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Rhiannon12866

(222,073 posts)
Mon May 1, 2023, 02:10 AM May 2023

Today (April 30th) was my 14 year AA anniversary. 14 years sober.

And I couldn't have done it without help. It took me awhile, but I learned from others what to do, particularly from my awesome AA sponsor. She passed away 4 years ago and I still miss her, but she still inspires me. And now it's my turn to pay it forward.

I received one of these today. I kind of hate to give up lucky 13, but I carry my coin with me as a reminder of where I've been and how far I still have to go. And if I can do it, anyone can.


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Today (April 30th) was my 14 year AA anniversary. 14 years sober. (Original Post) Rhiannon12866 May 2023 OP
Heartiest congratulations, Rhiannon. joshdawg May 2023 #1
Wow! Congratulations! Rhiannon12866 May 2023 #2
Kinda wish I had found this program earlier, but joshdawg May 2023 #3
I actually quit for a number of years back in the '80s when I was first working Rhiannon12866 May 2023 #6
Congrats Rhiannon! alwaysinasnit May 2023 #4
Thanks so much! Rhiannon12866 May 2023 #8
... alwaysinasnit May 2023 #13
FANTASTIC! calimary May 2023 #5
Thank you! Rhiannon12866 May 2023 #9
You earned it! calimary May 2023 #18
Big time kudos to you !!! And I hope you feel proud of yourself! fierywoman May 2023 #7
Awww! Thanks so much! Rhiannon12866 May 2023 #11
Outstanding Tetrachloride May 2023 #10
Thank you! It's been a lot of days, One Day at a Time. Rhiannon12866 May 2023 #12
Keep on keepin' on. You go, you're great! (by chance I was rec #14). . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz May 2023 #16
Humbling. speak easy May 2023 #14
CONGRATS!!!!! BumRushDaShow May 2023 #15
A Happy 24 to you and congratulations. SheilaAnn May 2023 #17
Congrats Rhiannon!! onetexan May 2023 #19
Congratulations Old Crank May 2023 #20
Congratulations! I raise my coffee cup to you for last and next 14. LoisB May 2023 #21
Congrats Rhiannon!!! Hugh_Lebowski May 2023 #22
Happy anniversary! mrsadm May 2023 #23
Awesome Duncanpup May 2023 #24
Great achievement, Rhiannon! brer cat May 2023 #25
I knew there was a reason I couldn't sleep. Congradulations, my friend! ... marble falls May 2023 #26
LOL! Very cool! We mention that all the time! Rhiannon12866 May 2023 #35
The BillW article in Wiki has been updated. He was really an amazing person ... marble falls May 2023 #37
Outstanding! AltairIV May 2023 #27
Congrats malaise May 2023 #28
Congratulations wendyb-NC May 2023 #29
Good on you! RainCaster May 2023 #30
Congrats Bristlecone May 2023 #31
Congratulations doc03 May 2023 #32
Congratulations! sinkingfeeling May 2023 #33
Congratulations 🎈🎉🎊 live love laugh May 2023 #34
Kudos! bif May 2023 #36
Congratulations. It is a difficult road. n/t Ms7wo7rees 7wo7rees May 2023 #38
Agreed, some days are tougher than others, but it sure beats the alternative! Rhiannon12866 May 2023 #41
Strength JudyM May 2023 #39
Awww, thanks so much! Rhiannon12866 May 2023 #40
Nicely done! Permanut May 2023 #42
Wow! Congratulations! Took me five months of "coming back" everyday Rhiannon12866 May 2023 #43
Thanks, my first sponsor was Mr. Hard-nose longshoreman.. Permanut May 2023 #44
And my sponsor was understanding and nice to me, exactly what I needed Rhiannon12866 May 2023 #45
Heartwarming story. Thanks so very much for sharing. 7wo7rees May 2023 #46

joshdawg

(2,713 posts)
1. Heartiest congratulations, Rhiannon.
Mon May 1, 2023, 02:15 AM
May 2023

I,too, have been a friend of Bill W. for a number of years. May 27 will be number 26.

Rhiannon12866

(222,073 posts)
2. Wow! Congratulations!
Mon May 1, 2023, 02:23 AM
May 2023

So many of the groups shut down during the pandemic, including every group I regularly attended, but I was invited to join a group that is a bit north of me that has 3 meetings a week. Attendance at those groups has dropped off, too, and so many who I meet now are beginners. Tonight I sat between a woman whose sobriety date is July 4th 1976 and a guy who hopes to make his year May 19th.

Thanks so much for sharing, I tried everything, but AA was the one thing that finally worked for me - as long as I keep coming back.

joshdawg

(2,713 posts)
3. Kinda wish I had found this program earlier, but
Mon May 1, 2023, 02:31 AM
May 2023

I was not ready to quit then. I was 52 when I sobered up..........and I really didn't want to. But the past almost 26 years have proven to me that there was and is a much better life out there sober. One day at a time!

