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Related: About this forumMore women come forward to share growing up with 'toxic' mothers
Naho Kato, second from right, and women who experienced complex relationships with their mothers, talk about their experiences in Nagoya in February. (Chieko Hara)
NAGOYA--Although long considered taboo as the mark of an undutiful child, women have begun sharing their traumatic experiences stemming from growing up with toxic mothers to regain their self-worth.
I was often locked away in a storage room by my angry mother, said one of the five women who recently gathered together to discuss their childhood scars in Nagoya.
Another said, I, as a child, was never comforted by my mother.
Although my mother used to say it was for my own good, meddling in my affairs was nothing but her attempt to control my life, still another said.
Ranging in age from 20s to 50s, the participants poured their hearts out, some in tears, at the three-hour gathering, called Ohanashi-kai (talking session).
http://ajw.asahi.com/article/behind_news/social_affairs/AJ201403260005
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More women come forward to share growing up with 'toxic' mothers (Original Post)
yuiyoshida
Mar 2014
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Gormy Cuss
(30,884 posts)1. Interesting.
Thanks for the link.
get the red out
(13,579 posts)2. This has to be a positive thing
People have a right to their feelings, and to address them.
I'm not the most unbiased person on the subject. My Mother was quite toxic, but I know the relief that I have gained through discussing this with my sister and friends who grew up with similar issues. Knowing that you aren't alone and not a bad person for having a negative reaction to bad parenting was a HUGE relief to me.
phil89
(1,043 posts)3. Is this related to the "tiger mom"
nonsense that enjoyed a brief craze a few years ago?
yuiyoshida
(42,714 posts)4. I don't find that
abusive parents a nonsense issue, do you?