICK Jan 14 #15
Sending good vibes. Demovictory9 Jan 14 #2
Thank you Demovictory9 JMCKUSICK Jan 14 #14
Best wishes. usonian Jan 14 #3
Thank you Usonian JMCKUSICK Jan 14 #13
Lots of positive thoughts coming your way Laurelin Jan 14 #4
Thank you Laurelin JMCKUSICK Jan 14 #12
Beaming good thoughts your way. Nanuke Jan 14 #5
Thank you N JMCKUSICK Jan 14 #10
Prayers nt XanaDUer2 Jan 14 #6
Thank you so much Mary JMCKUSICK Jan 14 #8
Best wishes for a good outcome. Different Drummer Jan 14 #7
Thank you JMCKUSICK Jan 14 #9
I have had two open heart surgeries. I was scared and worried like you are. OLDMDDEM Jan 14 #11
Thank you OLDMDDEM JMCKUSICK Jan 14 #16
Keep posting what you are going through from what the doctor says forward. You're welcome and good luck. OLDMDDEM Jan 14 #17
Best wishes to you, John. May angels watch over you tomorrow. Love. Debbie, debm55 Jan 14 #18
Thank you Debbie JMCKUSICK Jan 14 #21
Modern cardiac surgery is PoindexterOglethorpe Jan 14 #19
Knock on wood JMCKUSICK Jan 14 #20
Sending loads of good vibes to you, dear JMCKUSICK MLAA Jan 14 #22
Thank you MLAA JMCKUSICK Jan 14 #26
Calming vibes on the way to you SheltieLover Jan 14 #23
Thank you SheltieLover JMCKUSICK Jan 14 #30
I'm praying for peace for your appointment tomorrow and a good outcome with your treatment. WDLAL Jan 14 #24
Thank you WDLAL JMCKUSICK Jan 14 #44
Those are in short supply around this neck of the woods. OldBaldy1701E Jan 14 #25
I'll treasure them all JMCKUSICK Jan 14 #46
All the best to you! Hope22 Jan 14 #27
Thank you for offering Hope JMCKUSICK Jan 14 #47
I prayed for you. Joinfortmill Jan 14 #28
Thank you JoinFortMill JMCKUSICK Jan 14 #48
Holding you in the light, John. May you be healthy and peaceful n/t KatK Jan 14 #29
Thank you KatK JMCKUSICK Jan 14 #49
+++ Vibes Nigrum Cattus Jan 14 #31
Thank you Nigrum Cattus JMCKUSICK Jan 14 #53
You will be fine. pandr32 Jan 14 #32
Thank you Pandr32 JMCKUSICK Jan 14 #54
When I was 38, I had bypass surgery on 6 arteries. zanana1 Jan 15 #76
Thank you Zanana1 JMCKUSICK Jan 15 #81
Lighting a candle for your health. Paz RestoreAmerica2020 Jan 14 #33
Thank you RestoreAmerica2020 JMCKUSICK Jan 15 #82
May nothing but goodness surround you tomorrow. Fla Dem Jan 14 #34
Thank you FlaDem JMCKUSICK Jan 15 #83
... AKwannabe Jan 14 #35
Good vibes coming your way right now! ananda Jan 14 #36
Thank you Ananda JMCKUSICK Jan 15 #84
sending good vibes oldtime dfl_er Jan 14 #37
You will do just fine... S/V Loner Jan 14 #38
Good luck - hope all goes well! Johnny Noshoes Jan 14 #39
Best luck, and ease of mind! My dear friend went in for a stent last month, came home with a quadruple bypass, without mahina Jan 14 #40
Heart problems used to be a big killer when we were young. 1WorldHope Jan 14 #41
Some DUers don't know you have a gofundme Omaha Steve Jan 14 #42
Best of luck to you and yours. Midnight Writer Jan 14 #43
Holding you in light and love, with vibes for best possible outcome. niyad Jan 14 #45
Sending you good vibes. StarryNite Jan 14 #50
Prayers madashelltoo Jan 14 #51
Prayers bernieb Jan 14 #52
Kick debm55 Jan 14 #55
At least, didn't tell you to go straight to the hospital. surfered Jan 14 #56
True true JMCKUSICK Jan 14 #57
I knew someone who took a stress test and the cardiologist said we need do do a bypass now. surfered Jan 14 #62
Hoping you get some rest tonight and that tomorrow you KitFox Jan 14 #58
Sending vibes and prayers. Elessar Zappa Jan 14 #59
Vibes. applegrove Jan 14 #60
Sending all of that to you: Positive vibrations, prayers, and HUGS! LoisB Jan 14 #61
Good luck πŸ€žπŸ€ MustLoveBeagles Jan 14 #63
Sending you love and good vibes sdfernando Jan 14 #64
Prayers and healing energy for you John πŸ’š Clouds Passing Jan 14 #65
Positive vibes to you, JMCKUSICK. ancianita Jan 14 #66
Good vibing to you, John Wicked Blue Jan 14 #67
You got it Figarosmom Jan 14 #68
I hope the appointment turns out to be way less Bluethroughu Jan 15 #69
Sending all those powerful DU vibes to you for tomorrow Rhiannon12866 Jan 15 #70
Don't know you Katcat Jan 15 #71
White light evilhime Jan 15 #72
Thank you Evilhime JMCKUSICK Jan 15 #89
A neighbor has 18 stents! KT2000 Jan 15 #73
Praying KT2000 JMCKUSICK Jan 15 #88
May you have -the least possible- challenging news, OR even better than that! 🀞🀞🀞🀞🀞 electric_blue68 Jan 15 #74
not one but TWO delicious donuts of positive karma your way forgotmylogin Jan 15 #75
Thank you Forgotmylogin JMCKUSICK Jan 15 #87
You know you are in my heart and thoughts Siwsan Jan 15 #77
Thank you Susan JMCKUSICK Jan 15 #80
My very best wishes and lots of love to you! Erda Jan 15 #78
Thank you Erda JMCKUSICK Jan 15 #79
DEFINITELY keep us in the loop. We're gonna want to know how you're doing! calimary Jan 15 #85
Thank you Calimary JMCKUSICK Jan 15 #86

