We weigh less and are healthier but are still fat. On a bike I think it's worse--lazy jackasses in their cars yelling at you for ecologically superior transportation. I regret that I don't always have the time to use my bike as transportation.

She's shed a good quarter to more than thirty percent of her original weight. I don't know what she looks like, but she's amazing.

And she's right to ignore the idiots who tell her not to walk.

I used to take the public bus in the Washington DC area. They were very reliable, but I often got off work after midnight, and periodically grown men would tell me I shouldn't be taking the bus that late. Huh! I couldn't afford a car -- actually more to the point I didn't want the burdensome cost of car ownership -- and I was quite safe and happy riding the bus, thank you very much.

When did it become ok to yell nasty things at anyone, anytime? Why is there so much hate?

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Because it makes people who don't feel good about themselves feel superior.

But it does seem as if the rules of decorum have broken down quite a bit. Funnily enough, I live and have always lived in large cities and rarely get heckled. In LA, it's more worrying about being hit as I walk a lot. I never cross when a luxury car is coming because they will plow you over, especially BMWs and most especially white ones.

I do agree about the self hatred just boiling over in this country. It's palpable. I really don't see this kind of rage when I travel.

That was when my breasts developed and that was a long time ago.
I took public transportation too and can relate to her experiences. I also walked alone or with another woman at night which apparently made me a easy target. Unlike the author I did confront the idiots frequently. Still do on occasion, although not very often.
Too many emboldened crazies out there.

when people make light of women saying they feel unsafe. Uh, just walking down the street, you get verbally assaulted, so why would anyone feel safe?

but glad the author doesn't let it stop her from walking. You go girl

I'm blind in one eye and a little blind in the other, so while I can still read (with glasses) I cannot drive and I live in a small town with very little public transportation. Other than bumming rides from friends/family, the only choice I really have is to walk. The random catcalls and sexual street harassment got so bad that even with my bad vision I still wear headphones so I don't have to hear it.

And I've heard it all. "You shouldn't be walking alone wearing those shorts!", "nice t!ts", "come here, I just want to talk to you" and when I just waved him off, that was followed by "you bitch, you think you're too good for this!". I didn't turn to look, but I heard the sound of a zipper being undone so I'm pretty sure he tried to flash me.

Since I've been wearing headphones I don't hear it as much, but I still get the honking bullshit and the occasional bottle thrown at me. WTF is wrong with these dudes!? I want them to just fuck off and leave me, and every women, alone. It happens to all of us and its why I've been carrying mace since I was 18 and a pocket knife since I was 14. But that little knife is a different story...(sigh).

That is awful.

I don't get how people can treat other people like this. It's like they blame all women for the fact that they're not happy with themselves.

I don't know why they do it, either. It usually happens when I completely ignore their cat-calls and come-ons. It's surprising how quickly the wolf whistles turn into threats.