In 1992, when I had to get a protective order against my abusive ex-husband, the police were less than helpful. The only one that helped me at all was a Maryland State Trooper who told me that the county sheriffs office wouldn't help me, so just make sure that I did anything that "needs doing" inside the house so I could claim it was self-defense. I was appalled that she was actually suggesting to me that I would have to take care of it myself, because no one else would help.

He failed to commit suicide after committing murder? Hopefully someone else will be able to successfully get custody of the children. It's going to be hard enough growing up knowing their father (was he their father? It wasn't clear) without being raised by a murderer. Or maybe he'll die from his injuries.

Another life taken over domestic violence. Yeah... it's not an issue is it?

I'm sure all society needs to do is make sure we get the abusers some help. The abusers don't have enough support to deal with their sick needs! It's all about those persecuted abusers!!!

I would like to see tougher laws on this subject.

Dealing with these problems after they've already become actionable by the courts is playing catch up. It's necessary but it's not enough.

Hopefully support for projects aimed at making aggression toward / domination of partners less acceptable will continue to build, and we can change the culture that enables this kind of activity.