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bif

(23,830 posts)
Fri May 31, 2024, 10:47 AM May 2024

Does drinking in movies bother anyone else?

I don't mean a couple glasses of wine, but people getting totally hammered. I started watching the series "Patrick Melrose" on Netflix and while it's supposed to be very well done, seeing Benedict Cumberbatch get absolutely blotto bugged me. I had to stop it 20 minutes in.

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Does drinking in movies bother anyone else? (Original Post) bif May 2024 OP
It used to orangecrush May 2024 #1
It usually doesn't bother me bif May 2024 #3
Especially with addiction orangecrush May 2024 #4
I'll mention it in tomorrow's SMART meeting bif May 2024 #7
Good, and I wish you success orangecrush May 2024 #9
It's been almost 6 years for me bif Jun 2024 #10
Congratulations! orangecrush Jun 2024 #11
Part of the character? SarahD May 2024 #2
Not a bit. It's a movie and typically go with the story. jimfields33 May 2024 #5
Nope. It took a while, but I got over it RainCaster May 2024 #6
No Timewas May 2024 #8

orangecrush

(21,330 posts)
1. It used to
Fri May 31, 2024, 11:02 AM
May 2024

Used to be I could actually literally smell beer during the commercials.

It goes away with time.

bif

(23,830 posts)
3. It usually doesn't bother me
Fri May 31, 2024, 11:15 AM
May 2024

But for some reason it does lately. It doesn't make me want to drink, it just appalls me. Our minds sure work in mysterious ways.

orangecrush

(21,330 posts)
4. Especially with addiction
Fri May 31, 2024, 11:17 AM
May 2024


Talk about it with other sober minded people.

Knowing you don't have to deal with it alone really helps.

orangecrush

(21,330 posts)
9. Good, and I wish you success
Fri May 31, 2024, 04:09 PM
May 2024


It will be 10 years this November for me.

Take my word, life is so much better without the poison.

bif

(23,830 posts)
10. It's been almost 6 years for me
Sat Jun 1, 2024, 07:51 AM
Jun 2024

It's a lot easier these days. I almost never think about drinking. I hit a point right around the 5-year mark where it got noticeably easier.

 

SarahD

(1,732 posts)
2. Part of the character?
Fri May 31, 2024, 11:04 AM
May 2024

Our attitudes about drinking are different than 40 years ago, when drinking and smoking were manly attributes to be admired. I am reminded of this because there was a series of Matt Helm detective movies with Dean Martin swilling booze and puffing cigarettes. And looking silly doing it. Nowadays, alcoholism is something the protagonist must fight and overcome.

RainCaster

(11,481 posts)
6. Nope. It took a while, but I got over it
Fri May 31, 2024, 11:59 AM
May 2024

Other people drinking doesn't bother me at all. I have no urges to go back to that, because my relationship with alcohol was so different than everyone else's.

Timewas

(2,277 posts)
8. No
Fri May 31, 2024, 12:46 PM
May 2024

We are the different ones, we cannot drink socially, That is what it comes down to, they are "normal" society and having a drink now and then is "normal" for them and in most movies(and in real life)this is a socially acceptable "norm". On the other hand getting "hammered" as you put it is not anything at all "normal" in society.

Just not for us.If it causes you to want to join them then turn it off,do not allow it to jeopardize you program.

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