OLDMDDEM

(2,422 posts)
11. I have had two open heart surgeries. I was scared and worried like you are.
Tue Jan 14, 2025, 02:47 PM
Jan 14

Go into this with an open mind and do not fear what you will be told. Just go with it. You will be fine. It takes time but you will come out of this just fine.

OLDMDDEM

(2,422 posts)
17. Keep posting what you are going through from what the doctor says forward. You're welcome and good luck.
Tue Jan 14, 2025, 02:53 PM
Jan 14

Hope22

(3,869 posts)
27. All the best to you!
Tue Jan 14, 2025, 03:52 PM
Jan 14

Prayers and thoughts for an appointment that leads to you feeling better soon! πŸ’—πŸ’—πŸ’—

Nigrum Cattus

(452 posts)
31. +++ Vibes
Tue Jan 14, 2025, 04:19 PM
Jan 14

The same thing happens with us cancer survivors before our follow-up's.
Also, get a second opinion if it is serious. I the U.S.
https://www.patientadvocate.org/download-view/second-opinions/

pandr32

(12,819 posts)
32. You will be fine.
Tue Jan 14, 2025, 04:24 PM
Jan 14

I know a few guys who have gone through triple bypass surgery and are doing well today.
You will too!
Fear is understandable. I would be full of fear, but you will get this taken care of and be able to continue your life.

zanana1

(6,358 posts)
76. When I was 38, I had bypass surgery on 6 arteries.
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 08:58 AM
Jan 15

I'm 72 now, and still kicking! You'll feel so much better if you have the surgery.

S/V Loner

(9,303 posts)
38. You will do just fine...
Tue Jan 14, 2025, 04:55 PM
Jan 14

I had a triple bypass 6 years ago and I am as good as new. I never knew I had a heart issue until my physician saw a new blip on an EKG. I never had any symptoms. They did test and found I had one artery 100% blocked and two 80% blocked. Turns out I had corollaries (I had to find that out on my own because the Docs won't tell you about that. Once I mentioned it they confirmed) which means my body created a bunch of small arteries that went around the blockages. My cardiologist said, once I mentioned the corollaries, that I may or may not have an issue. Well, I'm a wildlife photographer and I thought that if I did have an issue I might be a mile back in the woods and it would be weeks before anyone found me. I decided to have the surgery and couple weeks after getting home I was back out with the camera. LOL... my Doctors were not pleased but both said my recovery was off the charts.
Good luck. All will be good.

mahina

(19,674 posts)
40. Best luck, and ease of mind! My dear friend went in for a stent last month, came home with a quadruple bypass, without
Tue Jan 14, 2025, 05:01 PM
Jan 14

a cut somehow! Amazing what docs can do now. Seeing you happy and well, and feeling so very much better soon. Aloha.

