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Do people with Alzheimer's get startled more easily?
My girlfriend is slowly developing Alzheimer's / dementia and it seems that I can walk near her and / or speak and it startles her.
Short term memory getting worse.
I have to handle her bills.
She never used to be that way.
Maybe she's getting more fixated on the task at hand without paying attention to her surroundings.
targetpractice
(4,919 posts)I'm sure she loves your support.
I was the caregiver for my mother during early stages... She startled very easily... I explained it to myself that she was living moment to moment, without context, or much history. She simply forgot I was there or nearby.
Best wishes to you!
phylny
(8,554 posts)It's not just memory that's affected, it's the entire brain. So, vision becomes restricted and she may not see you coming.
LoisB
(8,491 posts)LakeArenal
(29,721 posts)Sometimes radio music doesnt even sound like a tune until I listen for a bit. So I guess Im saying aging may be a factor. But my mother had Alzheimers and EVERYTHING affected her.
My mom was a surly paranoid patient. My friends mom was quiet and very docile. I never saw her react to much of anything.
Good luck. I wish you both peace.
Phoenix61
(17,514 posts)startle more easily.
keithbvadu2
(39,862 posts)I think her hearing has gone downhill.
Her memory is pretty good when she is mad at me.
Beastly Boy
(11,027 posts)Age-related mental (and physical) decline does not necessarily mean alzheimers. Getting a correct diagnosis will go a long way in treating her condition and managing her symptoms.
keithbvadu2
(39,862 posts)Rebl2
(14,503 posts)if you are very concerned, be better to find out early and find out exactly whats going on. That may not be the problem at all. Is she concerned?
keithbvadu2
(39,862 posts)Rebl2
(14,503 posts)Does the daughter have power of attorney over her mother? If not, I dont think she can make her move.
keithbvadu2
(39,862 posts)I have no legal power at all.
She is starting to realize that it may be coming.
She is still mostly with it but definitely showing.
Beastly Boy
(11,027 posts)I have zero signs of Alzheimers, and I plan to get myself diagnosed next month (family history). The sooner one gets diagnosed, the easier it is to delay the onset of the disease. And it is very important to know that it's Alzheimer's your girlfriend needs treatment for. Being msdiagnosed or mistreated for a mental illness is really dangerous.