Fucking FB, I dont want notification popups, I want the

upper right hand corner bell and the one to the left of it to tell me if I have comments responding to mine or private messages. This is on my laptop...

All of a sudden they dont do that but i get popups, dont want popups.

Googled this and what I came up with wont work, my notification settings screen has a ton of stuff, none of it about this but then I dont understand what push means as to FB on a laptop vs phone. Push on a laptop means what? is that push setting there for my phone and if I check it on my laptop it will happen on my phone also?

I know what "push" is for iPhone, but on a laptop I am confused.

I hate FB but right now we have to know what is going on.

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