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yuiyoshida

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Tue Mar 25, 2014, 08:03 PM Mar 2014

More women come forward to share growing up with 'toxic' mothers


Naho Kato, second from right, and women who experienced complex relationships with their mothers, talk about their experiences in Nagoya in February. (Chieko Hara)


NAGOYA--Although long considered taboo as the mark of an undutiful child, women have begun sharing their traumatic experiences stemming from growing up with “toxic” mothers to regain their self-worth.

“I was often locked away in a storage room by my angry mother,” said one of the five women who recently gathered together to discuss their childhood scars in Nagoya.

Another said, “I, as a child, was never comforted by my mother.”

“Although my mother used to say it was for my own good, meddling in my affairs was nothing but her attempt to control my life,” still another said.

Ranging in age from 20s to 50s, the participants poured their hearts out, some in tears, at the three-hour gathering, called “Ohanashi-kai” (talking session).

http://ajw.asahi.com/article/behind_news/social_affairs/AJ201403260005
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More women come forward to share growing up with 'toxic' mothers (Original Post) yuiyoshida Mar 2014 OP
Interesting. Gormy Cuss Mar 2014 #1
This has to be a positive thing get the red out Mar 2014 #2
Is this related to the "tiger mom" phil89 Mar 2014 #3
I don't find that yuiyoshida Apr 2014 #4

get the red out

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2. This has to be a positive thing
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 09:30 AM
Mar 2014

People have a right to their feelings, and to address them.

I'm not the most unbiased person on the subject. My Mother was quite toxic, but I know the relief that I have gained through discussing this with my sister and friends who grew up with similar issues. Knowing that you aren't alone and not a bad person for having a negative reaction to bad parenting was a HUGE relief to me.

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