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Violet_Crumble

(36,138 posts)
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 01:53 AM Feb 2012

Neoma, you had no right to sack the other hosts. You need to reinstate them and step down...

This discussion thread was locked as off-topic by Neoma (a host of the Feminists group).

Seriously, if you really need to have a group to control, I'll give you the Australia group, but this group is one where a host shouldn';t do what you've done and totally ignore other hosts and members like me who PM'd you several times asking you to talk to the other hosts...

What you've done is a huge abuse of power and it needs to be undone. If you won't do it then I hope the admin do...

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Neoma, you had no right to sack the other hosts. You need to reinstate them and step down... (Original Post) Violet_Crumble Feb 2012 OP
What happened, Violet Crumble? nt Ecumenist Feb 2012 #1
Apparently differences over how to relate to our LGBTQ community turned into a flamr war. patrice Feb 2012 #4
except no one who uses this forum voted for her. small detail. i guess the forum has been seabeyond Feb 2012 #5
That's bullshit... Violet_Crumble Feb 2012 #31
She ran it by admin, take it up with them. LeftyMom Feb 2012 #2
Devil's Advocate: How do you know she "ran it by admin"? Because she said so? hlthe2b Feb 2012 #6
If she's being dishonest about that I'm sure they'll intervene. LeftyMom Feb 2012 #11
I have no reason to believe either way. If she has that documentation, she needs to share it. hlthe2b Feb 2012 #22
If she hasn't run it by admin, it's foolhardy to say so in such a prominent post. Gormy Cuss Feb 2012 #14
It wouldn't be the first time an individual DUer has misrepresented official policy... hlthe2b Feb 2012 #20
How do you know this? n/t Violet_Crumble Feb 2012 #34
She took charge as she should to quell the anomosity. William769 Feb 2012 #3
Except nothing she has done will quell any animosity. BlueIris Feb 2012 #7
Well given the time William769 Feb 2012 #10
Wow.I realize I've missed a lot, but regardless of the history, I'm surprised you would defend... hlthe2b Feb 2012 #9
She did what needed to be done. William769 Feb 2012 #13
And, do you think Governor Walker did what "needed to be done" in using these same kind of tactics? hlthe2b Feb 2012 #15
I won't even dignify that with a answer. William769 Feb 2012 #18
Yes... we know who uses dictatorial tactics. That's why I'm surprised at your defense of this hlthe2b Feb 2012 #26
I defend the way the system is set up. William769 Feb 2012 #28
Obviously, the system is NOT working. A very toxic environment has been created. hlthe2b Feb 2012 #29
No people have set up the toxic enviroment. William769 Feb 2012 #30
So this is all because someone issued a superfluous alert on you? That's why you are defending this? hlthe2b Feb 2012 #32
Look up the word example. William769 Feb 2012 #33
Honestly... If you can't see the toxicity going both directions... hlthe2b Feb 2012 #37
I will put blame on individuals William769 Feb 2012 #38
People who use reason? regnaD kciN Feb 2012 #50
Post removed Post removed Feb 2012 #23
What are you talking about? William769 Feb 2012 #25
we had one more day of elections. hands down, redqueen. that is why they had to do this today seabeyond Feb 2012 #17
Unless I hear differently from the admin, this was an abuse of power... Violet_Crumble Feb 2012 #35
Well, One thought Ruby the Liberal Feb 2012 #44
I was just reviewing some PMs and I don't think the admins were aware of the fact. laconicsax Feb 2012 #47
I've asked the admin in the hosts forum whether they were aware of what she planned to do... Violet_Crumble Feb 2012 #49
I'll wait for the admin to say what they knew and if they approved this... Violet_Crumble Feb 2012 #48
Seems like who owns the Forum is more important than discussions on the posted topics. Old and In the Way Feb 2012 #8
I've only been superficially following, but for a HOST to unilaterally remove all elected co-host?! hlthe2b Feb 2012 #12
A main host has that right William769 Feb 2012 #16
The main host could have been absolutely right at the start (or not), but THIS is INDEFENSIBLE. hlthe2b Feb 2012 #19
Easy...that's the way the Groups are set up. Old and In the Way Feb 2012 #21
The groups were set up to VOTE for their HOST... As I understand it, she was NOT. hlthe2b Feb 2012 #24
redqueen was voted in. we asked for cohost. we did not know there was a line of heirarchy. seabeyond Feb 2012 #27
Here is the link to prove you wrong. William769 Feb 2012 #36
redqueen voted in. by the forum. our group. the people that use this place. not you. link seabeyond Feb 2012 #40
My link is your alls discussion on her becoming main host William769 Feb 2012 #41
my link shows the members of the forums voice. nt seabeyond Feb 2012 #43
So what you all said in my link didn't happen? William769 Feb 2012 #45
Yay for dictatorships! Boo to group democracy! Violet_Crumble Feb 2012 #39
Before I read the ~40 responses, this isn't about power. Ruby the Liberal Feb 2012 #42
Sacking the co-hosts is an abuse of the power of a host... Violet_Crumble Feb 2012 #46

