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a kennedy

(32,317 posts)
Tue Jan 9, 2024, 07:18 PM Jan 2024

Well tomorrow at 8:00am I'll be getting my 2nd total knee replacement.....

Had the first one (left) done 5 years ago. Really should have had this one (right) done 2 years ago. But issues arose that didn’t allow till now, and I’m soooooooo nervous not really for the surgery, but all the stuff afterwards. All the PT appts, how I’m gonna drive to the store for food. Drugs to pick up from pharmacy for husband and me. Just all the living we’ll have to do and both of us will do it with walkers!!!! Ugh, just dreading it. Oh and of course we get a damn snow storm. I’m just so nervous, I want it all to be over and have Spring start. Sorry for being so whiny.

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Well tomorrow at 8:00am I'll be getting my 2nd total knee replacement..... (Original Post) a kennedy Jan 2024 OP
Whine away. badhair77 Jan 2024 #1
Thank you.......yah, almost can't deal with my mind stuff.....ugh a kennedy Jan 2024 #6
You can do this! You know how. You've done it before. You just have to get through the Scrivener7 Jan 2024 #2
I know, it's just so overwhelming at times...... a kennedy Jan 2024 #7
I'm sure. Hang in there. You'll get through. Scrivener7 Jan 2024 #19
Oh I'm jealous! I should have scheduled mine already, Croney Jan 2024 #3
Wow, you're the replacement pro here eh?? a kennedy Jan 2024 #11
Thank you! Arthritis loves me. 🤪 Croney Jan 2024 #20
I don't blame you one bit you should be nervous about it it's scary Walleye Jan 2024 #4
May-be I should smoke my weed eh?? a kennedy Jan 2024 #12
Wishing you well gademocrat7 Jan 2024 #5
Thanks a kennedy Jan 2024 #13
I know exactly how you feel.. whathehell Jan 2024 #8
My surgery has been scheduled since September, and it's my 3rd time a kennedy Jan 2024 #14
Yes, I've canceled a couple of surgeries myself whathehell Jan 2024 #21
Yah, my neighbor is actually bringing me to surgery, and he did say call him for a kennedy Jan 2024 #23
Oh, that's good.. whathehell Jan 2024 #29
Wishing you a smooth surgery and rehab! Quakerfriend Jan 2024 #9
Thank you, yah, sleep, what's that??? Ha, ha, ha a kennedy Jan 2024 #15
My Sister just had one done montanacowboy Jan 2024 #10
So sorry for her......will send her good vibes to get through it. It's a huge a kennedy Jan 2024 #16
Good luck nt XanaDUer2 Jan 2024 #17
Thank you. a kennedy Jan 2024 #18
I hope it goes well nt doc03 Jan 2024 #22
Yah, me as well, I do fine if I don't dwell on stuff. Just getting it done will a kennedy Jan 2024 #24
Hope it goes well! 10 Turtle Day Jan 2024 #25
All of you are brave, I need at least one knee replaced, if not two and keep putting it off. Good luck tomorrow. dem4decades Jan 2024 #26
It's a huge deal......but ya gotta do it. a kennedy Jan 2024 #32
Best wishes for a fast recovery Bayard Jan 2024 #27
Thank you......on my way now, I know it'll go by fast, it's just going through it. a kennedy Jan 2024 #33
You get to whine Warpy Jan 2024 #28
I am not watching the video, couldn't believe all the stuff in the operating room.... a kennedy Jan 2024 #34
How did it go? How are you doing?? Scrivener7 Jan 2024 #30
I should have written yesterday when I got home..... a kennedy Jan 2024 #31
Don't skimp on the pain meds these first days. So glad you have come through it so well. Scrivener7 Jan 2024 #35

badhair77

(4,659 posts)
1. Whine away.
Tue Jan 9, 2024, 07:21 PM
Jan 2024

I totally get it; I’ve been there. Too many things taking over your mind. It will all work out - one thing at a time. Sending good vibes your way for a successful surgery and quick recovery. Please keep us updated.

Scrivener7

(53,163 posts)
2. You can do this! You know how. You've done it before. You just have to get through the
Tue Jan 9, 2024, 07:21 PM
Jan 2024

first few weeks, and do the work. And you know it'll be so much better when you do.

Best of the best to you, and hang in there. You can do it!

Tell us how you do.

Croney

(4,926 posts)
3. Oh I'm jealous! I should have scheduled mine already,
Tue Jan 9, 2024, 07:22 PM
Jan 2024

but I need to wait until some upcoming trips are behind me. My second knee will be the end for me-- I've done both hips, both shoulders, and one knee.