Rhiannon12866

(222,073 posts)
6. I actually quit for a number of years back in the '80s when I was first working
Mon May 1, 2023, 02:44 AM
May 2023

I got incredibly sick, about the worst I've ever felt, and I never wanted to feel so horrible again. But as the years went by, I forgot and obviously thought I could drink again. But I was so wrong. As has been said so many times, it doesn't matter how long it had been, I started exactly where I'd left off. My doctor sent me to detox, and I felt fine when I came out, but I hadn't learned anything - so my dear friend (who also joined this board) took me to my first AA meeting.

I did have the gift of desperation, so I kept coming back and I was lucky to meet the woman who became my sponsor at my second meeting. That was November 2008, so it took me awhile, guess I'm a slow learner, so I keep coming back so I won't forget again. And tomorrow I'll be leading a Big Book meeting for whoever wants to show up. Most of the members are under a year - except one long timer with 29, and I've also learned that every single person has something to offer and I can learn from anyone.

Rhiannon12866

(222,073 posts)
8. Thanks so much!
Mon May 1, 2023, 02:50 AM
May 2023

I actually hate celebrating, I don't mind speaking or leading a meeting, but I'm not comfortable making it all about me. So I really like this new group I joined when everything else shut down since it's a literature meeting and they just acknowledge anniversaries at the end. So what happened tonight? The guy who leads the meeting said we'd skip the literature tonight since it was my anniversary and I had to speak. I can't remember what I said, told a bit of my story and they gave me a coin so I guess I did okay.

calimary

(84,310 posts)
5. FANTASTIC!
Mon May 1, 2023, 02:43 AM
May 2023

Congratulations! That's a seriously impressive achievement, my friend!

One day at a time. That's how they built the Pyramids of Egypt, too.

Rhiannon12866

(222,073 posts)
9. Thank you!
Mon May 1, 2023, 02:53 AM
May 2023

When I first started going to meetings I'd see someone get a six month coin or whatever and I knew I could never do that. But I kept coming back and now that's my job - I'm responsible for the coins and love giving them out - so it felt weird that tonight they had a coin for me.

fierywoman

(8,105 posts)
7. Big time kudos to you !!! And I hope you feel proud of yourself!
Mon May 1, 2023, 02:47 AM
May 2023

(oh: and i always love and appreciate your posts!)

Rhiannon12866

(222,073 posts)
11. Awww! Thanks so much!
Mon May 1, 2023, 02:59 AM
May 2023

Sometimes I have trouble believing it since in the beginning I figured I would never get it. But tonight I saw between a woman with 46 years - who still keeps coming back - and a guy who hopes to have a year next month. And I can learn from both of them.

And so I've switched addictions, LOL. I also keep coming back to DU - since I never paid close attention to the news until 9/11 woke me up (I'm in New York) and I don't want to miss anything again!


Rhiannon12866

(222,073 posts)
12. Thank you! It's been a lot of days, One Day at a Time.
Mon May 1, 2023, 03:02 AM
May 2023

But I also share a sobriety date (April 30th) with a gentleman whose year is 1976! So I have something to aspire to.

BumRushDaShow

(142,251 posts)
15. CONGRATS!!!!!
Mon May 1, 2023, 03:20 AM
May 2023


And the best part is "paying it forward" because that not only reinforces your own successful journey but brings someone else along to find their way with your help!!!

onetexan

(13,896 posts)
19. Congrats Rhiannon!!
Mon May 1, 2023, 03:52 AM
May 2023

Keep thriving and seeing the side of life we all aspire to - experiencing all the wonder, joy & beauty life has to offer! 😎🌞

marble falls

(62,047 posts)
26. I knew there was a reason I couldn't sleep. Congradulations, my friend! ...
Mon May 1, 2023, 05:50 AM
May 2023

... Did you know I'm from Akron, Ohio.

The Mayflower Hotel building is still there, though it's part of the Akron U campus.

Rhiannon12866

(222,073 posts)
35. LOL! Very cool! We mention that all the time!
Mon May 1, 2023, 01:59 PM
May 2023

That we're grateful for the spread of AA so we don't have to travel all the way to Akron just to find a meeting!

marble falls

(62,047 posts)
37. The BillW article in Wiki has been updated. He was really an amazing person ...
Mon May 1, 2023, 05:42 PM
May 2023

... I read about the people he was associated with, too - amazing people even beyond quitting alcohol.

Rhiannon12866

(222,073 posts)
40. Awww, thanks so much!
Tue May 2, 2023, 12:19 AM
May 2023

Even these days, it's sometimes One Day at a Time, but I get my strength from those who came before me - and after me. I learn from them.

Rhiannon12866

(222,073 posts)
43. Wow! Congratulations! Took me five months of "coming back" everyday
Tue May 2, 2023, 12:44 AM
May 2023

But I was lucky that my sponsor found me at my second meeting and told me what to do - and she was patient with me!

Rhiannon12866

(222,073 posts)
45. And my sponsor was understanding and nice to me, exactly what I needed
Tue May 2, 2023, 01:25 AM
May 2023

At my second meeting a woman who I now know got sober in 1974 told me "to take the cotton out of my ears and stick it in my mouth." After that, I thought of not going back, but the woman who became my sponsor said I didn't need to hear that and encouraged me instead. I don't know where I'd be without her!

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