Ecumenist

(6,086 posts)
1. What happened, Violet Crumble? nt
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 01:55 AM
Feb 2012

patrice

(47,992 posts)
4. Apparently differences over how to relate to our LGBTQ community turned into a flamr war.
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 02:01 AM
Feb 2012

It looks as though attempts to remove a host or co-host were made by both sides, but since that can only be done by the main host, it was N who succeeded.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
5. except no one who uses this forum voted for her. small detail. i guess the forum has been
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 02:02 AM
Feb 2012

given away.

Violet_Crumble

(36,138 posts)
31. That's bullshit...
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 02:45 AM
Feb 2012

This had nothing to do with the LGBt community. The other hosts weren't disagreeing with her on that. As a member of this group, I was involved in the vote that was happening before Neoma seized power and had voted for Red Queen and Justiseischeap. I also wanted neoma to step down as she's been dishonest in her dealings with group members and hosts.

LeftyMom

(49,212 posts)
2. She ran it by admin, take it up with them.
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 01:57 AM
Feb 2012

I think they've had it too. Can't say I blame them.

hlthe2b

(106,051 posts)
6. Devil's Advocate: How do you know she "ran it by admin"? Because she said so?
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 02:09 AM
Feb 2012

I think you would want to hear that from the admins, if so... I have no dog in this fight at this point, but I am appalled at the unilateral actions being taken. This is WRONG>

LeftyMom

(49,212 posts)
11. If she's being dishonest about that I'm sure they'll intervene.
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 02:17 AM
Feb 2012

I have no reason to believe that's the case.

hlthe2b

(106,051 posts)
22. I have no reason to believe either way. If she has that documentation, she needs to share it.
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 02:29 AM
Feb 2012

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
14. If she hasn't run it by admin, it's foolhardy to say so in such a prominent post.
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 02:21 AM
Feb 2012

That would be a very dumb lie given that admin can PPR any of us at any time for any reason.

hlthe2b

(106,051 posts)
20. It wouldn't be the first time an individual DUer has misrepresented official policy...
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 02:27 AM
Feb 2012

I'm not saying that this applies in this situation, but I think it foolish to assume without verifying.

Violet_Crumble

(36,138 posts)
34. How do you know this? n/t
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 02:49 AM
Feb 2012

William769

(55,813 posts)
3. She took charge as she should to quell the anomosity.
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 02:01 AM
Feb 2012

I applaud her.

BlueIris

(29,135 posts)
7. Except nothing she has done will quell any animosity.
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 02:09 AM
Feb 2012

In fact, her extreme and unfair actions have obviously made things worse.

William769

(55,813 posts)
10. Well given the time
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 02:17 AM
Feb 2012

I am sure she will address it when she is back online.

hlthe2b

(106,051 posts)
9. Wow.I realize I've missed a lot, but regardless of the history, I'm surprised you would defend...
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 02:16 AM
Feb 2012

such unilateral (and very undemocratic action). The lead host taking it upon herself to cut off the voice and participation of all the other ELECTED co-hosts is NOT the way to fix this. That is the kind of thing that we've seen carried out by RW governors, like Walker this year. It is NOT a tactic to be admired. It is NOT the way progressives act. It simply is NOT acceptable.

Frankly, I think all the hosts--primary and all co-hosts-- should stand for election--NOW. I see no other fair way to move forward.

William769

(55,813 posts)
13. She did what needed to be done.
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 02:19 AM
Feb 2012

It's that simple.

hlthe2b

(106,051 posts)
15. And, do you think Governor Walker did what "needed to be done" in using these same kind of tactics?
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 02:23 AM
Feb 2012

Honestly. Are we still a progressive website or have we turned the tables and are now supporting autocratic authoritarian dictatorial tactics? Who took the William769 I've known and replaced him? How on earth, can you justify this?

