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Two weeks, no purging. All the other stuff is still happening, but not the purging. (Original Post) GPV Nov 2021 OP
Hang in there GPV jpak Nov 2021 #1
Thanks! GPV Nov 2021 #6
Take care,GPV gademocrat7 Nov 2021 #2
Thank you! GPV Nov 2021 #7
You will win! The Jungle 1 Nov 2021 #3
Thank you! GPV Nov 2021 #8
Doing your best is a BFD. Good on you irisblue Nov 2021 #4
Thanks so much! GPV Nov 2021 #9
Good for you, GPV RainCaster Nov 2021 #5
Thank you. Yes, acceptance is a hard one for me. I keep insisting that the universe should work my GPV Nov 2021 #10
Acceptance is often still hard for me even after more than 12 years Rhiannon12866 Nov 2021 #11
Sometimes the next minute or second is agonizing, and I have a ton of distorted thoughts like, GPV Nov 2021 #12
I've found that's when talking to someone who's been there helps Rhiannon12866 Nov 2021 #13
I say the "Serenity Prayer" ..many times a day..I cannot control this, or that...or this thought or Stuart G Dec 2021 #14

RainCaster

(11,575 posts)
5. Good for you, GPV
Sun Nov 14, 2021, 01:24 PM
Nov 2021

Remember the Serenity Prayer, it will be your mantra for a long time. Gradually, you will add others.

GPV

(73,069 posts)
10. Thank you. Yes, acceptance is a hard one for me. I keep insisting that the universe should work my
Mon Nov 15, 2021, 04:15 AM
Nov 2021

way.

Rhiannon12866

(222,887 posts)
11. Acceptance is often still hard for me even after more than 12 years
Fri Nov 19, 2021, 02:54 AM
Nov 2021

What's helped me is to realize that I've only got to make it through the next 24 hours - or less - and to remember to breathe. Times change and I can, too. Talking to someone who's been there also helps and that's exactly what you did. Good going!

GPV

(73,069 posts)
12. Sometimes the next minute or second is agonizing, and I have a ton of distorted thoughts like,
Fri Nov 19, 2021, 04:21 AM
Nov 2021

“I can’t make it” that make it harder to ride the urge out.

Rhiannon12866

(222,887 posts)
13. I've found that's when talking to someone who's been there helps
Fri Nov 19, 2021, 05:51 AM
Nov 2021

And, if anything, that's a distraction. One saying that helped me when I was struggling was "Move a muscle, change a thought." It didn't matter what or how simple it was, that was a distraction. And it gave me more time.

Stuart G

(38,726 posts)
14. I say the "Serenity Prayer" ..many times a day..I cannot control this, or that...or this thought or
Sat Dec 4, 2021, 12:34 AM
Dec 2021
that thought..

Often when I drive to a meeting or to the store..I see the stupidest things that other drivers do. You name em
I have seen them.

All I can do is control me, and what I do and avoid the nutcakes..........and guess what.??????

We now have a sane person as President of the U.S. ..

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