I know exactly the things you're dreading, but a month from now you'll be well on your way to the rest of a pain-free life! Congratulations! 💥💥💥

Walleye

(36,375 posts)
4. I don't blame you one bit you should be nervous about it it's scary
Tue Jan 9, 2024, 07:23 PM
Jan 2024

However once you get through it it should be better. I had both of mine done 10 years ago and so far so good. I know how you feel with the pre-operation pre-procedure pre-recovery nervousness. Get the doctor to give you something if you need it, the best of luck and outcomes for you

whathehell

(29,871 posts)
8. I know exactly how you feel..
Tue Jan 9, 2024, 07:27 PM
Jan 2024

as I am also facing my 2nd knee replacement, though mine is as yet unscheduled.
You mentioned the difficulty of getting around, especially with the snow -- Have you considered putting it off until the Spring?..That's what I'm doing..It could be a lot easier for you.

a kennedy

(32,317 posts)
14. My surgery has been scheduled since September, and it's my 3rd time
Tue Jan 9, 2024, 07:39 PM
Jan 2024

trying to get it done…..I really didn’t think of the weather, I just wanted to get it done, and now, we are in winter. I’ll just suck it up and be so happy when it’s over.

whathehell

(29,871 posts)
21. Yes, I've canceled a couple of surgeries myself
Tue Jan 9, 2024, 08:08 PM
Jan 2024

with the doctor's offices being less than pleased, but that said, I think it's best to do what works for you, since you're the one going through the ordeal.
I'm just wondering -- If your husband also has mobility issues, is there a friend, neighbor or relative who can help you out with driving and shopping, etc??

a kennedy

(32,317 posts)
23. Yah, my neighbor is actually bringing me to surgery, and he did say call him for
Tue Jan 9, 2024, 08:35 PM
Jan 2024

anything, so I might do that.

whathehell

(29,871 posts)
29. Oh, that's good..
Wed Jan 10, 2024, 02:49 PM
Jan 2024

You do have someone you can rely on, then...I wish you the best of luck with it all.

Quakerfriend

(5,663 posts)
9. Wishing you a smooth surgery and rehab!
Tue Jan 9, 2024, 07:28 PM
Jan 2024

-Hope u get some good sleep tonight.
- One nice thing- You’ll have plenty of time to watch the Australian Open. 😉

a kennedy

(32,317 posts)
15. Thank you, yah, sleep, what's that??? Ha, ha, ha
Tue Jan 9, 2024, 07:41 PM
Jan 2024

Right, Australian Open Looking forward to it.

montanacowboy

(6,351 posts)
10. My Sister just had one done
Tue Jan 9, 2024, 07:30 PM
Jan 2024

she is going through PT now and it's a bitch. I hope it goes well for you.

a kennedy

(32,317 posts)
16. So sorry for her......will send her good vibes to get through it. It's a huge
Tue Jan 9, 2024, 07:43 PM
Jan 2024

commitment. Thanks.

a kennedy

(32,317 posts)
24. Yah, me as well, I do fine if I don't dwell on stuff. Just getting it done will
Tue Jan 9, 2024, 08:36 PM
Jan 2024

start me on the healing path, and it’ll all be over before I know it.

10 Turtle Day

(508 posts)
25. Hope it goes well!
Tue Jan 9, 2024, 10:28 PM
Jan 2024

I had my second one done last year. I recommend calling in all your friends for rides to PT, groceries, meals, ice runs, etc. It’s difficult for me to ask for help but I did and friends and family really stepped up. I hope your experiences are as good as mine.

dem4decades

(11,979 posts)
26. All of you are brave, I need at least one knee replaced, if not two and keep putting it off. Good luck tomorrow.
Tue Jan 9, 2024, 10:57 PM
Jan 2024

And have a successful rehab and recovery.

Warpy

(113,131 posts)
28. You get to whine
Wed Jan 10, 2024, 12:32 AM
Jan 2024

This stuff can be scary. If you haven't seen the videos of the surgery, postpone them until 6 months from now. Trust me on this.

The hardest part will be day after tomorrow, when you get out of bed for the first time, your toughest trip.

Rehab goes astonishingly quickly. When PT gives you exercises to do, be sure to do them. They will shorten your recovery.

a kennedy

(32,317 posts)
34. I am not watching the video, couldn't believe all the stuff in the operating room....
Thu Jan 11, 2024, 03:05 PM
Jan 2024

yikes, tons of stuff for the replacement parts. Yup doing my home exercises, and will faithfully do the PT exercises. Thanks for the info tho about the video.

a kennedy

(32,317 posts)
31. I should have written yesterday when I got home.....
Thu Jan 11, 2024, 02:58 PM
Jan 2024

Actually doing pretty good......taking pain meds, have started my home exercises, and feeling pretty good. Got my 1st PT appointment tomorrow hopefully I won’t have to cancel as we’re in line for possible 8 - 12 inches of snow. Can’t believe all the drugs I might have to take.......yikes. 3 pain meds, and a few other for other side effects. A ton of paperwork with all the possible side effects. Wow. So on my way to walking, and doing things I couldn’t do before. Thanks for the interest.

Scrivener7

(53,163 posts)
35. Don't skimp on the pain meds these first days. So glad you have come through it so well.
Thu Jan 11, 2024, 03:12 PM
Jan 2024

Keep us posted on your recovery.

You did it!!

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