William769

(55,813 posts)
18. I won't even dignify that with a answer.
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 02:24 AM
Feb 2012

We know who uses that type of tactic.

hlthe2b

(106,051 posts)
26. Yes... we know who uses dictatorial tactics. That's why I'm surprised at your defense of this
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 02:33 AM
Feb 2012

Regardless of whatever transpired, seriously... how CAN you defend this?

William769

(55,813 posts)
28. I defend the way the system is set up.
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 02:35 AM
Feb 2012

Bottom line is the system works. If people want to hate me for that, then so be it.

hlthe2b

(106,051 posts)
29. Obviously, the system is NOT working. A very toxic environment has been created.
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 02:37 AM
Feb 2012

And now there is offense on top of offense--regardless of who might have been right or wrong from the start.

William769

(55,813 posts)
30. No people have set up the toxic enviroment.
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 02:39 AM
Feb 2012

hlthe2b

(106,051 posts)
32. So this is all because someone issued a superfluous alert on you? That's why you are defending this?
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 02:45 AM
Feb 2012

While I agree that alert was inappropriate, that you are pointing to THAT as the example leaves me baffled. I suppose when you find yourself with a host that you disagree with--which will inevitably happen at some point, you may not feel so ready to defend such unilateral and dictatorial actions as the host has taken here. You might want to consider that.... This is setting a very unfortunate precedent if Skinner et al allows it to stand.

William769

(55,813 posts)
33. Look up the word example.
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 02:48 AM
Feb 2012

Showing toxic people and if you look at the newest pinned thread you will see plenty more.

hlthe2b

(106,051 posts)
37. Honestly... If you can't see the toxicity going both directions...
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 02:55 AM
Feb 2012

I fear that you are not being honest with yourself. I say that respectfully. I am not apportioning blame to any individual, group or subgroup, but the toxicity is destroying a forum that ought to have an important role, given current politics. While you may have the greatest confidence and personal affection for the current (self-designated?) host, it is apparent that they have lost that among a substantial subset of the forum. In response, it appears they are resorting to the most inappropriate and dictatorial tactics in desperation. That is hardly the way to restore any kind of trust--much less civility.

William769

(55,813 posts)
38. I will put blame on individuals
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 02:59 AM
Feb 2012

They got what they deserved.

I can see this is getting us nowhere so have a good night.

regnaD kciN

(26,567 posts)
50. People who use reason?
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 04:21 AM
Feb 2012

Response to hlthe2b (Reply #15)

William769

(55,813 posts)
25. What are you talking about?
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 02:32 AM
Feb 2012

Who told me to delete what. come on answer up. You skipped out of the other thread to stop from answering a question are you going to do this one the same way?

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
17. we had one more day of elections. hands down, redqueen. that is why they had to do this today
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 02:23 AM
Feb 2012
http://www.democraticunderground.com/11393056

and believe, there was a "they" involved. this is not just about neoma

Violet_Crumble

(36,138 posts)
35. Unless I hear differently from the admin, this was an abuse of power...
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 02:53 AM
Feb 2012

Considering some who have suddenly appeared in this group and cheering this dictatorial move on were only a few hours ago calling a forum host who locked a thread that wasn't against the SOP a rogue host and demanding blood, the hypocrisy is shining right through...

Ruby the Liberal

(26,289 posts)
44. Well, One thought
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 03:15 AM
Feb 2012

(okay 2)

1) Admin were aware before the fact

2) People are really sick of the toxicity and not blaming "feminists" but self identified "protected feminists" for it.

Your call on how you interpret this all...

 

laconicsax

(14,860 posts)
47. I was just reviewing some PMs and I don't think the admins were aware of the fact.
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 03:21 AM
Feb 2012

Neoma told me in a PM that she'd asked Skinner for advice about two hosts and wasn't going to do anything until she heard back from him. I gave her a suggestion about how to best move forward and never heard back.

In fact, when Neoma was asked about reinstating redqueen as a host, she was all for it. A few days later, she removed redqueen as a host.

Violet_Crumble

(36,138 posts)
49. I've asked the admin in the hosts forum whether they were aware of what she planned to do...
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 03:57 AM
Feb 2012

I don't know where this story that the admin were aware and approved of it has come from, especially when Neoma's refused to communicate with anyone in this group in any manner...

