Addiction & Recovery
Related: About this forumToday (April 30th) was my 14 year AA anniversary. 14 years sober.
And I couldn't have done it without help. It took me awhile, but I learned from others what to do, particularly from my awesome AA sponsor. She passed away 4 years ago and I still miss her, but she still inspires me. And now it's my turn to pay it forward.
I received one of these today. I kind of hate to give up lucky 13, but I carry my coin with me as a reminder of where I've been and how far I still have to go. And if I can do it, anyone can.
joshdawg
(2,713 posts)I,too, have been a friend of Bill W. for a number of years. May 27 will be number 26.
Rhiannon12866
(222,073 posts)So many of the groups shut down during the pandemic, including every group I regularly attended, but I was invited to join a group that is a bit north of me that has 3 meetings a week. Attendance at those groups has dropped off, too, and so many who I meet now are beginners. Tonight I sat between a woman whose sobriety date is July 4th 1976 and a guy who hopes to make his year May 19th.
Thanks so much for sharing, I tried everything, but AA was the one thing that finally worked for me - as long as I keep coming back.
joshdawg
(2,713 posts)I was not ready to quit then. I was 52 when I sobered up..........and I really didn't want to. But the past almost 26 years have proven to me that there was and is a much better life out there sober. One day at a time!
Rhiannon12866
(222,073 posts)I got incredibly sick, about the worst I've ever felt, and I never wanted to feel so horrible again. But as the years went by, I forgot and obviously thought I could drink again. But I was so wrong. As has been said so many times, it doesn't matter how long it had been, I started exactly where I'd left off. My doctor sent me to detox, and I felt fine when I came out, but I hadn't learned anything - so my dear friend (who also joined this board) took me to my first AA meeting.
I did have the gift of desperation, so I kept coming back and I was lucky to meet the woman who became my sponsor at my second meeting. That was November 2008, so it took me awhile, guess I'm a slow learner, so I keep coming back so I won't forget again. And tomorrow I'll be leading a Big Book meeting for whoever wants to show up. Most of the members are under a year - except one long timer with 29, and I've also learned that every single person has something to offer and I can learn from anyone.
alwaysinasnit
(5,253 posts)Rhiannon12866
(222,073 posts)I actually hate celebrating, I don't mind speaking or leading a meeting, but I'm not comfortable making it all about me. So I really like this new group I joined when everything else shut down since it's a literature meeting and they just acknowledge anniversaries at the end. So what happened tonight? The guy who leads the meeting said we'd skip the literature tonight since it was my anniversary and I had to speak. I can't remember what I said, told a bit of my story and they gave me a coin so I guess I did okay.
alwaysinasnit
(5,253 posts)calimary
(84,310 posts)Congratulations! That's a seriously impressive achievement, my friend!
One day at a time. That's how they built the Pyramids of Egypt, too.
Rhiannon12866
(222,073 posts)When I first started going to meetings I'd see someone get a six month coin or whatever and I knew I could never do that. But I kept coming back and now that's my job - I'm responsible for the coins and love giving them out - so it felt weird that tonight they had a coin for me.
calimary
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Dont ever forget that.
PROUD of you!
fierywoman
(8,105 posts)(oh: and i always love and appreciate your posts!)
Rhiannon12866
(222,073 posts)Sometimes I have trouble believing it since in the beginning I figured I would never get it. But tonight I saw between a woman with 46 years - who still keeps coming back - and a guy who hopes to have a year next month. And I can learn from both of them.
And so I've switched addictions, LOL. I also keep coming back to DU - since I never paid close attention to the news until 9/11 woke me up (I'm in New York) and I don't want to miss anything again!
Tetrachloride
(8,447 posts)Rhiannon12866
(222,073 posts)But I also share a sobriety date (April 30th) with a gentleman whose year is 1976! So I have something to aspire to.
Bernardo de La Paz
(50,896 posts)speak easy
(10,504 posts)excellent work !
BumRushDaShow
(142,251 posts)And the best part is "paying it forward" because that not only reinforces your own successful journey but brings someone else along to find their way with your help!!!
SheilaAnn
(10,137 posts)onetexan
(13,896 posts)Keep thriving and seeing the side of life we all aspire to - experiencing all the wonder, joy & beauty life has to offer! 😎🌞
Old Crank
(4,645 posts)Great will power. Keep the streak alive.
LoisB
(8,646 posts)Hugh_Lebowski
(33,643 posts)Keep on Keeping On ...
I need to get my ass back in the rooms myself ...
mrsadm
(1,198 posts)Congratulations, and wishing many more!
Duncanpup
(13,689 posts)brer cat
(26,258 posts)marble falls
(62,047 posts)... Did you know I'm from Akron, Ohio.
The Mayflower Hotel building is still there, though it's part of the Akron U campus.
Rhiannon12866
(222,073 posts)That we're grateful for the spread of AA so we don't have to travel all the way to Akron just to find a meeting!
marble falls
(62,047 posts)... I read about the people he was associated with, too - amazing people even beyond quitting alcohol.
AltairIV
(660 posts)Congratulations! You should be so very proud of the hard work you put into the program.
malaise
(278,051 posts)wendyb-NC
(3,800 posts)That's wonderful! Keep on keeping on.
RainCaster
(11,543 posts)May you continue to be a help to others.
Bristlecone
(10,486 posts)doc03
(36,697 posts)sinkingfeeling
(52,990 posts)live love laugh
(14,398 posts)bif
(23,980 posts)7wo7rees
(5,128 posts)Rhiannon12866
(222,073 posts)JudyM
(29,517 posts)Sista!
Celebrating with you!
Rhiannon12866
(222,073 posts)Even these days, it's sometimes One Day at a Time, but I get my strength from those who came before me - and after me. I learn from them.
Permanut
(6,636 posts)28 years here, one day at a time. Took me four tries to "get it".
Rhiannon12866
(222,073 posts)But I was lucky that my sponsor found me at my second meeting and told me what to do - and she was patient with me!
Permanut
(6,636 posts)Which was exactly what I needed
Rhiannon12866
(222,073 posts)At my second meeting a woman who I now know got sober in 1974 told me "to take the cotton out of my ears and stick it in my mouth." After that, I thought of not going back, but the woman who became my sponsor said I didn't need to hear that and encouraged me instead. I don't know where I'd be without her!
7wo7rees
(5,128 posts)Ms7wo7rees