Does that count?

worried that if you don't use it, you'll lose it?

Just that I take a certain amount of pride in being a boorish, angry, climb the walls asshole

But, a buying my therapist a new car, AND a new boat kinda helped me deal with at least the anger part. Some people probably think I'm still boorish, and an asshole, though.

No. I don't want to go to the opera.

But apparently pointing out the obvious is a bad thing.

At least until one of the problems decides it's worth instigating again.

Remember, "nice guys" who white knight like that are only looking to have sex. Dirty, icky sex. You filthy pig!

most of the posts were self-deleted.

I wish I would have captured the thread for posterity.

and no, I don't think you contributed - well maybe you taunted a little...
but im just an eeeeevil man, so what do I know?

it's what I found out, you can't speak truth to feminists.
punt uit
it simply can't be done.
There are those rare individuals like SeaBeyond, but she's a rare one. She is actually capable of seeing both sides, and understand how both sides can see or be hurt by X.

If we're to have a healthy equality between the sexes, as we men give up our "natural power" they have to also give up their natural power, which I don't think they're willing to do... ever.

what power?
the short list:
women run:
The house hold
the direction of the relationship
ANY, and the level of intimacy
potentially how you see yourself (my ex, in the end, nearly destroyed me)
the conversation - there is no way a man can bring up a contrary idea in this discussion w/o being flamed into non-existence.

But points for trying

You get the merit badge.