I just noticed she's gone and locked the voting thread. Gotta quash that revolutionary and dangerous idea of voting!!

Violet_Crumble

(36,138 posts)
48. I'll wait for the admin to say what they knew and if they approved this...
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 03:31 AM
Feb 2012

Yes, people are sick of the toxicity. They're the ones who were in here trying to work things out, not folk who suddenly turn up now to applaud a host unilaterally sacking hosts who'd we (us being the members of this group) had elected fair and square...

Old and In the Way

(37,540 posts)
8. Seems like who owns the Forum is more important than discussions on the posted topics.
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 02:14 AM
Feb 2012

Why not give her a chance and see if the climate becomes more conducive to a variety of legitimate opinions?

hlthe2b

(106,051 posts)
12. I've only been superficially following, but for a HOST to unilaterally remove all elected co-host?!
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 02:19 AM
Feb 2012

And, you think THAT earns her the right to be "given a chance?" You believe THAT will be conducive to an improved climate?

I am absolutely appalled and I've had no dog in this fight. How can you think that? How can you defend that?

William769

(55,813 posts)
16. A main host has that right
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 02:23 AM
Feb 2012

I'm sure the Admins in box is filling up as we speak, but I think it's safe to assume they already know whats going on.

hlthe2b

(106,051 posts)
19. The main host could have been absolutely right at the start (or not), but THIS is INDEFENSIBLE.
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 02:25 AM
Feb 2012

Old and In the Way

(37,540 posts)
21. Easy...that's the way the Groups are set up.
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 02:28 AM
Feb 2012

Neoma was not going to be railroaded out of her top host position. Good for her. There's a whole backstory of having her position undermined by the co-hosts who want to run this group like their own private clubhouse. Like you, I have no dog fighting...but, like you, I have an opinion which we obviously don't share. So it goes.

hlthe2b

(106,051 posts)
24. The groups were set up to VOTE for their HOST... As I understand it, she was NOT.
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 02:31 AM
Feb 2012

Is this incorrect? I was told that Red Queen was the elected host and that N assumed the role without asking for a new vote?

If so, this is NOT the way GROUPS are set up to function.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
27. redqueen was voted in. we asked for cohost. we did not know there was a line of heirarchy.
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 02:34 AM
Feb 2012

redqueen retired pissed about gd. two day later she came back. i asked neoma if she would let redqueen have her place. she said no. she caused problems in the forum. she was not representing our issues and agenda. she got into a personal disagreement with a host, kicked her off, and banned from forum. she quit talking to us. this is the first i have heard from her since saturday. we asked her to step down. we started a vote two days ago. redqueen is voted in.

William769

(55,813 posts)
36. Here is the link to prove you wrong.
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 02:55 AM
Feb 2012
 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
40. redqueen voted in. by the forum. our group. the people that use this place. not you. link
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 03:05 AM
Feb 2012

William769

(55,813 posts)
41. My link is your alls discussion on her becoming main host
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 03:08 AM
Feb 2012

Don't try to muddy the facts.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
43. my link shows the members of the forums voice. nt
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 03:11 AM
Feb 2012

William769

(55,813 posts)
45. So what you all said in my link didn't happen?
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 03:17 AM
Feb 2012

How does that work?

Violet_Crumble

(36,138 posts)
39. Yay for dictatorships! Boo to group democracy!
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 03:02 AM
Feb 2012

Yeah. good for her! Listening to the wishes of the members of a group and co-hosts is so over-rated anyway!

I don't know you from a bar of soap and haven't spotted you here discussing feminist issues, so where are you getting this crap about a private clubhouse? And why complain about something like that when yr backing someone who is treating this place as their own private fiefdom?

Ruby the Liberal

(26,289 posts)
42. Before I read the ~40 responses, this isn't about power.
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 03:10 AM
Feb 2012

That is the old structure. I will let new structure speak for itself, but what can I say, I am IMPRESSED.

Down with vile attacks.

Violet_Crumble

(36,138 posts)
46. Sacking the co-hosts is an abuse of the power of a host...
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 03:19 AM
Feb 2012

It's a sad day when a DUer can say they're impressed with a host going rogue and sacking the other hosts who had all been democratically elected by the group. Democracy, bah. It's so fucking overrated!

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