Dang near mandatory eating of sweets and other foods

has always been very stressful for me, and it seems to get worse the older I get.

Your health is way more important than keeping up appearances.

very strong! Smart advice too. I hate this time of year in that people go nuts, get rude and pushy, etc., all for that one particular gift item or whatever that is so important to them to have to have.

Commercialism has gotten way out of control, and I've lost all desire to even participate in such hypocrisy. I'd rather have a nice meal and eggnog, amid conversations with good friends, offline, and do what humans are good at, enjoying each others' companionship one-on-one.

I hate the holidays. It has all become forced and meaningless. Just want to enjoy the cooler weather. Wear sweaters and drink hot chocolate. No way - must do Thanksgiving and endure Christmas. Well, there is pumpkin pie and hot toddies. I do put a splash of peppermint schnapps in my hot chocolate. Yes, I am off to buy Christmas gifts and thinking what I can bring to Thanksgiving dinner — sigh.

I hang out with ex drunks all the time. my best friends in the world actually and the parties we go to or have are all sober people. more fun than I ever had drinking to be sure.