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michigandem58

(1,044 posts)
Wed Apr 17, 2013, 08:01 PM Apr 2013

How long do you give a new job?

I accepted a new job at my employer. at their request. After a couple of weeks, it already seems far from what I expected. Far more tedious and data pushing than I had hoped. Do I ride it out aa few more weeks, months, six months? I'm already feeling pretty miserable. Would they want to be told this early I feel I've made a mistake? Or would they want to be told at all?

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How long do you give a new job? (Original Post) michigandem58 Apr 2013 OP
Have they filled your old position yet? discntnt_irny_srcsm Apr 2013 #1
It has been filled michigandem58 Apr 2013 #2
First let me say what you probably know... discntnt_irny_srcsm Apr 2013 #3
Thanks, 90 days souds reasonable michigandem58 Apr 2013 #4
Same boat for me. discntnt_irny_srcsm Apr 2013 #5
Another kicker michigandem58 Apr 2013 #6
Well another update! michigandem58 Apr 2013 #7
I agree with your judgement discntnt_irny_srcsm Apr 2013 #8
As Soon as you find a New Job Sparhawk60 Aug 2014 #9
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michigandem58

(1,044 posts)
2. It has been filled
Wed Apr 17, 2013, 09:06 PM
Apr 2013

and yes I'd like it back but I'm open to other things.

Just afraid asking out so soon may not look right - or would they appreciate knowing quickly?

discntnt_irny_srcsm

(18,576 posts)
3. First let me say what you probably know...
Wed Apr 17, 2013, 09:19 PM
Apr 2013

...you know your employer better than I do. I'm not sure how long you've given it so far. I'm also not sure how specialized your work is. Are you a kidney perfusion tech or do you put lids on the mayo? Where you live could you find other work?

Shooting from the hip 90 days seems like a reasonable amount of time for a fair trial.


I have friends in North Michigan. They say it's hard to find work.
I kind of like the idea of the Michigan left.

 

michigandem58

(1,044 posts)
4. Thanks, 90 days souds reasonable
Thu Apr 18, 2013, 05:18 AM
Apr 2013

Since they had asked me and I agreed, I thought I might have a bit of latitude in saying I thought it was a good move, but it isn't working out.

I've been in the accounting field for 30+ years and jobs can be tough to come by. I have three years wth this company, and it's a decent one to work for in a number of ways. My resume is spotty over the past ten years so I'd like to re-establish a track record of some stability. Factor in that I'm 55 and just jumping to another employer probably wouldn't be easy or ideal right now. Given what's happened with my pension and 401k, I'm probably looking at 12 more years of working, if I'm fortunate enough to keep on somewhere that long!

 

michigandem58

(1,044 posts)
6. Another kicker
Mon Apr 22, 2013, 08:52 PM
Apr 2013

My old department just re-organized and most everyone got promoted. I think they were waitng for me to leave.

 

michigandem58

(1,044 posts)
7. Well another update!
Tue Apr 23, 2013, 11:40 AM
Apr 2013

The guy that took my spot just told me he was leaving the company! It's not official yet, so I can't jump ahead. But once it's announced, how would I pursue going back? Would I approach my current supervisor, supervisor at my old job, or both? I'm inclined to start with my current supervisor. I'd like to pay him the courtesy, particularly since I may end up staying where I am. But I want to make sure my request gets fully considered, so I've thought maybe current supervisor first, followed by my prior?

 

Sparhawk60

(359 posts)
9. As Soon as you find a New Job
Fri Aug 8, 2014, 01:26 PM
Aug 2014

I would let my new employer know I was unhappy the day after I found a better job. I have heard of places that will fire you for telling them you are looking for another job.

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