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Coventina

(27,904 posts)
Mon May 13, 2024, 10:51 PM May 2024

Can anyone explain to me what appeal "The Bear" has? Because I do not get it. *** Update ***

Last edited Tue Jun 11, 2024, 12:12 PM - Edit history (1)

I'm halfway through season 2, and my husband keeps insisting it's a great show and I'll start loving it.

All I experience is a bunch of toxic people screaming at each other all the time and it just depresses me.

What am I not getting?




Hi all,

once again, thanks for all your responses.

I have finally waded through all of the first two seasons.

I have a few observations that I will try to keep spoiler-free for the most part:

1. The show does get better over time, but it's a slow, agonizing process.

2. I feel the entire first season could have been shrunk down to maybe 1 episode. 2 at the most. Would have saved a lot of aggravation on my part.

3. I like a lot of the music used: REM, Replacements, the Breeders, etc.

4. For me, it's kind of a darker version of "Ted Lasso." A central character moves into a dysfunctional situation and tries to improve it, with a primary strategy of nurturing the people around him, while neglecting his own needs. As the rest of the team begin to blossom, he falls apart. He also unwittingly undermines his biggest helper/advocate (Sydney / Nate). The big difference here is that Nate goes "dark" while it is still unknown how Sydney will react.
I guess that's what we'll find out in season 3?


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Can anyone explain to me what appeal "The Bear" has? Because I do not get it. *** Update *** (Original Post) Coventina May 2024 OP
Tell him to watch this bear instead "The Bear (1988)" Uncle Joe May 2024 #1
I remember that movie. I liked it but highly unlikely premise. captain queeg May 2024 #4
I watched an episode and a half. That was enough to know I didn't like it. OnlinePoker May 2024 #2
+1 Wuddles440 May 2024 #9
Are you a foodie? It helps to be a foodie. SleeplessinSoCal May 2024 #3
Someone told me I would like it Demobrat May 2024 #5
Acquired taste, I think... I watched it because I was curious about the lead actor, who appeared in "Shameless" hlthe2b May 2024 #6
Gave up AltairIV May 2024 #7
I agree Joe Cool May 2024 #8
It's a realistic take on a struggling family restaurant and the eccentric personalities of those who work there Auggie May 2024 #10
I loved it. bif May 2024 #11
It's a great cast, good writing, and a fairly realistic Voltaire2 May 2024 #12
It's those blue eyes.... EarthAbides May 2024 #13
I have to admit his eyes are arresting. Coventina May 2024 #14
Lol, just watched the Christmas episode intrepidity May 2024 #16
The Christmas episode was exhausting! bif May 2024 #18
Spent that whole episode trying to decode family relationships intrepidity May 2024 #17
I want to thank all of you for answering my questions. Coventina May 2024 #15
kicking so folks can see my update. n/t Coventina Jun 2024 #19

Uncle Joe

(60,148 posts)
1. Tell him to watch this bear instead "The Bear (1988)"
Mon May 13, 2024, 10:56 PM
May 2024


An orphan bear cub hooks up with an adult male as they try to dodge human hunters.

OnlinePoker

(5,835 posts)
2. I watched an episode and a half. That was enough to know I didn't like it.
Mon May 13, 2024, 11:06 PM
May 2024

Same went for that show Fleabag. I guess I've gotten too old for those sorts of shows now and have lost my taste for them.

SleeplessinSoCal

(9,671 posts)
3. Are you a foodie? It helps to be a foodie.
Mon May 13, 2024, 11:19 PM
May 2024

I marvel at the occasional guest star like Olivia Colman and John Mulaney. I got into it for the cooking. I agree that it's awfully toxic. But nowadays, what isn't? i.e. The White Lotus, Succession.

Friday is the last episode of A Gentleman in Moscow. Excellent TV viewing IMHO.

Demobrat

(9,793 posts)
5. Someone told me I would like it
Mon May 13, 2024, 11:31 PM
May 2024

because I grew up in Chicago. My high school was mentioned on the show. That was as good as it got. I am not a foodie and hate to cook.

There is absolutely nothing interesting about close ups on cooking food.

hlthe2b

(106,359 posts)
6. Acquired taste, I think... I watched it because I was curious about the lead actor, who appeared in "Shameless"
Tue May 14, 2024, 05:19 AM
May 2024

on Showtime some years ago. The Bear was just okay IMO-- admittedly I had some curiosity about cooking on the "highest levels" in restaurants (albeit I dislike cooking shows in general, being pretty much a "non-foodie." )

AltairIV

(660 posts)
7. Gave up
Tue May 14, 2024, 06:38 AM
May 2024

Gave up on The Bear after episode 2, that show is populated by some of the most unlikable characters outside of those associated with TFG. I would however strongly recommend the new adaptation of Shogun.

Auggie

(31,801 posts)
10. It's a realistic take on a struggling family restaurant and the eccentric personalities of those who work there
Tue May 14, 2024, 07:42 AM
May 2024

Helps if you worked in food or was close to someone who did. Mrs. Auggie owned a cafe and worked in a commercial kitchen. Looks like fun but it's a brutal business.

We love The Bear.

bif

(24,002 posts)
11. I loved it.
Tue May 14, 2024, 07:48 AM
May 2024

But no amount of explaining why I enjoyed it will make you like it. Either you do or you don't.

Voltaire2

(14,715 posts)
12. It's a great cast, good writing, and a fairly realistic
Tue May 14, 2024, 07:51 AM
May 2024

portrayal of the strange world of gourmet restaurants- the intense collective effort that goes into producing world class meals, and the brutal financial environment that occurs in.

EarthAbides

(88 posts)
13. It's those blue eyes....
Wed May 15, 2024, 01:39 PM
May 2024

It's hard to explain and it's difficult to watch at times, but kind of rewarding in the end. The scenes where all the fighting go on are impressive in the fact that you wonder if it is all ad lib. Jamie Lee Curtis should get an award for her portrayal of the mom at Christmas dinner. Most of that must have been ad lib! It's interesting to watch the other characters growing and becoming better, but Carmy can barely keep his head above water. But his blue eyes are hypnotizing!

Coventina

(27,904 posts)
14. I have to admit his eyes are arresting.
Wed May 15, 2024, 01:53 PM
May 2024

I wonder if they are digitally enhanced in some way?

I just wanted to slap everyone at that Christmas party. That was the episode that prompted my thread.
I had *started* to build some affection for some of the characters, and now I hate them all again.

I realize that it took place 5 years before the events of the series, but still.....

intrepidity

(7,892 posts)
16. Lol, just watched the Christmas episode
Thu May 23, 2024, 11:09 AM
May 2024

and midway through thought: "Hmmm, I wonder if this episode inspired that DU post?"

That was a brutal episode. I can't even imagine being in a family like that.

But I adore Oliver Platt. And Bob Odenkirk.

Strongly dislike "Cousin" and the actor playing him. Disliked him from way back in "Girls" ugh.

So much to dislike about the show but I will keep watching lol.

intrepidity

(7,892 posts)
17. Spent that whole episode trying to decode family relationships
Thu May 23, 2024, 11:12 AM
May 2024

Didn't want to bother googling.

Best guesses? (family tree)

Coventina

(27,904 posts)
15. I want to thank all of you for answering my questions.
Wed May 15, 2024, 01:55 PM
May 2024

I appreciate both those who agree and disagree with me.

All I had ever heard from family, friends, and critics was that the show seemed to be universally loved.

Now I understand that there is indeed a range of opinions out there.

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