1WorldHope

(1,123 posts)
41. Heart problems used to be a big killer when we were young.
Tue Jan 14, 2025, 05:04 PM
Jan 14

My mom has a heart attack at 43. Now days they can do so much with little fanfare. The doctors do so many of these surgeries they could do then with their eyes closed. I wish you a speedy recovery. Try to keep the dark away with light. Catch yourself self talking negative and tell the thought to be gone. You get to control what you think.

madashelltoo

(1,804 posts)
51. Prayers
Tue Jan 14, 2025, 05:37 PM
Jan 14

Father, please grant courage and peace that passes understanding. Be in the midst of this medical situation. Let the prognosis be within the parameters of medical abilities to repair. Then, we ask that You heal as only You can. We ask in the name of Jesus. Amen.
Blessings

bernieb

(88 posts)
52. Prayers
Tue Jan 14, 2025, 05:45 PM
Jan 14

I don't know if you're Christian, but here is my prayer for you. From the Book of Common Prayer of the Episcopal Church:

Almighty God our Heavenly Father, graciously comfort your servant John in his suffering and bless the means made use of for his cure. Fill his heart with confidence that, though at times he may be afraid, he yet may put his trust in you, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen

surfered

(5,964 posts)
56. At least, didn't tell you to go straight to the hospital.
Tue Jan 14, 2025, 06:58 PM
Jan 14

They’ve gotten really good at this: stents, by pass surgery. Have faith. Good luck.

surfered

(5,964 posts)
62. I knew someone who took a stress test and the cardiologist said we need do do a bypass now.
Tue Jan 14, 2025, 09:46 PM
Jan 14

The patient asked. β€œCan I get a second opinion?” The doctor told him he might not live until a second opinion. He went to the hospital and they did 3 bypasses. He’s fine now.

I understand it’s a scary procedure, but they do them all over the country every day.

Hoping for good news for you.

KitFox

(276 posts)
58. Hoping you get some rest tonight and that tomorrow you
Tue Jan 14, 2025, 08:04 PM
Jan 14

get some concrete information and a good positive plan for what comes next. Waiting and wondering aren’t easy and you are facing this with tons of courage already!!! Your DU family is behind you all the way!! Please keep us posted. We care!!!!!🩷

sdfernando

(5,652 posts)
64. Sending you love and good vibes
Tue Jan 14, 2025, 10:50 PM
Jan 14

I have a friend that had a non-stemi (so??) at 54. He’s was very fit but a smoker. He quit cigarettes about 6 months before the heart attack. Ended up getting a total of 4 stents over the years. Now he is 61 and going strong. Don’t lose hope. I’m rooting for you!

Clouds Passing

(4,285 posts)
65. Prayers and healing energy for you John πŸ’š
Tue Jan 14, 2025, 11:02 PM
Jan 14

Effing atherosclerosis. Somebody has to come up with a less severe way to deal with it. With some it’s genetic, no matter healthy lifestyle.

ancianita

(40,240 posts)
66. Positive vibes to you, JMCKUSICK.
Tue Jan 14, 2025, 11:17 PM
Jan 14

Be hopeful. Know that you're in good hands. Heart surgery is the most common and successful of surgeries. Compared to many other major surgeries, heart surgery, particularly coronary artery bypass grafting (CABG), generally exceeding a 90% success rate with significantly improved survival rates for patients with severe coronary artery disease.

You're going to be okay. Stay peaceful. Sleep well.

Bluethroughu

(7,096 posts)
69. I hope the appointment turns out to be way less
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 12:01 AM
Jan 15

than you're expecting. Healing good vibes your way!

Rhiannon12866

(231,690 posts)
70. Sending all those powerful DU vibes to you for tomorrow
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 12:57 AM
Jan 15

And hoping that your fears are put to rest by your surgeon. Please let us know how it goes...

Katcat

(455 posts)
71. Don't know you
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 01:26 AM
Jan 15

But you’re on DU so you must be one of the good ones. Fingers, toes, arms and eyes crossed for you to get better fast!

KT2000

(21,325 posts)
73. A neighbor has 18 stents!
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 02:39 AM
Jan 15

I mean it - he rides his bicycle every day. I hope that is what they can do for you. I have 5!!

electric_blue68

(20,634 posts)
74. May you have -the least possible- challenging news, OR even better than that! 🀞🀞🀞🀞🀞
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 03:12 AM
Jan 15

πŸ€” I think that covers almost all possibilities.

Good Luck!

JMCKUSICK

(1,785 posts)
87. Thank you Forgotmylogin
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 04:10 PM
Jan 15

As I raise my doughnut to yours, let's toast to long and happy lives.

calimary

(85,781 posts)
85. DEFINITELY keep us in the loop. We're gonna want to know how you're doing!
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 01:13 PM
Jan 15

Might help to focus on the color green. Green is the color of everything you need to keep your mind focused on:
Health
Healing
Renewal
Spring
New growth
Vitality
The color for β€œGo”
And all that other good stuff!

JMCKUSICK

(1,785 posts)
86. Thank you Calimary
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 04:08 PM
Jan 15

"I love Calimari".
You'll be happy to know that colors are huge to me and help define me.
I bought a set of new green bed sheets for this specific occasion along with another that is Lavender in color.

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