Feminists
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hi!
i've been an active du'er since pretty much the inception. like many people, it has been a great source of both support and sympathy with good and kind souls with much in common regarding politics and life in general and yet also frustration and bewilderment at times. but i've never been tempted to even take a break, it's been a great connection for me on many levels. political, news, humor, etc.
i'm male, white, jewish atheist, late forties, and live in connecticut with my wife (my second and last) and my 5-year old boy. i've been an ardent democrat all my life. i've voted for one and only one republican ever -- bill weld for governor of massachusetts, but only because he was running against john silber, who somehow won the democratic nomination despite being just to the right of attila the hun. i'll never make that mistake again. weld himself was as tolerable as republicans get, but of course he surrounded himself with and appointed the usual republican crowd. no thank you, never again.
i'm a huge supporter of feminism, lgbt, minorities, the poor, etc., mostly out of a simple sense of fair play and decency. i believe strongly the people, institutions, and government in particular should do what they can to build and maintain a level playing field for everyone, to protect and support the powerless, and to keep the powerful in check.
my name "unblock" comes from the term for an elegant maneuver in the card game of bridge, where one player sacrifices a valuable card in order to avoid "blocking" partner. in essence, the idea is that even though you might have a good card, if your partner's cards are better, you should just get out of the way. to me it is the essence of teamwork and good partnership.
my avatar is the all-seeing eye of horus. though its egyptian mythological significance means nothing to me, it was the avatar of khephra, one of the earliest and most prolific duers. he practically WAS the "late breaking news" forum the way the beatles WERE billboard's top 5 at one point. he did more than anyone else to set du's high standard for content speed, accuracy, quality, and linking/sourcing. he very sadly passed from a deep vein thrombosis in 2005. i have adopted it as my avatar in his honor.
i don't often start thread; usually i just read and occassionally put my two cents in, often a joke or a small tid-bit of information i can contribute. i'm not given to extremes, so often i try to give a counter-perspective, or try to offer some insight into other viewpoints, even if i don't share that viewpoint. i love a good, heartfelt discussion, but i like it kept civil.
in a nutshell, i'm a feminist because the notion that half a species should have a laundry list of preferential treatment based on what's between their legs is baffling to me. all people deserve equal respect, equal treatment, equal opportunity.
shraby
(21,946 posts)southernyankeebelle
(11,304 posts)annabanana
(52,791 posts)would join you in similar introductions, since there seem to be such a batch of newer members...
TeeYiYi
(8,028 posts)...that the Eye of Horus looks like the inside of your brain?
TYY
unblock
(54,150 posts)interestingly, all senses (except smell) flow through the thalamus!
justiceischeap
(14,040 posts)Thanks for the introduction.
tavalon
(27,985 posts)I think of Kephra.
unblock
(54,150 posts)it's interesting that people (not just me) remember and honor him long after he passed.
most departed are lucky to be remembered for a full year.
kef clearly had a great impact on the du community.
tavalon
(27,985 posts)But I was so moved by my fellow DUers eulogies, that I felt I knew him in retrospect. I really wish I had known him before he died. You guys really made him sound great and I don't think it was all about just speaking kindly of the dead- he really seemed to be a great part of DU.
femrap
(13,418 posts)for host(ess)ing.
After reading the two posts between iverglas and neoma, maybe one should be using the term, 'patriarchy' instead of 'men.'
The patriarchy does stack the rules in their favor....I think most feminists could agree with that.
I think it's rather embarrassing that Feminists have to run off and get approval from the admin.....2 dudes. Oh well. Guess that's why I don't come here often.
unblock
(54,150 posts)because it allows for the possibility that some men don't approve of male-centric / male-dominated power structures and do what they can to change this for the better.
as for the host/co-host relationship with the admins, the admins have empowered the hosts to use their judgment and run the groups as they see fit. the admin's role in this really has been limited to explaining the options available, not giving pressure or even advice as to which options to use. i like the idea that they're giving all hosts (not just of this group) the leeway to lead, steer, or screw up a group and see where it goes.