Welcome to DU! The truly grassroots left-of-center political community where regular people, not algorithms, drive the discussions and set the standards. Join the community: Create a free account Support DU (and get rid of ads!): Become a Star Member Latest Breaking News Editorials & Other Articles General Discussion The DU Lounge All Forums Issue Forums Culture Forums Alliance Forums Region Forums Support Forums Help & Search

keithbvadu2

(39,862 posts)
Sun Jun 26, 2022, 03:34 PM Jun 2022

Do people with Alzheimer's get startled more easily?

Do people with Alzheimer's get startled more easily?

My girlfriend is slowly developing Alzheimer's / dementia and it seems that I can walk near her and / or speak and it startles her.
Short term memory getting worse.
I have to handle her bills.
She never used to be that way.
Maybe she's getting more fixated on the task at hand without paying attention to her surroundings.

13 replies = new reply since forum marked as read
Highlight: NoneDon't highlight anything 5 newestHighlight 5 most recent replies
Do people with Alzheimer's get startled more easily? (Original Post) keithbvadu2 Jun 2022 OP
Sorry this is happening to someone you love... targetpractice Jun 2022 #1
Yes. phylny Jun 2022 #2
I am sorry the two of you are experiencing this. LoisB Jun 2022 #3
I notice as I get older many noises bother me more. LakeArenal Jun 2022 #4
No but hearing loss or vision impairment can make someone Phoenix61 Jun 2022 #5
I think her hearing has gone downhill. keithbvadu2 Jun 2022 #6
Has your girlfriend been diagnosed with Alzheimers? Beastly Boy Jun 2022 #7
No. Way too early to do that. Still very early stages of whatever it is. keithbvadu2 Jun 2022 #8
But wouldn't it, Rebl2 Jun 2022 #9
Her biggest worry/fear is that her daughter will haul her off to Texas. keithbvadu2 Jun 2022 #10
Oh dear Rebl2 Jun 2022 #11
Her son does. keithbvadu2 Jun 2022 #13
No, it's never too early. The worst that can happen is you finding out she doesnt have it. Beastly Boy Jun 2022 #12

targetpractice

(4,919 posts)
1. Sorry this is happening to someone you love...
Sun Jun 26, 2022, 03:40 PM
Jun 2022

I'm sure she loves your support.

I was the caregiver for my mother during early stages... She startled very easily... I explained it to myself that she was living moment to moment, without context, or much history. She simply forgot I was there or nearby.

Best wishes to you!

phylny

(8,554 posts)
2. Yes.
Sun Jun 26, 2022, 03:41 PM
Jun 2022

It's not just memory that's affected, it's the entire brain. So, vision becomes restricted and she may not see you coming.

LakeArenal

(29,721 posts)
4. I notice as I get older many noises bother me more.
Sun Jun 26, 2022, 03:54 PM
Jun 2022

Sometimes radio music doesn’t even sound like a tune until I listen for a bit. So I guess I’m saying aging may be a factor. But my mother had Alzheimer’s and EVERYTHING affected her.

My mom was a surly paranoid patient. My friend’s mom was quiet and very docile. I never saw her react to much of anything.

Good luck. I wish you both peace.

keithbvadu2

(39,862 posts)
6. I think her hearing has gone downhill.
Sun Jun 26, 2022, 04:30 PM
Jun 2022

I think her hearing has gone downhill.

Her memory is pretty good when she is mad at me.

Beastly Boy

(11,027 posts)
7. Has your girlfriend been diagnosed with Alzheimers?
Sun Jun 26, 2022, 07:02 PM
Jun 2022

Age-related mental (and physical) decline does not necessarily mean alzheimers. Getting a correct diagnosis will go a long way in treating her condition and managing her symptoms.

Rebl2

(14,503 posts)
9. But wouldn't it,
Sun Jun 26, 2022, 07:29 PM
Jun 2022

if you are very concerned, be better to find out early and find out exactly what’s going on. That may not be the problem at all. Is she concerned?

Rebl2

(14,503 posts)
11. Oh dear
Sun Jun 26, 2022, 07:41 PM
Jun 2022

Does the daughter have power of attorney over her mother? If not, I don’t think she can make her move.

keithbvadu2

(39,862 posts)
13. Her son does.
Sun Jun 26, 2022, 07:46 PM
Jun 2022

I have no legal power at all.

She is starting to realize that it may be coming.

She is still mostly with it but definitely showing.

Beastly Boy

(11,027 posts)
12. No, it's never too early. The worst that can happen is you finding out she doesnt have it.
Sun Jun 26, 2022, 07:44 PM
Jun 2022

I have zero signs of Alzheimers, and I plan to get myself diagnosed next month (family history). The sooner one gets diagnosed, the easier it is to delay the onset of the disease. And it is very important to know that it's Alzheimer's your girlfriend needs treatment for. Being msdiagnosed or mistreated for a mental illness is really dangerous.

Latest Discussions»Issue Forums»Health»Do people with Alzheimer'...