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Related: About this forumSexism from “the left”: why it has to stop
Wonderfully articulated blog post.
http://stavvers.wordpress.com/2013/02/19/sexism-from-the-left-why-it-has-to-stop/
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Sexism on the left comes in forms as diverse as the beliefs of those who are lumped under the umbrella term of the left. The most overt form, perhaps, is outright sexist language (bitch, etc), and rape apologism (e.g. George Galloway, the SWP), but thats the tip of a very sexist iceberg. Among the liberals, it often comes as a backlash against calling out sexism and pleas for unity. For some, sexism is a problem to be solved later, and we should, at present, fight the perceived real enemy. Then theres the manarchists, swinging their dicks as they ignore their female comrades. Theres also those who can say all of the right words, and then their behaviour doesnt match up at all, and they will defend their behaviour using theory that they learned and are apparently incapable of applying to themselves. Others still think that theyre doing more than enough already to combat sexism. Then theres the ones who insist that intersectionality is somehow equivalent to identity politics, proving that they are ignorant about what at least one of these things is. This is hardly an exhaustive list. Left sexism manifests in so many ways.
It all has one thing in common: that self-assurance that they are completely right which comes with male privilege.
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This is exacerbated, at least in part, by a prevalent belief that everything is a matter for debate. This debate ought to be held cordially and civilly, ending with either agreement, or at least by politely agreeing to disagree. For the privileged, it is perfectly easy to view oppressions as a sort of intellectual game and little more than a topic to agree to disagree on. For those who experience these oppressions, its not that simple and its not a fucking game. And so were branded as over-emotional about things which we dont have the luxury of turning off our emotions on. Its a thing we face every day, and its very existence is being denied and defended by those who claim to be on our side.
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Men on the left, try to be better. Feminist struggle is not an add-on to class struggle, and sexism is not a small problem, because all of this is intimately connected. If your revolution is one-dimensional, I want no part in it. Be open to being wrong, and be open to being corrected. It will strengthen us, not weaken us. Be reflective and thoughtful, acknowledge and abolish your own blind spots.
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DonCoquixote
(13,665 posts)One thing that i tolerated in 2008, that i will NOT in 2016.
If I object to a female politician, do not accuse me of being sexist, especially when said woman is coming from the right.
Starry Messenger
(32,375 posts)right-wing or left.
What I have seen people object to is using their gender as a basis for attack, which is uncalled for and bigoted.
I'm always happy to see Sally Kern called out as a homophobic swine. But there is no need for descriptions, for example: "hag, b1tch, dried out (fill in blank)." If one uses them, one might correctly be called out for sexist language.
DonCoquixote
(13,665 posts)I gave up a site called the smirking chimp, which at one point, was as big as DU. The line was everyone who was against Hillary was a sexist young swine. I have already said what i felt about Hillary in my journal, but you will not find sexism.
Gormy Cuss
(30,884 posts)That's how it feels on DU some days. It's as if pointing out sexism is some violation of the left code or something.
Starry Messenger
(32,375 posts)Sexism is considered a side issue that will "tear the group apart" or be "distracting" in the process of the project the group is engaged in.
TBF
(34,022 posts)and sexism (not to mention other forms of bigotry) are not going to suddenly disappear even if there is a revolution and the economics are much more equitable. It's much deeper than that and most who are not white males realize it.
obamanut2012
(27,725 posts)sufrommich
(22,871 posts)Great article.
Jasana
(490 posts)not too mention what feminism is. I guess we'll have to keep teaching them through GD. An award for through who keep teaching through GD. To those lades I say: "you've got a lot of ovaries."
get the red out
(13,545 posts)I just got this treatment, argue passionately about a women's rights issue and get told you have "anger issues". Hell yea, in a world that treats us like that, sure I do.
MadrasT
(7,237 posts)Chief among them, that *more* people aren't angry.
As far as I am concerned, if you aren't angry, you're aren't paying attention.
libodem
(19,288 posts)And had to to look up 'cis' woman. Because she is the most cis woman on the planet. Who knew?